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OdysseusNJ
11-02-2007, 03:34 PM
See what I mean? You use the term and you never know which of those definitions you are lighting up inside the guy's head, irrespective of how you understand it. Well, except for Sh0t. You always know exactly where he stands. :)


I can't decide if I like TOO's or sh0t's reply better. They both rocked it though. Sh0t's sure had a succinct charm.

I'd feel kind of gross asking to meet OTC with someone I didn't know in some manner already outside the club (mutual friends, whatever). Then again I'm a bit gunshy on that topic.

pfunkdenver
11-04-2007, 06:10 AM
I have had a number of dancers suggest we meet OTC. Usually for "private dancing". I only took up the offer with one, and she and I ended up being fbuddies for 5 years.

I did continue tipping her and buying dances in the club, as well as donating for her time OTC. Eventually, she got greedy, and started borrowing from me, and not paying it back.

I quit calling her after she quit dancing.

Mastridonicus
11-04-2007, 06:45 AM
I also am in shortage of chess opponents.

crizgolfer
11-04-2007, 08:52 AM
I also am in shortage of chess opponents.

I am sorry to hear that. I'll play chess with you. I'll even wear the French Maids outfit. :flirt:

casaubon1
11-04-2007, 06:53 PM
One of the great unsung advantages of SCs is that you can stay as long as you want and then walk out when you want, without any obligations whatsoever. Put me in the camp of never being interested in OTC.

Madcap
11-04-2007, 07:32 PM
Grace, sometimes you chicks are just too cool. I can't speak for anyone else, just me. The times i have asked a stripper out were more like "If i do not try i will hate myself."

No offense. Not trying to get you into any funny business. I'm just being a guy that likes a girl he met. Sometimes strippers are... they just hit you right there. Sometimes. I don't knoiw what else to say. That's how it was for me both times. It sucks when you know but you have GOT to try.

Sometimes it's just plain bigger that you are.

I can see why it bugs you though.

thetwodolphins
11-10-2007, 10:05 AM
The ones I've bumped into by suprise otc...and for some reason it always happens at Super Target on Sundays...usually look the same. But the first thing I do notice that is diff when they come up to say hi (or when I gaze at them from afar hiddden behind the pyramid of toilet paper) is that I have a moment of dissaray when I realize said dancer is now a good 5 or 6 inches shorter than me. LOL.

To answer the OP, if you can believe it, I never asked for OTC. Mostly because I am under the suspicion that most OTC happense so dancer can extract more money from customer. I have had dancers ask if they can have lunch with me, have dinner, or the strangest...go to another strip club with her... but I normally decline, because (and I guess I am just Mr Negative here) I assume they are tolerating me for a 'date' in order to secure thier portion of income that comes from me. Thats really kind of a painful thought that I dont want to realize OTC, but ITC I am there to pretend just as much as teh girls, so take my money please!


For anyone who has seen a dancer OTC. Did she look diff, wear less make-up, not do her hair, not dress sexy?

I dont do OTC but if I did I would just dress casually and not wear much make-up like I do in normal everyday life.

skeets45
11-13-2007, 06:31 PM
My motives are usually finding someone interesting to spend time with, isn't that the point of relationships? If I just want sex I will hire an escort. But I never go into a club to meet women for a relationship, that just happens.

I have dated a several dancers OTC over the years. I find that if we click, it does not really matter where we meet. Rarely does it last very long (once a year), but I often go back and buy dances...hell, most of them are great looking a really nice people. Once a dancer stopped going out with me because I went to strip clubs! She said I spent money on girls other than her.

That being said, more than a few times I have gotten a bullshit telephone number (or email over the last decade) from a girl just trying to get more dollars, and it works damn it!

Still, when I meet a women I might want to see OTC (which happens about once a year) I really don't mind if they say "no, thanks" to OTC time.