View Full Version : What's your sexual preference
allieoop
12-24-2013, 07:04 PM
Ironically enough, despite being in the sex industry, I have no interest in sex. So yea, asexual. I am however panromantic. Everyone is hot and it isn't fair because all I want to do is cuddle and watch fun movies.
cherryblossomsinspring
01-11-2014, 02:12 AM
Maybe this poll needs to be redone. It's funny how new titles have emerged since then that fit people more so.
Asexual ( No or low sexual attraction to individuals some may enjoy sexual pleasure others don't)
Gray A. ( Between Homo or Heteo Sexual and Asexual)
Demisexual ( Emotional based attraction creating sexual attraction to a person)
Heteroflexible ( Has relationships with opposite sex but will have sex with the same sex once in a while)
Homoflexible (Has relationships with the same sex but will have sex with someone of the opposite sex once in a while)
Straight (Opposite sex attraction and relationships only)
Gay/Lesbian ( Same sex attraction and relationships only)
Bisexual (Attraction and relationships with both sexes)
Pansexual (Attraction to all sex types under all umbrellas including but not limited to all of the above +Queer/ Transgendered/ Intersexed individiuals)
I'm a Gray A Demisexual. I'm attracted to people but not enough to have sex with them. I also love my orgasms but men I've been with have yet to out do any toy in my possession. In relationships sure I enjoy sex with a partner but I don't do fwb or random sex because for me it seems pointless ,empty and less than what I can do with my body alone. Plus sex is a high risk activity. The only way to be truly safe is to have no sex at all.
My combinations are simple Money + Orgasms+Kink / Money + Love + Orgasms+Kink. Hahah. It's one of the reason I think camming has been fun for me. Well it was probably much more fun in the past.
lol1337a
01-11-2014, 02:50 AM
Yeah, sexuality is more complicated than the Kinsey scale. I say I'm a little bit bi because actually spelling it out would take so long. I'm demisexual when it comes to men but quite the opposite when it comes to women -- It's almost entirely about physical appearance there. However, I have also felt intense romantic feelings toward both men and women without wanting to have sex with them at all. I haven't known enough transpeople to tell if pansexual would apply to me as a label but I can't rule it out either.
Morrigan
01-11-2014, 08:02 AM
Once more its not so cut and dry on my end. To knowing my genetic state you could say Im straight, but, then you can say Im lesbian based on how I have always identified. Though at the same time you could also say Im more Pan in the sense that normally I don't " see" gender in really anything- I just see a person. yet once an individual does become more familiar to me and crosses a certain 'threshold" I can see romantic love forming easily regardless. PHYSICAL however when we talk naughty time Im sort of dead- if my mind, and my hearts not in it my body really wont be and though I can put out I honestly wont really feel any stimulation from any of it unless the proper mood and condition is in place.
then I get frustrated and scream " labels are petty anyway!" then I sulk off to a corner listen to disco and cry. XD
Almost Jaded
01-12-2014, 02:08 AM
I dunno how all you alphabet soup types handle it, lol. Seems awfully complicated.
I'm as straight as straight can get. My sexuality within that sphere is very complex, but at least I have no complications when it comes to who and what I want!
Morrigan
01-12-2014, 08:13 AM
I dunno how all you alphabet soup types handle it, lol. Seems awfully complicated.
there is a users manual that comes with it * sagely nod* sadly I lost most of mine and only have the Finnish translated pages...for the longest time I though " Pusku" had something to do with a HDMI cable o.-
Almost Jaded
01-12-2014, 09:08 AM
You are my current favorite thing on the interwebz as of the moment I read that reply, lol!
I don't usually get on too well with the vocal pronoun types, not because I have a problem with them or who they are, but because as a very secure and happy cis het male apparently I'm evil. I rather resent that attitude, especially from the group for whom "tolerance" is a sacred word.
Your reply and the self effacing humor was awesome and refreshing. :-)
Morrigan
01-12-2014, 11:03 AM
Bodhidharma said it best in a few of his lessons.
" Our nature is the mind. And the mind is our nature"
" You can't know your real mind as long as you deceive yourself"
" To go from mortal to Buddha, you have to put an end to karma, nurture your awareness, and accept what life brings"
" freeing ones self from words is liberation"
AKA, Life is just as it is, experience it, understand it, set it to the side and move along. Fuming over petty small things wont get us anywhere and just get in our way, feed our insecurities or other conditions and fester and spread. Just let it fall tot he side, and continue on, life is too short to squander, be you, and carry that to others.
thats more or less where I stand
kimbe
01-12-2014, 11:13 AM
I'm "very" straight
The Six
01-13-2014, 10:15 AM
Having 15,000 different labels for sexuality is the worst. I hate all the new age crap where we have to define everybody to the smallest minute detail so that we can all feel equal and included, and no one can ever be left out of anything. Just like whatever you like and be done with it.
SkyeSabrina
01-13-2014, 10:49 AM
I'm pan.
I fall in love with the personality, not the body. But the body does make things fun <3