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Vyanka
01-10-2008, 07:30 AM
So to you ladies who have had a sugar daddy before, are you sexually attracted to him or does that matter?
I would freakin LOVE to have a sugar daddy but I don't know the first thing about the duties as a sugar baby.
I was thinking about that this week. My profile isn't too detailed.
I think if I meet one who is hot as fuck, i'm gonna have him as a friend with benefits & gifts.... fuck that!
I went on my first date last night with one I met, & I wasn't attracted to him at all....he kissed me & I wanted to barf. I can't get physical with someone who i'm not attracted to. I also think he's possesive. He seems a little crazy too, he told me he wanted to take me off the site & make me his. :O Yeah, OK! But he told me that he'd give me $500-$1000 plus shopping & spas every time we meet & to think about it.
But I can't... not only he isn't my type physically, his personality sucks too. lol.
Vyanka
01-10-2008, 07:38 AM
I'm having hot phone sex with one who is from Australia. He calls me almost everyday....my God that fucking accent turns me the fuck on. LOL. And the stuff he tells me.... :faint: :drool: :raincloud This is the best phone sex I ever had. LOL.
And there is one who is in his late 40's but is fucking fit(he does yoga) & looks young. This one intimidates me! He reminds me of an older Patrick Bateman.... http://content.answers.com/main/content/wp/en/e/e9/Batemanas.jpg
He is looking for a princess who is going to be a bitch to him. He wants a female dom. He's into that stuff.. OMFG, so hot!! :hyper:
Circe
01-10-2008, 07:48 AM
It's an interesting idea, but I don't think I could do it because it's hard for me to look like...really well put together. Like, I consistently look disheveled and these are guys that can afford model-type women. Not scruffy nerds.
Also, I'd always be waiting/paranoid for the other shoe to drop. Like, why are you buying me this handbag and what do I have to do for it?
leilanicandy
01-10-2008, 12:00 PM
It's an interesting idea, but I don't think I could do it because it's hard for me to look like...really well put together. Like, I consistently look disheveled and these are guys that can afford model-type women. Not scruffy nerds.
Also, I'd always be waiting/paranoid for the other shoe to drop. Like, why are you buying me this handbag and what do I have to do for it?
Well I think scruffy nerds, are hot. Who is to say a Sugar Daddy wont think so too! I am pretty sure you can find one that will treat you like a princess.
SundayMorning
01-10-2008, 12:08 PM
Yep I've gotten emails from guys who want to spank me and guys who want to be spanked. As I didn't say anything about my BDSM experience on my profile, I guess they're all just figuring "nothing ventured, nothing gained." I think I just need to cave and say I'm NOT looking for a Daddy, just a Mommy...it's fun getting the emails and reading the profiles, but I know the Hubby isn't comfortable with another man splurging OR splooging on me. Ah well. I'll still enjoy reading everyone else's success stories until the right Mama for me comes along.
Vyanka
01-10-2008, 01:21 PM
One offered to pay me to get my feet sucked on for hours and that's it. Sounds good to me. LOL.
showgirlschloe
01-10-2008, 10:22 PM
I had a sugar daddy before I "retired" for the 3rd time. Loved it at first, but then got tired of seeing him all the time. He wasn't a very exciting man. I didn't love my sugar daddy, although he did treat me well though and I cared a lot for him. He knew I had a kid and it didn't bother him. They never met and I don't think sugar daddies really want to meet your kids. My husband's boss loves being a sugar daddy. Prefers it over a real relationship.
TheSexKitten
01-11-2008, 04:19 PM
One offered to pay me to get my feet sucked on for hours and that's it. Sounds good to me. LOL.
LOL I'm too ticklish for that shit... Have fun! ;D
Aubreyyy
01-12-2008, 12:16 AM
OH MY GOD....
So actually not minding fucking my SD makes me a slut, right?
-I've just had an ephiphany, and I have more in common with my SD than my actual boyfriend. Whoa??!
Flick6
01-12-2008, 01:22 AM
OH MY GOD....
So actually not minding fucking my SD makes me a slut, right?
-I've just had an ephiphany, and I have more in common with my SD than my actual boyfriend. Whoa??!
Out of curiosity, what does you BF think of the whole SD thing? Is he just super cool or is it none of his business?
Lysondra
01-12-2008, 03:58 AM
^ Not directed at me; but I know my boy thinks it's so funny. LOOK WHAT YOU GOT AND I DIDN'T PAY FOR.
Sweet.
Flick6
01-12-2008, 01:25 PM
^^:) lol that's cool. I have two kiddos, one only 2 months old so obviously I am not in the market for a SD, and to be honest I dont think I'm the type they go for (like I just had a baby two months ago, saggy boobs etc) but was curious to know if girls with BFs did this or if it was something you did in between relationships. Thanks
august
01-12-2008, 04:19 PM
I am obsessed with my new sugar daddy, he is so freaking hot and sexy, and
a good lover. He is into no strings attached, which is cool. I wish I could get my
mind on something else. I find myself thinking about seeing him constantly.
Okay... now I just have to know. Who sleeps with their SD and who doesn't? What all is involved in the relationship? C'mon... spill the beans, gals. :P
leilanicandy
01-12-2008, 05:14 PM
I was told by women you dont have to sleep with your sugar daddy.
showgirlschloe
01-12-2008, 06:18 PM
I never slept with my SD. He was too old and couldn't get it up anyways. He just liked going to dinner and gambling with me.
blondhottie
01-12-2008, 07:05 PM
I signed up for that sugardaddie.com website today-I figured, what the hell, why not? :D I only paid for one month, so the worst that can happen is that I don't meet anyone and I lose $20. I've already gotten a ton of messages, and most of the guys seem to be time wasters. But there are a couple who seem to have potential.
I'm new to this-what is the best way to bring up money to these guys? It seems like a touchy subject. Should I wait for them to bring it up or should I come out and say something? How should I word it? Meeting someone out in a public place such as a restaurant and discussing things from there seems to be pretty common-should I ask for compensation for going to dinner too? Argh, so many questions. :D
I'm not willing to sleep with anyone, and I'm not looking for a ton of money, maybe just a couple hundred bucks here and there, a shopping trip every now and then or a gift here and there. I'd rather find someone who spends a moderate amount on me and is not pushy or demanding than someone who gives me tons of cash and buys me whatever I want but is pushy and annoying.
I had someone a few years ago-I guess you could kind of consider him a sugar daddy-who I met in the club. He was married and in a bad marriage. We never slept together-never even kissed-and he never pushed for anything. He didn't spend a ton of money on me, but he spent some and he was actually fun to be around. I would go out to eat with him about once a month and he would take me shopping and spend around $400-500 on me-like I said, not a ton, but he was enjoyable to be around too. After I met him outside of work for dinner, he would still continue to come in the club and buy lapdances from me,and he would tip me $20 on top of each lap dance we did. I'd like to find an arrangement similar to this. :)
Lysondra
01-12-2008, 07:14 PM
^ Just say that. They're usually pretty cool about it. Being honest weeds out the ones who aren't fitting to your style. There's all types of sugardaddy/baby relationships. For me, I prefer a long-term investment just-one-at-a-time daddy who works so hard he has little time for me, but enjoys my company when he's free. I prefer hard workers because I like the relief of pressure. I never ask for money but I've found ways of extracting it anyway that fit in with my personality. For you it could be something completely different. Each baby needs a daddy she can find to suit her needs. So you're always good to find SOMEONE that meets your needs/wants.
Vyanka
01-13-2008, 10:02 AM
Ok well I already found my perfect SD. I wasn't looking for a friends with benefits, but this guy is perfect for it. So not only is he going to be my SD, he's going to be my FWB. I actually need that right now, a main fuck to keep me sane....after that horrible break up that I went through, ugh.
We decided that we're going to act like a couple but without the seriousness....just fun. lol.
He's got a banging as hell body, a big dick.... yup I slept with him. LOLOLOL. }:D
He's short though, i'm not too crazy about that...but he is super sweet & a gentleman. And he made me feel like a lady. He's young(32) & fun. He's a good fuck, OMG!...did I say that already?? ;D He fucked me so right, damn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!
I'm not going to look for another SD, UNLESS it's strictly NO sex & giving me stuff.
This whole SD deal is fun. I'm glad I decided to register there.
Vyanka
01-13-2008, 10:14 AM
One thing I noticed on these sites though, a lot of these guys don't like strippers.
Do you girls mention that you're a stripper?
^OOOOOooooo... I'm curious about that, too. Is it a good idea to even mention that? Will it just attract the pervs and/or turn away the good ones?
Delilah27
01-13-2008, 11:35 AM
I mention I'm a strippper...and In answer to the other question no I don't have sex with my SD
blondhottie
01-13-2008, 11:40 AM
Do you girls mention that you're a stripper?
I didn't say anything about it. I was wondering the same thing. I'll probably just make something up if they ask what I do. :D I don't feel like dealing with the stupid stereotypes and questions that some guys have.
Vyanka
01-13-2008, 11:46 AM
I didn't say anything about it. I was wondering the same thing. I'll probably just make something up if they ask what I do. :D I don't feel like dealing with the stupid stereotypes and questions that some guys have.
Yes, that's what I was thinking. I don't think a lot them should know, bc of that.
I'm not stripping now, but I will be soon this year.
On the few dates that i've been on, I already heard the stripper hate. lol.
leilanicandy
01-13-2008, 11:53 AM
On the few dates that i've been on, I already heard the stripper hate. lol.
Wow,
I guess you should never let them know, there's a dancer in every woman.
Every woman knows how to get what they want!
Oh well... I already I mentioned I was a dancer in my profile. I don't feel like lying about what it is I do for a living, because I love my job... and plus, they'll probably eventually figure it out anyway with my big 'ol mouth. :D
Aubreyyy
01-13-2008, 04:41 PM
You don't have to sleep with yours...
My boyfriend doesn't know. He'd be absolutely cool with it, but I'd rather not mix those two parts of my life. I even go by my stripper name with my SD... I'd just like to think of it as two different people having two different relationships lol.
Lysondra
01-13-2008, 06:45 PM
I just said I was a model and promotions girl. I only mention what I really do when I get comfortable with them.
Vyanka
01-17-2008, 09:20 AM
Ok I already got tired of the whole SD/SB ordeal. It just got annoying... this is harder than dealing with customers at a SC. LOL.
And i'm already tired of my SD/FWB too. It was fun while it lasted.
cinammonkisses
01-17-2008, 09:55 AM
I've been thinking about this for a while. A couple years ago, I put up a quick profile and got a few responses. But they were all willing to fly me out to them IF I gave them GFE (and theirs included sex)..
Some of you say you got by without having sex? As soon as you meet are you informing them of no sex, or do you slightly hint at it if they become to affectionate?
Oh and do any of you kiss your SD?
Lysondra
01-17-2008, 10:12 AM
Mmm, I'm sick of the site myself. I have found better ways of meeting daddies that are much more fun!
I kiss mine. Haven't sexed one yet. Never mentioned it. Just... kinda never got around to it. Hahaha.
cinammonkisses
01-17-2008, 10:56 AM
Sorry to get all in your business Lysondra but when you say kiss...is it a kiss..or a kissssssssssssss..
Like a peck on the cheek, the lips, or some tongue action??
Sorry for my curiosity, I jsut gotta know.
leilanicandy
01-17-2008, 04:10 PM
Mmm, I'm sick of the site myself. I have found better ways of meeting daddies that are much more fun!
I kiss mine. Haven't sexed one yet. Never mentioned it. Just... kinda never got around to it. Hahaha.
Please share with us American girls. I will like to have one.
Lysondra
01-17-2008, 07:51 PM
Sorry to get all in your business Lysondra but when you say kiss...is it a kiss..or a kissssssssssssss..
Like a peck on the cheek, the lips, or some tongue action??
Sorry for my curiosity, I jsut gotta know.
Just a peck, usually. Never used tongue. Kissed one fully, but he had bad breath so I didn't do it again.
Lysondra
01-17-2008, 07:54 PM
Please share with us American girls. I will like to have one.
Real life places to meet sugar daddies:
Boat Shows
Real Estate Auctions
Charity Fundraisers (hint: if you can't afford the 'per plate' function - go to the afterparty!)
Hotel Openings (like Hyatt Regency)
It's good because then you can scope around your prey before you attack. Heehee.
leilanicandy
01-17-2008, 08:44 PM
Well, that is not bad.
Alaska
01-18-2008, 03:40 AM
Damn, I'd prob have no balls asking them str8 up to be my sugar daddy in person. Esp. bc it would prob occur *after* a date/dinner/sex whatever.
Vyanka
01-18-2008, 08:04 AM
Damn, I'd prob have no balls asking them str8 up to be my sugar daddy in person. Esp. bc it would prob occur *after* a date/dinner/sex whatever.
No, they'll ask you what you want straight up. At least the times i've been on the dates, that's how it was.
The last guy I talked to invited me to a cocktail party with rich men, but I declined.
Alaska
01-18-2008, 08:18 AM
^^ Yea but I meant as far as just putting on your Sunday best and going to a boat show, a Hyatt banquet, an auction, with that intention.
Lysondra
01-18-2008, 08:21 AM
^^ Yea but I meant as far as just putting on your Sunday best and going to a boat show, a Hyatt banquet, an auction, with that intention.
It's not usually a problem. Once the first date occurs they can kinda see what you're going for and what kind of a woman you are. I agree that for the most part these are a bit more like dating (which is what I want right now) than SugarDaddy type thing - but it's specifically scoping out a rich man in his native habitat. Usually you can find one or two or ten that know the game and are willing to work on it.
Bunny
01-18-2008, 09:29 PM
how do you go to functions like that alone? I'd feel so weird. I can't find a guy I actually like so maybe I need to just look for a rich one who fullfils my needs somewhat.
Lysondra
01-18-2008, 09:50 PM
I don't go alone. I go with a male friend who's looking for a rich Sugarmomma. We mingle a bit together and compare notes. We both dress nicely and then say we're business associates when anyone asks. Which we are... he is my security after all. Hahaha.
MissAlethea
01-19-2008, 11:06 PM
Okay, so I think I may have hooked a live one... Super nice guy, actually kinda cute in that geeky oil exec kind of way, lots of chatting about books and such... He's in an unhappy marriage, but is staying for the kids, and get this: DOESN'T WANT SEX. Says he doesn't want to violate his wedding vows by sleeping with another woman, but is, in his words, "desperate for some conversation that doesn't revolve around what color the kids' poop is today or how much I suck."
Now my question is this: How much should I ask for, and how do I ask? When we met for coffee (I was almost late to work, I was enjoying myself so much) we talked about it a little bit, and the consensus was "I've never done this before, so I have no idea how it works...*awkward trailing off and subject change*" The best I could come up with was "sort of a rich uncle with good connections type thing". But rich uncles don't usually take you on shopping sprees, now do they?
I need you girls' help! (But he did agree to shopping sprees at Barnes and Noble... w00t!)
pixiekittie
01-19-2008, 11:46 PM
Ok I already got tired of the whole SD/SB ordeal. It just got annoying... this is harder than dealing with customers at a SC. LOL.
And i'm already tired of my SD/FWB too. It was fun while it lasted.
May I ask what happened? I'm curious now, especially since you were really digging your last SD.
Vyanka
01-20-2008, 03:28 PM
May I ask what happened? I'm curious now, especially since you were really digging your last SD.
Well the one that i'm FWB now, he's annoying me bc he wants to see me on his schedule... wont work around mine... that's why he's annoying me.
And the other men they just want sex straight up on the first night if not...*Bye*, it's hard to find a good one without them wanting sex. It just got annoying. Plus I couldn't keep up with the responses in a week...they'd want to see me asap. And by the time i'd make plans to see them the following week, they already forgot.
And i'll probably just get dinner. Nah, forget that shit. lol
MsQwerty
01-20-2008, 09:31 PM
Im relating to this. I am just about sick of the sugardaddie site already!
My mail situation has just reached an unbearable level. There has to be an easier way!
Well the one that i'm FWB now, he's annoying me bc he wants to see me on his schedule... wont work around mine... that's why he's annoying me.
And the other men they just want sex straight up on the first night if not...*Bye*, it's hard to find a good one without them wanting sex. It just got annoying. Plus I couldn't keep up with the responses in a week...they'd want to see me asap. And by the time i'd make plans to see them the following week, they already forgot.
And i'll probably just get dinner. Nah, forget that shit. lol
Lysondra
01-20-2008, 09:34 PM
I'm getting back into it again. I think I've snagged a good one! :D
leilanicandy
01-20-2008, 10:56 PM
Well I want one, I figure it will be like any other boyfriend with no strings attach
I just dont know how to make a deal, with them!
TheTempest
01-21-2008, 07:46 AM
I've been sort of lurking on those sites, just checking them out and to me it seems they are all looking for sex in return for "gifts".
leilanicandy
01-21-2008, 12:54 PM
I've been sort of lurking on those sites, just checking them out and to me it seems they are all looking for sex in return for "gifts".
I think most of the guys are like that, on those sites.
But just when I was about to give up! I was having a conversation with this man. Than he ask me if, I had a sugar daddy. I told him no. I had ask him, what is a sugar daddy realationship like? He told me. All you have to do is show him you care, that is the sugar. He will take care of you!
Now, after that I totally get it! By the way he is a Sugar Daddy. As a sugar babe you are like a liitle girl he wants to spoil. Not disrespect and treat her like a whore, or use her! The sugar daddy is suppose to mentor, and spoil his sugar babe with gifts or money. In return she show she cares.
It is like they get the feeling you get from giving to charity.
So I hope this inspires you girls. There is a lot men who fake the funk. But I met a real sugar daddy. Who did not ask for sex in return. All he wanted was love. Just for a woman to look good and care for him!
Dont know about you girls, but I am ready to be spoil rotten!