View Full Version : am i being fed BS ?
Alaska
12-02-2007, 01:57 PM
oh well oh well let's forget about it! no drama!
(tightttt I just realized this was my 2,000th post....pretty good eh? lol)
pookie
12-02-2007, 01:57 PM
Its really ironic reading these posts by stevek. i need to share this. and this is not to make this poster look bad or be mean. but maybe it will have some sort of infomation to help him on his way in life.
I once dated a guy whose name was steve and his last name started with a 'k'. I dated him a couple years back for maybe a month or so. And i swear this dude became seriously obsessed only after a short time. He would call so much i stopped answering my phone. if he called my house i would not answer the phone and told me dad to tell him i was not home. he showed up at my house unannounced, arg. one day he showed up to one of my hangout place unannounced and gave me this three page letter going blah blah blah. he started out with a thesis and even put the word thesis in it. and when he gave me the letter, he was like, is this it? do you not have any feeling or anything to say? and i said no. I felt really bad turning him away and hurting him. but enough was enough. he and i were not meant to be. the important 'connection' was lacking. along with other important things. the thing is he was not a bad guy. he would not respect my space. i think his inexperience was what played against him the worst, he never had a gf before, he was a virgin. inexperience is not a bad thing, but for a person who doesnt have experience, sometimes the cannot pick up on certain hints as though an experience person might pick up on. (I am not saying original post is or is not experienced)
The thing i really want to point out. after week of harassment of calls and showing up, and trying to be the 'right guy', he just couldn't ever be the 'right guy.' sometimes efforts are in vain. its sad but true. after he did all that stuff he ruined his chances of even friendship.
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Its so strange. the way the OP writes mirrors this man i actually dated.
it appears that you may have obsessive behavior too. i know you really like her but sometime people sabotages themselves by messing up, then try too hard to fix things and sabotages themselves even more. not moving on just makes it worse.
Stevek i hope you realize that this girl is not the only person in the world. i think you should open yourself to somebody else, with afresh start, and learn from your last relationship.
SteveK
12-02-2007, 02:16 PM
pookie
thats wierd...
but we def never dated
ive never written a letter to any girl before..
and ive never chased or been in love.. except this time
pookie
12-02-2007, 02:18 PM
i am not implying we dated.
the letter was not implied on you either
:banghead:
i was just trying to let you see from the other side.
VenusGoddess
12-03-2007, 05:19 AM
pookie
thats wierd...
but we def never dated
And, you know this because you've never dated a girl named Pookie? LOL
You are being an idiot. Really. You've looked inside yourself and you KNOW that you are THE ONE for this girl? So, in other words, she's just wrong and doesn't realize that you are THE ONE?
Have you thought that maybe your ideas of being THE ONE and her ideas of being the one are different? And although you may be the one for someone, it's not her?
Stop being an obsessive, controlling, mind-numbing jerk and let her go. Geezus. If you were in my life, I would have changed my phone number, my address, and probably my name by this time! Chill out.