cameron_keys
11-26-2007, 03:12 PM
I don't know how you guys can do it, I really can't, perhaps being so secure in yourselves helps? I'm a jealous woman, I frequent SC with my hubby and get him dances and I am ok with that but if he calls me and says his boss and him are at a SC without me, I don't like it, first wth man and second cause oh who knows.
Point is we goof about it "uhh she's hot, uhh he's hot" and so on but there is just no way I could handle him touching another person. I remember once in PR we went out with my sister. WE met up with some of her friends and we were all having a great time. Now it was like 4 am and everyone was hungry so we stopped at this joint and one of my sisters friends was really excited about being off of work and was very nice, then she got too nice. She kept putting her hands on Brian's shoulders :deep breath: so I told my sister "Marie can you tell your little friend to keep her hands to herself?" Marie was like "oh boy" so she distracted her friend a while, then Brian turned on a smoke and this girl got real close to Brian and put her arm on his shoulder and said "can I have a drag?"
Brian gave her his cigarette and when she went to give it back I took it from her hand and tossed in on the floor and said "what are freaking nuts I don't know this chick and what kind of diseases she has" her face changed and my sister said "Well look at the time!WE got to go"
IF I can't handle that, oh man no way I could handle anything else lol
Well it certainly isnt for everyone. Everyone ....in OR out of the lifestyle has their own boundries. And thats for each personand cpl to determine themselves. For some monogomy is what they want...for other sexual freedom is cool, but not emotional..for others, full on polygamy is what makes them happy.
THe important thing is..we shouldnt judge..nobody is better or worse for their choices. I"m not a whore for liking sex with people other then my husband and someone else isnt a prude for not wanting that. Its all a matter of what your comfort zone is and what makes you happy. Consenting adults making their own choices and all that...
Point is we goof about it "uhh she's hot, uhh he's hot" and so on but there is just no way I could handle him touching another person. I remember once in PR we went out with my sister. WE met up with some of her friends and we were all having a great time. Now it was like 4 am and everyone was hungry so we stopped at this joint and one of my sisters friends was really excited about being off of work and was very nice, then she got too nice. She kept putting her hands on Brian's shoulders :deep breath: so I told my sister "Marie can you tell your little friend to keep her hands to herself?" Marie was like "oh boy" so she distracted her friend a while, then Brian turned on a smoke and this girl got real close to Brian and put her arm on his shoulder and said "can I have a drag?"
Brian gave her his cigarette and when she went to give it back I took it from her hand and tossed in on the floor and said "what are freaking nuts I don't know this chick and what kind of diseases she has" her face changed and my sister said "Well look at the time!WE got to go"
IF I can't handle that, oh man no way I could handle anything else lol
Well it certainly isnt for everyone. Everyone ....in OR out of the lifestyle has their own boundries. And thats for each personand cpl to determine themselves. For some monogomy is what they want...for other sexual freedom is cool, but not emotional..for others, full on polygamy is what makes them happy.
THe important thing is..we shouldnt judge..nobody is better or worse for their choices. I"m not a whore for liking sex with people other then my husband and someone else isnt a prude for not wanting that. Its all a matter of what your comfort zone is and what makes you happy. Consenting adults making their own choices and all that...