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kitty260
12-07-2007, 03:13 PM
Yeah, all y'all heart me so much, but are either of YOU saving your cum in baggies or ice cube trays for me to rub into my hair on a future date? Clearly Correy and similar customers are the only ones who REALLY care. Just saying.

Yeah, I was! Jeez, give a guy some credit.::)

Sophia_Starina
12-07-2007, 03:36 PM
I think on a human level you can still care about the person.I'm talking about strong mental or physical feeling for them.I have gone to clubs where the same guys come in all the time and put themselves in debt. But the girls will say no we are not going vip today and putting you in more debt. If the girls asked for these guys credit cards they would give it to them.I don't go to the clubs where the rest of you work so I can't speak for you.

I can care for a customer. However, my care =/= some guys semen on me.

"Aww I care so much about you, I want your sperm on me!" :D

CORRY20
12-07-2007, 03:48 PM
Thanks for clearing that up for me Sophia.I didn't want to think nobody had a heart hear.I was starting to lose faith in humanity.

yoda57us
12-07-2007, 06:51 PM
Thanks for clearing that up for me Sophia.I didn't want to think nobody had a heart hear.I was starting to lose faith in humanity.

Humanity? Dude? All of us are living breathing functioning human beings with hearts and minds here. We either work in strip clubs or spend money on people who do and that is what brings us to this board-a common interest. You can spend your money in clubs and believe anything you want about any dancer's motivation but when you talk about it here we will all tell you what we think, positive or negative. If you are honestly concerned for the future of the earth and it's population because we don't agree when you say that strippers like getting splooged on well.....you are kidding aren't you?

CORRY20
12-07-2007, 07:21 PM
Humanity? Dude? All of us are living breathing functioning human beings with hearts and minds here. We either work in strip clubs or spend money on people who do and that is what brings us to this board-a common interest. You can spend your money in clubs and believe anything you want about any dancer's motivation but when you talk about it here we will all tell you what we think, positive or negative. If you are honestly concerned for the future of the earth and it's population because we don't agree when you say that strippers like getting splooged on well.....you are kidding aren't you?

You didn't read what I was responding to.I was talking about as a human caring for a person I wasn't talking about cumming on the girl.I said you still care about people at the club on some sort of level.

yoda57us
12-07-2007, 07:25 PM
Oh, I read it all...it wasn't easy, but I read it all....:banghead:

CORRY20
12-07-2007, 07:38 PM
I Know it's not easy

kitty260
12-07-2007, 08:43 PM
*facepalm*

I'm done in here, I think. This is just like shooting fish in a barrel.

CORRY20
12-07-2007, 08:47 PM
Sorry

xdamage
12-08-2007, 01:09 AM
I have gone to clubs where the same guys come in all the time and put themselves in debt. But the girls will say no we are not going vip today and putting you in more debt. If the girls asked for these guys credit cards they would give it to them.I don't go to the clubs where the rest of you work so I can't speak for you.

It is a big world, lots of people, and almost anything is possible. Even dancers who commit acts of altruism for customers. Even the dancers who actually do get turned on by customers who cum. Does it happen? Sure. Is it the norm? Nope.

You said you had bud luck earlier. To a great degree we make our luck by the type of gambles and bets we choose in life. Me, I wouldn't gamble my sense of humanity, or sense of self on what happens in the strip club. It's a losing bet. While you will find exceptions, the odds are already badly stacked against it.

BalletBaby
12-08-2007, 01:27 AM
*le sigh* Okay I'll admit it........Nothing turns me on more than getting a guy off and sharing a delicious piece of pie with him.

Stringer
12-08-2007, 07:54 AM
Who cares whether the dancers like you or enjoy it when you come. I spurt 'cause it feels good to get rubbed on. I exploded on a girl one time during a dance and she acted SO upset. I just shrugged. Its an occupational hazard so she just had to deal with it. Most of the time the dancers don't notice and keep on grindin'.

CORRY20
12-08-2007, 10:19 AM
It is a big world, lots of people, and almost anything is possible. Even dancers who commit acts of altruism for customers. Even the dancers who actually do get turned on by customers who cum. Does it happen? Sure. Is it the norm? Nope.

You said you had bud luck earlier. To a great degree we make our luck by the type of gambles and bets we choose in life. Me, I wouldn't gamble my sense of humanity, or sense of self on what happens in the strip club. It's a losing bet. While you will find exceptions, the odds are already badly stacked against it.

The odds have always been stacked against me with my face.I was ranked one of the ugliest guys on hot or not.com

Bob_Loblaw
12-08-2007, 10:20 AM
*le sigh* Okay I'll admit it........Nothing turns me on more than getting a guy off and sharing a delicious piece of pie with him.

But what comes first? The pie?

kitty260
12-08-2007, 11:01 AM
*le sigh* Okay I'll admit it........Nothing turns me on more than getting a guy off and sharing a delicious piece of pie with him.

No no no! It's bad pie. See my siggy quote.

xdamage
12-08-2007, 11:03 AM
The odds have always been stacked against me with my face.I was ranked one of the ugliest guys on hot or not.com

My face isn't so great either, but I've still had relationships with very sexy women, have been with one for many years, and am currently being pursued by another much younger, and sexy-as-hell woman now who I met a couple of months ago in Europe. It's not as easy as if you are great looking, but it is not impossible either.

The genetic lottery is a matter of luck. Nobody gets to choose their genes. Some get lucky there, some do not. It sucks but it is what it is. And those who do get lucky will of course find it much easier to attract sex partners. Is it because they deserve it? Nope. Does your bad luck in the lottery mean you don't deserve to be wanted by women? Nope. If any of us had a choice in the matter we would have picked our genes. I sure didn't get a choice. I bet you didn't either.

Women do respond to who you are, how confident you are, how you treat them. Some will reject you because of your appearance, but there are many other who won't. Hey, I wish I had been luckier in the genetic lottery too, but even a poor hand to start doesn't mean it is hopeless.

Also don't forget there is always the plastic surgery option these days if something specific is bothering you Remember too, a lot of women aren't so spectacular either if you take away the makeup. Many also end up having plastic surgery of various sorts to improve their looks. Many enhance their looks through relatively simple things - a different hair cut, different glasses, different clothes until they find something that works for them. Some of that you can do too. Get some help from a trusted female friend, and try some new things. It adds up.

CORRY20
12-08-2007, 11:56 AM
Thanks for you're help

Katrine
12-08-2007, 12:11 PM
Or you could become really, really, really wealthy and have a slew of gold-diggers offering to suck your dick in your ferrari!

Sophia_Starina
12-08-2007, 12:15 PM
Okay...

This comes back to the whole concept of strippers caring.

Corry, in your posts you seem a little depressed. Like, it goes beyond low self esteem. I hope that rather than sitting around and beating yourself up in forum posts you can go and get some professional help.

There is a world outside of hotornot.com, outside of StripperWeb, and outside of lapdance Blogs. Even strip clubs aren't exactly reality (sorry to break it to you). I hope you can realize that you aren't doing yourself any favors by sulking and moping on the Inter-Webs.

Methinks a bit of cognitive therapy will take you a long way. Perhaps you can make a few positive changes and develop a few more nuanced social skills.

All the Best.


http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/depression/complete-publication.shtml

safado
12-08-2007, 12:40 PM
Or you could become really, really, really wealthy and have a slew of gold-diggers offering to suck your dick in your ferrari!

Or he could go to Central America or South America or south east Asia and have a slew of gold-diggers sucking his dick and not need to be rich.

Casual Observer
12-08-2007, 01:54 PM
The odds have always been stacked against me with my face.I was ranked one of the ugliest guys on hot or not.com

Dude, in the game of physical comeliness we all have to play the hand we're dealt. I'm certainly no GQ fashion model either, but I've done OK, mostly by taking a risk and putting myself out there...repeatedly. Yes, you will get rejected--that's part of having a Y chromosome--but you can't get accepted if you don't make an effort.

Fortune favors the bold.

Snowles
12-08-2007, 02:09 PM
No no no! It's bad pie. See my siggy quote.

Yea, what she said. Er, I guess that'd be what I said :D

Oh, and Ballet...*buys plane ticket and pie*

Sitri
12-08-2007, 03:04 PM
^ i HAD to see this.

and by the way, if youre fingering her, she still doesnt enjoy anything but your money. you could be fucking her and she'd still be looking for the money. end of story.


And that's why I have a picture of Ben Franklin tatooed on my dick....}:D

Jenny
12-08-2007, 05:15 PM
Correy - maybe you should consider lowering your standards? This is actually my first line of advice whenever anyone has difficulty meeting people. If you're having trouble it is (generally) because you have entitlement issues, and want someone out of your proverbial league. Being ugly is definitely not helpful - but all the other ugly people in the world get used to it and the people they date eventually start looking pretty good to them. Unattractive people fall in love and have romance too. And of course - no matter what these guys say - looks are not important in a relationship. Whether your boyfriend or girlfriend is hot as hell or ugly as fuck - you get used to it and it doesn't matter anymore. Really. People think it is cynical or realistic to say that looks are important. Cynicism actually runs the other way. A girl can literally make you catch your breath the first time you take her out. If you are still seeing her in a year, you will not even notice what she is wearing, if her mascara has run - you'll barely look at her. Seriously. Looks don't matter. Just start trying to date ugly girls. It'll be fine.

Sh0t
12-08-2007, 05:35 PM
As a guy, looks do not matter as much as you think. Your lack of self-esteem is going to be a deal breaker even with ugly, fat chicks, though.

This article goes along with what Jenny is saying above:



Why Sexually Inexperienced Guys Shouldn't Be Too Picky With Women

A lot of sexually inexperienced guys pass up on good chances because of their pickiness. If directly confronted about why they don't have a girlfriend, they may use the, 'I have high standards' line. Even in their own head, they may reject certain girls for not being up to their expectations. I definitely felt picky at times, and it probably set my losing my virginity back a year or more. Here are some reasons inexperienced guys shouldn't be too picky. I've been there for most of them:
It just be can be an excuse - either to yourself or other people

All guys should read it though. So many dudes have "e-standards".

I've fucked more tens than most dudes have jerked off to and i still fuck fatties here and there.

Stripclubs are not good places to learn how to interact with women. Even when they aren't very hot, strippers are still probably the closest thing women have to macks. They are good people, but they are there to make money and if they have survived in that job for a while, are probably very good at it. Going to a strip club is not a way to "replace" the normal female relationships in your life.

Once you get better with women, date prettier girls. But just do whtaever you can to get started.

Stop thinking you know anything too


*snicker* I can't wait until sh0t sees this.


Hello there!

That said, I don't think I could just cum from a lapdance. But I have cured my ED and orgasm issues by removing porn from my daily experience. Kinda crazy what a big effect it had.

Sh0t
12-08-2007, 05:37 PM
. Then when the guy splooged I took his money and went zipping into the dressing room so I could laugh about it with the other girls. Yeah, that's right. We laugh at custies who do that. We find it disgusting and hilarious all at the same time.

And that is kinda way I like strippers. I like women who laugh at loser guys and who hustle them. Turns me on.

Stringer
12-08-2007, 05:43 PM
And that is kinda way I like strippers. I like women who laugh at loser guys and who hustle them. Turns me on.
I get "turned on" when I splooge on a dancer for $40 and go home and watch tv. Who's hustlin' whom?

Sh0t
12-08-2007, 05:47 PM
She's hustling you

40 bucks for a nut is terribly inefficient. That could be a video game(orange box is around 30 bucks).

Pussy can be had for free. The more you pay, the worse it is usually.

Stringer
12-08-2007, 05:52 PM
She's hustling you

40 bucks for a nut is terribly inefficient. That could be a video game(orange box is around 30 bucks).

Pussy can be had for free. The more you pay, the worse it is usually.
You ALWAYS pay for pussy, rook. ;)
And...I stopped playing video games at 15.

Sh0t
12-08-2007, 05:55 PM
Why? they are a lot of fun. I sometimes stand girls up to keep playing Dota or TF2

And no, you don't always pay for pussy. I actually end up making money these days.

Those who believe "you always pay for pussy" are the ones who keep paying for it. Change your beliefs, change your life.

Women love cock more than we love pussy. Why should WE pay?

Jenny
12-08-2007, 06:05 PM
^^^
See what lowering your standards gets you? It's a good thing.

xdamage
12-08-2007, 06:20 PM
Many people have said the same things in various ways. As a guy, there is much more important things then looks. SCs are not the place to work on that. Nothing wrong with enjoying a SC now and then, but it just never replaces getting out there and taking risks. I agree regarding lowering ones standards. Get some experiences. It is like I said earlier in this thread. You don't need to love them or fuck them... just get some dating experiences. It will make a huge difference in your self esteem. And go with the flow. Many of us had fucked hands to start, and have overcome.

Stringer
12-08-2007, 06:28 PM
And no, you don't always pay for pussy. I actually end up making money these days.

Those who believe "you always pay for pussy" are the ones who keep paying for it. Change your beliefs, change your life.

Women love cock more than we love pussy. Why should WE pay?
Ok Romeo. Another "internet stallion". Hahaha Oh, brother. ::)

FBR
12-08-2007, 06:29 PM
This one stripper I met on vacation in Florida. I thought we were going to do what the OP described but moments before the end she slapped a condom on me, leaned over against the wall and had me finish inside of her.

Was I cheated? I dunno. The penetration part felt pretty good though.

FBR

Sh0t
12-08-2007, 07:06 PM
Ok Romeo. Another "internet stallion". Hahaha Oh, brother. ::)

I love to prove it. Not like tons of people here don't know me and know it's true

All you did was reveal your trick-mindedness

FBR: lol wtf?

FBR
12-08-2007, 08:02 PM
FBR: lol wtf?

Sorry. A Florida reality show.

FBR

Stringer
12-08-2007, 08:35 PM
I love to prove it. Not like tons of people here don't know me and know it's true

All you did was reveal your trick-mindedness

FBR: lol wtf?
Sure thing, stud. Let me guess, you're a billionaire with a harem of girls that wash your balls and you have an 11 inch penis, right?
hahaha Gotta love an e-stud. ::)

FBR
12-08-2007, 08:56 PM
The thread is getting too personal amongst members. So stop it. Get back on topic.

Thank you,

FBR
Blue Moderator

Sh0t
12-08-2007, 08:59 PM
er, nope.

my cock is in quite a few pics on here, go check it out

oh god FBR!!! Come on mang

Was that story a joke btw?

Sophia_Starina
12-08-2007, 09:06 PM
The thread is getting too personal amongst members. So stop it. Get back on topic.

Thank you,

FBR
Blue Moderator

FBR... did I hear you right? You want people to get back on the topic of jizzing on dancers?

:faint:

BalletBaby
12-09-2007, 03:41 AM
But what comes first? The pie?

Hrm.....I'll have to think about that. Which came first, the jizz soaked dancer or the pie?


No no no! It's bad pie. See my siggy quote.

Do you know what I'd do for a piece of pie around here...




Oh, and Ballet...*buys plane ticket and pie*

But can you get it through customs?:D

yoda57us
12-09-2007, 07:31 AM
As a guy, looks do not matter as much as you think. Your lack of self-esteem is going to be a deal breaker even with ugly, fat chicks, though.


Damn! I knew if I stuck with it and didn't just put shot on my ignore list he would say something that I agreed with sooner or later....

CORRY20
12-09-2007, 09:05 AM
Thanks for the advice

xdamage
12-09-2007, 09:26 AM
I stopped playing video games at 15.

Thread jack -

I play them in my 40s. Then again, when I started computer programming one of my first major programs was writing a video game in assembly code. I'd still be writing them if it wasn't for the fact that I make a lot more working on other projects. After so many years I still love video games. Quite honestly there are times I've chosen video games over pussy. They are not just for kids IMHO. Well, then again I am a kid. ;)

Back on topic -

Paying to bust a nut and cream one's own pants. Hmmm. It's really hard for me to see this as "scoring". I'm a guy so I know why a guy would do it, but still, you got to think, how much money did I just spend to cream my undies?

Stringer
12-09-2007, 09:38 AM
Thread jack -

Paying to bust a nut and cream one's own pants. Hmmm. It's really hard for me to see this as "scoring". I'm a guy so I know why a guy would do it, but still, you got to think, how much money did I just spend to cream my undies?
May I ask why you get lap dances? /:O

xdamage
12-09-2007, 09:55 AM
May I ask why you get lap dances? /:O

Like I said, I am a guy. I totally understand the sexual rush, the turn-on of touching and being touched by some hot chick who is a stranger. Why get them? For that rush with absolutely no hassles, no fake social niceties, no complications, pick what I want, get the rush immediately, and then move on and find a different dancer or not. It's easy, and I can afford it from time to time.

I don't however look at it like scoring or like I have gotten a better deal then the stripper or having hustled her. Let's face it, we pay a lot for that rush, $20 every 3 minutes or so is not cheap. There are cheaper ways to get off, and it's not like creaming oneself is much to brag about.

Also I haven't creamed myself yet. I am not judging guys that do, and I suppose it could have happened if I stayed long enough, but it takes a lot of stimulation before I cum. The strip club setting just doesn't provide enough for me, but OTOH I don't have any problem with it either, as long as the dancer is cool with it.

lestat1
12-09-2007, 01:02 PM
Well this thread got interesting.

I'll concur with what others have said about lowering your standards in order to increase your dating/sexual experience and self-esteem.

I lowered my standards (which are and were pretty reasonable already) very far out of desperation, and ended up with my 2.5 year relationship. Unfortunately, the sex was terrible, stayed terrible, and was something I tried to avoid with her. Fortunately, it did help raise my confidence a little. Ultimately the relationship failed because I hated the lack of passion. We were great on a friends level, but even after all that time together the desire was just not there for me, and I had hoped it would develop.

I think wanting to have sex with the woman I'm dating is a reasonable expectation, but my standards will have to stay low for a while until that'll happen. *sigh*

Snowles
12-10-2007, 12:28 AM
But can you get it through customs?:D

"Sir, purpose of visit?"

"Sex and pie with lady from teh intarnets."

"Umm..."

"Is my pie. You no can has."

"Ummm..../:O ? Come with us please sir."

"No, is my intarnet pie sex!"

xxxblueeyesxxx
12-11-2007, 09:04 AM
I wish you the best of luck with your beloved cum-dumpster.

LMFAO

CORRY20
12-11-2007, 07:06 PM
Where should I go to meet girls?I am new at this.