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Katrine
12-27-2007, 06:08 PM
Every time I got snubbed by a group of Asian men, or had a really handsy Indian custy, or tried to hustle a black man who wasn't willing to buy dances but willing to badger me for my phone number.....

....was a time that I made really good money off of any of these types of guys. It never hurts to try everyone!

twisterinAZ
12-27-2007, 07:02 PM
I will not dance for Mexicans. I just won't do it. Every time I break this rule, something seriously fucked up happens. Last time I danced for a Mexican when I turned around he grabbed my nipple and tweaked it SO hard that tears welled up in my eyes. I grabbed his money. He had 12 bucks on the table ( dances are 10. ) I ran to tell management and this fuckstick tried to accuse me of stealing a hundred dollars from him. It was the bginning of my shift and I only had like 20-30 bucks at this time. They did kick him out but he was shouting in spanish as he left. So never. ever. again. Thats just the last incident. There have been lots of others.

I'm not a racist at all , I just have learned the hard way who gives me trouble.

Flame away if you must.

NewMoon
12-27-2007, 09:18 PM
I don't judge a book by its cover for sure. i can think of many instances where if i avoided a customer based on a racial/cultural stereotype because of prior bad experiences, i would have lost money.

sometimes black guys like flat butts, asians like fat girls, and the group of young guys you'd normally turn your nose up have $10,000 between them and they want to spend it all at the strip club.......
I don't think most of us are saying we will never approach X race. We just put a priority. I approach middle-aged white men first because they are most likely to spend money on me and I approach young black men last because they are least likely to spend money on me. I would never refuse to approach someone based only on race/age and other visual factors, but I may bump them down on the priority list.

exotica00
12-29-2007, 12:17 AM
I agree with NewMoon.

I usually base my actions on how people "act" vs. how they "look," and, I've found that a good deal of the time, they fit right into their stereotypes...at least in my past experiences. The Mexicans are the dirtiest and try to get away with the most and proposition me, and the black people are the loudest ones at the stage hooting and trying to get my number, yet not paying me any money. (I've actually also found, as another asian girl mentioned on here, that asian guys either love me or hate me.)

However, there are always exceptions, but I have yet to see many, unfortunately. Therefore, it may look as though I'm treating someone differently due to their race, but I'm actually just treating him or her like shit due to specific actions. For instance, where I'm from at least, you're not likely to find a middle-age white guy yelling out "Yo Momma lemme see you shake dat ass...yeah i be makin' it rain..mmmhmm can i get yo numbah outside hurrrrr..." then say he's broke...however, you ARE likely to see a young black guy do that. Gee, wonder who I'm going to NOT approach? Why? B/c he's black? No...b/c he can't speak proper english and is broke!

I love how so many people pull the race card.

Lena
12-29-2007, 03:55 AM
I think it's really geographical. It seems like it's only in big cities and weird little places where these whole cultures spring up around skin color - most other places an asian guy will respond just the same as any other colored guy. When I worked in La Puente there was a definite asian culture thing happening, and they loved my big natural boobs even though I am not skinny or blond or anything resembling petite.

I am prejudiced against men from Mineapolis though. They bite. The last one I gave a chance to promised he wouldn't bite, and then he did.

britneyireland
12-29-2007, 09:26 AM
Twister....I didn't know anyone else used the word "fuckstick" to describe people ;)

LOL!

Sophia_Starina
12-29-2007, 03:48 PM
But seriously, you can't put people in boxes according to race.

Political correctness aside, I believe in patterns. I see no harm in sharing previous experiences with certain groups as long as there is the caveat of "this is not a 100% 'always will be true' observation."

LittleMissy
12-29-2007, 09:56 PM
Political correctness aside, I believe in patterns. I see no harm in sharing previous experiences with certain groups as long as there is the caveat of "this is not a 100% 'always will be true' observation."

I totally agree to this. While there will always be people that break the mold there always seem to be a lot of people that fit the stereotype.

I think locations do really have to do with how the customers act. In my location there aren't many asian women around so when there happens to be one, it's like a man magnet.

Morgan_TX
12-30-2007, 04:20 PM
Eh... Depends on the guy and the region...

I do well with African-Americans, and most of them compliment me endlessly on my big ass, but at least in my region, they seldom buy dances and/or tip well, so unless I know them, they wouldn't be my first choice to approach.

I do well with the older cowboys but not the younger ones. The younger ones want tinier girls, but the older ones are attracted to me because I can share hunting and cattle-ranching and cotton-farming stories with them because I grew up on a farm.

I do well with the Asian gangsters (we have a lot of Asian Pride guys in our local strip clubs, and I know most of them) simply because I've built a relationship with them. I don't ask them about what they do (even though I KNOW what they do), and so they appreciate the fact that I will just offer them polite, pleasant conversation without asking too many questions. Plus, I'm good at the submissive gestures and poses, and they like that.

In our area, it's usually the older Mexicans that set off my pervo-radar, but the younger guys (when they come in alone) are okay and usually tip and buy dances well. The younger guys in a group will be assholes because they do too much posturing.

As far as Caucasians, I go for appearance... Dorks, nerds, guys who are kind of chunky... Older guys, too, because I'm good at the conversation and eye contact that they enjoy.

And I don't think there's anything wrong with stereotyping when the club is full and you have a choice of customers. After all, we all do that... "I'm not going to that table full of young preppy white frat boys because they're statistically more likely to be cheap and handsy. I'm not going to that table with the two older black guys because I tend not to do well with that demographic. I'm going to go talk to the old Asian guy in the corner because I know I can make money there." It's about maximizing your chances and minimizing wasted time.

That said, if you have your choice between four customers on your "least desirable" list and that's all you've got in the club, you take your chances. So I'd never rule someone out based on race OR appearance, but I'd definitely use it to prioritize.

TheSexKitten
12-30-2007, 04:34 PM
Political correctness aside, I believe in patterns. I see no harm in sharing previous experiences with certain groups as long as there is the caveat of "this is not a 100% 'always will be true' observation."

Amen! I'll always try every custy as long as they're being polite, but in my experience, Chinese men LOVE me.

The same hustle on a Chinese (not ethnically, but nationally) guy is way more likely to work for me than on a black or white guy. I understand that I appeal to some standards of beauty. Mexican men like me a lot as well.

Defining a little bit of marketing demographics never hurts, and it's easier to see which minorities you appeal to because the fact that they are a slightly smaller market than the typical strip club (in my club at least) "middle aged white man" helps patterns stand out more clearly.

For example, I will approach everyone in a room who is well dressed and behaved, and I tend to approach middle-aged customers first, regardless of race, but I have noticed patterns.

Chinese, then Korean, then Vietnamese, then Mexican, and then a few Indian guys like me. However, I speak Spanish, I know buttloads about India and Indian culture, and I know a few cute mispronounced Cantonese words.

North European men tend to say yes more than southern or Eastern Euro men, and Japanese men tend to pay me NO mind at all. Same hustle.

Young black men tend to not be attracted for me, whereas older ones are a different story.

I approach everyone, but I like to gather stats on interests, language, nationality, ethnicity, music preferences, etc.

And of course, there are always exceptions to every rule! :)

Katrine
12-30-2007, 05:32 PM
Oh, and btw, many of those "Mexican" men might not be from Mexico at all! Two of my ATF customers were from El Salvador and Guatamala, but most would just refer to them as Mexican, I'm sure.

britt244
12-30-2007, 06:31 PM
Oh, and btw, many of those "Mexican" men might not be from Mexico at all! Two of my ATF customers were from El Salvador and Guatamala, but most would just refer to them as Mexican, I'm sure.

sooo true! my club has a lot of "mexicans" on the weekend but if you ask them where theyre from probably only half are actually mexican.

TheSexKitten
12-30-2007, 09:53 PM
Oh, and btw, many of those "Mexican" men might not be from Mexico at all! Two of my ATF customers were from El Salvador and Guatamala, but most would just refer to them as Mexican, I'm sure.

True that! We get occasional custies from Peru, Guatemala, etc.

twisterinAZ
01-01-2008, 07:21 PM
Where I work ...they are Mexicans !