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Chrissy68
11-13-2007, 03:04 AM
it's not thaaaat gross. it's funny ;D

jaizaine
11-13-2007, 04:02 AM
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^^^oh and people don't get mad at me, this is just my opinion i know there is others too. we all have to have a strong opinion about something and this is mine

same here. I find pubic hair absolutely fucking disgusting.

PrettyCurlieQ
11-13-2007, 04:03 AM
Honestly, it might just be that she hasn't gotten any in awhile. I know that when I'm not getting any (and not dancing), I don't bother keeping myself all that well trimmed down there. Why go through the hassle when there's no happy penis reward at the end?

WORD. :yes:

Circe
11-13-2007, 04:09 AM
Be as diplomatic as possible. But if it's a dealbreaker, then leave. Don't expect her to change for you.

BTW, I don't really get the pedophile conclusions some people jump to if you don't have pubic hair or don't prefer it on others.

I shave and I don't look like a little girl...because I am not a little girl. I'm a sexually mature woman.
Like, children don't have armpit hair, but preferring shaved pits is normal. And shaved chins on guys, etc.

It's because of the smoothness, being able to see the engorged ADULT genitals better, not getting a mouthful of loose hair flossing around during head, etc.

Budai
11-13-2007, 04:23 AM
Seriously Im not shy to tell people what I think and personally if a person wanted me to go down on them then they had better shave every last hair off there. Disgusting to get a pube in your mouth.

Hey, jaz!

Q: What's the last sound a pubic hair makes before it reaches the floor?

A: "Pffft..."

Djoser
11-13-2007, 06:02 AM
WTF is with people saying having a bald muff looks like a kid? Do you think people who shave under their arms look like kids too? That's just a silly comment really. Just because it grows there doesn't make it attractive.

Yeah, do men who daily shave off what would otherwise turn into a dense, bushy, beard look like little boys?

I got spoiled rotten by a woman who used to groom every square inch of my body, that was kind of cool. I'm not that fastidious, left to my own devices, but I do take care of things so as not to repel the opposite sex, lol.

High_Heel_Lover
11-13-2007, 06:07 AM
Kinda sad actually that you would be turned off by something completely natural. I guess times have made it hard for a woman to feel comfortable with her body because others find it not suitable. I'm sorry she doesn't meet your standards.

High_Heel_Lover
11-13-2007, 06:12 AM
ALso the lack of hair is to seem more youthful, I'm not saying child like but it is to seem more youthful.


Although the appearance of secondary hair on parts of the body is a sign of puberty, in Western cultures it is socially accepted, often encouraged, for women to remove body hair (as hairlessness is considered feminine and often youthful). Commonly depilated areas are the underarms, face, arms and legs; pubic hair may be partially or entirely removed, and at times individuals even depilate areas which are typically left alone, such as the forearms. Conversely, people who oppose the social concepts behind these practices will forego them, whether for personal satisfaction or to make a public statement. In recent years, bodily depilation has increased in popularity among Western males.[citation needed]

As with any cosmetic practice, the particulars of hair removal have changed over the years. Male hair removal is a less constant practice, usually due to trends that alternately promote either the smooth, hairless aesthetic or the hairy, natural one. Western female depilation has waxed and waned throughout history and has been significantly influenced by the evolution of clothing in the past century. Leg and underarm shaving became popular again in Western Society with the advent of off-the-shoulder dresses, higher hemlines and transparent stockings. The reduction of the minimum acceptable standards for bodily coverage over the years has resulted in the exposure of more flesh, giving rise to even more extensive hair removal.[1]

At present, this has resulted in the Brazilian waxing trend, a term used to describe the partial or full removal of pubic hair, as the thongs worn on Brazilian beaches are too small to conceal very much of it. Indeed, a culture is now emerging around "intimate shaving" and other hair-removal options geared specifically around the pubic area. What was once kept a personal secret is now discussed more openly, though still in carefully non-explicit language, in magazines and on television.

xdamage
11-13-2007, 07:17 AM
As with any cosmetic practice, the particulars of hair removal have changed over the years.

WORD!

IrishMarc
11-13-2007, 07:50 AM
Kinda sad actually that you would be turned off by something completely natural. I guess times have made it hard for a woman to feel comfortable with her body because others find it not suitable. I'm sorry she doesn't meet your standards.

Your posting on the internet; sitting on a chair probably in a nice air conditioned building; humans stopped being part of the "natural process" a long time ago.

IrishMarc
11-13-2007, 07:52 AM
BTW, I don't really get the pedophile conclusions some people jump to if you don't have pubic hair or don't prefer it on others.

I shave and I don't look like a little girl...because I am not a little girl. I'm a sexually mature woman.
Like, children don't have armpit hair, but preferring shaved pits is normal. And shaved chins on guys, etc.

It's because of the smoothness, being able to see the engorged ADULT genitals better, not getting a mouthful of loose hair flossing around during head, etc.

Pretty much nailed it on the head. The whole unnatural/pedophile objections are just blatantly silly.

IrishMarc
11-13-2007, 07:53 AM
Well she's coming out for a Drink with a few of my friends tonight for my Birthday we will see how things go.

High_Heel_Lover
11-13-2007, 08:18 AM
Your posting on the internet; sitting on a chair probably in a nice air conditioned building; humans stopped being part of the "natural process" a long time ago. What are you talking about?

mollyzmoon
11-13-2007, 08:35 AM
See, here's my take on hair. If you don't like to shave, that's fine, but going bare down there does not make us like children. We only have pubic hair because we used to be naked beasts, and we needed it for warmth (also why it's in our armpits), as well as keeping away dirty stuff. It was protective. But now with clothing, it's no longer useful. I mean, few of us would forgo armpit shaving because it's more natural. And if you do, that's cool too. I just think that cosmetic preferences in body hair should not be judged as anything more than what it is...I don't think it stands for anything insidious, no matter what your taste.

Like Circe said, I don't look like a kid because I shave. I look like the 22 year old that I am, because I have hips and boobs and I'm tall and stuff.

I also prefer the shaven guys, or at least a little trimming. Who likes hair in their teeth?

High_Heel_Lover
11-13-2007, 08:48 AM
I know Molly my thing is that this girl seems to be a really nice person and he likes her for her but at the same time he doesn't. Is it that important? Lets say a person you grow to love or perhaps care for oh never mind, if he doesn't like it then he doesn't just seems kinda strange cause in life you try to find someone to care about and care for you and this seems to be such a strange thing to me, to have a problem with when it's something that like it or not we still grow.

If that is the worst thing the person can have, hell that ain't bad at all.

pinupgurl2k6
11-13-2007, 09:21 AM
I have a Mohawk. That way, I'm there's not Amazon growth, but I don't look like a little kid.

Sorry can't help it but do you do the whole punk think with your Mohawk?
purple, red, green? (giggle) I'm teasing ;)

I always heard it called a landing strip
then again Mohawk is a fun term for it too :)

Budai
11-13-2007, 10:54 AM
Sorry can't help it but do you do the whole punk think with your Mohawk?
purple, red, green? (giggle) I'm teasing ;)

I always heard it called a landing strip
then again Mohawk is a fun term for it too :)
I'd like to see a Mohawk arrow (I'm navigationally challenged)...:P

pinupgurl2k6
11-13-2007, 10:56 AM
I'd like to see a Mohawk arrow (I'm navigationally challenged)...:P

Government yellow or glow in the dark?

Budai
11-13-2007, 11:00 AM
Government yellow or glow in the dark?
Glow in the dark, please! My vaginal Braille is horrendous, especially with shaved bushes! ;)

pinupgurl2k6
11-13-2007, 11:03 AM
Glow in the dark, please! My vaginal Braille is horrendous, especially with shaved bushes! ;)

Do you have a link for a vaginal braille tutor? I can't seem to shave the arrow in the right direction.

Budai
11-13-2007, 11:28 AM
Do you have a link for a vaginal braille tutor? I can't seem to shave the arrow in the right direction.
Try the Dick N. Bush Clitoral Mapping Academy @ ;)

Katrine
11-13-2007, 12:12 PM
Don't say anything to her. Try and touch her pubes again, maybe she actually did shave if she is one of those "I only shave when I am getting laid" chicks. IF they are still there, reel your hand back QUICKLY and put on your best "I'm-trying-not-to-look-disgusted-but-I'm-really-fucken-disgusted" look. After that look, put on a sheepish smile and continue kissing. DO NOT TOUCH HER PUBES OR THAT REGION AT ALL AGAIN DURING THIS SESSION.


Wow, that's really shitty. While it might work for a guy, think about how sensitive we women already are about that area. It would be a cruel thing to do. Perhaps she is young and inexperienced. Perhaps she doesn't work in the sex industry like you do, or watch porn regularly.

There is nothing wrong with the condition of her hair. If he doesn't like it, he can use positive reinforcement to get what he wants. That type of attitude is what gives people complexes about their bodies.

Jenny
11-13-2007, 12:30 PM
Yeah... I think a preference is normal, but I think finding it to be a dealbreaker would be weird. Like I prefer some kind of grooming on my partner because I don't like having my face shed on; but I would never, never, ever try to make my partner feel disgusting or repulsive because of it. That's... mean. Like really mean. If you just mention that you have a preference, without making demands, then you've made your position known and she will likely oblige unless she has a strong preference of her own.

I feel, incidentally, the same way about underarm hair. Normal to have a preference, but abnormal for it to be a dealbreaker.

I think issues of prepubescence come in, though, when you have issues with the volume of hair. Like when one is okay with not grooming because she doesn't have "a forest", but resents the full profusion - I think that is kind of weird. And finally - I've gone down on guys who are ungroomed. Not my favourite, but not the end of the world.

Budai
11-13-2007, 12:37 PM
Your posting on the internet; sitting on a chair probably in a nice air conditioned building; humans stopped being part of the "natural process" a long time ago.

What are you talking about?
HHL:

IMO, Irish Marc's extrapolating that commonplace modern items like computers, chairs and air conditioning ought to be considered in the same category as shaved pudenda.

cutey5032
11-13-2007, 12:49 PM
I guess it is just my personal preference, if I was in the situation I would rather have the guy not talk about it but let me know in those ways. If he still wants to bring it up, he will have to gauge which delivery would suit her best, if any. I didn't want to offend anyone, but I guess any delivery could be offensive, depending on the girl

Of course it is all personal preference, but I would venture to say, like me, this guy has got a VERY strong preference of pubic hair, as he made a thread about the whole situation

Lapaholic
11-13-2007, 12:49 PM
I think it is all a little immature ... One would hope that a human ( even a woman ;) ) is more than just the sum of their parts or even their pubes.

ANd IMark - in the end we are all frickin' animals with cool toys!!!

High_Heel_Lover
11-13-2007, 12:52 PM
/:O
HHL:

IMO, Irish Marc's extrapolating that commonplace modern items like computers, chairs and air conditioning ought to be considered in the same category as shaved pudenda./:O

Ohhhhhhh k.


Well I wish him luck in what he chooses but just remember a good partner isn't always easy to find. She's smart and stimulating and it reminds me of these wise words...

If I could offer one piece of advice to the planet, it would be this: Don't marry for looks alone, and I'll tell you why. In a few years, when Barbara's boobs start sagging, she can get plastic surgery, have them lifted, move the nipple wherever. You can actually go to a titty bar, pick out a set of titties and say, "I want those titties on that woman." If her belly gets too big, she can get a tummy tuck and have a belly like a cheerleader. If her vision goes bad, you can have LASIK surgery and have 20/20 vision. If her hearing goes bad, they can install a device in her ear that will give you hearing as clear as it was the day you were born. But let me tell you something, folks: You can't fix stupid. There's not a pill you can take; there's not a class you can go to. Stupid is forever.

By Mr Ron White

IrishMarc
11-13-2007, 01:09 PM
/:O/:O

You can't fix stupid. There's not a pill you can take; there's not a class you can go to. Stupid is forever.


Thats some pretty depressing advice, I would like to think that even the dullest people can be brought to a better plane of understanding and broaden their horizons through education and reading.

High_Heel_Lover
11-13-2007, 01:17 PM
Thats some pretty depressing advice, I would like to think that even the dullest people can be brought to a better plane of understanding and broaden their horizons through education and reading.

says a person who can't get over pubic hair.

Look hon sometimes you get the chance to pick and choose who you want but it's really upsetting when a person spend their entire life searching for something and someone who doesn't meet their expectations and one day sasy "I am so lonely, why didn't I make things work"

I am saying this to you as a person who sees her mother unhappy because she is alone and wishing that she would of been a little bit more flexible with her standards. IF the girl likes you and you want to make it work perhaps she will trim for you but then again if she doesn't maybe you can look in to why she doesn't want to shave. Also is there a reason, perhaps a psychological reason you do not find pubic hair attractive? Perhaps it triggers a bad feeling from your youth?

I know of someone who can not feel leg hairs on their partner due to sexual abuse. I myself can not have a person with facial hair because it repulsive me, because I was molested as a child by a person who had a beard and the feeling of it brings panic, nausea and it makes me ill, is this something like what you feel if your partner has pubic hair?

IrishMarc
11-13-2007, 01:23 PM
says a person who can't get over pubic hair.

Look hon sometimes you get the chance to pick and choose who you want but it's really upsetting when a person spend their entire life searching for something and someone who doesn't meet their expectations and one day sasy "I am so lonely, why didn't I make things work"


wow, there step away from the extrapolation machine.

I don't like pubic hair; because I don't like pubic hair.

1 - It doesn't look nice (IMO)
2 - It gets stuck in your teeth
3 - It feels like wire wool.

Simple as that; if a girl that I am seeing and am into enough to consider the long haul can't do something as simple as shave some hair folics off to accommodate me than maybe she isn't person I thought she was.

If it was you asking your boyfriend to keep clean shaven because its your preference would there be a hang up? Of course there wouldn't be.

High_Heel_Lover
11-13-2007, 01:25 PM
Well you like what you like, good luck.

Lapaholic
11-13-2007, 01:36 PM
<snip>
Simple as that; if a girl that I am seeing and am into enough to consider the long haul can't do something as simple as shave some hair folics off to accommodate me than maybe she isn't person I thought she was.


U answered your own question ... so there u go, ask her and if she says no then move on ....

But what if u were otherwise head over heels in love ...??? Would u bag her just cause she does not like to shave ? u do see the shallowness of that.. dont u?

xdamage
11-13-2007, 01:51 PM
1 - It doesn't look nice (IMO)


Well, I think this is more of a social fad then anything else. Nothing wrong with it, but unless there is some good genetic reason for disliking it, I write it off to fad of the moment.




2 - It gets stuck in your teeth


True, however oral sex is not what our genes have trained for. Oral sex is another fad kind of thing. Not that I don't enjoy it, but it's not something really needed to procreate or get off even.




3 - It feels like wire wool.


Depends on the person. Pubic hair is generally quite soft if it grows out. In fact too short can feel stubbly and sticky and has it's own negative sensation.

---

The point is you really don't need to justify why you prefer it that way. It's enough to know that in our current society it is increasingly becoming popular. But who knows. It wouldn't take much of a change, or a move to a society with greater problems, and you may well find it's pretty much the last thing on anyone's mind. But there is nothing wrong with wanting it the way you want it.

Besides, look at the large number of females here who have made it clear, if a man's penis is too small for their vaginal size, they aren't going to stay with him. It doesn't align with their sexual wants, and makes it harder (or impossible) to orgasm. So if long hair is a major turn off for a guy making it hard for him to enjoy sex, and it is more important than things like her personality, other features, etc., so be it. We are all capable of seeing any one trait, even something like pubic hair, as a deal breaker.

britt244
11-13-2007, 01:59 PM
Kinda sad actually that you would be turned off by something completely natural. I guess times have made it hard for a woman to feel comfortable with her body because others find it not suitable. I'm sorry she doesn't meet your standards.

not in my case. i dont like it. i wouldnt care if i dated 10 guys in a row who loved hair, i would fucking hate it. i think its gross and looks much better without.


says a person who can't get over pubic hair.

i wouldnt be able to get over it.

i completely agree, too, about it NOT making girls look young.

RoseWhite
11-13-2007, 02:45 PM
I hope this is taken in the diplomatic spirit in which it was intended:

While I agree that the statements about preferring hairless genitalia making one something like a pedophile go a bit far (as others have pointed out, we shave our pits/faces/legs and the result isn't equated with looking childlike), I think it's fair to consider how their POVs originated.

There are lots of us who came of age many years before shaving your pubes became de riguer. We looked forward to growing it as a sign of adulthood. Porn of the day, from Playboy to Hustler to amateur rags, all showed bushes. Sometimes spread, sometimes not, sometimes trimmed, sometimes not, but still, if it was an adult woman, even a young woman, there was hair. In the locker room, we all saw each other's genitals; same thing there. I remember girls in junior high being embarrassed to undress in front of each other if they hadn't grown pubic hair yet.

I do remember the first time I saw a shaved-bare pussy, and honestly, it was disturbing! It was included in porn that was geared towards the fetishy. I've talked to other friends about their first exposure to it, too, and they had similar reactions. It's not hard to understand. Because the only adult genitals WE had ever seen HAD HAIR, the only genitals that DID NOT were prepubescent ones. Children's.

That's essentially where that POV comes from for many. I am NOT saying that anyone is wrong to have a preference. At all. And things have definitely changed. Porn fashions changed, stripper's fashions changed, and the locker room is now a fairly trimmed and tidy place. I know that teenage girls now routinely start shaving their pubic hair along with their underarms, and I don't have a problem with it. Despite my initial reaction of being weirded out by it, I've more than gotten used to it (obviously, heh), and do quite a bit of trimming myself (rarely bare, usually somewhere between landing strip and well-groomed), for the record. ;D

I just thought it was worth trying to explain the origins. There really was a time - and not that long ago - that it was totally uncommon, and the initial comparison was logically of that to a child. I say whatever floats your boat!

SundayMorning
11-13-2007, 04:11 PM
^^Well explained. Taking the context of when and how bare pussy became popular is important to considering everyone's perspectives on it. Me, I love being bare and wouldn't ever feel comfortable stripping if I had hair. And it makes physical sensations ever so much more enjoyable and helps my self-perception of cleanliness.

And really I don't find it any more or less unusual than any other physical preferences. Quite easily fixed, after all.

xdamage
11-13-2007, 05:08 PM
There are lots of us who came of age many years before shaving your pubes became de riguer. ....

I do remember the first time I saw a shaved-bare pussy, and honestly, it was disturbing! ...

So true. Social fads come and go. Nothing wrong with them, but I'm reasonably sure that this is another one. Emotionally it's fine to be turned off, but there is still something to be said for being mature enough to see a social fad for what it is, temporary, and in truth, a fairly shallow preference that is just as likely to change in the near future.

Djoser
11-13-2007, 05:36 PM
Well done, Rose White!

It is true that while growing up we saw Playboy magazine centerfolds with dense, matted, jungle growths, and no one was likely to present an ultimatum to one of them, lol! You might see the occasional totally shaved woman in Hustler, say, and it was kind of freaky.

I think the skimpiness of bikinis in the 80s and the proliferation of stripclubs had a lot to do with the trend. Since the area was being exposed, it made sense to trim and cultivate it neatly. Then one thing led to another, and now we have nothing there.

It is very nice indeed to have the soft, smooth skin in that area untrammeled, I must say--but I suppose it has been an acquired taste in many of us.


On a side not, the story of the locker room shyness due to lack of pubic hair brought back the memory of an ugly incident that turned around for me, a very late bloomer, when a bunch of jeering jocks all shut the fuck up when one of them ripped my towel away, that I was desperately clutching to hide myself. I was still mortifed, though. Motherfuckers...at the time I didn't get it, if I had then I would have been laughing at them in turn.

Alaska
11-13-2007, 06:11 PM
Awww. IrishMarc isn't st00pid----he just had a bad experience. (I'm thinking it was the girl's taste--hair or no hair--that got stuck in your mouth/mind for 3 days!)

I can see girls being offended, but your preference is your preference, and it has to do with hygiene as well, so yr not....st00pid.

I once had a old dude explain to me why he loved it so much---cuz it was "new" to him, and hair is old-fashioned, just like Rose White pointed out.

Marc, I don't think you mean to say, you wouldn't sleep with her if she had ANY at all, just not a ton, right? What do you think of a lil strip or whatever?

I mean, anyone that would complain about an amount ranging from a strip, to a neatly trimmed full amount---that's a little crazy.

Also just wanted to throw in----guys, no matter what---don't forget the pain and effort it takes to keep things at bay. It's nowhere near the level you guys go thru to trim yr nuts, and nowhere near as optional. There's pressure, there's pain, and we have to attend to it like minimum once a week, sometimes more. Just don't forget it, mmkay?

Flick6
11-13-2007, 06:32 PM
Yeah, baby! That's smokin' hot! ;D

Lol ty works on hubby anyways....

Flick6
11-13-2007, 06:37 PM
Just say "WTF is going on down there? Shave your fucking pubes off".

Seriously Im not shy to tell people what I think and personally if a person wanted me to go down on them then they had better shave every last hair off there. Disgusting to get a pube in your mouth.

WTF is with people saying having a bald muff looks like a kid? Do you think people who shave under their arms look like kids too? That's just a silly comment really. Just because it grows there doesn't make it attractive.

I have told guys in the past to shave it off coz it disgusts me and they have.

But it is a particular type of person who can be told they are disgusting and still have the self esteem to return, or perhaps just no self esteem?


The reason I think people say it makes you look like a child is because most ppl dont see nude genitals on females that are past puberty, seriously most people dont. I think working in the "sex industry" (or whatever ya want to call it) gives us a bit of a different perspective on these things, but seriously it isn't average behavior for girls to shave their genitals (well more so in the past few years but still) and when you see a naked vagina, especially if you have ever had children, it can pop into your head that it looks like a child's. coz it does. But obviously the rest of the body makes a hell of a difference.

FrustratedBunny
11-13-2007, 07:30 PM
I haven't read through every response, but perhaps she just doesn't know much about grooming down there. I never had my mom teach me that stuff and had to sort of figure it out on my own. I say if you bring it up, do it in a positive manner. Don't say it's a turn off like it is, but maybe say how hot you find a certain type of grooming (bald, landing strip, etc.) It may just not be something she's given much thought to.

FrustratedBunny
11-13-2007, 07:34 PM
I hope this is taken in the diplomatic spirit in which it was intended:

While I agree that the statements about preferring hairless genitalia making one something like a pedophile go a bit far (as others have pointed out, we shave our pits/faces/legs and the result isn't equated with looking childlike), I think it's fair to consider how their POVs originated.

There are lots of us who came of age many years before shaving your pubes became de riguer. We looked forward to growing it as a sign of adulthood. Porn of the day, from Playboy to Hustler to amateur rags, all showed bushes. Sometimes spread, sometimes not, sometimes trimmed, sometimes not, but still, if it was an adult woman, even a young woman, there was hair. In the locker room, we all saw each other's genitals; same thing there. I remember girls in junior high being embarrassed to undress in front of each other if they hadn't grown pubic hair yet.

I do remember the first time I saw a shaved-bare pussy, and honestly, it was disturbing! It was included in porn that was geared towards the fetishy. I've talked to other friends about their first exposure to it, too, and they had similar reactions. It's not hard to understand. Because the only adult genitals WE had ever seen HAD HAIR, the only genitals that DID NOT were prepubescent ones. Children's.

That's essentially where that POV comes from for many. I am NOT saying that anyone is wrong to have a preference. At all. And things have definitely changed. Porn fashions changed, stripper's fashions changed, and the locker room is now a fairly trimmed and tidy place. I know that teenage girls now routinely start shaving their pubic hair along with their underarms, and I don't have a problem with it. Despite my initial reaction of being weirded out by it, I've more than gotten used to it (obviously, heh), and do quite a bit of trimming myself (rarely bare, usually somewhere between landing strip and well-groomed), for the record. ;D

I just thought it was worth trying to explain the origins. There really was a time - and not that long ago - that it was totally uncommon, and the initial comparison was logically of that to a child. I say whatever floats your boat!

I think this is kind of where I was coming from with my response. I'm older than a lot of the girls on here and I remember my momma had a BUSH! And when I asked her about grooming down there she basically made it sound lke shaving it wasn't an option. So for years I didn't know that was even an option.

Sinder
11-13-2007, 07:38 PM
"Whether she's bald or a Wookie,
Good nookie is good nookie..."
- Anonymous



:laughing: :rotfl:

cutey5032
11-13-2007, 07:45 PM
On a side not, the story of the locker room shyness due to lack of pubic hair brought back the memory of an ugly incident that turned around for me, a very late bloomer, when a bunch of jeering jocks all shut the fuck up when one of them ripped my towel away, that I was desperately clutching to hide myself. I was still mortifed, though. Motherfuckers...at the time I didn't get it, if I had then I would have been laughing at them in turn.

hahahaha yessssssssss!!

Lexi
11-13-2007, 09:30 PM
I think the pedofile comments are off the wall. I dont mind short and trimmed, but I hate a bush. Sue me.

If I shave completely doesnt mean that I want to "look like a little girl" or even want someone to look at ME that way.

madmaxine
11-13-2007, 09:53 PM
On a side not, the story of the locker room shyness due to lack of pubic hair brought back the memory of an ugly incident that turned around for me, a very late bloomer, when a bunch of jeering jocks all shut the fuck up when one of them ripped my towel away, that I was desperately clutching to hide myself. I was still mortifed, though. Motherfuckers...at the time I didn't get it, if I had then I would have been laughing at them in turn.

;D I hope someone borrows this story & writes it into a teen movie.

Back on topic, I only sympathize with IrishMarc because I have lots of hair and if I don't bathe & deodorize often, I get.....redolent. Ripe, whatever you wanna call it I wouldn't ask a man to stick his face in that. Hair is porous and collects body scent and oil.

More honestly, I am just jealous he is tapping Irish booty when many American girls would kill for a chance to bed an Irish guy. They have so...much...game. If not for club bullshit rules, I would have pounded the Irish guys I've met at work so hard it would put the groove in the Blarney Stone to shame.

jaizaine
11-14-2007, 03:38 AM
But it is a particular type of person who can be told they are disgusting and still have the self esteem to return, or perhaps just no self esteem?


The reason I think people say it makes you look like a child is because most ppl dont see nude genitals on females that are past puberty, seriously most people dont. I think working in the "sex industry" (or whatever ya want to call it) gives us a bit of a different perspective on these things, but seriously it isn't average behavior for girls to shave their genitals (well more so in the past few years but still) and when you see a naked vagina, especially if you have ever had children, it can pop into your head that it looks like a child's. coz it does. But obviously the rest of the body makes a hell of a difference.

I don't agree with this. I have been a stripper for one year and I have shaved/waxed/lasered away my pubes since they grew! Yes I shaved them straight away.

As for arguments that it's natural etc, so what? Haven't we evolved past the stage where just because something is natural we have to put up with it?

HHL you are obviously offended by the fact that the OP doesn't like pubic hair. I don't understand this but it is his preference. I don't like men with beards, hairy bodies or pubic hair. I would not dump a guy for it but I would tell him he should get rid of the hair.

Bottom line is - if you want someone to go down on you don't expect them to put up with a mouth full of short and curlies.

Alaska
11-14-2007, 05:14 AM
if you want someone to go down on you don't expect them to put up with a mouth full of short and curlies.

:laughing: that's hysterical! My man does not care tho. Good for me!:D

Jenny
11-14-2007, 05:45 AM
As for arguments that it's natural etc, so what? Haven't we evolved past the stage where just because something is natural we have to put up with it?
I don't know if that is a matter of evolution... but no we don't have to put up with it. However, it still seems a little bit weird to me if people make that a dealbreaker.


HHL you are obviously offended by the fact that the OP doesn't like pubic hair. I don't understand this but it is his preference.
Weirdly enough, I actually feel a little offended. I think it was nicely said above that one might think even a woman is more than the sum of her pubes (heh heh). I understand a preference, but the "What should I do?" post, like pubic hair is some kind of STI is a little weird to me.


Bottom line is - if you want someone to go down on you don't expect them to put up with a mouth full of short and curlies.
Seriously - a pubic hair in your mouth is not the end of the world.