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Alaska
01-18-2008, 07:22 AM
^Nice post man!:)
CherryBomb954
01-18-2008, 04:07 PM
Wow this thread is a little old but still active, and I'm glad cause I was just thinking the other day, hmmm...I get told this too! Alot!
I do wonder if it is a mind game or if it's really how they feel. I am going to say, that because there are so many types of guys that come in clubs, from all walks of life, with all kinds of preferences, both. I know for a fact that some guys that say this to me mean it. One regular in particular that really is into "real breats" no matter how big or small. I have also come across some looney tunes that get off on playing mind games with strippers.
Emiloo
01-18-2008, 04:14 PM
I've met a lot of guys in my life who prefer real breasts to implants, regardless of size. Like, they'd rather have a girl with small but real breasts as opposed to fake. I'm a 34 A also, and I've never heard any complaints.;) All men are different, just like all strippers are different, and I'm so glad for that because otherwise I wouldn't even be doing this job.
pixiekittie
01-19-2008, 03:28 PM
I get this a lot too, and I have implants! (Shhh, don't tell anyone, lol) Guys are weirdos. They like to say that they hate implants, when the truth is that they don't hate implants, they just hate bad ones. Aaaanyway.. I think it's just their way of telling you they like your boobies. Not very tactful, but that's what they're trying to say. It's totally annoying to me -- like, are they trying to imply that logically you MUST be unhappy with them, so they therefore must reassure you? Iunno, really. This isn't making as much sense as I'd hoped. I'm going to bed now, lol :P
The same situation has happened to me as well. "Don't ever get implants... you look great the way you are... don't ever change a thing!" Riiiight. All this said to me after going up two cup sizes! Boobs are boobs. They haven't got a clue. ::)
bebewood
02-20-2008, 01:20 AM
i think they say it because of the stereotype that all strippers have big fake boobs, so they assume you must be saving up for one, so they are trying to discourage you from getting something they ASSUME you want to get. and apparantly they are right in thinking so.
theres nothing wrong with A cups and i personally think fake boobs look nasty, I dont know why you would want one. Just go to a plastic surgery website and see before and after photos. Unless your boobs are seriously deformed, i doubt you need one.
iambonbon05
02-20-2008, 11:42 AM
I get this, and I'm a D /:O Dude, I wasn't planning on it...
cameron_keys
02-20-2008, 12:04 PM
i personally think fake boobs look nasty, I dont know why you would want one. Just go to a plastic surgery website and see before and after photos. Unless your boobs are seriously deformed, i doubt you need one.
BAD fake boobs look nasty. Good ones, like mine do not. Most people have no clue mine arent real..after seeing AND feeling them. And I went up 3 cup sizes.
Bridgette
02-21-2008, 12:14 AM
I know this is an old thread but it's been revived so...
Guys who tell girls with small boobs not to get implants are basically saying they like your tits. These are usually the guys who LIKE small boobs (or just any boobs that are obviously natural) and think that most small-breasted strippers probably want implants at some point. So they feel it necessary to caution you against that.
Most men don't really give a shit whether the tits are natural or not. They just like nice tits. If you get a good boob job most men can't tell the difference or don't care.
dollyrocker
02-21-2008, 12:27 AM
^ Gotta agree with Brigitte on this one. I got a lot of those comments in Phx and they were never in a sarcastic tone. Judging by the look on the guys faces, they were overjoyed to see real tits for a change.
Buuuuuuuuuut, I worked with a friend who had an awesome silicone boob job, and guys would telll her the same thing! Those things looked REAL!
With that said, in the moment I always tell them I plan to keep them natural, even if thats a lie, heh heh... When I get implants I def. want silicone though.
xoxoGracexoxo
02-21-2008, 09:04 AM
i get the same comment on occasion, but i always take it as a compliment that the guy likes my small breasts. i tell him that i agree with him and together we talk about how we like my small boobs.
To me, it just sounds like another way to say "nice tits." I get it a lot. I'm a small B, and they do look small on me, because I'm tall with big shoulders. But they're cute, so they tell me they like them and then we talk about how great they are.
It never occurred to me that they might be saying this to poke at an insecurity. When it comes to breasts size, I don't really have any insecurity to poke at. Now, when it comes to this --
I get "I'm so glad you're not one of those skinny girls!" /:O
-- I'm a lot more bothered. I mean, dude, I'm glad you like my curves, but way to make a girl feel fat. Still, compliments are compliments, and now that you know what he likes about you, you know what to work. ;)
LoveComesFromWithin
02-21-2008, 04:21 PM
my boobs are great, a nice perky c. and i get that alot too. i wanted to get implants, but i wasnt sure. i guess now that i know that guys are dillusional, the only thing i have to decide about is the cost of the implants! thanks, i guess it really does matter on the doctor.
Heatherette
02-21-2008, 04:59 PM
i was reading some article in glamour yesterday about a guy who was turned off by breast implants and could automatically feel the ripple. Is it really this obvious to the feel? Cause I really want to get a BA but not if it's going to feel artificial. :-\
Guys just like talking like they can tell you what to do becuase thier opinion is suposed to matter in their little world of it's all about them. What i want to know is why should you care, they are your boobs do whatever you want with them.
When I was flat and I'm talking only AA i had customers that told me never to get them done. I took it as they liked them that way and wondered to myself if I asked for thier opinion becuz really it didn't matter to me I just humored them so I could get my tip and played along asking whatelse they thought I should keep. Like it matter to me. My feelings are it's my body and I have all the important says on it.
Then after I decided to get them done I didn't hear any protesting about them as most agreed they did an awesome job with mine and even if some customers were turned off by it still I didn't care they were my boobs and they made me more money as planned so I was happy about it and them. They personally did take some getting used to , but I love boobs so after a while it was like wow i have a hott set on my won now even if sometimes it feels like I'm packing to much heat cuz I don't really like all the attention that goes along w/them besides I like the way my chest was before soo it took alot of adjustment to accept I'm not going back to an aa.
As for fake verse real --boobs are still boobs and most don't care nice looking boobs are nice to look at real or fake. Sure I don't recommend getting a bad boob job, but nice boob jobs you can't really tell and if you do it's only becuz they look to prefect.
I can always tell the difference and yes you can feel it, but it's not a big deal unless it was a bad job which is why you reshearch your doctor 1st.
Generally when it comes to boobs customers tell you they like yours unless they are being rude soo it's not like they go to girls with big breast and tell them to get reductions or tell the girls with smaller breast to get implants. They more or less are trying to compliment you by saying they like what you have. That doesn't bug me.
What bugs me is when they tell me how they best liked my hair like I should cut it or grow it or bleach it or color it for them, cuz the new style of the minute is hott but not thier favorite. Sorry it's my hair and i didn't ask any of them what they felt about it. However girls are actaully worst about this becuz for some reason it's every1's place to inform you how to style your hair and forget it every g/f I ever had always felt she had the final say on my hair which pissed me off cuz I never told any of them how to dress, do thier hair, what I though about thier tattoos ect.
I got that ALLLLL the time before I got my BA.
Shit, I get that sometimes now too. ::)
Zabrina
02-21-2008, 10:14 PM
i was reading some article in glamour yesterday about a guy who was turned off by breast implants and could automatically feel the ripple. Is it really this obvious to the feel? Cause I really want to get a BA but not if it's going to feel artificial. :-\
I can't feel a ripple or the edge of the bag on my silicones. They feel exactly like boobs. Fake boobs are not always obvious by feeling them. I'd say saline implants tend to have a less boobish feel to them, but even then it depends on how good the doctor was. Basically sometimes you can tell, sometimes the fakeys can fool you. Thats why researching your doc is so important.
I think mine are pretty obviously fake, but only because of the size. If I had gotten a c-cup I could fool anyone.
fancygirl
02-24-2008, 05:20 AM
I would consider this years down the road if my boobies get a little slack.
I might want to dance another ten or fifteen years if I feel like it (as long as I make money and look good.)
So, if I got boobs-- say in five years, and had them out by the end of my career--
what would happen to my natural boobs? Would I still have sensitive nipples? would the scars be hideous (and I'd only go up a cup or two.)
questions to ponder.... someday someones going to make suction cup boobies that look real, feel real, and come off at the end of the shift.
ajbaer
02-24-2008, 06:52 AM
i was reading some article in glamour yesterday about a guy who was turned off by breast implants and could automatically feel the ripple. Is it really this obvious to the feel? Cause I really want to get a BA but not if it's going to feel artificial. :-\
I just read this article...I think. It was Glamour and if it wasn't the same one, it was similar. I'm getting mine done, and I will tell customers that. It's interesting because I tell them it's not for the business it's for me. I've lost A LOT of weight, and it feels like the end of a transformation. Guys seem to take this well. They also LOVE my weight loss story for some reason...maybe because they like hearing about a girl struggle. In any case, when I go through the whole routine with them, they end up being very good tippers.
bgrimsle
02-25-2008, 10:15 PM
Ladies, I think you are over-analyzing all this.
Men are pretty simple when it comes to relationships and personal communications. We may be absorbed by sports or technology or whatever, but we don't spend much time thinking about subtleties of male/female interactions. You have probably noticed this.
So, when some guy says "don't get implants", he means just that. There is no deep, dark, subtle sub-communication going on (well, maybe there is 5 percent of the time, if that, but that is rare). He just means, in a very simple, straightforward way, that he thinks your natural breasts look and/or feel nice and there is no need to alter them. He is trying to be complimentary and helpful. As advice, you can take it or leave it, but that's true of all advice. I've gotten unsolicited advice on my appearance, and I don't take umbrage at it, I know the other person is just trying to be of assistance.
This reminds me of the situation where you tell a woman that she looks really nice today. It is a simple compliment. There is no ulterior motive, guys don't even bother thinking of such things. It doesn't mean you "didn't look nice yesterday", for heavens sake. Turning a simple compliment into an insult is the sort of thing that mystifies men and causes us to stop talking to women altogether.
Regarding the feel of implants, they never feel as good as the real thing, which is an argument against them (and another motive for a guy telling you this). And you can always tell by feel (unless you are quite drunk). Guys who tell you implants feel as good as real breasts (before you get them) are known as "plastic surgeons" (after you get them, many guys will say this, but it's just a line). That said, get 'em if you want 'em, just be aware of the pros and cons.
I'm also surprised by a few comments in this thread regarding being insulted by customers commenting on your body shape. This goes with the territory of the profession you are in. Switch to almost any other profession and you won't get these as much.
Bella21
02-25-2008, 10:41 PM
Since that line always comes after "I love your boobs", I don't take it negatively. I think it's just a stereotype held by the general population (women included) that boob jobs = a woman with low self-esteem. Boob jobs baaadddd. They don't really know what they're talking about (like many other things) so I just brush it off. At least they're not telling me to GET a boob job.
MonicaF
02-25-2008, 11:40 PM
Breast implants - it's totally a personal decision. I'd hear the same thing from customers back when I was a dancer - I'm not an A cup, I'm a C cup, but still sometimes I thought that the look of D and DD would make me more "marketable".
Being a cam-girl now, it's not something I'd do at the moment, later in life I might - all depends on how I feel (and where I am financially of course).
Some guys like them, some guys don't - but don't live your life according to what any guy or anyone thinks for that matter - live your life for you and make decisions according to how YOU feel.
There's no right or wrong answer.
Arizona_Angel
02-26-2008, 12:51 AM
Guys are strange. I got told that left and right, then I got them done and all they said was 'glad you got tits'. Go figure.
kitana
02-26-2008, 07:20 AM
Regarding the feel of implants, they never feel as good as the real thing, which is an argument against them (and another motive for a guy telling you this). And you can always tell by feel (unless you are quite drunk). Guys who tell you implants feel as good as real breasts (before you get them) are known as "plastic surgeons" (after you get them, many guys will say this, but it's just a line). That said, get 'em if you want 'em, just be aware of the pros and cons.
While I agreed with everything else you said, I have to disagree with this.
I have danced for a few years now, (cough, cough 14, cough cough) I have seen THOUSANDS of boobs, lol. And I can honestly say I have came across quite a few that I couldn't tell by look OR feel. The new silicone ones are AMAZING! One girl I work with has them and you seriously can NOT feel them and think they are fake, you just can't.
Heatherette
02-26-2008, 09:42 AM
do you know the specific type of silicone implant this is?
stripperbrat
02-26-2008, 01:02 PM
The thing is...if you are happy with yourself...that's all that matters.
lilac666
03-03-2008, 12:55 AM
I get the opposite... I've had men turn down or tell other girls they didn't like me because I have implants and they dislike implants...
...I DO NOT HAVE IMPLANTS. So like, do my real boobs look like a bad boob job or what is going on!?
Wow! Well..look on the bright side...appeal to the guys that like implants and astonish them with the news that they are natural!:P
AmazingKat
03-03-2008, 03:01 AM
I'm honestly surprised I've never heard this one and I'm pretty dang flat, but proportionate because I'm a shorty. Scratching my head and...nope...nothing comes to mind. I'd totally take it as a compliment though.
No guy is ever really that interested in my boobs though, they all just want to touch my abs. I get a jillion "you must do a ton of sit ups" comments when actually...no I hardly work out. Guys just have no idea what we have to do to look good.
Starfire
03-03-2008, 09:41 AM
I get this a lot. My boobs are 34B. And like another poster earlier in the thread, then sometimes the next guy will ask me if they're fake. Um...don't you think I would have gone bigger if I was going to the trouble to get a boob job? I've never really thought about this too much besides that it's annoying that customers think I may or may not change my body based on what they think. I usually just try and take it as a compliment.
forevernaked
03-11-2008, 11:30 AM
When I had real breasts (34-B), the customers LOVED my body.
When I had my 1st boob job (34-D, 375cc), the customers LOVED my body...but I did make more money.
When I had my 2nd boob job (34-DD, 550cc), the customers LOVED my body...but I made even more money.
Do with this information what you will.
Sophia_Starina
03-11-2008, 01:13 PM
Sorry Small Breast Luvvin' Custies. I'm getting my D's first thing tomorrow morning. Muahahahahaha!
pnotitia
03-11-2008, 06:10 PM
One of my friends gets this a lot, and we just laugh because her full B cup came through a BA. Most guys don't seem to know what the hell they're talking about unless its a horrible, or horribly obvious BA.
I have small breasts too- 34-36A but believe they fit my body and have generally felt satisfied with them. When I dance in clubs though, I tend to feel more and more inadequate as most of the other girls have had BAs. It doesnt help to be reminded that those with BAs attract a larger client base and make considerably more $$ on average. When I take a break, I become more grounded and feel fine with my shape. Lately, though I am 24/no kids, have been thinking about options for lifting them! I love their shape when they're lifted higher up and have been thinking more and more about surgery...
Naida
03-18-2008, 11:39 PM
Personally, (speaking from a bisexual perspective) I thought that all the girls I used to date were smokin' hot with their naturally small A-B breasts. Ah, the wonders of those sexy women... *dazes off in quiet rememberance of a time before dick*