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StrawberrySwitchblade
12-28-2007, 07:01 PM
You're not pathetic, honey. I'd be doing the same thing. We all would. :-/
Darcy Foxx
12-28-2007, 07:04 PM
too late, lysondra. mum already changed my flights :( there's no way i'm flying up there now, all i'd be doing is crying on the damned plane.
when i spoke to him last night i was really fucked up on ativan and alcohol, nad he sent me a message this morning saying can i please text him to let him know i'm okay, "i didnt sleep last night cos i was so worried about you, tried to call you a few times" (which he did, but i was passed out for like 14 hours.
now he's texting me apologizing over and over and saying he wants to make it up to me and blah blah blah.
he's making it extremely hard for me to hate him.
kitty260
12-28-2007, 07:14 PM
I know it's hard now, but I guarantee you'll look back on this later and be like "What the hell was I thinking?"
Stay strong. You're the furthest thing from pathetic.
Lysondra
12-28-2007, 07:17 PM
too late, lysondra. mum already changed my flights :( there's no way i'm flying up there now, all i'd be doing is crying on the damned plane.
when i spoke to him last night i was really fucked up on ativan and alcohol, nad he sent me a message this morning saying can i please text him to let him know i'm okay, "i didnt sleep last night cos i was so worried about you, tried to call you a few times" (which he did, but i was passed out for like 14 hours.
now he's texting me apologizing over and over and saying he wants to make it up to me and blah blah blah.
he's making it extremely hard for me to hate him.
It's alright doll. So sorry about that. :(
VegasPrincess
12-28-2007, 10:57 PM
What kind of a loser would let you buy your own plane ticket anyway ?>:(
Exactly!
TigersMilk
12-29-2007, 03:44 AM
Still an asshole move even if he is supposedly sorry. He didn't have to keep you on a string until he finally decided about his ex. Incon-fucking-siderate.
You're really too good for him baby. Good to know you're ok from last nights binge. Try not to do that again eh? We were all worried.
Bella21
12-29-2007, 04:32 AM
He can make it up to you by paying you back. Watch how fast THAT makes his nice-guy act shrivel up and die.
Darcy Foxx
12-29-2007, 04:34 AM
he's actually offered to pay me back. i've moved the flights to another day, and will just take a holiday up there sometime next year. but he's going to pay me back for the event ticket etc.
the thing is, as much as it hurts right now, i know that he's not a bad guy and he didnt want to hurt me, he's been so apologetic and says he wants to do something to make it up to me...
it just sucks.
TigersMilk
12-29-2007, 09:20 AM
Maybe my young calloused heart is speaking but breaking it to you over the phone after you got tickets, dress, shoes, made plans etc. just isn't right. Don't care how apologetic he is. Yea its just not fair though. Hope he really does make it up to you and keeps his word.
PhillyDancer1982
12-29-2007, 01:42 PM
He can make it up to you by paying you back. Watch how fast THAT makes his nice-guy act shrivel up and die.
I AGREE!!! But right after you posted that, Bella, the OP(Darcy) posted that he'd already offered to pay for it. At least he was nice enough to offer.
Darcy, make sure he stays true on his word. DON'T let him forget to pay you back. I've had guys offer to reimburse me for things before...nothing this big, but reimbursements nonetheless...and then "forget" about it over time, leaving me to write it off as a loss(for example, a guy who offered to pay 100% for the morning after pill so that he would learn his lesson to pull out; he insisted on paying 100% even though I submissively said it'd be okay if he just paid half, but then he never got back to me on paying the other half that he said he'd pay).
Hmmm is there a way you can get his offer in writing so in case he doesn't pay, you can sue him in court? Suing exes in court is such great revenge...I should know, since I did this before. ;D
But even if he does pay you back...don't think about getting back together with him. I don't think him offering to pay you back is nearly enough. I AM a little relieved to hear that he was at least nice enough to call and apologize, check up on you, and offer to pay you back...I've had guys dick me over and then refuse to even be POLITE to me or return my calls. So at least he's not a TOTAL assfuck. But just because he's 90% assfuck(as opposed to being 100% assfuck), does not make him a "good guy". I think you already know this though.
I hate guys like this. >:( Threads like this remind me of the reasons that I stopped liking guys or getting into relationships. Guys like this assfuck give all other guys a bad rep.
Darcy Foxx
12-29-2007, 03:41 PM
i should be getting packed and ready to get on a plane right now. :'(
at this stage, it's looking like i'll be spending my NYE at home alone with a bottle of jack daniels and some sleeping pills. planning on knocking myself out for 20 hours so i can pretend the night doesn't exist and wake up with a raging hangover in 2008.
pookie
12-29-2007, 03:44 PM
i should be getting packed and ready to get on a plane right now. :'(
at this stage, it's looking like i'll be spending my NYE at home alone with a bottle of jack daniels and some sleeping pills. planning on knocking myself out for 20 hours so i can pretend the night doesn't exist and wake up with a raging hangover in 2008.
please dont do that. one of my friends died from mixing sleeping pills with substances that shouldnt be mixed with them.
Bella21
12-29-2007, 10:55 PM
Don't you dare kill yourself on NYE! You're hot, you could go into whatever bar/ party and kiss fifty (well, less if you only want the hot ones) dudes.
I really do hope that he pays you back! If it makes you feel better, I've also been having a seriously crappy time of it lately and even *I* (the non-superstitious one) am thinking that '08 will be a bust. Make a spa/ hair/ make-up appointment and make the best of it. Or, there isn't anything wrong with going to bed early and telling tradition to go f*ck itself.
Casey4Now
12-29-2007, 11:10 PM
[quote=Darcy Foxx;1345593]i should be getting packed and ready to get on a plane right now. :'(
at this stage, it's looking like i'll be spending my NYE at home alone with a bottle of jack daniels and some sleeping pills. planning on knocking myself out for 20 hours so i can pretend the night doesn't exist and wake up with a raging hangover in 2008.
My God Darcy YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!! Why not party a little and wake up to 2008 with a clear head and determination? Trust me you will feel a whole lot better (been there, done that)than starting the year feeling like shit.
Everyone else will be nursing that "shitty feeling"
Why not get one up on them?
I love waking up after a big holiday feeling great and looking great while the rest of the world is death run over.
No matter which you choose please choose wisely, as you are loved!
RoseLeigh
12-30-2007, 02:16 AM
i should be getting packed and ready to get on a plane right now. :'(
at this stage, it's looking like i'll be spending my NYE at home alone with a bottle of jack daniels and some sleeping pills. planning on knocking myself out for 20 hours so i can pretend the night doesn't exist and wake up with a raging hangover in 2008.
Please be careful hon. Like pookie, I had a friend who tried that way. She lived, but it took a lot of paramedics, 3 days in the hospital and a lot of activated charcoal. You know we love you here. Go to bed early if you wanna, or go out if it will help, but you'll get through this. You are awesome AND beautiful AND smart, Ms. future archaeologist!
Don't make us all try and figure out time zones and international calling cards and things, kay? Don't make us all drunk dial you!
shasta
12-30-2007, 03:25 AM
Why don't you just go to work. I forget about my issues when I am there. I was screwed out of nye plans by an assfuck as well. All my friends are away, so I will be working. I love that I ALWAYS have some place to go where people are happy to see me. Your are needed at work Darcy. There you will make money and make others so happy.
Phil-W
12-30-2007, 08:10 AM
at this stage, it's looking like i'll be spending my NYE at home alone with a bottle of jack daniels and some sleeping pills. planning on knocking myself out for 20 hours so i can pretend the night doesn't exist and wake up with a raging hangover in 2008.
Firstly, sorry this happened: no-one should be treated that badly.
It's not a case of reimbursing you your costs - the *least* this guy could do is send you a seriously nice present by way of apology.
If you do stay in on NYE - why not have a "pamper Darcy" evening? Nice long foamy bath, decent bottle of wine, order in a decent takeaway to save you cooking, etc.
No point in pretending the night doesn't exist - it wasn't *your* fault things went wrong. Instead, treat yourself to a few of the good things in life and put a smile back on your face.
Phil.
twisterinAZ
12-30-2007, 03:54 PM
Darcy , I have to caution you about continuing to have any type of relationship with this person. His let me make it up to you thing sounds like his way of keeping you on a string. Don't give him the option ! Cut him off completely.You are weak right now and I just don't want to see you get hurt.
Darcy Foxx
12-30-2007, 04:54 PM
bleh. i should be in sunny queensland right now. we had planned to hang out together all day today and then go to the big party together tonight.
i've been invited to some other stuff tonight though, not sure what i wanna do. got a few options now... but i'm so fucking stubborn and kinda have it ingrained in my head that i want to sit at home alone drinking myself into a miserable stupor and passing out before midnight. and i'm worried if i go out anywhere, once i start drinking i'm going to get all emo and start crying and ruin everyone else's night.
ahmeerah
12-30-2007, 05:13 PM
i should be getting packed and ready to get on a plane right now. :'(
at this stage, it's looking like i'll be spending my NYE at home alone with a bottle of jack daniels and some sleeping pills. planning on knocking myself out for 20 hours so i can pretend the night doesn't exist and wake up with a raging hangover in 2008.
The whole situation sucks but don't let some fool put a damper on YOUR life or NYEve. He's just a guy. Broke your heart but the world is your oyster - especially as a beautiful girl!
Snicker
12-30-2007, 07:05 PM
Argh. Queensland... it's not so sunny right now, is it? It's like really windy and gross :s
GoldCoastGirl
12-30-2007, 07:47 PM
Argh. Queensland... it's not so sunny right now, is it? It's like really windy and gross :s
Um.. yeah.. has the news where you are hasn't covered it? They cancelled the fireworks here on the Coast as well as Sunshine Coast ... and Brisbane is going to most likely cancel their fireworks at the last minute (they're not willing to pull the plug yet according to the news last night)... because it is too dangerous to have it.
Then there is the fact that our beaches are well... starting to disappear.
Believe me. He did you a HUGE favour as it is really bad weather up here. Sunny? Hasn't been "fine" for a couple of days now and supposedly won't be for a couple of more days...
Adelaide can't be that bad a place to go live it up for NYE ???
Darcy Foxx
12-30-2007, 07:49 PM
meh. i'm going to work tonight. but i had a visit from the ritalin fairy so at least i'm gonna have fun with my girls.
MsQwerty
12-30-2007, 09:08 PM
Edited to delete: Strange the page didnt load properly and I didnt see the other replies until I posted.
StrawberrySwitchblade
12-30-2007, 11:17 PM
*hugs Darcy* We love you!
Darcy Foxx
12-30-2007, 11:28 PM
*hug*
love you too :)
BalletBaby
12-31-2007, 02:44 AM
What. The. Fuck.
She's your ex for a reason, jackass!
:hug: :hug: :hug: I'm so sorry Darcy.
Lysondra
12-31-2007, 05:51 AM
Um.. yeah.. has the news where you are hasn't covered it? They cancelled the fireworks here on the Coast as well as Sunshine Coast ... and Brisbane is going to most likely cancel their fireworks at the last minute (they're not willing to pull the plug yet according to the news last night)... because it is too dangerous to have it.
Then there is the fact that our beaches are well... starting to disappear.
Believe me. He did you a HUGE favour as it is really bad weather up here. Sunny? Hasn't been "fine" for a couple of days now and supposedly won't be for a couple of more days...
Adelaide can't be that bad a place to go live it up for NYE ???
I noticed that when I went to see Dry... his island... was dry! You could walk across the beach and get to it!