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Komodo
05-26-2008, 08:21 PM
Ok another males POV.

My partner and I have played around with anal play. Its something that I have to be in the mood for. Fingernails cut like razors and do draw blood VERY easily (yeah go explain that to the GP...)
Latex gloves are a god send and bandaids over extreemly long fingernails with latex gloves over the top are even better.

Experiment not only with fingers but also butt plugs start small obviously - they are cheap and can be left in during sex which makes for an insanely intense orgasm.

Rubbing the perineum whilst inserting a finger or toy is great.

LUBE - and my god make sure you use plenty of GOOD LUBE. My girlfriend and I use pjur, jo or wet silicone based lubes.

Strapons - start small. I actually dont like anything much larger than about 1.75" and about 5" long but hey we are all different thats just me.

Remember to start with slow actions and slowly increase the speed you need to get the lube to cover everything before you start giving it a good old fashioned pounding.

If he has a hairy rear dont do it - hairs get caught and it bloody well hurts (i now get waxed both front and back and shave the hanging bits.)

Make sure he has evacuated the area reasonably recently otehr wise you will touch poo - and believe me as per a previous posters comments its not a pleasent experiance for either party.

It can be fun - probably not for every one. I think girls are more open to it generally than guys. Guys I suppose are scared of what collegues or freinds might think.

Personally I LOVE IT and im glad my partner and I have added this to part of our sex lives. I love the fact that she can get off from fucking me with a strap on (and no we dont have a double "ended" harness). One thing I do hate is that its hard to get a good sturdy yet still attractive harness. We'll continue to seek one though till we find one that we both like for comfort, durability and looks.

I dont like it every time we have sex - we probably have a little anal play once a week and probably get a little funky with the strap on once a month.

It can be EXTREEMLY intense and sometimes I have to get her to stop because I cant deal with the hightened sensitivity so i can understand why a lot of people give up before really giving it a go.

Have fun girls (and guys)!

muhuwahaha
05-26-2008, 08:40 PM
Anyone have any success doing this? I know it is possible and not an urban myth and its supposed to be the ultimate orgasm for a man and i want to give my husband one!! ;D
I can feel his prostate with my finger and he says it feels good when i rub it but i am a small girl and have short fingers, i can only touch like the outside rim of it. When i strap on he says he doesn't feel it in the prostate so much so i 'm guessing the dildo is sliding right by it. Is there a special toy that will reach it better?
He doesn't believe this is ball draining monster orgasm is possible but deep in my heart i know it is and i want to prove him wrong. I love that he is open minded and knows that butt play doesn't make him gay.
So anyone ever do this?}:D }:D

I thought about putting this in ladies only but i'm more then happy to hear first hand experiences from the men.

ummm...

wat?

NinaDaisy
05-26-2008, 09:42 PM
Interesting this thread popped up again because since then I've fucked yet another guy I've dated with a strap-on and also, for the first time ever at a different time, fisted his ass.

That's right, I was pretty much wearing his anus as a bracelet. Yes, it took time and a lot of lube, but I'll tell you right now I have never, ever seen a man have an orgasm that intense in my life.

And FYI, things were kept clean. Thank God. I have a poop aversion but like anal play. Poor me.

jaizaine
05-27-2008, 02:13 AM
I have fingered a guy's ass before but I would never fuck a guy with a strap on. That would feminise him in my eyes and totally turn me off.

StuartL
05-28-2008, 07:11 AM
On Friday night, at my regular salsa class I found myself discussing this with a girl. She works for a scientific firm doing research into ways to treat - and hopefully cure - prostate cancer. So several times each day, she has her hand inside some ageing guys behind. Bless her. All for science...

She told me it was hilarious because many of the guys orgasm involuntarily - and many have their wives in the room and can't explain it away.

Surprisingly, I didn't or couldn't think of a single joke to make.