View Full Version : How many ladies here are pregnant?
Cupid213
12-17-2007, 06:30 PM
I just had My First Baby November 1st ;D It is a girl But,no more for me even though I still look 4 months! lol;)
Kaylinn
12-17-2007, 09:40 PM
Six years of using the "we'll pull out in time" method and... no beh-behs!!!! Woo!
Neeeeeed to knock on wood. Knock on wood.
well, your doing better than me. I lasted 5 years on the pull out method before it caught me ;)
We had been getting more careless, since tracked my periods and ovulation, I knew when it was "safe" for him to cum inside me, and since I loved it so very much, when we knew it was safe, he wouldn't pull out.
Well, One day I forgot to check my little calender and see whre I was in my cycle. We went to the hottub, got busy, he didn't pull out. I expected him to...we knew it was close to the time, I just wasn't exactly sure. Call it lack of communication. I said, uhh...thought u was gonna pull out? Why didn't u? uhh..I think I'm gona ovulate soon....*run to check calander* fuck. I ovulate tomorrow. we're screwed. 2 weeks later.....the digital reads PREGNANT.
The pull out method served us well. That method works just fine. If he actualyl pulls out!!
phillyvixen
12-18-2007, 09:40 AM
^^^ Kaylinn that is exactly how i got pregnant.
I was like uhh you didn't ask if you could cum in me (he always asked), he was like uhh i thought you would have said something. We both knew it was close to no no time.
Then poof, a baby is made. I secretly think he did it on purpose, and i'm pretty sure he secretly thinks i did haha. We both wanted it i guess.
confrontingmydemons
12-18-2007, 01:09 PM
I'm a preggo...
Picaresque
12-18-2007, 05:03 PM
Don't ever want to have any kids.
Same here.
stellaforstars
12-21-2007, 10:36 AM
The preggers camp is going to take over SW pretty soon!
paintgoddess
12-21-2007, 12:54 PM
The pull out method served us well. That method works just fine. If he actualyl pulls out!!
Yeah... he only comes in me once every three months or so. And even then it depends on where I am in my cycle. We know there's a chance... and take our chances. We've also discussed what we'll do if I do get pregnant... because we know it can happen.
Okay... end threadjack.
Onemore
12-21-2007, 06:21 PM
birth control pill has done well for me so far
Cheer4lyfe
12-25-2007, 12:11 AM
lol @ poll options
Imagine if anybody finds out if they are pregnant a day or two after voting :x
scarlett_vancouver
12-25-2007, 02:06 PM
5 weeks pregnant and we're getting married feb. 22nd
Aw cute, congrats! Red Riding Hood and Teen Wolf, lol
Callyish
12-25-2007, 02:24 PM
Not preggo... though I really do want a lil one :(
PhillyDancer1982
12-28-2007, 11:30 AM
^^^ Kaylinn that is exactly how i got pregnant.
I was like uhh you didn't ask if you could cum in me (he always asked), he was like uhh i thought you would have said something. We both knew it was close to no no time.
Yeah a guy did that to me a few months ago. I felt he was a bit intrusive to just assume that he didn't have to pull out or confirm with me(he pulled out the first time, so why not the 2nd?). So I promptly made him pay the full $42 for the morning after pill at the pharmacy. LOL I didn't feel bad making him pay(I've been learning how to "expect" guys to pay my way on dates or to pay for their mistakes so that I don't have to. I love being assertive and demanding these days). I coulda gotten the pill for only $18 at Planned Parenthood, but why go out of my way and take a good hour or so out of my full-time job's workday?...after all, I was making him pay for it.
Thankfully most chain pharmacies across to US now offer the morning after pill over-the-counter. It's about $40-45 and all you need to show is an ID so that they know you're over 18. Before that, it sucked because you had to rely on a Planned Parenthood being open, and most were not open on weekends or holidays, which meant waiting a few days and thus having the pill's efficiency reduced. (that's how I got pregnant before...condom failed, and I had to wait 3 days before Planned Parenthood opened up because the incident happened over a holiday weekend)
PhillyDancer1982
12-28-2007, 11:39 AM
I'm not pregnant, and not trying to, but if I accidentally became pregnant, the only person I would be aborting would be the asshat that dare try to tell me that it'd be wisest to get the fetus aborted. >:( (obviously I have a lot of resentment towards people that discredit or underestimate my capabilities) Okay not really, but I think you get the idea...
Kaylinn
12-28-2007, 11:52 AM
Yeah a guy did that to me a few months ago. I felt he was a bit intrusive to just assume that he didn't have to pull out or confirm with me(he pulled out the first time, so why not the 2nd?). So I promptly made him pay the full $42 for the morning after pill at the pharmacy. LOL I didn't feel bad making him pay(I've been learning how to "expect" guys to pay my way on dates or to pay for their mistakes so that I don't have to. I love being assertive and demanding these days). I coulda gotten the pill for only $18 at Planned Parenthood, but why go out of my way and take a good hour or so out of my full-time job's workday?...after all, I was making him pay for it.
Thankfully most chain pharmacies across to US now offer the morning after pill over-the-counter. It's about $40-45 and all you need to show is an ID so that they know you're over 18. Before that, it sucked because you had to rely on a Planned Parenthood being open, and most were not open on weekends or holidays, which meant waiting a few days and thus having the pill's efficiency reduced. (that's how I got pregnant before...condom failed, and I had to wait 3 days before Planned Parenthood opened up because the incident happened over a holiday weekend)
You didn't think to mention to him before hand how you plannd on handling birth control?
" I'm not on any, you need to pull out?"
I mean..it's pretty foolish to expect the guy to confirm with you what he should do with his spunk...it is afterall, your body, your ultimate responsibility....
And Make him pay for his mistake? It was a mistake on both your parts....
Seriously, it's one thign to be assertive. It's another thign entirely to intentionally mistreat people. Please don't confuse assertive with bitch who shits on people just cause she can.. You will go much further in life learning how to be assertive and kind to others.
PhillyDancer1982
12-28-2007, 01:38 PM
You didn't think to mention to him before hand how you plannd on handling birth control?
" I'm not on any, you need to pull out?"
I mean..it's pretty foolish to expect the guy to confirm with you what he should do with his spunk...it is afterall, your body, your ultimate responsibility....
And Make him pay for his mistake? It was a mistake on both your parts....
Seriously, it's one thign to be assertive. It's another thign entirely to intentionally mistreat people. Please don't confuse assertive with bitch who shits on people just cause she can.. You will go much further in life learning how to be assertive and kind to others.
Well...I had him pull out the first time, which occured within the same day. Logic would tell you that you should pull out. And this guy wasn't a serious boyfriend or anyone who I had let do that before...this was a guy who I'd just started hooking up with(actually, this was the first sexual encounter I had with him). It's bad enough that I agreed to do things without condoms, but don't you think it's pushing it for him to not pull out? The one irresponsible thing I did was continue to fool around with him without condoms, but this was a while ago and one of the changes that I've vowed to make, is to use protection all the time now instead of just sometimes.
The reason I'm more of a "bitch" these days is because in the past, I would always be paying my own way on dates or paying for the morning after pill all by myself after telling a guy to pull out and then the guy exercising bad timing. I'd rather be a bitch than a doormat. Ideally it's best to be somewhere in between the two, but if I had to choose only between those two extremes, I'd rather be seen as a bitch than as a doormat.
Kaylinn
12-28-2007, 01:53 PM
^ well, yeah...I agree with you, but I do hope you can find the happy medium eventually.
PhillyDancer1982
12-28-2007, 02:41 PM
^ Thanks and I hope so too. I hold the belief that since I'd been so unassertive for so long, that I'll probably have to go through a period of being the extreme opposite in order to fully rid myself of my old unassertive ways before reaching that happy medium.
Perhaps you are right when you say that I was a little too demanding LOL. I'd told my female friend "May" about the no-withdrawal incident before, and she commended me for making the guy pay for the pill. Do you really think I was being a little TOO demanding?
Last year when the same thing happened with a different guy, I told him afterwards that I would be getting the pill. He offered to pay for it in full, but I felt bad so I said he only had to pay half. He insisted on paying for it, but only had money to cover half the cost at the time, so he paid me that but then never paid me the rest of it. Subserviently, I chalked it up as a "loss" and never again asked him about it. Later in time, this same guy started using me for rides(mocking me about it too!), blowing off plans with me, and cheating behind my back. I see the mistakes I made in being too much of a doormat, so that's why I'm trying to do things differently now.
Kaylinn
12-28-2007, 03:19 PM
you may be right, and need to go through a phase before finding the middle ground...but I worry because I'm an extremist. Everythign for me is black and white, and I alwyas have a hard time finding a middle ground. If your anythgn like me...it may be hard to settle into that right spot.
Although being a doormat is bad, and it's very good your learning to be assertive...being to assertive can shoot you in the foot as well. Neither extreme is good and both can cause you to miss opportunities.
Actually..it's not even thatyou need to be less assertive. It's just that you need to learn when and how of it. There's a time for everything, ya know? And the how you excecute it is important as well.
Remember this: It's much easier to get someone to do what you want if you make them believe they WANT to do it. ( as opposed to just beign a bitch and forcing them)
Making people think they want what you want can be difficult to learn, but it's a good quality to have. Read some sales books on the subject.
A perfect example would be ata restraunt. Your food was messed up, and you want your money back. The manager will be much mroe willing to give you whatyou want if your firm but polite, rather than justthrowing a fit and yelling at him.
PhillyDancer1982
12-28-2007, 04:13 PM
you may be right, and need to go through a phase before finding the middle ground...but I worry because I'm an extremist. Everythign for me is black and white, and I alwyas have a hard time finding a middle ground. If your anythgn like me...it may be hard to settle into that right spot.
Yeah I can be very black-and-white at times, too.
I'm also the type of person that when trying to fix a flaw, will become desperate to the point that I don't care if I reach the opposite extreme, as long as I'm going in a different direction. For example, when I got fed up with being a blonde and I was also tired of people telling me that I didn't look very good as a blonde(hey it works on some, but not for me)...I realized that I wanted to drastically change my look so I didn't change my color to a mellow light brown or something moderate, no I had to go for the dark-dark brown-black, just to make the clearest statement possible that I was absolutely in no way blonde anymore...it looked better than blonde, but I realize now that medium shades(red or chestnut brown) look a lot better.
Remember this: It's much easier to get someone to do what you want if you make them believe they WANT to do it. ( as opposed to just beign a bitch and forcing them)
Making people think they want what you want can be difficult to learn, but it's a good quality to have. Read some sales books on the subject.
Ugh I'm HORRIBLE at sales. The main reason I hate sales is the same reason I hated gym class in middle school...because I'm no good at it. :( But admittedly you give some good advice.
A perfect example would be ata restraunt. Your food was messed up, and you want your money back. The manager will be much mroe willing to give you whatyou want if your firm but polite, rather than justthrowing a fit and yelling at him.
VERY VERY true! :) Although when it comes to subprime lender/mess Capital One, the "throwing a fit and yelling" approach seemed to work better for me. But then again, Capital One is a sleazebag subprime lender known for ripping off customers and dealing primarily with bad credit peoples, so what does that really show.