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big_daddy
11-28-2007, 09:24 PM
I sit and pee all the damn time what the hell is wrong with it???

Toki
11-28-2007, 09:41 PM
Who cares how a guy pees? I don't want to see it. He could be dancing on the toilet for all I care, as long as he doesn't leave a mess.

GentlemanX
11-28-2007, 10:31 PM
Seeing a girl pee is a major turn-off. I would assume the same is true when a girl sees a guy pee.

lestat1
11-28-2007, 10:34 PM
I never answered the OP. Early in the morning or late at night, or when othewise very tired, I sit. Or, if things are slow at work and I'm bored with nothing to do, I'll sit in the stall to pee and space out for 10 minutes or so. :D

FrustratedBunny
11-28-2007, 10:38 PM
I didn't know that many guys sit to pee. But then usually if I see a guy pee it's because he's doing it in public off in bush or something, and no sitting there. When I've lived with guys I never saw them sit to pee but I never tried to watch much either. I do know that I seriously don't want to see or be around a guy sitting to take a DUMP though. Seirously, that should be done with the door closed.

head turner
11-29-2007, 03:30 AM
Unless someone has a huge problem standing up to pee, I have a serious problem with a man sitting on a toliet out of lazyness.

Sitting down on a toliet is a feminine thing, not a manly thing. Seriously.

If i was dating a guy that was doing it I would turned off by it. Wouldn't leave him for it but would be weird about it.



But on another note, If he did sit down and pee jhe should just not tell me or pee in front of me. I don't want to watch another man pee anyway.


Would you men be ok with your girl peeing standing up?

Mastridonicus
11-29-2007, 03:54 AM
Would you men be ok with your girl peeing standing up?

Whatever makes you more comfortable is fine.

My only cause for concern is there was an obvious change in appearance/distress from when you went in, from when you come out.

RoseLeigh
11-29-2007, 07:13 AM
I'm so confused on how sitting down to pee is lazy? We don't expect men to go out and kill some meat for us (generally) instead of popping out to get take out, because it's less manly. They don't get mad at us (again generally) for buying them a sweater, instead of weaving it on our own loom or something, because it's not womanly. What a little thing to base manliness on.

buffie06
11-29-2007, 07:27 AM
seriously? this is what you spend your time worrying/wondering about?

Will
11-29-2007, 08:14 AM
Sorry Will I had to do it..... :)

You were mean to me and now I am sad...:'(


but to the main point of you and I think EE was heading this direction...I think the women who complained about this are not giving us the whole story, is this is just one escape to show how the relationship really is. If your in a good relationship, or normal, I think it has no bearing....find something so trivial to pick on is more of an indication of the relationship as a whole, then just a minor pet peeve.

I think you make legit points there, but I was surprised by how this had becomes a repeating theme on the call ins for the week, and I can see why some women might find that a major turn off…. Now to set the record straight here.

(1) anyone women who breaks up with a man because he pees sitting down, assuming everything else is great about the guy, is a moron. I also agree with many of you about some women in general: they have no idea how good they have it, bitch about every tiny thing, and then can’t figure out whey they are alone. M ex wife was like that, so I had to fire her. She really had nothing to bitch about, yet always did. Her GFs, sister, and mother used to tell her to shut the fu*& she had it so good, but she was never happy, like so many women I find. Of course it’s because they are not happy with themselves, but that’s another issue…

(2) I don’t really care if a man pees sitting down. I judge character by a much larger margin than that. Will think you are perhaps lacking some testosterone for doing it? Yes I will, sorry, that’s how I feel about it. Must be showing my age, but any of you can see from my many posts, I am not some conservative guy by any means or closed minded, but dude, stand up and pee like a man. If you are my friend and or judge to be of good character and of good heart, I don’t care of you pee hanging upside down, but I will think you are missing a few cards from your deck.

Will
11-29-2007, 08:20 AM
What's the larger issue you're driving at? That sounds like a meatier thread! :hyper:

Oh man, you realize what ever I say here is only going to dig me in deeper right? I’m only going to say that there is a big difference between a Renaissance Man and metro sexual type. I think men today have lost much of what it means to be a man, and no, it has nothing to do with machismo BS, sports, being a tough guy, or anything like that, and I see this sitting down to pee thing as (possibly!) part of that larger picture to that, so I was curious as to how common that was and how SW members would view it.

RoseLeigh
11-29-2007, 10:15 AM
Oh man, you realize what ever I say here is only going to dig me in deeper right? I’m only going to say that there is a big difference between a Renaissance Man and metro sexual type.

Like painting the Mona Lisa and designing flying machines? I'll take a Renaissance man, but I don't want to know how he pees.


I think men today have lost much of what it means to be a man, and no, it has nothing to do with machismo BS, sports, being a tough guy, or anything like that, and I see this sitting down to pee thing as (possibly!) part of that larger picture to that, so I was curious as to how common that was and how SW members would view it.

I think what it means to be a man has changed so much over centuries-there is no set standard for this other than societal norms. In the 17th century, men wore tights and carried hankies. In the 18th promiscuity in men was considered effeminate. In classical times it was all about philosophy, leaving the wifey at home at all times and exercising in the nakey.

I have no idea how they peed, but I bet if you took men from a few previous centuries à la Bill & Ted's Excellent Adventure they'd be horrified at our conditions of maleness. I'm not saying they're right or wrong, but that they're a result of our society, not testosterone.

Will
11-29-2007, 10:20 AM
Like painting the Mona Lisa and designing flying machines? I'll take a Renaissance man, but I don't want to know how he pees.

Standing up :P

yoda57us
11-29-2007, 11:07 AM
There is nothing wrong with men who sit down to pee, I do it myself at times. The problem is with anyone, male or female, who somehow thinks it is wrong or indicative of some sort of social dysfunction. I mean really, don't these people have anything more substantial to worry about?

Toki
11-29-2007, 12:46 PM
I've never heard a girl care much about it.

I do know a girl who dumped a guy because he said "cock" during sex instead of "dick." It was her first time with a white guy and she is a bit of a ghetto chick from back home. He said something like "take that cock baby" and she asked him to stop and left.
:rotfl:

Sand
11-29-2007, 12:51 PM
Why is cock offensive ?

VenusGoddess
11-29-2007, 12:55 PM
There is nothing wrong with men who sit down to pee, I do it myself at times. The problem is with anyone, male or female, who somehow thinks it is wrong or indicative of some sort of social dysfunction. I mean really, don't these people have anything more substantial to worry about?

Totally agreed. ;)

I agree with RoseLeigh, as well.

I think, personally, men who worry about how men pee are actually displaying more female traits, anyways. I mean, what "real" man would care how someone peed? That's like women getting together and talking about how someone put on their make-up...but we certainly don't stand around and ask about how each other pees. ::)

MinahSky
11-29-2007, 01:08 PM
I must be man because I can and do pee standing up (well, squating isn't sitting). You can bet that I have learned to do that rather than sit my pristine behind on a dirty *ss toilet that doesn't have sufficient toilet paper for me to line the seat and wipe with or the seat protectors. Not only that, if I had to wait to pee and can't wait to line the seat I just pee squating over the seat.

A male who isn't a man hits women and children, doesn't support or protect his family or take care of his children while the woman works and strays from his vows. A real man can pee any way he wants.

zxcire
11-29-2007, 01:15 PM
I HATE girl squatters!!! Damn if you guys would just SIT DOWN, there wouldn't be pee all over the toilet seats to begin with!!!!!


It's a vicious cycle.

francescadubois
11-29-2007, 01:25 PM
Why is cock offensive ?

It's not. The girl was just a dumbass.

MinahSky
11-29-2007, 01:25 PM
I am not going to make myself sick on a toilet that is not clean like mine at home is to make someone else happy. It's not like a peach you drop on the ground, rub on your shirt and kiss up to God. Its your ASS and VAJAYJAY (if you don't sit down right and it catches the side of the seat) that you can get sick from plopping it on any old toilet.

LadySoft
11-29-2007, 01:28 PM
Geez, continuing the “what wrong with men today” thread I want to add my own peeve here and from a male perspective. Every morning I wake up to Kiss 108 radio in Boston, which has your regular “morning” program with calls in and all that. People call in and bitch. 90% of the time it’s women. Anyway, one complaint I have heard now on this show from women is they are dating men/with men who sit down when they pee. Excuse me??? I have heard that like 3 times or so in the last week, and these women mentioned how much of a turn off it is. One said she told the dude to stop it as she found it a major turn off, he didn’t, so she was breaking up with him. Is this is common thing now?

Have men really degenerated into such complete pansies they now sit down to pee???? Are you kidding me???

Let me be clear here, I am no macho manly man by any means, I like all manner of ‘non manly’ things and really don’t care much about what society considers “manly” but this is ridiculous. Any of you ladies ever experience this?

If you are one of these “men” and I use the term loosely here, for God’s sake, stand up, turn around, and pee like…well…a man!

Say you had to take a shit and you are sitting on the toilet taking a shit. A few seconds later, you feel the need to piss. As a man, do you:

a) stand up and piss and then sit back on the toilet continue shitting, otherwise you'll be breaking the rule of being a man by sitting pissing, or
b) sit there and piss. afterall they'll both end up in the same place regardless of what teahnique thats used to deliver.

some women are so stupid...

francescadubois
11-29-2007, 01:28 PM
I am not going to make myself sick on a toilet that is not clean like mine at home is to make someone else happy. It's not like a peach you drop on the ground, rub on your shirt and kiss up to God. Its your ASS and VAJAYJAY (if you don't sit down right and it catches the side of the seat) that you can get sick from plopping it on any old toilet.

Hello!!

Glamazon
11-29-2007, 01:34 PM
I HATE girl squatters!!! Damn if you guys would just SIT DOWN, there wouldn't be pee all over the toilet seats to begin with!!!!!


It's a vicious cycle.


THANK YOU for saying what I was thinking!!

That, however, is a whole other thread!

Glamazon
11-29-2007, 01:36 PM
I am not going to make myself sick on a toilet that is not clean like mine at home is to make someone else happy. It's not like a peach you drop on the ground, rub on your shirt and kiss up to God. Its your ASS and VAJAYJAY (if you don't sit down right and it catches the side of the seat) that you can get sick from plopping it on any old toilet.


Sorry, but you'd have to be really clumsy to catch your ass or pussy on the toilet seat when you go to sit...

To get sick from a toliet seat, you would have to come in contact with harmful bacteria with either (a) your vagina, (b) your butthole, or (c) any open sores on the body parts that are touching the toilet seat.

francescadubois
11-29-2007, 01:42 PM
Yeah, but like the sign said at my church:

"If you sprinkle, while you tinkle, be a sweetie and wipe the seatie" :D

I don't think there is anything wrong with squatting at all, just wipe up if you do. No harm, no foul. I ALWAYS wipe up. It's a karma thing.

Glamazon
11-29-2007, 01:57 PM
Yeah, but like the sign said at my church:

"If you sprinkle, while you tinkle, be a sweetie and wipe the seatie" :D

I don't think there is anything wrong with squatting at all, just wipe up if you do. No harm, no foul. I ALWAYS wipe up. It's a karma thing.

You're a good woman.

jasmine
11-29-2007, 02:01 PM
Standing to pee just weirds me out. If there is a medical issue fine. Beyond that it's creepy. Hell, my 3yr old stands to pee, so surely most adults can manage.

This metro-sexual, pretty boy stuff has got to go. Men need to be men. Not prissy little chatty cathy's.

MinahSky
11-29-2007, 02:02 PM
Sorry, but you'd have to be really clumsy to catch your ass or pussy on the toilet seat when you go to sit...

To get sick from a toliet seat, you would have to come in contact with harmful bacteria with either (a) your vagina, (b) your butthole, or (c) any open sores on the body parts that are touching the toilet seat.

You can scratch your skin and not even know it, especially with acrylics. If the seat is lifted and lowered, it can get lose and it can move. I doubt I am the only one this has happened to.

The point is that I am not taking a chance to make someone else happy. I am not putting down what you do, I just do me.



This "men have to men" bull is exactly why some men think they have the right to smack women around...The whole "women need to know their place BS".

zxcire
11-29-2007, 02:46 PM
You can scratch your skin and not even know it, especially with acrylics. If the seat is lifted and lowered, it can get lose and it can move. I doubt I am the only one this has happened to.

The point is that I am not taking a chance to make someone else happy. I am not putting down what you do, I just do me.



This "men have to men" bull is exactly why some men think they have the right to smack women around...The whole "women need to know their place BS".

This is all fine and dandy. The big question is: Do you wipe the seat after you have squatted and possibly peed all over it?

THAT is the real problem.

Miaowren
11-29-2007, 03:33 PM
Don't ask but it is a fact that if men sit when they pee amazingly enough my fucking floor stays clean...

So if you don't feel like a man unless you piss on the floor... good for you I guess? You do realize you are known as 'that guy that always pees on the floor' though, yeah?

TheSexKitten
11-29-2007, 03:42 PM
Honestly, a guy can pee any way he wants. That would be like some dude breaking up with me because I don't wear enough dresses or weep while watching Lifetime movies.

Dottie Rebel
11-29-2007, 03:48 PM
This metro-sexual, pretty boy stuff has got to go. Men need to be men. Not prissy little chatty cathy's.

How does sitting to pee make one a "chatty cathy"? A gossip thread about other people's bathroom habits seems way chattier cathy to me, personally.

ExoticEngineer
11-29-2007, 03:59 PM
Say you had to take a shit and you are sitting on the toilet taking a shit. A few seconds later, you feel the need to piss. As a man, do you:

a) stand up and piss and then sit back on the toilet continue shitting, otherwise you'll be breaking the rule of being a man by sitting pissing, or
b) sit there and piss. afterall they'll both end up in the same place regardless of what teahnique thats used to deliver.

some women are so stupid...

A good point. So you say it's okay to pee sitting if you're doing while taking a crap? So does that mean for that split second it's okay to be feminine because something is coming out of your butt at the same time? Interesting!

This thread has me absolutely cracking up!

Why do guys stand to pee? Because they CAN. Women would too if we could get away with it (some of us can!;)) but I would dare any dude to tell me I'm manly. It's so funny how guys (and girls I guess) will restrict themselves from doing things they enjoy or make life easier, even while in private, because someone once told them that's not how guys are supposed to do it.

Hey, how about nipples? I love a guy who has sensitive nipples. I think that's the hottest thing ever! I'f I can be having sex with someone and playing with his nipples at the same time, I go nuts! But....that's not very manly now is it? ;) Better not do that either.

greenidlady1
11-29-2007, 04:11 PM
Honestly, I could care less how they take a wiz. There are much more important traits to me in a person.

I do like a masculine man but I appreciate a tender heart and intelligent, open mind. I can't stand to hear a man or woman, for that matter, hack up mucus and spit. I understand it has to come up but please leave it in the rest room. I also don't understand why men think spitting and cussing every breath they draw might make them more like a man. Most men don't like to hear a woman curse constantly so why should we enjoy hearing it just the same. I do curse myself from time to time but I don't use fuck in every sentence I make. I mean I do have more than 5 words in my vocabulary.

BrunetteGoddess
11-29-2007, 09:16 PM
Standing to pee just weirds me out. If there is a medical issue fine. Beyond that it's creepy. Hell, my 3yr old stands to pee, so surely most adults can manage.

This metro-sexual, pretty boy stuff has got to go. Men need to be men. Not prissy little chatty cathy's.

You know what? That's effing rude.

I admit I have very accidentally walked past my dad sitting down to pee because he left the door open.

And my father is nowhere near a metrosexual.

To suggest this is a pansy act is laughable. Who are you to say what's manly and what's not? You're not a man, and any real man doesn't base his manly merit on such trivial things.

xdamage
11-29-2007, 09:24 PM
Hmm, I like this thread. It reminds me that humans can trip out over pretty much anything, even go so far as to completely toss another human's worth aside over something small. It wasn't that long ago we had the thread from the guy who had a problem with his GF because her bush wasn't shaved off. I loved that thread too because it was fun to watch the range of comments from you go dude, to how can you be so petty.

All I really hope is that anyone that called that guy petty, is not here demonstrating the same pettiness. I don't have any patience or interest to look it up, but people should know who they are if they are being inconsistent.

FrustratedBunny
11-29-2007, 10:16 PM
I HATE girl squatters!!! Damn if you guys would just SIT DOWN, there wouldn't be pee all over the toilet seats to begin with!!!!!


It's a vicious cycle.

I don't care if girls don't sit to pee as long as they wipe it up after. I CANNOT squat and pee and I hate to have to wipe up other people's urine.

And btw, I'm 35 years old and have peed in multiple public bathrooms sitting and have NEVER had a health issue from it.

BrunetteGoddess
11-29-2007, 10:59 PM
^^ Yep, me neither.

That also goes hand in hand with the whole " won't poo in public restrooms." Obviously I can't hover to poo, so I gotta sit anyways, so I might as well sit at all times. I don't get how people can go their whole lives without pooing in public restrooms; I always seem to get hit with the urge right in the middle of a store without fail, and you bet your ass I won't drive all the way home, waste gas, and possibly have an 'accident' because I wouldn't go poo in public.

MinahSky
11-29-2007, 11:12 PM
This is all fine and dandy. The big question is: Do you wipe the seat after you have squatted and possibly peed all over it?

THAT is the real problem.

I've been squatting and pissing for years. I don't pee all over seats. But to answer your question, I do out of deference for the next person (and my home training) clean the toilet. I certainly don't like walking into a stank up to be damned toilet and I certainly won't leave it anywhere near that way for the next person.

Homeless people use public restrooms to wash themselves up in and junkies use them to shoot up in among other things. Sit if you like...

Will
11-30-2007, 08:59 AM
Sit if you like...

I have created a monster with this thread! :O}:D:O

jasmine
11-30-2007, 01:06 PM
You know what? That's effing rude.

I admit I have very accidentally walked past my dad sitting down to pee because he left the door open.

And my father is nowhere near a metrosexual.

To suggest this is a pansy act is laughable. Who are you to say what's manly and what's not? You're not a man, and any real man doesn't base his manly merit on such trivial things.

I didn't mean to piss anyone off. I just think that this is a symptom of a major change among men in this country. (I'm sure some men who do sit and pee are fine.) I guess since I'm a dom by nature I like a man that can stand up to me (without being an abusive or controlling asshole) and not get led around by the nose. I had no idea you knew anyone who did this. Hell, I wouldn't even know how my own hubby pees if we hadn't just got through teaching my 3 yr old how to stand and pee.

The chatty cathy comment was made because half the men I dated while single were these damn "We need to talk." guys. I've heard that overly dramatic line over stupid shit, like they needed help studing for a final, but had to drop that bomb first, thereby giving me a major hit of adrenaline and the urge to run like hell. Many guys these days seem to want to discuss there feelings, or hold each other while sleeping, real girl stuff that annoys the hell outta me and I had always been led to believe men weren't into.

EDIT: I guess I feel more comfortable around a manly guy because I don't have to explain why I'm not crying at the end of Titanic (this happened and I got called heartless by my then bf who teared up), or why I don't want them to call me 3-4 times a day unless there is a medical emergency, or why horror flicks usually make me laugh. They get this about me without making me feel like I'm somehow less of a women because I love classic cars and politics and football and a bunch of other "guy" crap.

zxcire
11-30-2007, 01:12 PM
Homeless people use public restrooms to wash themselves up in and junkies use them to shoot up in among other things. Sit if you like...

Thank you. I will.

Will
11-30-2007, 01:34 PM
They get this about me without making me feel like I'm somehow less of a women because I love classic cars and politics and football and a bunch of other "guy" crap.

Well damn, you're a tougher man than I am! :O

jasmine
11-30-2007, 02:44 PM
Well damn, you're a tougher man than I am! :O

Really I'm a girlie girl.:-[ Some girl stuff just bugs me though.

BrunetteGoddess
11-30-2007, 03:13 PM
Well, I guess I understand. Many guys call me butch when I start to talk about cars. Like, they insist I must be a man.

Will
11-30-2007, 03:23 PM
Really I'm a girlie girl.:-[

Of that I have no doubt. Just messin' with you.:P


Some girl stuff just bugs me though.

I can see that! ;)

PrettyCurlieQ
11-30-2007, 03:26 PM
Man if I could pee standing up I would never sit down! Grass is always greener..

I think my man always stands (and usually with the door open::)). But from what I understand (and don't ask how we got into this convo, I have no clue), he'll pee sitting down if he's planning to *ahem* stay sitting down.

MinahSky
11-30-2007, 04:22 PM
If you're a heartless bitch, be a heartless bitch and STFU about it. Last I checked heartless bitches don't care what anyone let alone some random person on the internet thinks.

xdamage
11-30-2007, 04:31 PM
I didn't mean to piss anyone off. I just think that this is a symptom of a major change among men in this country. (I'm sure some men who do sit and pee are fine.) I guess since I'm a dom by nature I like a man that can stand up to me (without being an abusive or controlling asshole) and not get led around by the nose.

Haha, you should join us on another thread on blue. Loving it, although pee position is not the real problem (as you know), spinelessness and meekness to a sickening degree is ;)