View Full Version : nastiest/bitchiest thing a dancer has ever said
Dottie Rebel
08-27-2008, 02:45 AM
:D Yeah, I've heard it sooo much from custies, and even a few dancers, I just decided to "own" the phrase. Now I almost have to hold back laughter when someone says it. It has become an inside joke at my club. I know that any race can be hot and the people who say stuff like that are just ignorant.
I always got your name and thought it was awesome. I've had people tell me that so-and-so was hot "for a black girl". For some reason racists feel totally comfortable informing me of their opinions constantly. I must look "safe". :D
ETA: Kitana---very well said!
jaizaine
08-27-2008, 02:47 AM
^^
right on. when i was new i did nothing but pole tricks (coz I took pole dancing classes before I danced) and I used to occasionally get tipped by people who love pole tricks. But I soon realised that most guys come to strip clubs to watch girls do sexy moves - running my hands over my breasts, smiling seductively and moving my ass gets far more attn and dances than pole tricks ever did!!!
Lysondra
08-27-2008, 03:22 AM
I found licking my finger and slowly trailing down my stomach towards my crotch while staring at a guy with a wicked smile and then looking very innocent :O surprised and then doing a little pole trick before I even got to my pantyline got me the most tips.
Very much a 'I wanna touch myself while looking at you but OOOPS I can't!' move.
Cloacina
09-12-2008, 11:26 PM
Laylalust- this is off topic for the thread, but I was just wondering who the pole dancer was in the photo in your sig.
LilyLove
09-13-2008, 01:35 PM
^ Its from the movie Closer. Watch it! Its good!
holiday
09-13-2008, 05:59 PM
^ Its from the movie Closer. Watch it! Its good!
mmm - hmmm. The illustrious Natalie Portman.
And, on topic. I've never had anything bitchy said to me. Too may face that is ::) . But I do get a lot of the "Oh, great, you're working today, now we won't make any money." Or "go home! you'll get all the money" I guess they're compliments, but they do make me uncomfortable because the girls who say them aren't really kidding. I mean, kidding about the 'wanting me to go home' part.
Scarlette_Lucre
09-13-2008, 08:53 PM
*Upon looking at photos in a magazine taken a few years back*
Me: Wow you look so thin there.
Girl 1:yeah i gained a bit of weight over the years.
Girl 2: That's a little backhanded isn't it?
que me looking akward and trying to apologise
*later tht night showing a pic of my boobs that i took*
Girl 2: Wow your boobs look so big there!
Girl 1:Wow that's a little backhanded isn't it?
*everyone laughs*
;D
said to another girl by a girl everyone hates
"you'd be so pretty if you only spent some money on yourself"
AlexxaHex
09-13-2008, 09:08 PM
I always got your name and thought it was awesome. I've had people tell me that so-and-so was hot "for a black girl". For some reason racists feel totally comfortable informing me of their opinions constantly. I must look "safe". :D
ETA: Kitana---very well said!
I get guys confessing all their prejudices and hesitations to dance with black dancers all the time. It's really annoying and I like to dig into them and ask what they are so afraid of. There is no way I will play into their stupidity and make them feel comfortable about it. I may act more flirty and sexy than my normal non-stripper persona when I'm at work, but I will never sell myself out to some racist bullshit.
And yes, I am also sick and tired of pole trick dancers saying that sexy dancers who focus more on floor work aren't "real" strip club dancers or that they don't deserve as much money. I learned that the more I stay near the customers, the more they want to tip. If I'm gettin nekkid and giving a show, you best believe I deserve those tips.
cadenceq
09-15-2008, 02:54 AM
" I can't believe you were hired in the first place. "
" I do grinding, you don't, yet you make more than me. Guys must just feel awkward around hot girls no matter how much I offer them"
and this gem
" If I was a customer I'd throw up on you too" (after a very, very drunk man spewed in VIP)
cadenceq
09-15-2008, 02:55 AM
I heard this said to another girl with slightly crooked front teeth.
"I can't believe your boyfriend lets you give him head. Doesn't he get scared?"
jaizaine
09-15-2008, 03:00 AM
wow cadenceq where do all these rude bitches come from? I cant imagine working with rude assholes like that!!
cadenceq
09-15-2008, 06:10 AM
Usually out of a gutter...................my club has a really nice "sisterhood" culture, and bitches turn up, and usually leave in a matter of weeks because we all stick up for each other. Either that or they're travelling feature dancers who think they can step in and say what they want (the "vomit" comment came from a feature dancer)
CarlyMIA
09-21-2008, 08:33 PM
*very drunken* Girl: hey... you got some blow?
Me: uhm.. no I don't do that stuff
Girl: c'mon I really want some, I know you do it in the bathroom
Me: i've never tried it and never will, seriously you'll have to ask someone else..
Girl: c'mon, I'm not the only one that knows... (smiling)
Me: Okkkkkkk... *puzzled look*.. how can ANYONE know if I dont do it???
Later on that night the girl is laying on the floor in the dressing room, passing out and I offered to get her water =]
NikkaR
09-22-2008, 07:35 AM
There is a girl at my club (one I mentioned in a question I posted) who continually refers to me, in casual conversation, as "bitch," "fucking bitch," "skinny bitch"... pretty much any variant of the word "bitch"! It doesn't bother me, though. All the other dancers are kind to me, so I guess this one just feels threatened or something.
NewMoon
09-22-2008, 07:52 AM
Very immature 19-year-old dancer who acts like she's 14:
~note that girl 2 has a large scar on her stomach~
Girl 1: *stares at her stomach* Do you have kids?
Girl 2: No, why is it because of my scar? *looks sad*
Girl 1: Uh, no. It's because of the way your skin folds at the bottom of your tummy.
Girl 2: I had my colon removed.
Symmy
09-22-2008, 10:28 PM
The worst thing I ever heard one girl say to another was : "I hate you so much,I'd like to kill your mother." Then the hair-extentions flew and a giant hole appeared in the wall in the shape of a balled up human.Then I said "That drywall is gonna run you at least $8.00 a sheet."What a world!
mediocrity
09-23-2008, 01:56 AM
When one girl I worked with told another girl she didnt wear makeup:
"Oh, I guess you have a nice, natural look." and then smirks.
oulala
09-27-2008, 10:05 AM
A dumb little twit told me my hips were too big (and yet wouldn't stop going on about how beautiful a girl bigger than me was?). But she also wanted to book shows with me and wore SNEAKERS out onto the stage. And no those sneakers did not have platforms.
giada
10-17-2008, 06:54 PM
i had a dancer tell me one time that i need to hook up with a white girl - i'm 1/2 korean 1/2 swiss - then she realized who she was talking to - idk the slanted eyes MAY have given me away - and corrected/back peddled...
drop_ur_pants
10-17-2008, 10:48 PM
one of the dancers at my work told me i would be more suited to a brothel
MsClaireVoyant
10-17-2008, 11:51 PM
I wrote this not that long ago in another thread:
This girl comes up to me and says how some guy tipped her onstage and he told her he liked her big boobs. So she says to me "looks like he won't be getting any dances from you (referring to my small chest)." So I'm like "really?? Watch me change his mind." And I got dances out of him and she didn't. Guess it doesn't pay to be a twat.
You're my hero.
sexyjasmine
10-18-2008, 01:33 AM
This was said at a club I use to work at in new york it was from a waitress to a dancer
waitress: hey is that a new tat?
dancer: yes it is
waitress: what does it say?
dancer: it says my little brothers name he has cancer and might pass away soon so i let him write his name and then got it tatted on my arm
waitress: well...i think its ugly. so what if he dies it was a bad idea and now your stuck with a ugly tattoo on your body...ewww
the dancer was me:( I could've went to jail that night but instead I chose to go in the back and cry and then leave early
bitches>:(
MsClaireVoyant
10-18-2008, 09:13 PM
^OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What a fucking cunt. *screams*
pretty
10-19-2008, 01:29 PM
from a dancer who was pacing the floor, furious she couldnt get a dance, with hate in her heart and making her day worse and worse with her shit attitude: "its funny that these girls have to suck dick to make money"
guess she was mad that i had gotten some dances and she hadnt
i just smile, keep working the floor, and make my money when she does this
it seems to drive her crazy :)
Corey123
07-12-2014, 07:09 PM
I was making more money and was a newbie at a small club and right away this girl who had been there for years decided she hated me (competition, obviously). She would call me a slut when I walked by. One day she said "I hope you don't fall into slutville" as I walked past her down the stairs. ugh.
xcatxbrownx
07-12-2014, 10:47 PM
Hahaha, Corey, she does realize that she is a sex worker and therefore in the same category? What a dumbass!
The nastiest thing I've heard a girl say (not to me), "I can see your earwax glowing in the blacklight" while giving a dance. She got fired.
AlenaRoza
07-13-2014, 01:28 AM
Lol! I had a dancer tell me to lose weight (I was smaller than her) And one tell me that I danced weird (she got fired for being too overweight and when she danced people would laugh at how bad she was.) I'm 135 lbs and 5'6" so when someone who is 180+ lbs tells me I'm not doing something right, I get pissed off.
One told me that my outfit was trashy. Another girl said I looked tired and told me to go in the back so she could fix my makeup and hair. I take more care of myself than anyone there so it offended me. Other than that nothing really.
Funny that the girls who have no room to talk have the most to say.
~*SwanPrincess*~
07-13-2014, 03:40 AM
When I first started dancing at my current club I had this one girl who terrorized me for about a month. She would pick apart my outfits, tell me I looked like a bobblehead doll, and tell me I had the wrong personality for the industry.
She was a fucking train wreck. She was legit insane, everybody knew it and would just sit at the bar all night binge drinking on Tequila and would let out this random scream every few minutes. (Like I said, fucking crazy!)
People would always say she had danced there for like 15 years and that's why management wouldn't let her go.
Things eventually came to a breaking point between her and I.
I was sitting with a customer one night when she came to our table and plopped down. She looked at the guy and goes, "I know you're sitting with HER, but if you want you can have me instead because at least my face isn't plastic and my tits still bounce." (I have a really angular face and she would always accuse me of having cheek implants)
I lost it. I usually held myself together, but I couldn't take it anymore.
Something very ironic happened the very next week. Karma is a bitch and it finally caught up with her. She ended up getting in some sort of accident and didn't come to the club for 6-8 months. She's been in like one or two times since then in the past two years.
tempest666
07-13-2014, 06:01 PM
As fucked up as this sounds this was from me. We had a new girl who was causing all kinds of trouble. I was sitting with a customer and she invited herself right over. I said "Double AA should be your battery size, not bra size."
She fucked right off.
Vackra
07-13-2014, 06:08 PM
^^ Mine is from me, as well.
Girl who openly does extras was bragging about making $300. I replied "Well it's a shame you have no personality or looks, because I made triple, and didn't have to suck dick for it."
Starling
07-13-2014, 08:43 PM
^Wow, $300 from doing extras sounds really low.
When I worked in my first dive there was this girl there who had been there for years I guess. I had never spoken to her. I was sitting at the bar and she walks across the bar, gets a lighter, lights it near my face and on the lighter were the words "FUCK YOU" on it. Fortunately she got fired a few days later for stealing and I never saw her again.
Sexy_Jenny
07-14-2014, 08:37 PM
"You dance too much! You should listen to the music more and get the rhythm"
HallelujahHopkins
08-08-2014, 07:59 PM
Veteran: "You like dancing like that?"
Me: "Well it's not elegant like you or _____ but the guys like it so I'll guess keep it up for a while"
Veteran: "Yeah, guys do like that trashy shit don't they."
Also my DR doesn't think my name is clever At All. "You think it's some kinda joke huh? Oh no you cute but girl that name has got to go." I just smile and keep earring more than all the snipy ones combined.
Taylor_luvv
08-09-2014, 10:08 AM
Not directly to me but a girl in my club told almost everyone in the club (I work at a small mid tier/dive, so it's easy to be able to talk to everyone especially if it's not that busy) that I am a whore who sucks dick in the lap dance area and I have a smely pussy. None of these things are true, I don't even let guys suck on my tits like every other girl in my club does. But I was also the top earner the last few nights and she saw that.
I also had a "friend" of mine give me a backhanded compliment the other day after I got a pair of super hot new shoes. I like to go all out on my stripper outfits and she just wears civilian heels and bras/panties. She told me "your shoes are really pretty, too bad you can't walk in them and just look awkward" I could definitely walk in them and was killing it in them. So many girls just get bitchy and jealous instead of trying to improve themselves.
Taylor_luvv
08-09-2014, 10:11 AM
Not directly to me but a girl in my club told almost everyone in the club (I work at a small mid tier/dive, so it's easy to be able to talk to everyone especially if it's not that busy) that I am a whore who sucks dick in the lap dance area and I have a smely pussy. None of these things are true, I don't even let guys suck on my tits like every other girl in my club does. But I was also the top earner the last few nights and she saw that.
I also had a "friend" of mine give me a backhanded compliment the other day after I got a pair of super hot new shoes. I like to go all out on my stripper outfits and she just wears civilian heels and bras/panties. She told me "your shoes are really pretty, too bad you can't walk in them and just look awkward" I could definitely walk in them and was killing it in them. So many girls just get bitchy and jealous instead of trying to improve themselves.
tempest666
08-09-2014, 03:28 PM
Had an old enemy pop up one time. She was pissed that I was looking damn good so she was telling customers my boobs are fake. (Gasp) Goes on to brag how hers are real. "I know yours are real, sweetie. They sag like old gym socks." ::)
skripper
08-09-2014, 09:19 PM
From a girl who at one time was my "good friend",
"Wow! You gained all the weight I lost!"
simone87
08-09-2014, 09:45 PM
some jealous bitch " your hair makes you look like white trash"..bitch i own my white trashiness.
i was in the dressing room talking about how i needed to sell my old dresses because i was too big for them now, some girl goes " at least you're honest about it! maybe you need to just work out more or talk to your doctor, its getting a bit out of hand" lolol!! i found it more funny than offensive though esp since her body type is not my cup of tea either
MistressOnyx
01-04-2015, 05:48 PM
Last year when I started at a dungeon, this one bitch was like "you need more powder" I was taking photos and I'm a bit on the chocolate side. I went back in and threw some more on. I asked "Is that better?" Her response "I guess."
Here's what I gathered from that. This was just her marking her territory. As most of you have stated, everyone has their own market. Personally, I can't trust a bitch like that so I am now going independent. But I think it is the same everywhere money and men are involved. It's a shame a lot of girls, myself included sometimes, make others feel bad to make ourselves look better. I am trying everyday to get rid of the hate and congratulate. It's a whole world out there with men with money, their meat in their hands and we should all be able to get a piece of that pie. :)
Selina M
01-05-2015, 12:32 PM
It wasn't especially mean, but I took it as rude... on a slow afternoon, the DJ told me that a girl had been critiquing my stage set, saying I must be new because I "looked nervous" and "bent my knees too much" and didn't do pole tricks. I don't know where she got that shit from, but the DJ thought it was hilarious because he knew I was NOT new by any stretch of the imagination, that my "nervousness" was actually Resting Bitch Face, and that this girl didn't put on a particularly impressive stage show herself.
She then approached me and offered to take me to the empty nude side to teach me some pole tricks. I told her "guys don't give a rats ass about pole tricks, but thanks."
She was super offended and still gives me the stink eye on a regular basis.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-05-2015, 12:55 PM
A former friend of mine said I was "all tits" but I later realized it was an insult because of her fucked up personality. She is now a fat has been so HA HA
culitos
01-05-2015, 01:26 PM
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Graci
01-05-2015, 02:43 PM
I've never had that much trouble, but my last shift I had this conversation in the dressing room.
Her: why don't you grow your nails long, or get acrylics?
Me: I play guitar, so they have to be short.
Her: you'll never make money if your hands look like a man's.
O_o
Another dancer chimed in and pointed out that I had been in VIPs all night, so I was obviously doing OK.
22lligm
01-05-2015, 05:37 PM
This wasn't that mean but the girl was trying to put me down I guess, lol. I was in the dressing room when I first started at a club and this girl who is clearly the bitch of the club and had blonde hair when I started working there walks in with purple hair and says next to me "yeah I dyed it, there's just WAY too many blondes here". I was the only blonde girl in the DR and there were maybe two other blondes who worked there. I thought it was funny she had to dye her hair a drastic new color because she thought I was new competition or something. Insecure much? Go ahead and dye your hair purple my income won't be affected, lol.
Jay12
01-05-2015, 07:29 PM
This wasn't that mean but the girl was trying to put me down I guess, lol. I was in the dressing room when I first started at a club and this girl who is clearly the bitch of the club and had blonde hair when I started working there walks in with purple hair and says next to me "yeah I dyed it, there's just WAY too many blondes here". I was the only blonde girl in the DR and there were maybe two other blondes who worked there. I thought it was funny she had to dye her hair a drastic new color because she thought I was new competition or something. Insecure much? Go ahead and dye your hair purple my income won't be affected, lol.
I'd give this person the benefit of the doubt because I'd probably would had made a similar comment without any ulterior intentions, just as an innocent observation. Second, she could had probably been talking to herself (I do that all the time). Then again, when I was dancing I was normally a quiet person, and if I had made a similar comment (and someone would've looked visibly offended) I would had said "I'm sorry, I was not trying to be offensive".
22lligm
01-06-2015, 01:56 AM
I'd give this person the benefit of the doubt because I'd probably would had made a similar comment without any ulterior intentions, just as an innocent observation. Second, she could had probably been talking to herself (I do that all the time). Then again, when I was dancing I was normally a quiet person, and if I had made a similar comment (and someone would've looked visibly offended) I would had said "I'm sorry, I was not trying to be offensive".
I think this is one of those "you have to know her" things. If anyone else said that I probably wouldn't care but this particular girl is literally "the bitch" of the club. She acts like she owns it. Once my friend sat in one spot in the DR and the girl freaks out saying that's "her spot" and then goes on to yell about the girl being a "hooker" in front of everyone. There's other things I can't think of but yeah she definitely goes out of her way to be nasty.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-06-2015, 09:50 AM
One of my failed newbie protoges said "You have the same regulars forever" (which was actually complimentary but she didn't mean it that way.) She was a serious trainwreck of a person so I forgot all about that until now. Moral- some statements made by women only have to be misunderstood to be offensive. Trust me that girl had nothing to teach me lol
Ivy Love
01-06-2015, 11:51 AM
Last year when I started at a dungeon, this one bitch was like "you need more powder" I was taking photos and I'm a bit on the chocolate side. I went back in and threw some more on. I asked "Is that better?" Her response "I guess."
Here's what I gathered from that. This was just her marking her territory. As most of you have stated, everyone has their own market. Personally, I can't trust a bitch like that so I am now going independent. But I think it is the same everywhere money and men are involved. It's a shame a lot of girls, myself included sometimes, make others feel bad to make ourselves look better. I am trying everyday to get rid of the hate and congratulate. It's a whole world out there with men with money, their meat in their hands and we should all be able to get a piece of that pie. :)
It's funny that you mention this. I have yet to realize why women are so damn catty with one another. Especially in this industry, or hell, in general.Instead of helping one another we are( or they. I am not catty, at all) always trying to bring each other down. And for what? For some dusty ass nigga, who is paying to see some tits get shaken in his face? Or some dusty ass motherfucker in general?UGH!
Ivy Love
01-06-2015, 11:51 AM
Last year when I started at a dungeon, this one bitch was like "you need more powder" I was taking photos and I'm a bit on the chocolate side. I went back in and threw some more on. I asked "Is that better?" Her response "I guess."
Here's what I gathered from that. This was just her marking her territory. As most of you have stated, everyone has their own market. Personally, I can't trust a bitch like that so I am now going independent. But I think it is the same everywhere money and men are involved. It's a shame a lot of girls, myself included sometimes, make others feel bad to make ourselves look better. I am trying everyday to get rid of the hate and congratulate. It's a whole world out there with men with money, their meat in their hands and we should all be able to get a piece of that pie. :)
It's funny that you mention this. I have yet to realize why women are so damn catty with one another. Especially in this industry, or hell, in general.Instead of helping one another we are( or they. I am not catty, at all) always trying to bring each other down. And for what? For some dusty ass nigga, who is paying to see some tits get shaken in his face? Or some dusty ass motherfucker in general?UGH!
MistressOnyx
01-12-2015, 04:35 PM
wow, this thread is so eye opening. It leads me to believe that at one point, some of the girls making it so hard, have been in the same stilettos. :( And you're right. Just to get a couple more dollars from some crusty but with the social skills of a nat. If they could actually meet women on the regular plane, they wouldn't need our services. Now some of it, may be taken as insult but could be leveled into constructive criticism. When homegirl told me to put on more makeup, i thought it was helping me, but when I got her response. it was the tone that let me know she was being a hater. Some women just can't handle someone else sharing the limelight. I won't lie, I have a mean streak but it is never aimed at someone trying to make it out there. Only at the haters making it hard. :) Love you guys and Love yourselves because no matter what, if you got in the door, there was something they saw as a commodity.