View Full Version : Finding love in a strip club?
OdysseusNJ
12-18-2007, 01:02 AM
How about we get The Ballad of Ricky Bobby instead?
Tauries
12-18-2007, 01:31 AM
How about we get The Ballad of Ricky Bobby instead?
Good call!! The way OP is draggin this out the whole movie and some popcorn would have been for the win.....we'll have to have the chat-alohics spank OdyNJ as punishment.
gingerlee
12-18-2007, 11:09 AM
How about we get The Ballad of Ricky Bobby instead?
Now that seems WAY more interesting! I vote for Ricky Bobby!
gingerlee
12-18-2007, 11:10 AM
While hockeyboy sleeps, does anyone want to guess as to how the story continues and ends? Any betting men and women in the house? I'll begin by googling voltanikita.com so that I can rule out any straw man argument.
Best voltabianca reference EVER.
Silverback
12-18-2007, 11:23 AM
Best voltabianca reference EVER.
If you guys hadn't been so mean to him, I could still follow this exciting tale of true love, found in a strip club (if only she'd quit running and hiding in other countries):
The Newsletter Archive (http://www.voltabianca.info/newsletters)
Toward the end of May 2005, problems with "flaming" bloggers and other considerations forced me to abandon the Breaking News feature and replace it with a private email newsletter. You had to be an email subscriber to receive the updates. The above link will take you to a root directory were the title of each newsletter I have made public is listed. The earliest ones (June 2005) trace the discovery of Galaxy Insurance as the agency where Bianca/Daniela worked.
Miss Jessica
12-18-2007, 05:04 PM
I dated a manager at a club I worked at whom I thought I loved for a moment. Until he put me through hell (looooong story, but he was too old for me and I had a "daddy" complex). Ah well, you live you learn. I told myself NEVER to date anyone who workedin a strip club, I met in a strip club, I deserved what happened for being so stupid and not following my instincts.
poolmaninSATX
12-18-2007, 09:51 PM
If she gives you permission to do that... ask her if you can borrow your balls back for a few hours once a month.
hockeybobby
12-19-2007, 04:04 AM
If she gives you permission to do that... ask her if you can borrow your balls back for a few hours once a month.
I admitted to being foolish and indiscrete, and apologised to the whole world. Then you come along and stick your boot up my arse.
Doncha know kickin' a dude when he's down aint exactly sportin'?
hockeybobby
12-19-2007, 04:14 AM
I dated a manager at a club I worked at whom I thought I loved for a moment. Until he put me through hell (looooong story, but he was too old for me and I had a "daddy" complex). Ah well, you live you learn. I told myself NEVER to date anyone who workedin a strip club, I met in a strip club, I deserved what happened for being so stupid and not following my instincts.
Thank you for sharing your story Miss Jessica. Sorry it didn't work out. Are you saying that at the time you had a personal rule about never dating someone you met in the club, but you went against that rule in this instance?
Mastridonicus
12-19-2007, 10:54 AM
I FOUND LOVE IN THE SC!
eww...there's peanuts in it!
Miss Jessica
12-19-2007, 04:57 PM
Thank you for sharing your story Miss Jessica. Sorry it didn't work out. Are you saying that at the time you had a personal rule about never dating someone you met in the club, but you went against that rule in this instance?
Yep...
Smith
12-22-2007, 04:30 PM
If you spend money on her in the club, she is sorta developing a habit of using you which makes her think things about you from the perspective of using you more (i.e. other than love-invoking thoughts). In fact even if you spent money on others in the club, she may already think of you as a wallet. If you are a frequent face at a club, she may think you have no life and are not worthy.
Best you can hope for really is one or all of these:
someone who will let you take her out if you pay for expenses and then take her back home to her dude or dudette (i.e. expensive restaraunts)
someone who will make you pay to have sex or "something else" outside the club (when outside the club together, near a possible location, and she is comfortable and feels safe, ask for "dances")
someone who will make you pay to get goooood dances in the club (but know girls have pressure to do similarly good dances in the same club so finding the perfect club might be better task in order to get goooood dances)
someone who will party, i.e. use your drugs and possibly let you "seduce" her while she is high enough
someone who will let you give her rides
an empty bank account
poolmaninSATX
12-27-2007, 01:01 AM
You could alway tell her that the canadian dollar you put in her t-bag is worth more than the American dollar. She just might like you more because you ARE spending more money on her.
maximvsv
12-28-2007, 12:31 AM
I keep vacillating about whether to post here or start something new, but the dancers' responses have me wondering...
See, there's a dancer I knew who really messed with my head. I had known her for several months and one night, she's drunk, takes me aside, and she tells me that she loves me and that something happened when she was a child that she can't have children but wanted to have children with me. Now, I knew better than to think that she was serious, but I thought that it meant that she might have some interest.
Over the next few months, she tells me that she loves me another three times. She tells me that she doesn't think that she can dance for me any more because she can't think of me as a customer. She must have promised to call at least five times and never did. She gave me a telephone number, and it was her voice on the outgoing message, but she never returned my calls.
Over the course of a year, I wasn't the sort to buy champagne rooms or anything, but I'd pass her fifty or a hundred dollars every so often. I lent her two hundred to fix her car.
Then, she just disappeared. No calls. No nothing. Every so often, I hear from mutual acquaintences that she's still in Philadelphia, but not dancing anywhere.
So, that's the background.
Here, there are plenty of responses so far about how cash is the big motivator.
The question to you dancers is, how far have you lead some guy on to get money from him, and why?
cherry_sin
12-28-2007, 05:18 PM
^As far as I have to without a deliberate lie.
And for the money of course.
I mean, I'm not gonna be the girl who promise to date/fuck/run off and marry a guy. That's not true. But guys who come to the club looking to fall in love, no matter how slick they are, generally have a giant flashing sign over their heads. I'll give them more cuddles, more GFE, more snuggles. Just like I'm into stockings when I meet a fetishist or I love Parisian chocolates when I'm with a French guy.
I give people what they want so that they'll give me what I want - a "perfect girl" fantasy for cold, hard cash.
Unfortunately, I, and many others, are so good guys really beleive we are naked coeds with a stocking fetish and acute nymphomania who LOVE a man with a beer gut.
Long winded, but a soapbox of mine. :)
VegasPrincess
12-28-2007, 06:38 PM
Umm.....I really would never want some guy getting all obsessed with me, and I sure as hell wouldn't think it was appropriate to tell some guy I never saw in real life that I loved him and wanted to have his babies.
I don't get into the whole mind fucking thing. I mean, working in Vegas anyway I would never see the same customers all the time, although I will give out my number and go out gambling and stuff with really good customers that I like. They know the deal, that we're casual friends but they have to pay me money. I really do like all of the people I do this with, too.
I have dated two people I met as customers in the club. One took me to VIP for four hours in the celebirty booth (Rhino girls know this means you have to buy a bottle every hour to stay in the booth. So we had four bottles of bubbly in four hours. I was wasted!) ... Another guy thought I was hot and wanted to go hang out at Palms, and I was like, "if you give me 1000 dollars I will." Lol. he did.
The point of me telling you this, tho, is that I was sort of the agressor in asking both of these guys out. I think if a girl likes you she will l let you know, and it won't be like, "oh here's my number let's hang out" by hang out in VIP. She'll be like, "Let's go do such and such on such a date." I don't know.
What do I know though? Maybe you can find love in a SC. But I think it'd be a fluke thing not something you can attempt to do.
asianlady
12-30-2007, 02:17 PM
I have fallen in crush and lust both wore off pretty quick but was fun while it lasted but in twenty years never met anyone to hook up with pernamently cheated on my husband many many times and had some great fun but we are still together never found any one to replace him
laplover69
12-30-2007, 05:45 PM
9 times out of 10 if you are wondering whether it's "personal" or "business" with a dancer it's just BUSINESS. Strictly lust is much simpler albeit perhaps less ultimately fulfilling than love.
Silverback
12-30-2007, 05:53 PM
Is love fulfilling? :-\
laplover69
12-30-2007, 07:31 PM
Is love fulfilling? :-\
Guess that depends upon your own individual unique circumstances...:) Sometimes yes, sometimes no...