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Katrine
12-01-2007, 02:09 PM
Why aren't you allowed to have a purse out on the floor? Silly rules!

twisterinAZ
12-01-2007, 02:16 PM
No doubt, the guy is a douchebag.

Thank God you stood up for yourself and someone else ! I'm glad you are OK.

cameron_keys
12-01-2007, 02:18 PM
Why aren't you allowed to have a purse out on the floor? Silly rules!

Oh its stupid. One girl was caught with coke in her purse so nobody is supposed to carry one now. Like you cant possibly do drugs if you arent carrying a purse::)

Like I said.I carry mine anyway...sometimes they let me, sometimes they dont

Will
12-01-2007, 03:26 PM
Oh its stupid. One girl was caught with coke in her purse so nobody is supposed to carry one now. Like you cant possibly do drugs if you arent carrying a purse::)

Like I said.I carry mine anyway...sometimes they let me, sometimes they dont

They do make key chain models, pen models, etc, so something might work. How great would it be to say something like "oh, wow, you are such a man for doing that, let me get my pen and take your number before you lick my %%%" followed by a face full of OC spray....see this site:

http://www.defensedevices.com/worhotpepspr.html

DylanAngel
12-01-2007, 03:30 PM
This made me sick to my stomach. I'm glad you're safe Cam and I'm sorry you had such a scare.

Thanks from all women for standing up and getting him the hell outta there.

Will
12-01-2007, 03:33 PM
Oh its stupid. One girl was caught with coke in her purse so nobody is supposed to carry one now. Like you cant possibly do drugs if you arent carrying a purse::)

Like I said.I carry mine anyway...sometimes they let me, sometimes they dont

You have probably seen this, but there was the Rapex gizmo

"The Rapex rape prevention device has been delayed until late this year. As you may remember, the gadget goes inside of a woman and clamps down on a rapist's penis to force him into getting medical attention, which in turn will alert the authorities that he is a rapist (or the victim of a horrible practical joke).The project has been greeted with enthusiasm as well as scepticism. One of those critical of the device is Charlene Smith, a rape survivor, journalist and activist on women's issues. She says she believes the device will increase the risk of victims being killed."

http://uk.gizmodo.com/2006/06/22/rapex_the_rape_prevention_devi.html

I happen to agree with the latter opinion, but food for thought...

pinkkitten
12-01-2007, 03:49 PM
That sucks you had to got through this but its so cool that you have the strenght to stand up for yourself and stop it. Many girls, myself included, just freeze up in this situation so its really comforting o know that there are people out there who will stop these guys that just think they can take advantage of girls and get away with it. That's great that you told them about the next girl. Even if she was an extras girl this guy sounds like he can't take no for an answer and would probably have raped her as well, not to mention not paid her. What i mean is, just cause she will do sex acts for money, doesn't necessarily mean an enormous 300 pound man can throw her around roughly during it. Kinda how just because a woman takes of her clothes for money doesn't mean that she wants men to rip them off forcibly, even though the end result is being naked.

Katrine
12-01-2007, 03:54 PM
Oh its stupid. One girl was caught with coke in her purse so nobody is supposed to carry one now. Like you cant possibly do drugs if you arent carrying a purse::)


That's fucking retarded! Every proper cokehead knows the best place to leave your coke...with the DJ! Kidding. But drugs can be stored in lockers, right? I used to keep mine in cigarette box. Doh!

twisterinAZ
12-01-2007, 05:22 PM
Even reading the thread title pisses me off.....

You don't deserve that .

Miss Jessica
12-01-2007, 05:29 PM
It really upset me to read this... I can't explain to you how much I want to slaughter that mother fucker. >:( That's fucking bullshit.

beautiful.
12-01-2007, 05:41 PM
I'm really sorry that happened to you and whatever happened to the other girl. Props to you for helping out the other girl. I really admire your strength and "don't take any crap" attitude!

TheSexKitten
12-01-2007, 05:42 PM
I'm really glad you're ok... :hug:

That's so scary!

jhuka
12-01-2007, 05:57 PM
Cameron, it makes me so damned sad to see this--I'm sorry that it happened, and angry, and all the rest that everyone has said. You are the one who is always trying to help everyone else out, and then you have to deal with this, damnit. I do not understand what is in some human beings--obviously nothing is on this guy's radar but what he wants, and to hell with everybody else. What a horrible son of a bitch. People like this eventually always meet their match, and in this case, the guy met his match with you. You're quite a lady.

I wish there was something I could do beyond applauding. If you can think of anything please let me know. You deserve some time off to get away from this insanity, and if you can I hope you'll take it. My thoughts are with you. Don't let the bastard get you down--we're all rooting for you here.

sunnie
12-02-2007, 10:27 AM
OMFG I am so sorry Cameron!!! I hope you are taking a few days off to get grounded and feel better. ::hugs::


I know he dragged you right and not left towards the couches, but I was actually kind of sketched out by the new couch set up when I worked last week. There is like waaaaay too much privacy and it is so frigging dark, it is a far cry from the open floor plan of like a year ago. All the things that made it feel like a clean club (for S FL), like the sheer curtains on the CRs and stuff are gone, and with minimal supervision it kind of sucks.

I'm sorry.

High_Heel_Lover
12-02-2007, 10:45 AM
How are you today honey?

Madcap
12-02-2007, 11:06 AM
Cameron Keys is one tough broad.

Cam, sorry that happened to you, but i like that story. You don't lay down without a fight. I like that.

cameron_keys
12-02-2007, 11:17 AM
OMFG I am so sorry Cameron!!! I hope you are taking a few days off to get grounded and feel better. ::hugs::

All the things that made it feel like a clean club (for S FL), like the sheer curtains on the CRs and stuff are gone, and with minimal supervision it kind of sucks.

I'm sorry.

Yeah..as soon as i saw them building those little booths back there I just watched any potential money fly out the door. Because as you know...here in SFL that will quickly mean $20 blow jobs and an environment I cant compete against. This was rhe last clean club too..


How are you today honey?
I'm ok. I mean ...I was a bit shaken,. but really nothing ACTUALLY happened and itisnt like something like this has never happened before in a club. I am just happy I work somewhere where the staff LISTENS to me and went back there so that whatever might have happened to that other girl...didnt happen


Cameron Keys is one tough broad.

Cam, sorry that happened to you, but i like that story. You don't lay down without a fight. I like that.


LOL...my husband says that too...that I'm a tough broad. I guess I am. I just have gotten to a point in my life that I have fnally realized that NOTHING is worth my self respect.And anyone who disrespects me in any way will get whats coming to them. If that makes me a bitch...so be it. Better a bitch then a doormat!

And i will never lay down without a fight...come on..I'm Irish...drinking and fighting is all we live for!LOL!

High_Heel_Lover
12-02-2007, 11:20 AM
You are strong woman cause I would still be a wreck. Glad you are better :)

BalletBaby
12-02-2007, 02:39 PM
:hug: I'm so so so sorry this happened to you Cam. What a disgusting fucking pig>:(

And thank you for speaking up and telling management when you heard about the other girl. If I was her, I would have been EXTREMELY thankful. I know I wouldn't be able to stand up to someone like that like you did.

britt244
12-02-2007, 02:43 PM
i didnt post in here yet because i dont know what to say. but i <3 you!

Vyanka
12-02-2007, 02:51 PM
OMG CK that's scary!! Sorry you had to go through that. Was that man really the owner's friend? Just curious, bc that reminds me of this asshole who once tried to touch my vagina and he's telling me it's ok bc he was the manager's friend... wtf! >:(

TigersMilk
12-02-2007, 02:57 PM
I just read your story cam. What kind of person does he think he is to hold a woman down against her will for sex? MF! Where the fuck was his logic...I swear boys sometimes. Who the fuck do they think they are?

I'm glad you're feeling better. That pepper spray ring does look pretty useful.

cameron_keys
12-02-2007, 05:17 PM
OMG CK that's scary!! Sorry you had to go through that. Was that man really the owner's friend? Just curious, bc that reminds me of this asshole who once tried to touch my vagina and he's telling me it's ok bc he was the manager's friend... wtf! >:(

Yes I believe he was. When I told the staff, they confirmed it and it gave them a bit of pause instead of just rushing back and beating the piss out of him like they'd normally do to someone who had done that.

Madcap
12-02-2007, 05:18 PM
Why does it make it ok to touch a girl's stuff if you know the owner? They expect you to be all cool with that?

SERIOUSLY?

Yekhefah
12-02-2007, 05:20 PM
Yeah, apparently the owner doesn't just own the club, he owns the dancers too. A lot of these guys think we're the owner's property and the owner is the one who decides whether it's okay to use us or not. Sort of like playing with your friend's toys in kindergarten.

cameron_keys
12-02-2007, 05:26 PM
Yeah, apparently the owner doesn't just own the club, he owns the dancers too. A lot of these guys think we're the owner's property and the owner is the one who decides whether it's okay to use us or not. Sort of like playing with your friend's toys in kindergarten.

Yep. A lot of club owners actually do believe that. They are basically glorified pimps instead of business owners.

I really hope the owner hears about this. I hope his buddy remembers my name and bitches to him about how I wouldnt do anything. I really do. And I hopw he goes to management to confirm and get the rest of the story..

It will show me what kind of man he truly is if he allows his friend back in after that.

MinahSky
12-02-2007, 05:38 PM
More :hug: :hug: :hug:

Madcap
12-02-2007, 09:04 PM
Hey Cam, i just wanted to tell you (i thought about PMing you but decided to not and do it all public like). Hey i really respect you and think you are awesome. You are indeed hot, but beneath that is where it all counts in life. You got heart. That's why i like you, that's why i dug you all times.

Yer hubby is a lucky guy.

cameron_keys
12-02-2007, 09:05 PM
Hey Cam, i just wanted to tell you (i thought about PMing you but decided to not and do it all public like). Hey i really respect you and think you are awesome. You are indeed hot, but beneath that is where it all counts in life. You got heart. That's why i like you, that's why i dug you all times.

Yer hubby is a lucky guy.

Thanks! Right back atcha big guy!

Madcap
12-02-2007, 09:39 PM
Thanks, but my hubby is terribly unlucky.

Lexi
12-02-2007, 09:49 PM
OMG! :( I am so sorry. I dont understand where guys get this fucking idea that they can do whatever they want.

Good for you for standing up to that asshole and for telling management.

What a prick.