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hannah83
11-30-2007, 12:27 PM
oh hunny, i'm so sorry to read this. You're in my thoughts and my prayers... :hug:

StrawberrySwitchblade
11-30-2007, 12:31 PM
YOu'll be so beautiful. Congrats on your marriage, hon. :)

icey
11-30-2007, 01:10 PM
I am so sorry!
((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))

PuertoRicanPinup
11-30-2007, 01:16 PM
Aww so sorry to hear about this sweetie.

MinahSky
11-30-2007, 01:39 PM
:hug: :hug: :flower:

bellasera
11-30-2007, 03:43 PM
I'm so sorry sweetie :grouphug: your in my thoughts.

SarahSynn
11-30-2007, 03:45 PM
Hope you are well, AL. Congrats on your marriage!

velvet
11-30-2007, 03:59 PM
i just saw this. so sorry to hear of your loss.

greenidlady1
11-30-2007, 04:40 PM
Oh dear:hug: , I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I've lost a pregnancy before myself so I know it's difficult.

Maybe you should put off getting married for a bit? I think you need some time for yourself. Getting married is pretty stressful.

Darcy Foxx
11-30-2007, 04:53 PM
i'm so sorry, audrey. sending lots of love to you and your family :hug:

yogibear179
11-30-2007, 05:25 PM
aw take care =(

Katrine
11-30-2007, 06:27 PM
I am also very sorry, and wish you a safe and speedy recovery.

SexyJess
11-30-2007, 07:02 PM
I am so sorry Audrey. :( We all are. What a devastating loss. Please take care of yourself.

mermaidnz
11-30-2007, 08:02 PM
:( im sorry, thats a terrible thing to happen.

best of luck with your marriage today, i hope that helps with some of your pain and loss.

*hugs*

Sunshine73
11-30-2007, 08:18 PM
AL I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you guys and I'll keep you in my prayers. :pray:

Casey4Now
11-30-2007, 09:41 PM
Audrey, I am so sorry to hear this, please focus on your wedding day and remember GOD only give you what you can handle. You will survive and go on to have another heathy child. I am praying for you.

beauty21queen
11-30-2007, 09:58 PM
I am so sorry my prayers are with you .

High_Heel_Lover
12-01-2007, 12:32 AM
Oh honey no :( I am so sorry. I am soooooo sorry.

Oh babe when they checked you did they see any cysts?

I don't want to scare you but I had an ectopic, the baby had ruptured the tube and I needed surgery. I had the surgery and was give the Methotrexate but when they went to have another ultrasound the tech noticed a rather large cyst. A few days after the surgery I had pain, bad pain, went to the doc "it's normal, you just had surgery" a day after I couldn't walk went to the ER same shit. The next day! I called the doc and said "listen I can't take this!" she said "take a pain med and call me in an hr" a few minutes later I passed out, apparently the Methotrexate had caused my cyst to rupture so I had been slowly bleeding internally. I ended up in the ER having another surgery.

I tell you this so you can keep up, clear and firm with the doctors! I do not want you to go through more stuff. I am here for you honey. If you feel pain and nothing calms it call your doctor.

mollyzmoon
12-01-2007, 12:53 AM
I'm so sorry, Audrey L.

How devastating. :(

Lena
12-01-2007, 02:47 AM
I'm so so sorry, too.

Don't forget to take care of you.

ColetteCalahan
12-01-2007, 05:43 AM
saw this late- audrey i am so sorry.... *hugs* this must be really tough for you... i hate reading these and never knowing what to say. we're here for you.

Ava Jadore
12-01-2007, 09:36 AM
Congrats on your marriage. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Taylorlila
12-01-2007, 12:07 PM
I am so, so sorry. :hug: Your in my thoughts.
Congrats on your wedding though, I hope it can help to ease some of your pain.

AudreyLeigh
12-01-2007, 01:03 PM
Oh honey no :( I am so sorry. I am soooooo sorry.

Oh babe when they checked you did they see any cysts?

I don't want to scare you but I had an ectopic, the baby had ruptured the tube and I needed surgery. I had the surgery and was give the Methotrexate but when they went to have another ultrasound the tech noticed a rather large cyst. A few days after the surgery I had pain, bad pain, went to the doc "it's normal, you just had surgery" a day after I couldn't walk went to the ER same shit. The next day! I called the doc and said "listen I can't take this!" she said "take a pain med and call me in an hr" a few minutes later I passed out, apparently the Methotrexate had caused my cyst to rupture so I had been slowly bleeding internally. I ended up in the ER having another surgery.

I tell you this so you can keep up, clear and firm with the doctors! I do not want you to go through more stuff. I am here for you honey. If you feel pain and nothing calms it call your doctor.

Yes and this is something I did not understand. I did not get all the details because they first said sounds like a cyst but then after the ultrasound they said EP and I just dont know. Im doing ok, really sore and living on the painkillers they gave me. I will have insurance soon and as soon as it kicks in Im setting up an OBGYN and want a full screening - I just feel like something isnt right down there. Ive had bad pains (like the ones im getting with the EP) but once every few months but with the EP it was those pains all day and night... I know theres something not right that Ive been putting off for a few years.

AudreyLeigh
12-01-2007, 01:08 PM
I really cant put into words how i feel. Ive never been so grateful to have this second family as I am now. I feel so lucky to have found this website and I really feel as tho I have bonded with a few very wonderful women on here and made even more friends.

Thank you everyone for your support. I get married yesterday. My husband is the best man any woman could ask for. Ive never felt more of a bond with anyone. Im lucky to have him by my side and hes helped with all thats happened these last few weeks. It seems that he was as upset as I was and this whole thing has made us closer than we ever were.

When Im a little more clear headed Ill write about the wedding and party because some cute things happened (like me stumbling over 'for poorer' :D and my daughters new voodoo doll) Anyway, thanks much ladies for all your care and support...

Lola Rose
12-01-2007, 01:10 PM
Congratulations :)

High_Heel_Lover
12-01-2007, 01:51 PM
Yes and this is something I did not understand. I did not get all the details because they first said sounds like a cyst but then after the ultrasound they said EP and I just dont know. Im doing ok, really sore and living on the painkillers they gave me. I will have insurance soon and as soon as it kicks in Im setting up an OBGYN and want a full screening - I just feel like something isnt right down there. Ive had bad pains (like the ones im getting with the EP) but once every few months but with the EP it was those pains all day and night... I know theres something not right that Ive been putting off for a few years.

hmm I'm sorry babe. I hate when you go in for an answer and end up with more questions.

Look if you feel the pain meds are not working or if something is wrong please don't wait for your insurance to kick in ok. It can be paid little by little this is your life! I wish I could hug you :-[ Hang in there honey.

sent_from_heaven11
12-01-2007, 10:20 PM
I am sooo sorry :hug: We were due around the same time. I just had a misscarriage, PM me if you need to talk. I know how you feel.

Think of all the good things you have. You are going to have a great wedding day=) You can always try again=)

FrustratedBunny
12-01-2007, 11:55 PM
Awww, I'm so sorry to hear about your pregnancy loss, but congrats on the wedding! You are so lucky to have a man in your life like him.

LadySoft
12-02-2007, 10:40 PM
really sorry about the pain you're going through right now...hope you feel better and don't give up hope because you can always try again... remember, "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger." its gonna be alright...

MsQwerty
12-03-2007, 05:25 AM
Congratulations on getting married Audrey!!! I look forward to hearing all about it when you feel up to it (-:
Hope youre feeling a bit better now.

AlexxaHex
12-06-2007, 03:30 PM
Crap - I just saw this thread. I am also really sad for you and terribly sorry for your loss.

francescadubois
12-06-2007, 10:01 PM
Sorry to hear that, AudreyLeigh. Lean on us, we're here for you. :grouphug:

betterthaneden
12-07-2007, 06:20 AM
i am so sorry this happened to you. this is horrible and i'm sure very very tough to deal with.

we will all be thinking of you.

hugs.