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Alaska
10-23-2007, 05:15 PM
Ahhh, Boston. Where the MAN'S men are!

Was wonderin' where youz guyz were reffering to!

Clam diggin, vest-wearin, facial-hair growin, NEW ENGLANDER's. oooo burly.

Sike nah, I love the accent so much I want to spend the nite.

xdamage
10-23-2007, 05:25 PM
I agree with the older man philosophy... .... IMO, dumb people make bad lovers. :P (that whole lack of intuition/creativity/openmindedness + sexual selfishness thing... yeah.) an older, intelligent guy would be a good choice. and if you find him... :D

I'm liking Embyr more and more ;)

p.s. I guess it's a big world and room for a whole range of wants and fetishes. Me, I'm totally into sensual touching and the interplay of mind, feelings, and body, but... some people just want to fuck. Nothing wrong with any of it. Learn what you want and find someone who has similar wants and good chemistry.

francescadubois
10-23-2007, 05:44 PM
Excellent choices. Capital Grille is much more social; the Morton's will depend on which one you choose.

I love Capital Grille. I would do ungodly things to a man who can make Lobster Bisque like this place does.

H, go to Capital Grille, order a drink, sit back with a coy look on your face, and let the games begin!!! (That's how I do it. Works EVERY time. ;D)

Will
10-23-2007, 06:04 PM
Ahhh, Boston. Where the MAN'S men are!

Was wonderin' where youz guyz were reffering to!

Clam diggin, vest-wearin, facial-hair growin, NEW ENGLANDER's. oooo burly.

Sike nah, I love the accent so much I want to spend the nite.

I think you have Boston mistaken for Anchorage Alaska or something. Boston being the most cosmopolitan city in the country, pretty full of doctors, lawyers, researchers, and college professors and aint never dug a clam in their life.

Alaska
10-23-2007, 07:16 PM
^aaaaaha.

Mastridonicus
10-23-2007, 08:05 PM
I'm looking for a local, no-strings-attached guy who I can just learn from and go. I def want a guy who's attractive, but I don't want to get attached in any way. I just want a competent sex partner for once.

What you're talking about is passionate chemistry. To put it into words is rather futile, but, if I where to take a stab at it, I'd say you're aching to find a guy that approaches you, knows his way around you from initial contact, makes you want to take him home that night, have an amazing "educational" experience that leaves you both wanting more without any negative residual impact. Basically, you're looking for a Dom.

My advice is to dress your best, most alluring, and very attention grabbing outfit. Go out, and interact. These guys are out there, and when you meet one, you'll just know. The chemistry will tell you to give it a shot. That initial attraction is something lost in the craigslist add and in the broadcast since you're putting out your expectations and setting the bar too high. Go out to neat places, be you, have fun, and when the guys approach (they undoubtedly will) hold out until one entices that attraction out of you that makes you powerless to him. Even if it's just for a night, the second you feel he's in control of the situation and can make things transcend, is the second it has a chance to happen.

My 2 cents.

xdamage
10-23-2007, 09:03 PM
Seriously? I am continuously embarrassed by many of my "male brethren" when it comes to how they treat women. ...

Well, did you read blayze's comments? It's not so clear in my mind. I'm kind of starting to believe that some guys and girls like to be treated like a fuck-toy, lots of emotions, no respect, because for some reason these types (both male and female) seem to continue to survive in the gene pool.

And I think it's none of my fucking business what someone else wants sexually. The only thing is people need to figure out what works for them, and who really gives a fuck what others are looking for? There is no need for general rules about what is right or wrong here in terms of sexual preferences. It's all just frosting anyway. Genetically the only thing that's relevant is people who like sex are more likely to have sex, and so more likely to procreate, and so more likely to survive and thrive in the gene pool. But the specific preferences??? Whatever works as long as two individuals agree is fine with me.

Hatshepsut
10-23-2007, 09:09 PM
I think you have Boston mistaken for Anchorage Alaska or something. Boston being the most cosmopolitan city in the country, pretty full of doctors, lawyers, researchers, and college professors and aint never dug a clam in their life.

I don't care if they've dug clams off the beach. I want them to know what to do with my hairless clam.

I live in Houston, full of cowboys with big belt buckles and small dicks. Hehe, I'm actually not sure what the older men are like. I'd really like an intellectual, patient type who can seduce me. I'd love for him to be divorced so he can appreciate a good time and the no strings attached.

Katrine
10-23-2007, 09:18 PM
That's it Hatshepsut. I'll be in Houston in a few weeks, on Nov 10 I think. And for Thanksgiving. We are going to have a girls night out and find some sexy bitches!

xdamage
10-23-2007, 09:41 PM
Yeah... I actually did read her comments. And frankly, they're fairly narrow-minded. I don't mean that as a dig towards her... 'cause I'm sure its just her experience. But, I'm plenty physically fit and have plenty of stamina... but I not only will fuck you like a whore (I mean that in the most respectful and SEXUAL way possible), if that's what you want... but I'll take my time and give you anything and everything you need if its the princess treatment you need. Bottom line is, its the need of the girl in front of me that dictates what I do. Do I look after myself? Sure. But I simply cannot stand how guys not only get off on bragging about treating girls like shit... apparently they actually go through with it when they're with them. http://img209.imageshack.us/img209/1429/drybw9.gif

I think sometimes who we choose for sex isn't necessarily the same as who we might choose for a long term relationship or co-parent. Yea, I know, our intellect tells us that makes no sense, but as we come to better understand our real human nature vs the idealized one, it actually does make sense. For same reasons, a guy may pursue one kind of girl for hot sex, and another type for a wife and mother of his children; women can do the same, pursuing one type of guy for sheer animal sexuality, and a different type to fill the father/provider type role. Such is life. Such is who we are. Filling both roles sounds ideal, but I have no idea how well that plays out in practice, and I think at this point the OP is just looking for some raw, animal, sexuality, nothing more or less. Again, nothing wrong with that. She is single, and free to enjoy and indulge. Hopefully she will find what she is looking for ;)

Hatshepsut
10-23-2007, 09:53 PM
dgtlfnk,

Actually, I have nothing against men, nor do I think that they are pathetic lovers. I simply had shitty luck with the men that I chose. Right now, I want nothing to do with relationships. I just want a good hard fuck with no strings attached. There's no need to be ashamed of the male population. Mostly, my problem was inexperience. I'm 23, and I tend to date that age. They don't learn till they're older, and even that's no guarantee. My most recent ex is 32, but he had ED and PE, which was just shitty luck.

Thanks for the offer though!

Hatshepsut
10-23-2007, 09:54 PM
That's it Hatshepsut. I'll be in Houston in a few weeks, on Nov 10 I think. And for Thanksgiving. We are going to have a girls night out and find some sexy bitches!
REALLY?

REALLY?

REALLY!?!?!?

Wow, THANKS! Thanksgiving would be better, as I have projects due around the 10th.

xdamage
10-23-2007, 10:01 PM
...
I know you're just pointing out another side of things... ...Make sense??

That all made sense, just saying if all she is looking for is a hot animal fuck, she has more options, and doesn't even necessarily have to like the guy ;)

Budai
10-23-2007, 11:55 PM
Hat:

Despite your recent misfortunes, you are much less cynical regarding men than author Camille Paglia, who once remarked:

"Men know they are sexual exiles. They wander the earth seeking satisfaction, craving and despising, never content. There is nothing in that anguished motion for women to envy."

Wow, harsh...:(


I think you have Boston mistaken for Anchorage Alaska or something. Boston being the most cosmopolitan city in the country, pretty full of doctors, lawyers, researchers, and college professors and aint never dug a clam in their life.

Will,

Are you disowning Southies? That's wicked rude...8)

RoseLeigh
10-24-2007, 12:23 AM
I think you have Boston mistaken for Anchorage Alaska or something. Boston being the most cosmopolitan city in the country, pretty full of doctors, lawyers, researchers, and college professors and aint never dug a clam in their life.

Hahaha. Seriously-you have to go to NH or Maine to find the clam diggers. Boston is seriously the only place I've been able to do the one nighters with any frequency, too. Computer/engineering nerds. Yeah. }:D I refer to my time there as "the year I slept with Boston". Hat-get thee to your local equivalent of MIT!

DJ Maimed
10-24-2007, 01:52 AM
OK, SW guys, this is not a booty call for any of you. Any personal offers will immediately be deleted. I'm looking for a local, no-strings-attached guy who I can just learn from and go.


Yeah... I actually did read her comments.

I take it you are a math major then?? Nice marketing concept with the "hey...I can't read or follow instructions" approach. Proving your largest erogeneous muscle (the brain for the rest of "us males") is flaccid, limp, and dysfunctional certainly makes you seem like a Cassanova!!


I am continuously embarrassed by many of my "male brethren"

I can tell...you might want to make it HARDER in the future!!}:D


"Respect the Maimed One" - Words now tattoed on your pompous ass!!:O

Jenny
10-24-2007, 08:22 AM
I have no suggestion to make on your sex. But can I tell you how fucking hot I think it is that you just suggested hiring a male prostitute? I just fell in love with you, just a little bit.

Will
10-24-2007, 08:27 AM
^aaaaaha.

Well you know, home of the Boston ballet, MIT, Harvard, etc, etc.8)

Will
10-24-2007, 08:37 AM
I don't care if they've dug clams off the beach. I want them to know what to do with my hairless clam.

No one can blame you for wanting that kiddo! Can't comment well on Boston men for you. Any gals here from the Boston area that want to comment?


I live in Houston, full of cowboys with big belt buckles and small dicks. Hehe, I'm actually not sure what the older men are like.

Well they are not better in bed by default of being older, but will often have more experience and greater appreciation and perhaps be more interested to please. Just make sure if he's older, he's in good shape and takes care of himself or he wont be able to really rock your world the way you may want. An older guy, who knows what he's doing, and in the condition to do it, will be the best lay you will get, but that's a tall order there...be choosy, the search is half the fun...;D



I'd really like an intellectual, patient type who can seduce me. I'd love for him to be divorced so he can appreciate a good time and the no strings attached.

Yer killin' me here...Did I mention I was Harvard grad? }:D:P}:D

Will
10-24-2007, 11:15 AM
Hat:

Will,

Are you disowning Southies? That's wicked rude...8)

I don't know if they are bearded clam diggers either ::)