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HoolaTwister
01-13-2015, 04:01 PM
Oh just remembered one! This girl said "I heard so much about you before we met, I thought you'd be super hot but then when we met I was like "Oh she looks just normal, like every other girl...."

UHM OK! Hah why girls need to put down other girls is beyond me.....

HoolaTwister
01-13-2015, 04:02 PM
Oh just remembered one! This girl said "I heard so much about you before we met, I thought you'd be super hot but then when we met I was like "Oh she looks just normal, like every other girl...."

UHM OK! Hah why girls need to put down other girls is beyond me.....

OliveJardin
01-13-2015, 06:55 PM
Last week a girl exclaimed that my perfume smelt like "period blood" and then proceeded to spray air freshener around the DR ::).

Selina M
01-13-2015, 10:00 PM
Oh just remembered one! This girl said "I heard so much about you before we met, I thought you'd be super hot but then when we met I was like "Oh she looks just normal, like every other girl...."

UHM OK! Hah why girls need to put down other girls is beyond me.....

What a lovely backhanded compliment...

Though I must say, I've met a few girls who were "legends" to some degree and was shocked at quite a few of them being nowhere near what I expected. Not to say you're in that category though!

xxxGothBarbie
01-13-2015, 10:35 PM
Last week a girl exclaimed that my perfume smelt like "period blood" and then proceeded to spray air freshener around the DR ::).

OMG! I had this queenie bitch of the club say within my earshot that it smelled like nasty incense in the DR whilst I was anointing myself LIGHTLY with my oil stuff. It smells amazing & has a certain zen feeling about it or that's at least what most of my custy's have told me since i started wearing it. Gotta love the haters <3 Without them you wouldn't be famous :)

EastCoastDancer01
01-20-2015, 03:02 PM
I have dealth with some of the nastiest bitches ever during my time as a dancer! I can totally relate. I had an older Ukranian woman call me a "fucking retard" in front of everyone in the dressing room, to which I responded "watch your fucking mouth!" and "fuck you". This was after she laughed at me on the floor in front of customers for no reason and I retaliated by jabbing her with my elbow as I walked passed her. She also called me a fucking whore that same day when I first came into work. So much hate from one person! LOL. Oh, and I had some other girl at another club I worked at tell me she wanted to shove her fucking heel down my throat because I did a dance move of hers (which I actually had been doing long before I started working there). I dont understand why some people are so filled with hate and anger! I guess I would be too if I were that miserable.

Swarovskibunny
01-20-2015, 06:43 PM
So this older bitch with an obvious drug problem approaches me, saying that some guy I danced with 2 wks ago was "her loyal customer," and so "I must have been doing something extra because he won't speak to her."
Yeah right. I had been sitting at his table and we were going to go do some dances when that particular dancer came up to him, started throwing herself at him and trying to order drinks on his tab. She was actually bothering him; I told him "do you want me to say something?" And he said "nah, I'll handle it" and got her to eventually go away. So putting that in perspective, she was probably making it up that he was her regular. I was caught off guard by this DR attack because this chick was actually a known extras girl, and I've always been a classy, clean dancer, so I did not even see this attack coming. My only instinct was to retort, "maybe he left you for me just because I'm hotter than you and you're trashy." Smh. Some girls can't stand it when someone younger and prettier than them makes more money. Oh well 💰😄😊😎💵🍸💎.

kaninchen
01-20-2015, 07:01 PM
A while ago I was mutually bitching with some dancers about having eaten too much, skipped the gym, feeling fat, etc. A girl turned to me and said, "You skipped the gym? But you look like you never work out!"

I was like:

http://img4.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20140817151046/sailormoon/images/5/52/Sad_Usagi.png

English wasn't her native language, so to this day I have no idea if she literally meant I look like I never work out, or if I look like I never have to work out. LOL.

lokikola
01-20-2015, 07:32 PM
When talking about customers mistreating me and being direspectful she told me it was my fault because I didn't set boundaries. LOL dumb bitch
Second to that was a crazy white bitch calling me a spic.

princessonyx
01-20-2015, 09:12 PM
One girl was mad that I got a CR over her and said that my customer only liked me because "I reminded him of a little girl (i'm really petite), and that real men like real curves, so good luck". She always mentioned my weight, and said something negative about it every time I was near her, or when I went on stage. I don't even remember that bitches name. Haters!

LightsOnLuna
01-21-2015, 10:17 AM
My stage name is Luna and it used to be a joke the DJ said to call me "Luna-tic" on stage. I asked him politely to stop after a dancer said this little gem.
"You know he only calls you lunatic because you ARE a lunatic and you're too stupid to see it. Customers get up and leave when they see you come out of the dressing room because you're too crazy for them to be in here with. Everyone fucking hates you here."

It's not that I believed her when it came to making the DJ stop calling me that, it's just that, well, it hurt. I've been bullied most of my life. One would think I'd get touch skin. I didn't. But, surprisingly, he apologised for her and stopped. When he called me that again recently after two years I quietly pointed out that I thought he wasn't going to call me that. His response was gold.

"The reason you don't want to be called that is 21 years old with 5 kids and got fired because she never showed up because she was so much of a bitch that no one wanted to babysit her kids. I don't think you need to worry about being called a lunatic from her anymore as we all know you're not one."

Another one from her? I wore leg warmers similar to hers but in a different colour as part of a Capitan America costume and she informed me that she would carve my eyes with rusty scissors for stealing HER leg warmers.

Selina M
01-21-2015, 10:24 AM
^ DJs have the best burns!

Kellydancer
01-21-2015, 12:08 PM
Some of these are funny and some are plain nasty. In general probably the worst thing other dancers have said was that I wasn't pretty enough, thin enough etc to work at the club but the irony is these dancers were almost always the ugliest and/or fattest in the club. Then there were the dancers who would tell me I need to learn how to dance even though they couldn't. These comments used to bother me but then I realized in most cases it was jealousy. In one club (where I got the majority of these comments)many dancers were jealous because they were doing OTC, I didn't have to but was making money being clean.

The nastiest thing I think I said was the club I mentioned above started loosening their hiring standards because the one manager wanted to buy a house faster and what better way than to have more dancers paying house? He hired this grotesque dancer named Jiggles who had a belly full of cellulite and would get on stage and wiggle it. It was gross and I told another dancer. Well, this dancer heard me and went crying to one of the managers (not the one hiring anyone)that I called her fat. Nothing happened because it was true and I was one of the more popular dancers.

Aniela
01-21-2015, 12:15 PM
I mentioned sm time ago in the 'Worst Customer Comments' thread, a customer who was in VIP w/ me & asking abt my name. This led to what I thought was going to be the typical brief discussion of 'I'm from Poland, my hometown is ______, yadda yadda, where are you from?' continuing in the same vein. Instead he said smtg like, 'Oh, you're from Poland ... my family's mostly German ... we were putting your ppl in ovens!' He thought that was hilarious but my jaw just dropped, bc even tho my family isn't Jewish I had several relatives in the camps.

Describing this^^^^ to a dancer friend later that nite, another dancer who openly disliked me overheard & said 'Yeah, what a shame they didn't get them all. I guess cockroaches will always just keep on keeping on!'

I've had sm nasty things said to me & abt me at work but I have yet to hear anything that topped this.

Kellydancer
01-21-2015, 02:51 PM
Oh that tops them all. I would have gone off because I do have relatives who died in the Holocaust (I had a great grandfather who was Jewish).

HallelujahHopkins
01-21-2015, 03:26 PM
I got called a BBW on Sunday by another dancer who was wasted and "complimenting my style". Though I probably could crush her with my thighs....

****holy shit Ariela- hadn't read yours yet. You win this thread.

tempest666
01-21-2015, 04:21 PM
I got called a BBW on Sunday by another dancer who was wasted and "complimenting my style". Though I probably could crush her with my thighs....

****holy shit Ariela- hadn't read yours yet. You win this thread.

You're not even CLOSE to BBW, especially there! :O

HallelujahHopkins
01-26-2015, 08:20 PM
lol.....it's funny how a lot of women who are called a BBW in the strip club industry aren't even close to being a BBW in real life standards. :P

Right?!? Been working another job and even my "giant" size 3 (weird department store sizing) ass is the littlest in the building. I have a 26" waist...in what world is that "big"?

xxxGothBarbie
01-26-2015, 11:59 PM
Right?!? Been working another job and even my "giant" size 3 (weird department store sizing) ass is the littlest in the building. I have a 26" waist...in what world is that "big"?

Most women in this industry are just plain haters & strive to bring other women down that have a higher self esteem than they do. It's sick & annoying but I've learned to just ignore it. Same thing coming from a custy's mouth, it goes in one ear & out the other.

Kellydancer
01-27-2015, 01:09 AM
lol.....it's funny how a lot of women who are called a BBW in the strip club industry aren't even close to being a BBW in real life standards. :P

Yeah the sizes are way off, which is why many of us say "fat by stripper standards" and "fat by normal standards". I couldn't begin to mention the times I was called "thick" for example which was odd because by society's standards I wasn't even slightly chubby. Or the one time this dancer said she wished she had a big butt like me to which I replied I wished I had a larger butt. I don't even have a large butt by any means, even when I gain weight (I gain in my stomach and chest). My hips were extremely tiny (33-34 I believe)and I had dancers tell me my hips were too big. I mean the largest size I have even been in my life was a size 12 (not while dancing)and when I got to that size I felt way too big.

xxxGothBarbie
01-27-2015, 01:27 AM
Yeah the sizes are way off, which is why many of us say "fat by stripper standards" and "fat by normal standards". I couldn't begin to mention the times I was called "thick" for example which was odd because by society's standards I wasn't even slightly chubby. Or the one time this dancer said she wished she had a big butt like me to which I replied I wished I had a larger butt. I don't even have a large butt by any means, even when I gain weight (I gain in my stomach and chest). My hips were extremely tiny (33-34 I believe)and I had dancers tell me my hips were too big. I mean the largest size I have even been in my life was a size 12 (not while dancing)and when I got to that size I felt way too big.

It seems alot of dancers I've worked with my entire time of dancing have ALL loved to call me thick or big. So weird bc I've mostly danced in California (where everyone seems to be tiny or petite) so I guess I'm some fucking giant to them being 5'8" with a large frame and being a size 10-12. Some girls love my butt too while others wanna talk shit & critique my entire body for being a larger girl. In the real world though, I don't get half as much critique as I do when at work. I hate how ppl wanna be so dam rude. I've even had issiues with the custy's thought I was too big for their taste or not a tiny petite waif like they wanted. Is that seriously only out here on the west coast or something?

BarbieNYC
01-27-2015, 09:35 AM
^^ yea I think it's a west coast thing because even in new York borough mixed clubs, you see more average sized girls than petite girls. It's rare I see girls with a total flat stomach, even the skinny ones. They usually already have that little stripper pooch. I can't speak for Manhattan though. And no one would say shit to you in urban clubs. Some of those ass jobs boggle my mind. One time at lust I saw a bbw sized ass, complete with flabby cellulite and dimples. Like it definitely jiggled unlike other ass jobs. But then I saw her frame up top and I realized that the ass was real, she just had a ridiculous amount of lipo to make her waist and stomach really small. And she banked. Lol

lilylilylily
04-04-2015, 02:47 AM
One girl says to me " I don't wanna be mean, but are you pregnant"? I told her I wasn't. She says "oh, you really look it". So much for not wanting to be mean. I've had a few other comments from girls before. They are just projecting their own insecurities.

tempest666
04-04-2015, 03:18 AM
One girl says to me " I don't wanna be mean, but are you pregnant"? I told her I wasn't. She says "oh, you really look it". So much for not wanting to be mean. I've had a few other comments from girls before. They are just projecting their own insecurities.

I had that happen one time when I was bloated. "Yeah and your husband is the father!"

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-04-2015, 04:07 AM
One girl says to me " I don't wanna be mean, but are you pregnant"? I told her I wasn't. She says "oh, you really look it". So much for not wanting to be mean. I've had a few other comments from girls before. They are just projecting their own insecurities.

Some girls think they are geniuses at "breaking people down." lol my f*cking ass. They are truly just little girls. (At my day job I managed to enrage a fucking cow of a waitress b/c she kept getting in my face- so I put her on the spot. She made me out to be a villain. lol These tiny girl women are still around when you're not at the club. SOMEONE has to wear the crown of Basic Bitch..)

lady_lazarus
04-11-2015, 09:39 PM
recently:

Dancer : you're my age right?
me: I don't know (I looked much younger but didn't want to be bitchy) how old are you?
dancer : I'm 35
me: Nope, i'm 26 actually.
dancer : No way! I thought for sure you were my age! (smiles at herself in the mirror) I guess I just look young for my age!

same girl:

me: i think it's time to try a new club, it's really been slow for awhile
dancer : you don't make $1000 a night? I do!
me: oh really? What do you say to get them to VIP, maybe I just need a better hustle
dancer: oh, i don't need to say anything, i'm just hot.

not sure if this one is bitchy or just plain psychotic:

"I saw you give him a blow job! (um, no you most certainly didn't) and I know you are giving all the other girls here herpes (so are you saying all the other girls suck dick?) I'M GOING TO FOLLOW YOU HOME AND KILL YOU" she screamed all this as she was being held back by two other girls. She was mad bc her regular wanted a VIP with me instead of her that night.

Neonsugar
04-12-2015, 03:18 AM
In my club we have metal rafters on the ceiling that a lot of the girls do tricks on so tonight I got the hang of it and hung upside down on them and during a lapdance with a customer this girl comes up to me and says "keep stealing my tricks and I'll break your fucking neck" uhm ..

JessaJade
04-12-2015, 05:01 AM
Years ago I was adjusting my (admittedly cheap) dress in the mirror and this really unattractive girl with sores all over her face goes "Oh it's a shame when youve only got cheapie gowns and have to keep readjusting your outfit all night". I was like "Yeah I know, I really ought to get some nicer gowns but I spend all my money on good skin products so I don't look all skanky".

HoolaTwister
04-12-2015, 02:14 PM
One night this very handsome Texas cowboy type came in, pointed at me and we spend hours together. I made $$$$$$$$$$$$$, probably the most I've ever made in one day. When I went to freshen up in the dressing room I heard these other two girls talking about it.

Dancer #1: Why is he spending all this money one her and not anyone else here?
Dancer #2: Because she LET'S HIM. Ugh.

HUH?! Wtf does that even mean??????? And they knew I could hear them but I'm very quiet and look innocent so they thought they could mess with me.

HoolaTwister
04-12-2015, 02:37 PM
Oh and one time a costumer bought me a LV bag, a large one, a smaller one and a wallet to match. All very beautiful, I was happy because it was so unexpected. This other dancer was like "Oh how pathetic. You should be a proud woman and buy your own and not depend on a man to get it for you!"

What the what?? Hahahaha! I always have other girls say bitchy things to me, the hits keep on coming!

Gia2608
04-13-2015, 05:53 PM
Some of these are terrible and some are really making me chuckle. I never really had girls say mean things to me at work because I was always a top earner and stuck with other dancers who did the same. I did however get into a terrible fight with another dancer OTC who told me I should go to Jenny Craig... TBH I had gained quite a bit of weight at that point and I also had told her she needed rehab (which she probably did!)

DorienG
04-15-2015, 12:54 PM
I hadn't thought about this for a while, but it was pretty hurtful.

I had had an abortion at almost 3 months (I used BC but I was that 5% chance that happened.) Also, I did have a test early on but it was a false negative, otherwise I wouldn't have waited so long.

So after that was over, I returned to work and had gained some weight.

Dancer: "Your body will never be the same." Boom!

Fast forward two years later (she quit for a while). Not only was I back in shape, but better shape. While being the "California Girl" type who lived in tanning beds; she came back a tad heavier and skin like a leather purse.}:D

Nyla19
04-15-2015, 01:14 PM
I've been insulted so many times I don't know where to begin!!!!

Swarovskibunny
04-15-2015, 02:19 PM
This is just a general bitchy thing that is said at my club to/about basically every girl who makes money, and it's always said by a girl who isn't making shit. "So-and-so sucks dick/dancer x fucks customers (I've never seen it but I just know)/ i know you suck dick, how do you make 3000 and the rest of us make ~250?"

Ive never hit 3grand in a night, but I would rather ask that person for advice on hustle strategies, instead of being a hater. And 250? Clearly the one with the problem is you, if that's all you can manage in a whole 7-hour shift on a Friday. Maybe try fixing your look, hustle, or finding a new club.

xStacey
04-16-2015, 05:08 AM
Oh and one time a costumer bought me a LV bag, a large one, a smaller one and a wallet to match. All very beautiful, I was happy because it was so unexpected. This other dancer was like "Oh how pathetic. You should be a proud woman and buy your own and not depend on a man to get it for you!"

What the what?? Hahahaha! I always have other girls say bitchy things to me, the hits keep on coming!

Lol they're simply jealous, enjoy your bags! I wish I could get customers to buy me LV bags but in my area such expensive gifts are a rarity unless the guy is a long-term sugar daddy (I can't put up with those...) so I buy them myself but I'd soo rather get them for free.

4everresolutions
04-16-2015, 09:10 AM
"Woah. And I thought I was big."

Mind you, I was 170 lbs at the time. But still. Cunt.

whirlerz
04-16-2015, 11:01 PM
I've been insulted so many times I don't know where to begin!!!!

I know, right?

sexsells
04-17-2015, 02:45 AM
TBH I don't think i've ever been insulted by any girls or staff members, nor have I insulted them. Customers on the other hand...

Only things I can think of are girls saying that my hair looked exactly how their hair used to look. lol no bitch you wish you hair look like mine... it never did and never will.

Gia2608
04-17-2015, 08:54 PM
TBH I don't think i've ever been insulted by any girls or staff members, nor have I insulted them. Customers on the other hand...

Only things I can think of are girls saying that my hair looked exactly how their hair used to look. lol no bitch you wish you hair look like mine... it never did and never will.

I probably wished my hair looked like yours! I have terrible hair but at least I can afford expensive extensions!

xxxGothBarbie
04-24-2015, 09:11 PM
The other night I went back to an old club I'd worked in a couple of yrs ago & when I walked into the DR the one girl says "um who are you?" I ignore her until she says it again then I respond with (stage name) to which she says "oh well you're not much of a ppl person are u?" and then I retort with a big smile "nope".... Dumb broads haha

They were these jealous redneck country bitches that were obviously threatened bc I made alot of money there 2 yrs before & everyone was talking about it when I walked in. Learn how to hustle bitch & stop sitting for free with guys ALL night every night.

DorienG
05-03-2015, 12:51 PM
In my club we have metal rafters on the ceiling that a lot of the girls do tricks on so tonight I got the hang of it and hung upside down on them and during a lapdance with a customer this girl comes up to me and says "keep stealing my tricks and I'll break your fucking neck" uhm ..

^ That's not catty, that is just really mean & scary! I did have a dancer once tell me that I was stealing "her stage song". I don't consider that mean, just stupid. Like, did she own the rights to it?

maggie82
06-19-2016, 08:04 PM
What the fuck is wrong with you? I don't understand people who are intentionally malicious to others.

i agree

KikiGem
06-20-2016, 04:38 PM
The only time dancers have really been bitchy to me was during day shift in the summer at a small club. The "queen bee" was only able to sell dances by dissing everyone to customers. It's actually pathetic - she lived her life miserable all the time for a couple hundred bucks a day, often not even that.
Same club, one chick made a show of laughing while I was on stage. She only did this once because I was so unfazed. Later she got fired for gaining too much weight.

I don't really get it, either. I don't bother other people unless I'm bothered first. It's ok because they really do hurt themselves the most. Whatever!

ice1995
06-20-2016, 05:08 PM
"That looks SO FAKE"

Then I took her regular to a champagne room for 3 hours :)

RyanXO
06-28-2016, 03:10 PM
"Oh, wow! How did you get hired? Girls with stretchmarks as bad as yours aren't allowed to work here just so you know so watch out!"

Caligynephilia
06-28-2016, 06:00 PM
Wasn't bitchy but definitely catty and since she had just finished her audition...

I'm near-sighted and stuck on the minor stage all day so I have to squint to see. When it's slow I watch the other dancers to learn and improve (which is what EVERY NEWBIE DOES?!?!?). These two girls come in and audition and naturally I'm watching them. Later on after they had already gone upstairs to talk to the manager I was heading up there and ran into them while I was waiting for the elevator. I made a joke about them walking up all those stairs. Well the door opened and I went in a they didn't know that the door takes a good 2 minutes to close again >:(

One girl started talking shit about me, saying how I was so bitchy and jealous because I was "glaring" at her while she auditioned. I got so pissed I immediately stormed out of the elevator and told her off because our club does NOT tolerate girls being bitches and starting drama and I told her that if she was going to bring that shit attitude to the club when she didn't know shit that she could have the door hit her ass on the way out.

Still fuming about that. >:(

TearieLeigh
06-29-2016, 04:26 PM
Last night I was the bitchy dancer.

We had a new girl, never danced before, but she thought she new everything because she had seen movies with strippers in em. She kept judging all our long time dancers and being rude.

Half way through the night, I was in the DR, she in there complaining about how some of the dancers are mean to her. I put my hand on her shoulder and just blurted out " Wow, didnt take long for everyone to hate you. "

LoveyDovey
06-29-2016, 11:31 PM
Half way through the night, I was in the DR, she in there complaining about how some of the dancers are mean to her. I put my hand on her shoulder and just blurted out " Wow, didnt take long for everyone to hate you. "

:rotfl:

LoveyDovey
06-30-2016, 02:21 AM
I overheard one girl say to another "Fuck you! Don't fucking smile at me! Suck my butthole!"

OliveJardin
06-30-2016, 08:02 PM
Overhead snarky comments:

"There's something on your butt...oh no, wait...it's just cellulite!"

"Girls go blonde when they get "fat". It's easier to pull off "fat" as a blonde".

"Oh she's that bad fake boob job, piranha mouthed one". (About the hottest girl in my club. Jealous girls *sigh*).