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scarymary77
10-14-2007, 09:21 AM
whoa to the op is all i have to say. i think the mgr was being a jerk, but i do have to agree that injuries from accidents ARE expensive. i hope you have good car ins! from now on, just keep some food in your car that has gone bad and fling it at people, k? the cons: your car will reek. the pros: you can use it in outbursts of anger and NO ONE will want to steal your wheels.

greggy
10-14-2007, 09:30 AM
Was it over $2? No, respect. Was I humiliated? Yes, which is what I think drove me to do it. Anger management? I’ve considered it in the past. I’m not a violent person though (never fought besides my sister and my ex bf). I can’t even watch that Civilians Out of Control show on Court TV without feeling sick (though now that I think about it, it was actually on TV in the club that same night). Possessed by demons? Something more like really bad PMS combined with lack of sleep, lots of stress from 2 long hour jobs, arguing with my ex that night, etc. Does that make it right? Of course not. It was a stupid thing to do and all I can do is thank God that nobody was hurt and my car didn’t get messed up. And about the car: funny b/c my mechanic said I need new brakes. I did consider the possibility of smashing into the wall before I did it, but I thought, “F*** that! I own my car and if I smash it up, it’s on me.” Still, it would’ve sucked if I smashed it up to the point that it wouldn’t drive.

I did think about going back the next night like nothing ever happened :D I would never, that was a joke. I knew I wasn’t going to hit the guy, and that was never my intention. It was only just to scare him a bit- and again, that doesn’t make it right. Do I regret it? Honestly, no. I would never attempt anything like that again, nor would I suggest it to anyone. Hell yeah it made me look crazy, flakey or on something. And I was driving home laughing about it, but still seriously thinking, “OMG, I’ve lost it. What happened?” And as I was sitting in my car and the owner was talking to the police, I was thinking “Well, I’ve got a good shot at that insanity plea.”

One thing I will NEVER buy: a gun. As I was getting angry, before it happened, I was actually thinking to myself, “This is why I don’t own a gun... cuz I would do some dumb sh*t right now.” That was the topic of conversation that night in the dressing room. Can you believe that there are people walking the streets that are even crazier than me that have those things?

It was hard for me to talk about it at first, because I really didn’t know what to make of it. I didn’t even want to think about it and even now, though I do find it amusing, I am shocked. When I laugh about it, I laugh from an objective point of view like if I were watching this in a movie, it’d be funny. And then I laugh in disbelief because I can’t believe I did that. But I’ve learned that I need to walk away even sooner than I previously thought because apparently, I am capable of doing things like this. It is what it is.

greggy
10-14-2007, 09:33 AM
from now on, just keep some food in your car that has gone bad and fling it at people, k? the cons: your car will reek. the pros: you can use it in outbursts of anger and NO ONE will want to steal your wheels.

Lol, that is a pretty good idea.

Picaresque
10-14-2007, 10:30 AM
I think it's ridiculous that so many girls put up with so much shit from club owners and staff. I think if more girls grew some fucking balls and stood up to these fucks, NONE of us would have to deal with so much of this shit anymore. It drives me batshit insane to see girls cowing down to some stupid, ill-informed, uneducated, pisspoor excuse for a human being called the Stripclub Manager because it encourages the stupid fucks to continue and try to treat us ALL like that. And then when I don't take their shit, *I* am treated as if *I* am the crazy one. Uh, NO, all the silly little girls who put up with bullshit are the crazy ones. Thankyouveryfuckingmuch!

I am so NOT cool with that.

Yes, yes and yes! >:( The typical stripclub managers came as a total shock to me, b/c at my first club the managers were all decent, reasonable people. Sadly, I now realize that's a rare thing. :(

Lexi
10-14-2007, 10:34 AM
the normal girl in me is saying bad idea, not worth the repurcussions. but the philly girl is saying right the fuck on, and we all know philly/jeresy girls are louder than shit. so way to go! haha


:highfive:

ExoticEngineer
10-14-2007, 11:15 AM
Was it over $2? No, respect. Was I humiliated? Yes, which is what I think drove me to do it. Anger management? I’ve considered it in the past. I’m not a violent person though (never fought besides my sister and my ex bf). I can’t even watch that Civilians Out of Control show on Court TV without feeling sick (though now that I think about it, it was actually on TV in the club that same night). Possessed by demons? Something more like really bad PMS combined with lack of sleep, lots of stress from 2 long hour jobs, arguing with my ex that night, etc. Does that make it right? Of course not. It was a stupid thing to do and all I can do is thank God that nobody was hurt and my car didn’t get messed up. And about the car: funny b/c my mechanic said I need new brakes. I did consider the possibility of smashing into the wall before I did it, but I thought, “F*** that! I own my car and if I smash it up, it’s on me.” Still, it would’ve sucked if I smashed it up to the point that it wouldn’t drive.

I did think about going back the next night like nothing ever happened :D I would never, that was a joke. I knew I wasn’t going to hit the guy, and that was never my intention. It was only just to scare him a bit- and again, that doesn’t make it right. Do I regret it? Honestly, no. I would never attempt anything like that again, nor would I suggest it to anyone. Hell yeah it made me look crazy, flakey or on something. And I was driving home laughing about it, but still seriously thinking, “OMG, I’ve lost it. What happened?” And as I was sitting in my car and the owner was talking to the police, I was thinking “Well, I’ve got a good shot at that insanity plea.”

One thing I will NEVER buy: a gun. As I was getting angry, before it happened, I was actually thinking to myself, “This is why I don’t own a gun... cuz I would do some dumb sh*t right now.” That was the topic of conversation that night in the dressing room. Can you believe that there are people walking the streets that are even crazier than me that have those things?

It was hard for me to talk about it at first, because I really didn’t know what to make of it. I didn’t even want to think about it and even now, though I do find it amusing, I am shocked. When I laugh about it, I laugh from an objective point of view like if I were watching this in a movie, it’d be funny. And then I laugh in disbelief because I can’t believe I did that. But I’ve learned that I need to walk away even sooner than I previously thought because apparently, I am capable of doing things like this. It is what it is.

I understand this.

You obviously see that it wasn't the greatest idea, and I don't think you posted here looking for approval "Hey, was it a good idea to run my mngr over?" lol...obviously, no!

I've had fantasies of bitch slapping my mngr across the face in the middle of conversations, and they make me giggle. And in that removed, it's like a movie scene way, I would love to. You just actually went ahead and did the movie scene!
I'm not going to drill you about how trying to run him over was wrong, obviously you see that, even though that's funny as shit! But as funny as it is, I do think the fact that he got to you as much as he did, pushed you as far as he did and got you to drop your impulse control that way says you are under some serious stress right now.

Maybe it would be a good time to get yourself centered again.....

i.breathe.in
10-14-2007, 11:41 AM
sounds like one of those straw that broke the camels back situations.

Chrissy68
10-14-2007, 12:26 PM
wow. deep breath, girl. i am glad you "won" for your sake, but.. it was 2 freakin dollars! and honestly, i think you did come across as desperate.
calm yourself next time. 2 bucks. not worth anything.

august
10-14-2007, 12:27 PM
Good for you, I think that all these clubs are big rip offs with their stage rent fees,
the bastard got what he what deserves.

Dottie Rebel
10-14-2007, 12:27 PM
oh i'm sorry, i didn't realize that i purposely was trying to hit someone.

neither was she. she didn't intend to hit anyone. she made a decision that could have led to someone getting hurt and luckily no one did. sounds pretty much like your situation.

and you're not a horrible monster. but you do seem to lack a sense of accountability and consider yousrself a victim in your situation.

sorry, i probably shouldn't have taken the bait, but...

StrawberrySwitchblade
10-14-2007, 12:28 PM
Still think it was childish. Not sure why people are rallying around her. We want more respect, so we lash out like a toddler to get it?

DylanAngel
10-14-2007, 12:35 PM
oh i'm sorry, i didn't realize that i purposely was trying to hit someone. she too could have ACTUALLY hit someone. and everyone thinks it's sooo funny. yet i'm a horrible monster.

sometimes i feel like i'm in the twilight zone here.

You're not a horrible monster; you're a hypocrite.

Dottie Rebel
10-14-2007, 12:36 PM
Still think it was childish. Not sure why people are rallying around her. We want more respect, so we lash out like a toddler to get it?

What should she have done? Called her union rep and filed a grievance? She, like the rest of us, has no proper channels. That is the point. This is a story of a marginalized worker hitting the breaking point and lashing out. No one is rallying. But many of us can see ourselves in the story and can feel her frustration and sense of impotence.

ExoticEngineer
10-14-2007, 12:46 PM
Exactly that ^.

I don't see myself as rallying around her at all....but I do see where it came from. That feeling of wanting to do something so dramatic and drastic, so out of the confines of being just another person to step on....something that screams "I AM NOT HERE FOR YOU TO PISS ON! I AM A PERSON! SEE ME!"

Sort of like that.

greggy
10-14-2007, 01:13 PM
Maybe it would be a good time to get yourself centered again.....
I actually realized the same thing. Apparently, I need to take more time for myself. so I cut back my hours at the day job, started exercising more, struggling to totally ditch the ex that's been dragging me down for the last year (he multiplies my issues by about 10), and I'm vowing to spend more time with my friends (finally went out with my best buds this weekend for the first time in about a year).

dawnr1101
10-14-2007, 01:20 PM
you know that what you did was wrong but I think that you need a little bit of slack...its a hard thing to admit when we lose our temper like that. I went through a "thing" with someone at the courthouse and theyy hit my car..it was a lot of drama..she tried to reach in the car o hit me while my daughter and brother were in the car. I tried to pull up to the front of the courthouse to get a cop an she jumped on my car...she was the secretary of a judge (who knew) and by the time we went to court 7 months later she was 6 months pegnant....so guess who loked like an a$$....and to top it al off I had to complete a 7 day jail sentence....all because I would not get out of the car to fight...that's the way it goes sometimes

lizlizliz
10-14-2007, 01:53 PM
you're kinda crazy, yo.

britt244
10-14-2007, 02:53 PM
neither was she. she didn't intend to hit anyone. she made a decision that could have led to someone getting hurt and luckily no one did. sounds pretty much like your situation.

and you're not a horrible monster. but you do seem to lack a sense of accountability and consider yousrself a victim in your situation.

sorry, i probably shouldn't have taken the bait, but...

no ma'am. how have i acted like a victim? and yes, everyone attacked me pretty hard when i had my thread when it happened. here, people are laughing at it and accepting it. why is that fair?


You're not a horrible monster; you're a hypocrite.

no, i'm not, because it's a different situation. i do not condone drunk driving. when people make mistakes and learn from them and they say hey dont be stupid like i was.. that isnt being a hypocrite. a hypocrite would be if i continued to drive drunk and then got mad at other people for doing stupid things.

and my GOD. you guys should drop it. for real. girls get on here and talk about doing drugs & that's illegal and it's no big deal. when sc10101 asked for advice about a fake id that was illegal but contained to the thread. why on EARTH does anyone feel the need to harp on it? jesus christ. other girls on here pmed me when i posted about getting it, which was a fucking mistake. i'm NOT the only person on here who has driven drunk. i am also not the only person who has driven in an unsafe way. again, not the only person who has done something stupid. so just drop it already.

velvet
10-14-2007, 03:20 PM
i'm closing this. the few of you that keep going back in forth in diffrent threads need to knock it off.