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miabella
10-25-2007, 12:35 AM
i never saw it, but i certainly knew damn well that girls were agreeing to sex in vip, since they'd always tip if i directed them to spending customers who wanted to spend more on sex0rs.

jaizaine
10-25-2007, 02:01 AM
Shit the worst thing I have thought I have seen Im not even 100% sure was a dancer kissing a customer.

It must make it very hard to sell dances when people are pulling that shit in the VIP.

miabella
10-25-2007, 02:11 AM
depends on the club and the lady. some girls can sell airdances with sextras all round them.

Zinaida
10-25-2007, 03:09 AM
I watched a girl suck a guy's nipple on the floor. Yucky. And she's criticized other dancers to me for putting their arms around a guy. Puh-leeze.

Qball1084
10-25-2007, 06:19 AM
Big diff between fucking some girl a day or two (or more, whatever) after someone else, and fucking them right after some other guy's done with her. Sorry, i don't see how it applies.

I wouldn't be flattered. I'd get up and leave, disgusted.
exactly right ... never stir another man's lemonade :O

MinahSky
11-05-2007, 02:16 AM
It happens in all clubs, don't let anyone tell you it doesn't. Some places are just better at hiding it than others. I thought it didn't either, until I was taking a customer into the VIP and slipped on a used condom...oh, and the the first time I walked in on straight up sex was funny as hell.

Jenny
11-05-2007, 07:26 AM
Oh, no it doesn't. Rumors and innuendo and suspicion happen at all clubs. Sex does not happen at all clubs.

yoda57us
11-05-2007, 07:58 AM
Oh, no it doesn't. Rumors and innuendo and suspicion happen at all clubs. Sex does not happen at all clubs.

I have to agree with Jenny here (which seems to be happening more and more often...)

The possibility of sex exists in the hearts and minds of many customers but it definitely does not exist in all clubs.

MinahSky
11-05-2007, 01:47 PM
If that is what you would like to believe, ok. I won't argue about it anymore.

zxcire
11-05-2007, 01:49 PM
Oh, no it doesn't. Rumors and innuendo and suspicion happen at all clubs. Sex does not happen at all clubs.

Until some random girl gets a job and has sex in the club.

Do you believe that any club has never never had any one girl that one time did it? I don't.

Jenny
11-05-2007, 02:20 PM
That's a useless way of looking at it. I mean, there is probably no classroom at my school that nobody has had sex in at one point or another - it doesn't mean you can validly characterize it as a place people have sex. It has to have some degree of... I don't, habit? to be a reasonable characteristic of the club.

georgiapeach
11-05-2007, 02:40 PM
Until some random girl gets a job and has sex in the club.

Do you believe that any club has never never had any one girl that one time did it? I don't.

yes, actually. i've worked at one. not that extras didn't go on there. but extras in this particular club were defined as adding mild grinding (more like brushing) to the strictly enforced air dance policy.

i'm not saying it's common, but there are definitely at least a couple out there. some clubs really are set up and run in a way that makes it quiet implausible, if not actually impossible, to have sex without pretty much everyone seeing. and they are not the sort of clubs to overlook that sort of behavior either.

zxcire
11-05-2007, 02:49 PM
i was attempting to use hyperbole to make the point that sex can certainly happen in a club, even without prior "consent" by other dancers or management.
Like, that it is not expected, or common, but it happens. Some dude gets fucked or a bj at a club and tells his friends and his friends go there looking.

my attempt was unsuccessful.

carry on.

Sophia_Starina
11-05-2007, 03:26 PM
There are some clubs where sex can be improbable if not impossible. However, I wouldn't rule out the fact that many dirty girls are fiendishly creative. I will state that extras happen in every club even if it doesn't mean outright sex. Perhaps there is a club that is strictly air dances and a girl grinds a guy while no one is looking, perhaps a girl will let a guy suck a nipple or grab his junk if only for a moment...

MostOutOfLife
11-05-2007, 05:17 PM
I dance in the carolinas... extras girls are not a myth, these scandalous females are staking there claim. I worked in one club where there were cameras, lots of lighting, and bouncers walking around and in and out of the rooms and still have been witness to many BJs, HJs, and straight to the point sex.
When I was a newbie I actually used to go to management with complaints only to find that they didnt care cause it was at least getting the guys in the CR. UGGH!
I was much more disappointed since my management is an all female staff.

EXTRAS GIRLS ARE NOT A MYTH... but man I wish they were:-\

Docido
11-05-2007, 05:44 PM
One surefire way to know if there's sex going on the the club is to check the physical layout. If a club has dark corners, hidden recesses, or doors that close, there's sex happening. I swear some clubs are intentionally designed for extras.

head turner
11-05-2007, 06:28 PM
Oh yeah I'm a full contact dancer. I allow boob touching as long as they arent rough. You have to here where FS can be had from 90% of the dancers in strip clubs. I'd be laughed out of town if I didnt do heavy contact.


I have worked in Miami and girls do provide fs, but i totally wouldn't say 90, even at Tootsies.

I would say an average of 50% overall. slightly higher at tootsies.

If 90 percent allowed FS, you would be broke and laughed out of the club allowing only boob touching/heavy contact.

cameron_keys
11-05-2007, 06:47 PM
I have worked in Miami and girls do provide fs, but i totally wouldn't say 90, even at Tootsies.

I would say an average of 50% overall. slightly higher at tootsies.

If 90 percent allowed FS, you would be broke and laughed out of the club allowing only boob touching/heavy contact.

ok...lets say sexual contact can be had from 90%. HJ, BJ, FS, etc....extras. I know that to be very true in almost every club here.

And I AM broke a lot of days and a lot of guys DO laugh at me when I only allow dancing/boob touching. Extras are not only done and allowed..they are encouraged and expected.

Mastridonicus
11-05-2007, 08:43 PM
If a sex happens in the club...and no one is around to see it....

Do I still sit in the left overs?

Djoser
11-05-2007, 09:22 PM
Here in Columbus I've worked at two clubs where girls got fired for out right fucking.

In Daytona Beach, Fl it seemed pretty normal. I was a full contact girl but no extras from me, I'm prude like that.




It must make it very hard to sell dances when people are pulling that shit in the VIP.


Yes, it does. I worked at a club in Daytona where 50-75% of the dancers were giving BJs or more, on any given night. The nights where the proportion was 50% were rare, and there were a few where 75% was probably low.

Even the really good looking women who weren't allowing extras had a really hard time making money there. There were a few who could pull it off by virtue of their extremely charismatic personalities, and very heavy grindage, but the timid ones made jackshit, if they even lasted a night there.

The cool thing about the place was the total lack of rules, as far as everything else went too, that's why the few that could pull off non-extras moneymaking didn't simply go do it at a cleaner club.

But I have seen it (OK, not directly, but it was a confirmed activity) in the cleanest club in Daytona, one that was very strict, had no VIP area, cameras all over, etc.

A brand new dancer (at the club--she was experienced for sure) allowed a really scuzzy looking guy to finger her right out in the middle of the open, brightly lit main floor. She was sitting on his lap so some small amount of 'discretion' was possible, but a waitress and a couple other dancers saw it.

So yeah, it can happen in any club, on occasion, if enough money is offered.

When you consider OTC offers, it's especially evident that it is commonplace. I remember quite well the first time I was propositioned by a dancer, before I ever thought of working in a club. She was smiling, waving, winking at me from the stage. When she got offstage she walked right up to the table and said "I have a proposition for you. I want you to take me home and fuck me."

I just assumed she was hustling me and laughed, not rudely but I couldn't help it. I was there to see the waitress who was a sort of fuck-buddy. I told her what happened and that she had to be hustling me, but the waitress said no she meant it. Apparently she fucked guys from the club on a regular basis, just for fun.

So I suppose anything is possible, if not always probable at any club, anywhere.

423texas
11-05-2007, 10:02 PM
Location, location, location!

Of course I'm in Houston, Tx., and that's probably the extras capital. Though from what Cameron and others saying, I guess south Florida might give Houston some competition.

Here most clubs (but not all) have rampant extras going on.

I've been at clubs on Richmond Ave., and on Westheimer here in Houston and at closing time there were so many BJs going on it would have been literally impossible to miss unless your eyes were closed. And even then some girl would have offered you a BJ.

I've also been to clubs in Vegas, and Dallas, and while I'm sure extras go on, they are not as rampant as in Houston IMO.

Even the very clean clubs here in Houston like the Men's Club probably have extras going on though much less frequently and in the open than in a club like Centerfolds.

My friend owns a little SC on 59 and Bissonnet. He absolutely doesn't allow or encourage any extras in his club. And he will fire any girl that does extras. But when I ask him if he thinks any extras go on in his club, he laughs and says "of course". People are drinking, there's nudity and flirting, and some girls are very hungry! How are you going to stop it completely he asks?

miss marina
11-05-2007, 10:18 PM
I have pretty much only worked in FL..see extras all the time. I work in daytona currently.

Djoser
11-05-2007, 10:30 PM
Well I hope you are at (edited out names of other clubs), or somewhere better than where we both were, those clubs were too hard on the dancers that didn't want to knuckle under. Don't say it here, of course.

The club you worked in before was the one where that dancer propositioned me, lol--but it was long before you ever worked there. I tried out there much later (still before your time) but the manager didn't like me personally, and the DJ was pissed off I didn't bring in my CDs so he could use them, and also made it a no go. I wrote a very funny thread about it 4-5 years ago, if you want I will send you the link.

MinahSky
11-06-2007, 12:29 AM
Check out aspd.net and check the Houston section for strip clubs (for any city, actually)...there are no holds barred trip reports that will tell you the real deal...:O

sun child
11-06-2007, 12:47 AM
There are extras going on in every club...unfortunately it's the nature of the beast.

mollyzmoon
11-06-2007, 10:15 AM
I think there are extras everywhere, but not sex. Not in the club I'm at now. With all the customers, girls, bouncers watching everyone, it'd be impossible. Girls here especially would tear the sexer apart. They will walk by and tell you to 'cool off' if you're even grinding a guy. It'd just be...I mean, during club hours, almost inconceivable that they could get away with it.

I've heard stories, but I spy on everyone, and the worst I've seen would be girls letting guys go to town on them. And girls having sex (like, with other girls). But the bouncers saw these things too.

Katrine
11-06-2007, 11:41 AM
Check out aspd.net and check the Houston section for strip clubs (for any city, actually)...there are no holds barred trip reports that will tell you the real deal...:O

aspd isn't truly reality either, lots of storytellers on there. But unfortunately there is a lot of truth as well. :-\

Triton
11-06-2007, 09:29 PM
I think I started a thread one time about talking to the g/f,now ex-g/f about this.The club she worked in was very well known for them but she swore she didn't do them.I wanted to believe her and I chose to believe her but when about 80% are I wondered how she made any money.She never denied they went on in her club tho and she did have to do VERY high contact.

I know a girl who's worked as a bartender for at least 10 years.She just found out a few months ago they went on in her club and she was shocked.It just goes to show,it doesn't matter bartender,DJ, custie,dancer,if you don't want to know about the dark side you don't.

Katrine
11-06-2007, 09:34 PM
I never knew Houston was den of "extras" sin until I joined stripperweb. Then, subsequently, aspd. The expected contact is higher than, say, Atlanta, but I only recall one time when I saw a "fingering". And I was shocked. Once I joined SW, Pandora's box was opened and I was far more aware of it....

UtahMike
11-06-2007, 10:41 PM
Once I joined SW, Pandora's box was opened and I was far more aware of it....
What club did Pandora dance at? (JK)

Casual Observer
11-07-2007, 05:26 PM
Oh, no it doesn't. Rumors and innuendo and suspicion happen at all clubs. Sex does not happen at all clubs.

Maybe so, but they take place in more clubs than not these days. Whereas 18 years ago I almost had my right hand broken off for grazing a dancer's ass at a small club in Texas, I would probably have to stab some chick with a broken beer bottle in order to get tossed from a club in my area now. And even then...

Jenny
11-07-2007, 05:36 PM
Well, there is a big difference in not being thrown out and being allowed to just have sex; in my club there are many things they will tell you to stop doing without ejecting you. One does not indicate the other. And my experience clearly just differs from yours. The majority of clubs that I've worked in, nobody is having sex in the clubs. What a lot of people are doing is accusing people of having sex.

Insofar as "extras" is defined as things that happen outside of the normal rules of the club - yes, of course those are everywhere.

Phil-W
11-07-2007, 06:30 PM
There are extras on offer in London, but I believe many of them are at 'private parties'.

These are essentially unlicenced events where some dancers club together, hire a club for an evening, and invite along the punters they know want high mileage.

For the extras girls it can be a very good earner.

There only used to be a few in london 5 years ago, but the number has mushroomed as assorted dancers have found it can be more lucrative than the legitimate venues.

Phil.

(PS - before anyone asks - I've never been to one. Not my taste).

smartcookie
11-08-2007, 10:36 PM
I don't know if I would call you naive. If you haven't seen it you haven't seen it. I haven't seen the dark side of the moon but a team of experts tell me it's there and I believe them.

When it comes to extras it's location! location! location! There are clubs and parts of the country where it just doesn't happpen and there are other clubs and cities where extras of all kinds are not only prevalent but often negotiated for a better price.

I don't partake that often and my name isn't john so I have no reason to lie or exaggerate.:)

Sorry. As a woman who has been on the other side of the equation, I can tell you that johns lie. It has to be some primitive, competitive, chest-beating instict y'all have. There have been things written about me on the internet that never, ever happened. Even by people that I know and like. I'll never get it...

I don't deny that extras exist. But in areas where there are active local "hobbyist" boards, much is to be taken with a grain of salt.

xdamage
11-09-2007, 07:43 AM
I can tell you that johns lie. It has to be some primitive, competitive, chest-beating instict y'all have.

As a guy, I can confirm there is a (strong) element of truth to this. It's a stereotype, and there are exceptions, but the stereotype exists because of an element of truth, a pattern of behavior that many men do engage in often enough. So yes, take with big grains of salt.

lotsoffun201
11-10-2007, 04:29 AM
Here in vegas the extras girl is not a myth although it has decreased tremendously in the past few years. I have a friend who dances at Sapphires which have private Skyboxes with locking doors and no cameras....guess what she told me. Pussycats (total dive) is pretty much anything goes with the right girl. Sheris cabaret used to be known as ALL girls provided extras but set their own menu. That has since stopped. Olympic Garden has private booths that curtain off and there are reports of full service there from some girls.

Minxx has private rooms with no cameras and was the location for the infamous pacman incident during the NBA allstar game. Spearmint Rhino has several private "celebrity booths" and I have a friend that dances there also. No cameras, no floor persons, so guess what happens there with the right girl.

Contrary to rumor, the Deja Vu clubs are not extras clubs.

Scores has private members only rooms costing big money, but there are doors to them with of course no cameras.