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Bob_Loblaw
11-08-2007, 12:55 PM
http://i171.photobucket.com/albums/u282/BobLoblaw61191946/picard.jpg
britt244
11-08-2007, 01:04 PM
I was joking Britt
ahaha ok im slow today
Someone please tell me this is as confusing for them as it is for me. :/
meee!
dlabtot
11-08-2007, 01:18 PM
Girlfriend Experience.... a lot of the girlfriends I've had... that's not really an experience you want.... yet those are the parts that translate best to the club environment.... the jealousy... being taken for granted... being treated like an ATM... being expected to be a mindreader...
on the other hand, many of the good things about having a girlfriend... the great sex... the lazy mornings together in bed... the little surprises... the quiet times together... the crazy times together... the feeling of being together with someone... not so much in the club.
Harry Truman said if you want a friend in Washington, get a dog. I say if you want a girlfriend experience, get a girlfriend.
UtahMike
11-08-2007, 01:42 PM
Whatever happened to Xanfiles1 when you need him? He and R19 could share a thread and write long, profound, confusing posts to each other.
Sophia_Starina
11-08-2007, 02:07 PM
Whatever happened to Xanfiles1 when you need him? He and R19 could share a thread and write long, profound, confusing posts to each other.
I want to request a picture Xanfiles1 & R19 making out!
doc-catfish
11-08-2007, 04:26 PM
My TV dinner is ready. :hungry:
The medicine cabinet is between here and the microwave. Anyone need an aspirin, antacid tablet or cough drop while I'm away?
Sorry, that's about all I can add here. Reading into this thread any deeper may cause me to have a stroke.
:headache:
Flick6
11-08-2007, 05:32 PM
It's fairly obvious to me that the op wants to know how much he needs to pay to get into a "good girl's" pants. I'm not sure why he thinks strippers come with a price tag but I definitely get the idea that this is what he wants to know.
Short of that he wants to know how much he has to pay to get a girl to pretend that he is the hottest guy in the club I think? and maybe he also wants to know why other guys try and score the gfe experience in the club as opposed to an escort service... but I think he needs to answer that himself since he is the one seeking it!
But mind you I have only obtained this clarity by not reading any of his posts and skimming through them, so perhaps on closer inspection he is just a big old attention seeker!
Lapaholic
11-08-2007, 06:10 PM
^^^ Actually Flick I think he is more like Jane Goodall ( do i have that right? ) in the jungle studying the habits of gorillas. Except his jungle is a stripclub and his gorillas are the dancers and customers.
So like Jane would do, he questions...
What signals that a male is ready for GFE?
How do the dancers tell each other - hand off b$%tth - thats my custy!!!
How does the male impress the dancer enuf to initiate mating...
How does the GFE male react to other males wanting similar GFE ...
Thats what I think he wants ... the total sociological/economic underpinnings of GFE in a sc ...
Of course i could be way off base...
Bob_Loblaw
11-08-2007, 06:17 PM
^^^ Dian Fossey?
Lapaholic
11-08-2007, 06:18 PM
^^^ Who is Jane Goodall then .. dang! Oh I see dhe studies chiimps... I guess then R19 studies chumps
Flick6
11-08-2007, 07:50 PM
^^^ Actually Flick I think he is more like Jane Goodall ( do i have that right? ) in the jungle studying the habits of gorillas. Except his jungle is a stripclub and his gorillas are the dancers and customers.
So like Jane would do, he questions...
What signals that a male is ready for GFE?
How do the dancers tell each other - hand off b$%tth - thats my custy!!!
How does the male impress the dancer enuf to initiate mating...
How does the GFE male react to other males wanting similar GFE ...
Thats what I think he wants ... the total sociological/economic underpinnings of GFE in a sc ...
Of course i could be way off base...
Lol :)
I posted why I go to SCs somewhere (yes all over the map) but I have been on a PDA posting and spending wayyyyy too much time. But this is shit built up over a long time at clubs. Yes I could have simply tried this GFE pay to talk shit myself or asked a dancer but I have not so I am asking here.
My preference is for more dances than not but I have limited money and I would like to bs quite a bit with the dancers so they aren't bored - buy 'em some drinks and help some stay motivated or point out guests that look like they will spend bank. Look I am definitely not the most popular guy in the place, but I have number of dancers that think I am cool to hang with and have some 'things' going on now and in the past.
A part of why I go to clubs is to watch people - the game on both sides...
It's fairly obvious to me that the op wants to know how much he needs to pay to get into a "good girl's" pants. I'm not sure why he thinks strippers come with a price tag but I definitely get the idea that this is what he wants to know.
I know the answer to that already, dancer or not: $0.00
yoda57us
11-09-2007, 05:20 AM
I know the answer to that already, dancer or not: $0.00
Yeah, I figured that would be your answer...
I'll bet you are at the club right now reading this on your PDA...
good one! Yes, I got amp'd to post a ton - I just found this place and didn't know something this serious would exist for SCs and dancers. Clearly, I think it's spectacular if it helps dancers bank more money and stay safe...
RE PDA, when I first got it I did bring it when I went out (new toy!!!) but it is big and also has a camera so I figured it is best left in the car when I am at a SC and most other places I go out. Although it doesn't look like it now, I am usually wayyyy too busy to be on the net like this.
twisterinAZ
11-09-2007, 06:35 AM
This thread is hilarious ! Did anyone catch the part where he said he gets turned on by hot guys ? I choked. Keep smokin' that pipe R19:D
I hope that this is my last post of the day. RE hot guys, hell yes. I am am young and attractive so I get hit on by guys from time to time. I have been to parties where most of the guys are gay and had fun! It is fun to get hit on. Have never done anything more than flirt and receive light kiss/kisses. But I am not ashamed to talk about it. And I think people who say hey are not attracted to beauty, hmmmm...
But this is hilarious because a decent number of dancers I see are lesbian or bi to some extent and many of them talk about it with me. Although, for women I see it is much different.
Been posting for just over a day and will be completely slowing my roll - at least I got a lot of you entertained in a good or bad way...
Bob_Loblaw
11-09-2007, 09:41 AM
:headache: I highly doubt it'll be your last post seeing as though you're still online three hours after that one. It's still early. There are still more people to confuse. :hypnotize
I will give you credit for keeping everything in one thread though
HuxandKisses
11-09-2007, 10:28 AM
sorry, i don't believe you. there's a reason that there was a scores news article about a single customer dropping 240,000 dollars ONE TIME.
i can see girls getting LOW five figures, possibly, from one guy in a single month, but six is just straight out BS. and even high (or low) five is kinda unlikely.
escorts don't pull that kind of money even as sporadically as you're claiming strippers do for conversation only.
this is funny. I work in SF and at least half our dancers pull MIDDLE 5 figures every month. It's a gentlemans club, we get wonderful men and woman from all over the world due to our location in SF.
For the 5 figure girls, it may be LOW in the off months, but in the good months...middle to high, easy. Even myself, in the good months, 5 figures is not as hard as I would've thought. Reason being, money is EVERYWHERE and it flows like WATER and it sits in people's bank accounts, and some of these people really appreciate the right kind of woman. If there's one thing my profession has taught me, it's NEVER judge a book by its cover and also just how much money there really is in the world.
Anyway, to answer your question, I'd charge $500 for an hour. That my include a few spiradic (sp?) dances + a drink if I'd like one. Other girls at my club have loving regulars and may get $1000 an hour. And where I am, I'd get skipped in the stage rotation so I can devote the time to my man, and tip the DJ $40 + the standard $20.
yoda57us
11-09-2007, 10:43 AM
:headache: I highly doubt it'll be your last post seeing as though you're still online three hours after that one. It's still early. There are still more people to confuse. :hypnotize
I will give you credit for keeping everything in one thread though
Checked the blue side lately?
britt244
11-09-2007, 11:02 AM
This thread is hilarious ! Did anyone catch the part where he said he gets turned on by hot guys ? I choked. Keep smokin' that pipe R19:D
I hope that this is my last post of the day. RE hot guys, hell yes. I am am young and attractive so I get hit on by guys from time to time. I have been to parties where most of the guys are gay and had fun! It is fun to get hit on. Have never done anything more than flirt and receive light kiss/kisses. But I am not ashamed to talk about it. And I think people who say hey are not attracted to beauty, hmmmm...
But this is hilarious because a decent number of dancers I see are lesbian or bi to some extent and many of them talk about it with me. Although, for women I see it is much different.
Been posting for just over a day and will be completely slowing my roll - at least I got a lot of you entertained in a good or bad way...
i am dying over here. i thought we were talking about GIRLFRIEND expriences, not BOYfriend...
:headache: I highly doubt it'll be your last post seeing as though you're still online three hours after that one. It's still early. There are still more people to confuse. :hypnotize
I will give you credit for keeping everything in one thread though
ha. yeah. except for the identical one in blue. where he says that he doesnt have a lot of money to spend on dances.. yet he's talking about how girls are making 6 figures.. clearly that money isnt coming from him ::)
Lapaholic
11-09-2007, 11:46 AM
^^^ Britt for u , I can make a great deal on a BFE .... ;)
From R19->I have been to parties where most of the guys are gay and had fun! It is fun to get hit on. Have never done anything more than flirt and receive light kiss/kisses.
Everything is beginning to make sense ... lol
Mastridonicus
11-09-2007, 12:11 PM
Ring Ring Ring Ring Ring Ring Ring Ring
BANANA PHONEEEE.
Jenny
11-09-2007, 12:15 PM
Okay so - is there not enough to make fun of in this thread without treating male homosexuality or bisexuality as some kind of shameful disease? What's the big if he likes kissing guys?
Lapaholic
11-09-2007, 12:28 PM
^^^ No its not a shameful disease ... but then neither is any human quality that we sometimes poke fun - fat, skinny, Canadian, fungal toes ... ( well fungal toes may actually be a disease) Of course neither should we make fun of diseases!!
If I offended anyone I am sorry ..
britt244
11-09-2007, 02:48 PM
Okay so - is there not enough to make fun of in this thread without treating male homosexuality or bisexuality as some kind of shameful disease? What's the big if he likes kissing guys?
haha, i just (still) find it funny that he's so concerned with a gfe yet he's talking about kissing guys. i dont find homosexuality as amusing as the fact that it makes no sense in this thread.
miabella
11-09-2007, 04:05 PM
i want to know more about this club in sf where 'at least half' the dancers make 50,000 dollars each month minimum.
ExoticEngineer
11-09-2007, 04:07 PM
No kidding. Let's hear more about THAT!
Katrine
11-09-2007, 05:36 PM
^^^ No its not a shameful disease ... but then neither is any human quality that we sometimes poke fun - fat, skinny, Canadian, fungal toes ..
Ok, I draw the line here. It is perfectly normal, even honorable, to poke fun at Canadians. Thinking otherwise is utterly un-American and makes you subject to a visit from Homeland Security to ensure you are not one of 'em terrists. :P
Taylorlila
11-10-2007, 05:06 PM
Ring Ring Ring Ring Ring Ring Ring Ring
BANANA PHONEEEE.
hahahahahahaha lmfao. I died.
i want to know more about this club in sf where 'at least half' the dancers make 50,000 dollars each month minimum.
yes please I'm looking for a new club.
You don't think that top dancers at the top clubs in a top city are pulling serious six figures in a year???? Saying you go to or work at a SC is like saying you live in the US. Well, do you live in a swamp town or one of the most expensive cities in the country, and within that city, do you live in a more modest or higher end neighborhood? w/o disclosing where, I am talking Chicago, NYC/tri-state, LA/SoCal, Vegas, Miami, Dallas/Ft. Worth, SF Bay Area, etc type areas...
thx HuxandKisses (http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/member.php?u=52792)! Let's hear from more dancers that are in these major cities. The number of dancers that you mention doing that well out of total sounds like an aggressive estimate to me, but you would know far better than I. It is all about the international money. Many guests are not local. They may be visiting on business or pleasure or staying at their 2nd, 3rd, 4th international residence. There is so much money in the world held by so few - these are the ones that can put the big numbers up on the dancers.
Taylorlila (http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/member.php?u=60036), I reviewed your other thread about what happened. I can say from the dancers that I speak with there is a lot of chance to get sent home or fired - because there are guests and rules that suck!!!! And these are high earning top dancers that make the clubs a lot of money, but many will not let guests or management have the run of the place. They went to another club or took some time off and came back. I never see dancers do anything on the satellite stages unless they are being PAID. *** What that manager said to you was totally out of line and I have not heard anything like that but I go to high end places. *** When you mentioned how far you have to travel to get to a club or another club, perhaps you should consider relocating to a big city if you are young/free/single where there are a lot of high quality gentleman's clubs and hundreds overall - places where you can do GFE and air, etc. and bank. Just do a lot of research first and learn about the clubs as well as state and city laws of candidate locations. For example, Vegas is gonna be crazier. I won't mention details about where I have been to and am, but it is not that hard to figure it out what the best of the best is in the biggest cities. Reviews must be on this site and tons of knowlegable dancers. Even call high end bars and hotels in a city and the concierge or whoever will probably tell you. Especially the hotels have to refer their guests to the right places.
ok, so I posted again - great.
2. To be more direct, when a guest spends a ton period over the course of 3-5 ++ hours what are the odds that even the 'good girls' would turn a trick
Maybe for $100,00 dollars. I'd have to think real hard before turning that down...
...All right I'll be honest I'd probably do it for $50,000.}:D
Madcap
11-11-2007, 02:59 AM
Bridgette. One million pennies for one night with you. I look sorta not like Robert Redford.
Interested?
ExoticEngineer
11-11-2007, 10:10 AM
Uhm, is he answering his own questions?
miabella
11-11-2007, 10:27 AM
he's quoting another dancer who proclaimed the existence of a wonderous club in san francisco where it is routine to make 50,000 dollars or more each month, with the occasional 'crappy' month of 20k or so.
she hasn't followed up on which club in sf this might be, though.::)
VegasPrincess
11-11-2007, 08:05 PM
Twenty K a month huh?? Yeah I work at one of the best SCs in the country and nobody makes that on a regular basis.
gingerlee
11-11-2007, 08:13 PM
^^OK?!? I want to know where these girls are making 20K on a 'bad' month! I'll just house dance there instead of featuring.
Casual Observer
11-11-2007, 08:53 PM
2. To be more direct, when a guest spends a ton period over the course of 3-5 ++ hours what are the odds that even the 'good girls' would turn a trick
If the stripper is earning during those 3-5 hours at a decent rate, why would she bother offering you P4P if she's not otherwise inclined to do so?
Moreover, considering the number of dancers that will give P4P ITC or OTC right away, why would you pay 3-5 hours' worth of dances when you can get what you want for much less?
These are all rhetorical questions, naturally.
UtahMike
11-11-2007, 09:34 PM
If the stripper is earning during those 3-5 hours at a decent rate, why would she bother offering you P4P if she's not otherwise inclined to do so?
Watch out if someone offers you P4P--you might get sued by Yahoo or Google!
gingerlee
11-11-2007, 10:41 PM
Watch out if someone offers you P4P--you might get sued by Yahoo or Google!
:rotfl: :rotfl: ;D
UtahMike
11-12-2007, 12:57 AM
^ I wondered if anyone would get that.
MinahSky
11-13-2007, 04:39 AM
If it just for the guest's own ego, I could buy that. xdamage, I can tell you are very smart and know a lot so please help me with the tricks question. I really do believe that most of the dancers at these clubs I go to are not turning tricks period... I could walk down the street to other clubs and it would be a completely different story - mileage, club activity, tricks, whatever. But that is why I go where I do - classy, higher end spots. And also, in my area, there are hundreds of clubs. I go to a couple only.
I go to SC's to have fun, see 7-10's, relax and think, and to pick up. The pick up part is getting easier because for my limited game, I am a full alpha presence there and everyone who has been at these clubs more than a few months knows me. So when new dancers meet me I think they can tell a difference. But that is way off subject and not for 'Customer Conversation'
BTW, this site is great. I think a will learn a ton and share a lot. A lot of my guy friends are not too smart or I don't go with them or talk with them about SC's so this is a priceless resource for me.
It's all about the money, honey. Fantasize about your "alpha presence" all you want. regardless of how much you give, it's still money. And regardless of who you pick up, it's never for what you think it is. It has nothing to do with YOU. The girls sleep with you because you look like the guy in high school they never got together with. Their friend's brother they can't get with or it will ruin the friendship. Hell, amybe you're hot and they're...<gasp> HORNY! Brag all you want about bagging a stripper. They LET you think that because it's obviously something you NEED, trick. First off, they're women and second, they're dancers. That is a combination a bloodhound can't beat. You think you're pulling something over on anyone? Let me tell sonthin to jou (sorry, been watching too much Happy Feet)...every dancer can read you loud and clear...but keep thinking you're playing someone.
Players don't pay to play, Hon. Might want to hide that card, the PA is going to come snatch it back...
MinahSky
11-13-2007, 04:40 AM
he's quoting another dancer who proclaimed the existence of a wonderous club in san francisco where it is routine to make 50,000 dollars or more each month, with the occasional 'crappy' month of 20k or so.
she hasn't followed up on which club in sf this might be, though.::)
If they are in SF, they are talking about Mitchell Brothers and that lot...they straight fuck up there, there's no dancing going on...
miabella
11-13-2007, 10:42 AM
even at that club, 50k per month is not standard. plenty of nights more than half those girls (whether they do high contact dances or not-- some only dance, same as in houston/tampa/etc) are going home with 500 or less. and even those that aren't are not going home with any 3-4k every single shift (assuming a 15 shift month of work).
i mean, it's a beautiful fairy story, at least...
xoxoGracexoxo
11-14-2007, 11:38 AM
OK, I can't read all your posts all the way through cause they give me a headache. but from what I've skimmed, I am reasonably sure you have never been to a real stripclub and are merely fantasizing heavily about snippets you have seen on HBO and VH1. I'll go further and say I think you are not a human male, but actually a kitty cat who has learned to type. You are a very, very clever kitty cat and I am proud of you.
ExoticEngineer
11-14-2007, 11:58 AM
:rotfl: Grace...you made my day.
I have to laugh on those that get so riled up about others on an internet forum. Like I said before, saying that you are a dancer is like saying you live in the US - pretty damn vague so I imagine there are all sorts on here that get headaches by reading...
teeth_of_the_hydra
11-14-2007, 10:54 PM
^^^I suspect that comment was meant to be obliquely insulting. Fortunately, it doesn't make a lot of sense, so I don't need to get "so riled up" right now.
leogirl876
11-15-2007, 01:00 AM
R19=TROLL!!!!! Don't feed the trolls, they keep coming back like a mutt, begging for more scraps!
HuxandKisses
11-15-2007, 01:53 PM
i want to know more about this club in sf where 'at least half' the dancers make 50,000 dollars each month minimum.
thank you for asking...
I think I said "in the good months" but I am not going to go back in the thread to look...
so, in the good months, which I have learned are summer and Xmas times plus the occasional giant conference (conferences are held in SF a few times a year, attracting people from all over the world) there are EASILY 25% of girls who make that figure.
Ok ok, I re-nig my original statement, it's not 50%, it's morelike 25% or 30%, the other 25% make about 30k and the rest between 5k a- 30k. No, these numbers are not solid, they're estimates based on the amounts I SEE being handed over and what I overhear the girls totalling out at every night, for the last two years.
These girls are the sweet hearts or the bad girls who know
1) how to ask for tips
2) somehow they make the men WANT to give them money, we all have our own ways of enchanting someone
3) they are expereinced. They are crafty ladies, smart and witty and HOT and some men actually take pride in being able to dump 5k in a night, or more.
This is the NIGHT shift, fyi. The day girls likely do not come close. :(
Come to the Gold Club. It's GREAT! Everyone always comes in in a good mood, (who can blame them) as far as I'm concerened the girls all get along, our managment is great unless you are someone always calling in sick or missing shifts, and it is a gentlemens club. Rif-Raf drunken people need not come. :) Not only that, our private rooms just got juckboxes (jupeboxes?? sp??) they are SO FUN being able to pick your own music, adds a magic / fun to the situation that's much appreciated by men and dancers alike.
hot succesful men in suits that you can loosen their ties and mess up their hair LOL SUCH FUN! (LOL no I am not a commercial for the Gold Club, it's just a fun place to work)
CHEERS ALL!!
I'd like to propose a toast, to $2000 nights! fuck it, $3000 dollar nights! lets not sell ourselves short, we kick ass...