Komodo
05-26-2008, 08:21 PM
Ok another males POV.
My partner and I have played around with anal play. Its something that I have to be in the mood for. Fingernails cut like razors and do draw blood VERY easily (yeah go explain that to the GP...)
Latex gloves are a god send and bandaids over extreemly long fingernails with latex gloves over the top are even better.
Experiment not only with fingers but also butt plugs start small obviously - they are cheap and can be left in during sex which makes for an insanely intense orgasm.
Rubbing the perineum whilst inserting a finger or toy is great.
LUBE - and my god make sure you use plenty of GOOD LUBE. My girlfriend and I use pjur, jo or wet silicone based lubes.
Strapons - start small. I actually dont like anything much larger than about 1.75" and about 5" long but hey we are all different thats just me.
Remember to start with slow actions and slowly increase the speed you need to get the lube to cover everything before you start giving it a good old fashioned pounding.
If he has a hairy rear dont do it - hairs get caught and it bloody well hurts (i now get waxed both front and back and shave the hanging bits.)
Make sure he has evacuated the area reasonably recently otehr wise you will touch poo - and believe me as per a previous posters comments its not a pleasent experiance for either party.
It can be fun - probably not for every one. I think girls are more open to it generally than guys. Guys I suppose are scared of what collegues or freinds might think.
Personally I LOVE IT and im glad my partner and I have added this to part of our sex lives. I love the fact that she can get off from fucking me with a strap on (and no we dont have a double "ended" harness). One thing I do hate is that its hard to get a good sturdy yet still attractive harness. We'll continue to seek one though till we find one that we both like for comfort, durability and looks.
I dont like it every time we have sex - we probably have a little anal play once a week and probably get a little funky with the strap on once a month.
It can be EXTREEMLY intense and sometimes I have to get her to stop because I cant deal with the hightened sensitivity so i can understand why a lot of people give up before really giving it a go.
Have fun girls (and guys)!
My partner and I have played around with anal play. Its something that I have to be in the mood for. Fingernails cut like razors and do draw blood VERY easily (yeah go explain that to the GP...)
Latex gloves are a god send and bandaids over extreemly long fingernails with latex gloves over the top are even better.
Experiment not only with fingers but also butt plugs start small obviously - they are cheap and can be left in during sex which makes for an insanely intense orgasm.
Rubbing the perineum whilst inserting a finger or toy is great.
LUBE - and my god make sure you use plenty of GOOD LUBE. My girlfriend and I use pjur, jo or wet silicone based lubes.
Strapons - start small. I actually dont like anything much larger than about 1.75" and about 5" long but hey we are all different thats just me.
Remember to start with slow actions and slowly increase the speed you need to get the lube to cover everything before you start giving it a good old fashioned pounding.
If he has a hairy rear dont do it - hairs get caught and it bloody well hurts (i now get waxed both front and back and shave the hanging bits.)
Make sure he has evacuated the area reasonably recently otehr wise you will touch poo - and believe me as per a previous posters comments its not a pleasent experiance for either party.
It can be fun - probably not for every one. I think girls are more open to it generally than guys. Guys I suppose are scared of what collegues or freinds might think.
Personally I LOVE IT and im glad my partner and I have added this to part of our sex lives. I love the fact that she can get off from fucking me with a strap on (and no we dont have a double "ended" harness). One thing I do hate is that its hard to get a good sturdy yet still attractive harness. We'll continue to seek one though till we find one that we both like for comfort, durability and looks.
I dont like it every time we have sex - we probably have a little anal play once a week and probably get a little funky with the strap on once a month.
It can be EXTREEMLY intense and sometimes I have to get her to stop because I cant deal with the hightened sensitivity so i can understand why a lot of people give up before really giving it a go.
Have fun girls (and guys)!