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Dottie Rebel
11-23-2007, 02:58 PM
Dammit, I am so confused by that yahoo group thing. I couldn't really tell what the general consensus was regarding dates.

March 10-19 are out for me, but basically all other times are good. I know we can't really talk dates on here...

I just as soon have as few unattached males getting a free show as possible. I know it's inevitable there'll be some, but I don't want to encourage it.

Bridgette
11-23-2007, 05:22 PM
We're not decided on a date yet. Just have the read through the messages. They show up with newest down to oldest in the yahoo group's home page.

Katrine
11-23-2007, 05:46 PM
Ok, cool on the mens decision. I have one male member who wanted to join. Now I know what to do.

Katrine
11-23-2007, 05:48 PM
Wait, wait...how about Manass (AinNY) and his girlfriend? They want to come. I'd be down for some Manass, how about you?

242_fair
11-23-2007, 05:50 PM
If its in Feb I kinda want to go, and bring my s/o too. I told him there is a vacation being cooked up by the 'strippers on the net' and he looked sheepishly at me like 'I can come right?' (Hes only been in 1 strip club and he was so nervous he knocked his beer over)

Then I tried to explain what Headonism is and let just say... this would be really fun!

ETA the prices for flying from toronto are really reasonable. Its just $1250 US for everything inc flight hotel food in Feb hmmm.


But there was something called Hedo II and another called Hedo III, in Jamaica right?

twisterinAZ
11-24-2007, 12:00 AM
^Also agreez.

Plus for all us single and ready to mingle's we don't need PL's from the site cockblocking.

What's a PL ? I've been wanting to ask forever.:-[

pussy licker ?

Katrine
11-24-2007, 05:31 AM
What's a PL ? I've been wanting to ask forever.:-[

pussy licker ?

pathetic loser! :P

Bridgette
11-24-2007, 10:37 PM
PL is our very own loving lil term for most custies, Pathetic Loser. ahahahaha

I'm down for some Manass! Manass, if you're reading this, bring your fine ass and your gf!! W00t!



K, so SW ladies, Djoser and Manass w/ gf only ;D

Dottie Rebel
11-24-2007, 11:57 PM
^^Sounds good to me.

Katrine
11-25-2007, 05:04 PM
So what would you be, the cabana boy? This is a seriously focused group of females that are going "hunting in a pack. Smart guys stand back and keep the ball gag in the mouth.

No one is going hunting. Quit applying your penis to your brain Sitri. :P (I'm giving you a hard time, don't take personally.)

We don't need to hunt. The buffet is laid out before us. All we have to do is choose; meat or fish, perhaps a little of both? }:D

Dottie Rebel
11-25-2007, 05:07 PM
^^But, but...I'm a vagitarian!

Katrine
11-25-2007, 05:17 PM
^^But, but...I'm a vagitarian!

The fish is really made of tofu.
http://www.c-company.net/FishTofu.gif

Dottie Rebel
11-25-2007, 05:30 PM
I'll be there, with two hotties in tow.

NinaDaisy
11-25-2007, 05:55 PM
You guys are being mean. I would think it would be cool for you to have a few of the boys from here to fan you, fetch drinks and rub lotion on your backs.

I'm curious to see how this event shakes out. Kat has worked hard to organize it so hopefully it's not another one of those events where fifty people promise to come but only two actually show up. Now, if only I could get Kat to commit to share the gory details if it does turn out to be successful. She already told me in blue that no details would be forthcoming but hell, maybe I can convince a regular from this side to ask }:D

FBR

A few boys, yes. We're not being mean, just careful.

I think we'll get a pretty decent turnout. It seems like a good group of chicks is interested in coming, and based on past SF events I have every reason to believe the worst-case scenario won't come into fruition.

You know it's not a question of getting drinks and definitely not rubbing lotion on us! }:D The fact is, most guys get really stupid around hot chicks. That tends to go up by a factor of ten if they're scantily clad and the numbers get logarithmic if some of those chicks are playing together, or at the very least the guys imagine the intention or mere possibility.

These are indisputable facts. :P The majority of the women on this board have earned a living (in many cases quite a nice one) from these basic principles! Word.

Katrine
11-25-2007, 05:57 PM
[QUOTE=FBR;1299099]
I'm curious to see how this event shakes out. Kat has worked hard to organize it/QUOTE]

Really? You think so? I havn't really done anything except start a Yahoo group and lure in the ladies with tales of vagina-smelling hair. 8)

NinaDaisy
11-25-2007, 06:23 PM
Nina I was being sarcastic which I'm sure you know. I think it would be cool if the event is successful and even though Kat swears what happens at Hedon stays at Hedon, I know some of the details would leak eventually }:D

But back to the comment about a few boys attending, I think only inviting guys that haven't expressed an interest is kinda lame. The guys asking for an invite would be perfect for fetching drinks, fanning you and rubbing lotion on your backs. And I don't see a safety issue with those guys. OTOH I can't see Djoser doing that or AinNY. Or TOO. He might be willing to kick in some of the costs, though ;) . So really, I think you should reconsider the PL ban. Assuming the number of female attendees you expect you have safety in numbers. The boys would be way too cowed to try for any hanky panky unless you guys invited it.

FBr

But of course... ;)

I'm guessing that perhaps we should put it to a vote in terms of a few men that we'd feel comfortable attending.

From the attendee list on the Yahoo Group, it seems that basically all the women that are signing up are pretty smart and know what's up.

So without splitting hairs, perhaps put to a vote which men get to come along and under what conditions? Just a thought. No worries if other people don't think it's the best idea. Trying to balance being careful along with inclusion of people we know and like.

Dottie Rebel
11-25-2007, 06:25 PM
I don't think it's a PL ban as much as it is a strangers ban.

Did anyone ever say we weren't inviting guys who had expressed interest? I don't think that's the case! I think some female members were just a little irked to find their pm boxes filling up with groveling requests from BigTool4U and LapDaddy19 with 2 posts between them.

As a final point, I think the fact that neither Djoser, AinNY nor TOO would be fetching drinks and rubbing lotion may be some indication as to the reason why they've been given top secret clearance. ;)

Bridgette
11-25-2007, 08:52 PM
K, Djoser has never expressed interest in coming, but AinNY did and that is how he got his invite. So don't go complaining we're only inviting guys who don't wanna go (although if we WERE doing that, it should indicate how we feel about taking men along - you know that saying about taking sand to the beach). And I happen to think Djoser would love to go if he could get over feeling like he'd be imposing, even though we've clearly said we're happy to have him. DJoser is clearly more than just a DJ to us - there are other DJs on this board and they have NOT been invited...

Seconding Dottie's comments about WHY those guys are invited. It's the fact they WON'T play cabana boys or stand around with a bottle of lotion trying to grope us all ::) but moreso the fact we know they won't act like dumbasses AND we know they're fun to hang with. Maybe a couple PLs would behave, but who wants PLs around on vacation?? PLs belong in one place and one place only: in the club giving us money. Nuff said.

So yeah, I'm flatly saying that I don't want any PLs around on this one. I have never felt that way about other events (only exclude penii so the girls who are leary of having them around will feel comfy), but this one is quite different.

And I thought Zabrina said it quite perfectly a few posts ago: We don't want the PLs there cockblocking.

Alaska
11-25-2007, 08:55 PM
I'm gonna have to start a ticker about "$$ saved up for Hedonism" starting when I get back here (and start at $0 again) in January.....can't say for sure right about now.

Bridgette
11-25-2007, 10:18 PM
Well, I'm sure if you'd been willing and able to put up with literally 1000s of PLs trying to get too much from you for too little, and make them pay anyway, for 12+ years you could've retired at 34 too. LOL ;D

Course the fact I'm single with no kids to support makes a huge difference. Also I'm more than happy to live in western PR where the beaches are beautiful and the cost of living is low. If I had the same needs in life as most people, I couldn't afford to retire now. I'm sure I'll still dance occasionally when I feel like or want some extra travel money or whatever. Don't think I'm quite ready to completely give it up yet. I mean hell, I've got some fab new 32Fs to show off!! LOL





ETA: I just realized that in that 2nd paragraph I totally took a really serious topic that's completely unrelated to sex and turned it to something sexual and fun with a smooth transition even. And that my friends is why the PLs pay me the big bucks. Lmfao! I crack myself up!! hahaha

Bridgette
11-25-2007, 10:44 PM
I am not multi-orgasmic, not even for money ;D With me it's just one really huge one that leaves me about ready to pass out. But I thought you said you weren't provoked? ;D ;D

And yeah, if I were in your position I would've already sold and been wiling away my days on a gorgeous beach. Absolutely no question. Work is a means to an end for me, not a way of life. I worked hard to get to this point and I'll be damned if I'm not gonna take full advantage of it. Never did understand people who work their whole lives away accumulating more and more money and stuff that they never get to fully enjoy and their kids piss away. What's the point in that?

Alaska
11-25-2007, 10:52 PM
I am not multi-orgasmic, not even for money ;D With me it's just one really huge one that leaves me about ready to pass out. But I thought you said you weren't provoked? ;D ;D



One huge one every 15 minutes or that's just wen yr showin off?}:D

Multi-orgasmic meaning one right after the other, or several times in a row with gaps in b/t?


FBR is soooooo mad he can't go that he has to tell us about his money and wife's O's....love it!!

Alaska
11-25-2007, 10:59 PM
Geez, I forgot the "P.S. Congratufuckinglations, Bridgette!" part.

How many ppl are more or less "officially" going at this point?

Alaska
11-25-2007, 11:00 PM
I know, that is offensive.

FBR


What's yr deal old man?

:rotfl: glad to see TOO is the standard. (not laughing @ TOO, it was just how you said it.)}:D

Alaska
11-25-2007, 11:17 PM
Okay, I'll be offended by a mistress so I don't overstep mod bounds! I sorry!


/spamming it up

Alaska
11-25-2007, 11:36 PM
^^shoot. Why's this just not in LO in the first place? For all the "special men" that's what PM's r 4.

Dottie Rebel
11-25-2007, 11:47 PM
Is that what you have to do when someone disagrees? Attack their "class"?

Attack their class *while* mentioning how much money you have.

For the record, the analogy does not hold for me. I am not against men going to this event because they aren't hot enough, cool enough or anything-enough. I'd just rather not feel like I am entertaining a bunch of customers while I'm supposed to be off work relaxing, which means only invite known guys. Cool, hot...I couldn't possibly care less. It's not akin to men cherry-picking the hottest women and telling the rest to piss off.

Alaska
11-25-2007, 11:57 PM
Alright Katrine, I joined the Yahoo and hope I did that correctly. My email starts with "JerseyFresh...." just in case.

NinaDaisy
11-26-2007, 12:17 AM
Butt-hurt...heh heh. I just recently heard that term for the first time a couple of weeks ago and love it now.

But I digress...I'm surprised there would be an issue with TOO coming because several of us have met him and of course Nicolina is an SW chick. And BTW, it wasn't me who invited TOO.

In general, the whole thing sounds like something of a misunderstanding.

Has anyone given any thought to my suggestion to voting on if certain guys get to come along or not?

And I fully agree with Dottie's assessment and Bridgette's agreement of not wanting to feel like we have to "entertain". This is a vacation!

However, with the "trusted males" most of us are thinking of, it would in almost all certainty be very chill.

FBR can go fap in a corner somewhere. :P

Bridgette
11-26-2007, 12:26 AM
Has anyone given any thought to my suggestion to voting on if certain guys get to come along or not?We've pretty much been doing that. Someone suggests someone, and others agree or not. It seems most of us have already said we don't want customers around so other than the two who've already been invited, seems that wouldn't leave too many other possibilities.


And then there's the fact there will be some other males, SOs as Alaska mentioned. I really think SOs, Djoser and AinNy are enough. We wanna keep the numbers in our favor. I personally don't want to invite any other dudes. I would not have a problem with TOO and Nic but that's all I'll agree to.

NinaDaisy
11-26-2007, 12:31 AM
We've pretty much been doing that. Someone suggests someone, and others agree or not. It seems most of us have already said we don't want customers around so other than the two who've already been invited, seems that wouldn't leave too many other possibilities.


And then there's the fact there will be some other males, SOs as Alaska mentioned. I really think SOs, Djoser and AinNy are enough. We wanna keep the numbers in our favor. I personally don't want to invite any other dudes. I would not have a problem with TOO and Nic but that's all I'll agree to.

I just went to the Yahoo group after posting my suggestion. Oops. :-[

I gather we've come to a consensus on this then...excellent.

Shit, if things keep going well over the next few months, I might bring a Euro-hottie with me! :P

VenusGoddess
11-26-2007, 07:48 AM
Never mind.

Alaska
11-26-2007, 08:51 AM
Oh well. No one cares.

Ya'll have done a good enough job making us pay you attention in lieu of paying you attention in Jamaica.

Now let's move on!

(lol we keep saying that but can't seem to help ourselves)

Jenny
11-26-2007, 08:55 AM
We don't know most of you, and rather than risk having a bad time at OUR parties, we prefer to limit the invites because if we open it up, we'd wind up getting flooded with all kinds of shitheads who would ruin it for everyone, including the men who would be cool.
I will actually go out and say that I would not be cool with any men. At all. Guys here are all here in a role that I... you know, work with. I would not be looking to be at work if I were lucky enough to be available for a SF. Similarly, of course, I don't really feel that I'm in a position to make demands of everyone on the trip. So my position on the SF I was going to attend was "Let me know if/when you are planning LO events, and I will try to make those." Not - make it Ladies Only because I think I should be able to dictate the terms of field trips. I confess the attitude of some guys "excluding men is completely unacceptable" and "please make your plans in accordance to what I would like" is completely bizarre to me. Just the degree of self-entitlement is mind blowing.


Finally, I feel it necessary to point out that there's a reason we started making all our parties mostly LO after the Vegas 06 fest. Nuff said.
Well yes. Because at some point it becomes obvious that a whole whackload of guys want to go, the number of women shrinks, and the guys on this website wind up comprising half the party (and they do not represent half the website). And we notice - it's not like guys are arranging field trips amongst themselves. So it's not each other ya'all are dying to meet.

Katrine
11-26-2007, 09:16 AM
I will actually go out and say that I would not be cool with any men. At all.

That's because you are a man-hating feminazi misanthrope Jenny. C'mon, accept the warm, uninvited cock into your warm orifices. You know you want it. :P

Jenny
11-26-2007, 09:18 AM
That's because you are a man-hating feminazi misanthrope Jenny. C'mon, accept the warm, uninvited cock into your warm orifices. You know you want it. :P
Okay you KNOW you're just making that sound better than it is.

Alaska
11-26-2007, 09:21 AM
This should go as an example of why women should check LO more often! lol Katrine I can see yr point about the lounge. Hope many more cool chicks come bc of it, to make up for all this crap and nonsense.




I love the suave writing skills Stuart. "lest I be confused." very good! ha.

Alaska
11-26-2007, 09:23 AM
Yea I PM'd instead of saying it on here (trying SO hard not to spam, heh) .....it's not weird that you invited TOO/Nicolina way back when.

Bridgette
11-26-2007, 09:29 AM
Well, speaking entirely for myself, the main reason for going LO after Vegas 06 was that, after all the hoopla and build-up for the party, we wound up having more guys than girls in attendance, and the overriding reason for that was so many girls didn't want to go because of the male presence. We had fun but it would've been a whole lot MORE fun if we'd had more girls. I decided that from then on if I planned anything it would be LO or with certain guys only, to get more girls to show up.

But we also had random dudes joining the site specifically to invite themselves along (and who weren't given party details), and male members who barely post trying it too. That made all of us girls uncomfortable. None of us wants a bunch of random dudes coming to ogle and harass us - we attract enough of that just being in public, don't need to bring more of it with us!

It was that party that made it painfully obvious to me and others that we needed to restrict attendance.



I apologize to Stuart for the confusion. But you certainly had nothing to do with all this debate and it seems a lil self-indulgent to think otherwise. LOL! And to get your panties all twisted over it is just ridiculous. Of course you and all males who want to hang out here are welcome and always have been. That's different. Obviously we expect the boys to behave appropriately, since this site is mainly for us strippers and we are mostly women. Nothing unreasonable about that.



Katrine. You know I had no problem with TOO and Nic being invited and I doubt any other attendee would disagree. Obviously. My whole issue with that was really the way TOO presented it as "his" invite, etc. Rest already been said.



Obviously lots of guys are gonna piss all over themselves to come to any party we plan. Goes along with them hanging out on a forum for strippers in the first place. I just don't get where the disconnect is between wanting to come and understanding why we simply cannot open invites to every dude who wants to go, and being an adult who accepts that for what it is.

NinaDaisy
11-26-2007, 09:31 AM
I had about 4 additional requests from males that were NOT ainy, TOO, etc. All of them said the exact same thing, "I have no intention of going, I just want an invite for the fuck of it." That is utter disrespect in my book. This isn't some super-secret stripper VIP party that only the coolest of the cool penii get invited to. Its a vacation that we need to plan. This would involve divulging personal information. Message boards are anonymous, private groups are not.

WTF kind of lame-ass bullshit is that? Jesus, get a life already! You want to be invited but you have no intention of going? Who the hell are these douches?

You're absolutely right it's a sign of disrespect. This is a vacation for us where, as how any vacation should be, we wanna have fun and cut loose without being self-conscious in the least.

Alaska
11-26-2007, 09:44 AM
jeezgod this has got me cracking up so hard! "it's not really humorous" :rotfl:

Bridgette you said that last part so beautiful I just want to get in yr pants already...

I feel extremely happy I'm going to Jamaica and am going to meditate on that positive thought to try to stop laughing so damn hard.

NinaDaisy
11-26-2007, 09:58 AM
Butt-hurt is the new black.

This thread is epic.

Alaska
11-26-2007, 10:21 AM
w00t!!! more guys 'spressin themselves! Loves it. I love "BFD" never heard that before, so thanks!

VenusGoddess
11-26-2007, 12:11 PM
Katrine, I have no intention of going on this trip...but could you add me to the Yahoo group?? ;D

I just want to get y'alls cell phone numbers and text message you some "dirty little secrets"....bwahahahaha.

I hope you all have a wonderful time in Jamaica.

NinaDaisy
11-26-2007, 06:52 PM
http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2172/2067616834_1ef438c3d0.jpg

Susan Wayward
11-26-2007, 07:05 PM
hilarious image
http://www.qis.net/~jschmitz/lj/butthurt3.jpg

NinaDaisy
11-26-2007, 08:25 PM
I've created the official logo for Stripperfest Hedonism:

http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2017/2067841064_2a6a8b0d48.jpg

Hope y'all like...

Ok, back to my writing homework now. Fuck.

Katrine
11-26-2007, 08:51 PM
hahahahahahaha. Love it!

Mily
11-26-2007, 09:01 PM
Wow, this thread has been highly entertaining, LOL! I won't be able to make it (no surprise on that one *sigh*)... but I hope everyone has a great time! Use lotsa protection and take lotsa pics. }:D

NinaDaisy
11-26-2007, 09:11 PM
Use lotsa protection and take lotsa pics. }:D

Speaking of lotsa, who's bringing the lube?

We might have to start a poll in the Yahoo group to see who the sacrificial lamb is who has to load up a massive suitcase with gallons of lube to check in. :eye-poppi

Personally, I'm quite partial to Astroglide Warming. Or, as Mr. Dottie Rebel calls it: "Magic Juice".