View Full Version : Major Britney Drama
SuburbanSocialite
01-07-2008, 01:18 PM
SuburbanSocialite, you're the official idiot. Your comments are pretty much senseless and are not worth responding to.
Please die.
BrunetteGoddess
01-07-2008, 01:23 PM
People, can we not bait JB? Obviously we don't agree with him; that doesn't give us the right to call him an idiot, and then get offended when he responds in kind...
SuburbanSocialite
01-07-2008, 01:24 PM
You're right. I'm having my "lady-time" and I'm a little on edge. Sorry ladies and gentlemen.
gingerlee
01-07-2008, 02:34 PM
Negative attention is better than no attention, according to all these young "starlets."
That's the point I was trying to make. If she doesn't have some kind of drama going on she doesn't get media attention, so constantly keeping her life in turmoil ensures that she will get some kind of exposure.
Bella21
01-07-2008, 03:23 PM
I saw this on the NEWS at the gym today.
Tara_SW
01-07-2008, 04:26 PM
She has never been a mother. Baby on the lap while she's cruising around in her convertible? Partying with Paris Hilton and Lindsay Lohan?
if every parent in the USA was held to that same standard, and we all know that they aren't, not even close, then god only knows how many kids would be taken away from their Mom or Dad or both.
Pretty much 99% of parents make a safety mistake at some point. Same thing with going out on the town while the kids are with the other parent or a babysitter.
Sure she's not the worlds best Mom at this point but she's not the world's worst either. Acting like she is is just silly to me.
I see worse Mom's every single time I go shopping. Most of us see worse Mom's on a regular basis. But gee, no one seems to be wanting to take the kids away from the all those mothers. Why? because they aren't famous, that's why.
AznExtasy
01-07-2008, 05:21 PM
I just hope this doesn't drive her to really hurt herself or the kids. She's capable of anything now.
Cherie
01-07-2008, 05:33 PM
Did she lose custody before or after she had the breakdown?
hannah83
01-07-2008, 05:35 PM
I just hope this doesn't drive her to really hurt herself or the kids. She's capable of anything now.
exactly what I have been thinking. She really needs to get some help, and soon.
Dr Phil probably messed it all up though. Showing up without her wanting him there. I just think someone else should help her...not someone who is just interested in ratings.
SuburbanSocialite
01-07-2008, 06:00 PM
I'd like to know how did Dr. Phil, who I've just found out that is a trained professional, get into the picture to begin with? Did he have the Spears family on speed dial or something?
firekitten19
01-07-2008, 06:12 PM
^^^ On TMZ it is repoted that Brittney's family contacted him ( This was said by the owner of TMZ on chanel 11 new (L.A) this morning)
AudreyLeigh
01-07-2008, 06:14 PM
OK, I haven't been following this thread because I don't care... except that I had to hear on the news last night that she's speaking to Dr. Phil ::) which is fine, get help where you can, except that he is talking to the public about his evaluation.
Is he licensed? Has he never heard of provider/patient confidentiality? Especially for mental health issues? (And if he's not licensed, he's practicing without a license.) Is this sacrificing treatment ethics in favor of being a publicity whore?
Oh, and now that I've looked at the last dozen posts, James Bond, sorry, but you're just dead wrong. I'm not a mental health provider, so I'll give my lay opinion: This woman is presently batshit nuts and has no business having custody of kids until she gets better.
Nope. Lynn called Dr. Phil. Dr. Phil also spoke to Jamie Lynn. Dr. Phil went to see Brit in the hospital and she was POd. She walked out of the hospital.
Tomorrow Lynn Spears will be on the Dr. Phil show (I guess shes good friends of his wife Robin) The show was filmed today.
Other docs were talkin mad sh*t about Dr. Phil just showing up. Code of ethics or something. I dunno.
All I know is I have this Dr. Phil set to record on my DVR because even tho I hate the show Im very curious what the hell that crap of a mother has to say.
Lysondra
01-07-2008, 06:15 PM
"I have an idea! Let's call an unqualified tv personality to school our insane child!"
AudreyLeigh
01-07-2008, 06:18 PM
^^^ for real. hes such a jerk. i hate dr. phil. i liked him when he would be on oprah like once a month. i actually LOVED him. Now I hate him and cant stand his show.
gingerlee
01-07-2008, 06:19 PM
"I have an idea! Let's call an unqualified tv personality to school our insane child!"
Best idea I've heard all week!
*Runs to go find Dr. Phil*
Sorry, he annoys the shit out of me. I want to smack him for being so snotty all the damn time, and he would probably be the last person I would call to help my psychotic child.
AudreyLeigh
01-07-2008, 06:21 PM
OMG - you KNOW Dr. Phil is begging BritBrit to come on his show. Ratings would go through the friggen roof. Could you imagine? Hes such a scumbag.
cameron_keys
01-07-2008, 06:28 PM
ANYONE who thinks Britney should be within 100 feet of those kids until she is better...whatever is wrong with her..should be shot on site.
Also....anyone who thinks that someone is automatically a better parent because they have a vagina should wear a helmet at all times and ride the short bus. There are plenty of women who abuse...and who stand by and let abuse happen.
Custody should be based on whats best FOR THE KIDS. Which should include in depth analysis including psych evaluation and drug testing...may one day actually happen.
AudreyLeigh
01-07-2008, 06:31 PM
whats that book by that guy whos mom made him a slave and made him live in the basement and when she got mad would beat the living sh*t out of him? omg that book made me CRY. she made him eat dog poop and all kinda of crazy shit.
Yea, being a women does not = good parent.
gingerlee
01-07-2008, 06:35 PM
ANYONE who thinks Britney should be within 100 feet of those kids until she is better...whatever is wrong with her..should be shot on site.
Also....anyone who thinks that someone is automatically a better parent because they have a vagina should wear a helmet at all times and ride the short bus. There are plenty of women who abuse...and who stand by and let abuse happen.
Custody should be based on whats best FOR THE KIDS. Which should include in depth analysis including psych evaluation and drug testing...may one day actually happen.
Thank you! I don't think this is a giant plan that Kevin made to get more money out of Brit, I think it's because he knows she's bat shit crazy. If he just wanted money he would have probably taken a pay off to give up the kids to her.
Katrine
01-07-2008, 06:44 PM
I've never known of a man who hated his own gender as James Bond. Cerously, read some of his other threads. He's like the inverse extreme of a Mr_Punk/Jenny hybrid creature. Wow...just...wow....
James Bond
01-07-2008, 06:45 PM
Ok, I've had some time to think about this thread. What we have here is a lynch-mob mentality.
The reactions on this board to Britney and my posts have nothing to do with the custody of her children. People are fed up with the drama caused by Britney and the Paparazzi.
The drama is caused by:
Britney = 33%
Paparazzi = 33%
The Public = 34%
People are so fed up with Britney that they have turned into a lynch mob. Heck, they even want to lynch me, too. :laughing: If Britney J-walked, half the people on this thread would want her to get the electric chair.
The lynch mob can't see things clearly because they are prejudiced by their rage toward the person. This kind of mentality has probably hung a lot of innocent people in the last few hundred years. This is why it's scary to be a defendant in the American legal system nowadays. People may not like the race, looks, attitude, etc., of the defendant and convict on their prejudices or possible lynch-mob mentality.
To anyone on this thread that dislikes Britney so much that you would take her kids away: If you're ever a defendant in a criminal proceeding, pray to whoever you believe in that I'm on that jury.
K-Fed, a better parent than Britney??? :rotfl:
Katrine
01-07-2008, 06:50 PM
James honey...
They aren't taking away her kids for good. She will have a chance to get them back once she's shown she is a fit parent. Its not all or nothing in Family Law. Please, get a bit of a clue.
If anything, the fact that she is famous gave the courts and opportunity to see what she's been doing. Sadly, courts often blindly side with the mother, who may be behaving in the exact same manor.
Men get really screwed in family court, more often than not. Women get screwed financially by men in divorce, more often than not. I have no statistics to base this on, so its my opinion.
cameron_keys
01-07-2008, 06:56 PM
K-Fed, a better parent than Britney??? :rotfl:
Right because K-fed is obviously either completely drug addicted or mentally ill or both and has already put the kids in danger multiple times.
K-fed has missed multiple court dates for no reason. He has driven aimlessly around baiting the paps. He has done everything he can to get attention while completely ignoring his kids needs.
Oh no no..wait..that was Britney.
How can you NOT see that she is an unfit parent? At least at the moment.
I'm not a fan of Kfed..I think he's a douche...but as a parent..even his ex says hes a great dad to his kids.
Please give ONE example of when Kevin has put the kids in danger. ONE.
gingerlee
01-07-2008, 07:00 PM
^^He's a bad rapper. That's what he has done to put his kids in danger. Bad rapping causes major harm to small children.
BrunetteGoddess
01-07-2008, 07:01 PM
^^^ On TMZ it is repoted that Brittney's family contacted him ( This was said by the owner of TMZ on chanel 11 new (L.A) this morning)
What I think is disgusting is the lying and attention whoring going on in that family, at the expense of a sick family member. Yeah, Lynn Spears said she contacted Dr. Phil because she thought he could help the best. Yeah right, if by 'help the best' you mean 'garner the most publicity'.:-X
Nowhere in here are people saying that Britney deserves to lose her children because we dislike her. She needs to get better to get them back because it's in the best interest of the children.
BrunetteGoddess
01-07-2008, 07:04 PM
I told y'all not to feed the troll. James Bond is THE Know It All, dontcha know? ;)
Katrine
01-07-2008, 07:07 PM
I told y'all not to feed the troll. James Bond is THE Know It All, dontcha know? ;)
..feeds BrunetteGoddess LJ cookies...waits to see what happens:P
James Bond
01-07-2008, 07:15 PM
Katrine,
K-Fed is fighting for sole custody, I'm not sure he got that yet but he's trying.
Sure, Britney isn't the greatest parent in the World, but he/she who is without sin, cast the first stone. If everyone had a video camera on them 24/7, I'm sure the person would get caught doing something foolish with their children.
I don't think having a child in the front seat of the car with her is grounds for the State to take her children. The State's Gestapo should have very little say in the parent child relationship unless it's an extreme case of abuse. Say, a mother who is starving the child to death and leaving the child locked in a closet for months. Extreme physical abuse like broken bones, etc.
Stupid shit like falling on some ice when the baby's in her arms is not grounds to take the children away.
The children getting their emotional needs met by K-Fed is like getting blood from a stone. Nothing can replace the mother/child relationship. Even if she occasionally does something stupid, that's her business as a parent.
It's not a matter of being a great parent, it's a matter of giving to the children what they need emotionally, and K-Fed is not going to provide that. He's a user and a leach. Even if Britney is a semi-crappy parent, it's still 10 times better than what K-Fed has to offer. We know that K-Fed abandoned his two other children, which makes him unfit to be a parent. Britney never abandoned her kids. That should tell you something.
Make sure you read ALL of my previous posts on this thread. There is some agreement here on some things.
BrunetteGoddess
01-07-2008, 07:17 PM
..feeds BrunetteGoddess LJ cookies...waits to see what happens:P
Hey you bitch! *swallows yummy cookies* :P
gingerlee
01-07-2008, 07:17 PM
I told y'all not to feed the troll. James Bond is THE Know It All, dontcha know? ;)
I will not feed the troll. I will not feed the troll. I will not feed the troll......but I really want to! It's fun and I'm bored.
*Gets her lynch mob torch*
Tara_SW
01-07-2008, 07:57 PM
ANYONE who thinks Britney should be within 100 feet of those kids until she is better...whatever is wrong with her..should be shot on site.
ok this subject is getting a wee bit wacky now. Do we really need to be saying people should be shot for not agreeing with eachothers various opinions?
sometimes it's just better to agree to disagree
:idea:
BrunetteGoddess
01-07-2008, 08:10 PM
LoL....
AudreyLeigh
01-07-2008, 08:15 PM
Katrine,
K-Fed is fighting for sole custody, I'm not sure he got that yet but he's trying.
Parents get mad at eachother and use the children as pawns everyday. They both try to get full custody and fight fight fight. Its nothing new and means nothing. And its not going to change anytime soon....
AudreyLeigh
01-07-2008, 08:16 PM
Ooops.... I fed the troll.... sawwy
cameron_keys
01-07-2008, 08:23 PM
ok this subject is getting a wee bit wacky now. Do we really need to be saying people should be shot for not agreeing with eachothers various opinions?
Yes, yes i do. I am appaled at anyone who thinks that children should be given to someone who has proven over and over to be unstable and possibly dangerous
James Bond
01-07-2008, 08:33 PM
someone who has proven over and over to be unstable and possibly dangerous
That would be about half the parents in the U.S. :P
Tara_SW
01-07-2008, 08:36 PM
Yes, yes i do. I am appaled at anyone who thinks that children should be given to someone who has proven over and over to be unstable and possibly dangerous
well I didn't say give her full custody and he none. I think she needs some help too but I don't think she is the anticrist or whatever. I think she is going through what alot of young Mom's in a nasty divorce/custody battle go through. Anger, fear, frustration anddepression. What's different is that she is filmed 24/7.
Because she has made some poor choices, I feel supervised visitation is what is called for based on what I have seen of the situation.
I'd feel better about K-Fed if he actually did something to earn a living besides live off of Britney. Child support is for the kids not him. I hate it when women do that shit. Just as bad to me when a man does it.
but hey if you think I should recieve a gunshot (btw,would that be just wounded or dead ?) for not seeing things your way, so be it.
In the long run what does either our opinions on Britney's life really matter?
Tara_SW
01-07-2008, 08:38 PM
That would be about half the parents in the U.S. :P
more than half if we are going by what is seen in public. god knows what goes on behind closed doors :scared:
gingerlee
01-07-2008, 08:45 PM
well I didn't say give her full custody and he none. I think she needs some help too but I don't she is the anticrist or whatever. I think she is going through what alot of young Mom's in a nasty divorce/custody battle. Except she is filmed 24/7.
I feel supervised visitation is what is called for based on what I have seen of the situation.
She had supervised visitation and she STILL did whatever she wanted. Drove like a maniac, kept the kids out all night, and all kinds of other stuff. Once she screwed up too many times the courts had to hand down some kind of consequence, or she would have no motivation to change her behavior.
Tara_SW
01-07-2008, 08:49 PM
She had supervised visitation and she STILL did whatever she wanted. Drove like a maniac, kept the kids out all night, and all kinds of other stuff. Once she screwed up too many times the courts had to hand down some kind of consequence, or she would have no motivation to change her behavior.
ok true, but I still think all this Britney is the worst Mommy EVER stuff is well... over dramatic. Then again this is the "major Britney Drama" thread so ;)
BrunetteGoddess
01-07-2008, 09:08 PM
I never saw one post in here where ANYONE said that 'Britney is the worst mom ever'. I see people saying she's an unfit parent. Saying somebody is an unfit parent is way different than saying they are the worst parent ever ::)
AudreyLeigh
01-07-2008, 09:26 PM
I never saw one post in here where ANYONE said that 'Britney is the worst mom ever'. I see people saying she's an unfit parent. Saying somebody is an unfit parent is way different than saying they are the worst parent ever ::)
Yes. She just needs help and I hope she gets it and gets her boys back. Hope she and Kevin can come to an understanding that children should not be treated as pawns and each get partial custody. But as of right now she should not have the boys in her care. As of this minute she is an unfit parent. But thats not to say she wont/cant clean up her act. She just needs to get over needing all the attention and getting mental help if thats what needed. She needs to realize her children are her #1 priority and shes just not there yet.
PaigeDWinter
01-07-2008, 11:30 PM
:banghead:
AznExtasy
01-08-2008, 12:30 AM
I think she's unfit because she's crazy. A "worst mom ever" knowingly does wrong to her child, in my opinion. Either way, I feel bad for the kids and really hope they turn out okay.
dancersari
01-08-2008, 12:45 AM
Honey, I hate to say it, but it's drama hungry people (such as yourself) who make these stars crazy. They do one stupid thing and the reaction is unbelievable! They can't go anywhere or have any privacy without having all these Paparazzi splashing it all over... then, when she is trying to get away from them, they are so close, she runs over his foot and SHE gets in trouble!!! I feel sorry for the poor girl. One thing after another.
It's a good thing she is in a hospital if that's true ( you can't believe everything you read ) because she can breathe and go pee without someone turning it into a sin. I just want to give the poor girl a hug.
LilyLove
01-08-2008, 01:19 AM
^ I don't really understand your reasoning... I mean, there are all kinds of crazy people who aren't celebrities. Its only reasonable that some stars will be people who have mental and emotional problems. In my opinion, her fame is not what is causing her problems. It might be adding to them, but it is certainly not her fame that is causing her to neglect and endanger her children.
Holy shit. Do any of you actually know these people?
pookie
01-08-2008, 06:28 AM
I think if Britney has more custody her crazy behavior would calm down or stop because she have what she wants. She is only acting out because she has her kids taken away. I think many people would act out if the didn't have the proper tools to handle that sort of trauma. I dont know if i think Britney is an unfit parent. I have a hard time believing many rumors produced by the media. I see people who have made similar things such as Britney and don't have their kids taken away. She just is just under more scrutiny coz she is famous. We don't see Britney or K-fed 24/7 so in reality we dont actually know the truth_(the whole truth). people second guess the truth. and i am willing to bet its not completely like how the media portrays both of them.
head turner
01-08-2008, 07:08 AM
Holy shit. Do any of you actually know these people?
my thoughts too.
RoseWhite
01-08-2008, 08:56 AM
Honey, I hate to say it, but it's drama hungry people (such as yourself) who make these stars crazy. They do one stupid thing and the reaction is unbelievable! They can't go anywhere or have any privacy without having all these Paparazzi splashing it all over...
Sure they can. Of course they can. When's the last time you heard about, say, Natalie Portman running amok in a nightclub? Or Scarlett Johannsen making a scene somewhere? Or Reese Witherspoon, or any number of famous young women who are far more talented? Even Nicole Richie coverage has been limited to mostly the occasional shopping trip lately, toned down due to her pregnancy.
When you get publicity like Britney, Lindsay, Paris, et al, it's because you invite it. Period. Sometimes by an actual publicist calling the paps in, sometimes by their antics alone, but still. The Lindsays and Parises can cry me a river.
The only reason I have any pity for Britney is because this was started by her own parent(s) when she was just a kid who didn't know any better, and was brought up to seek exactly this kind of attention, but really - how long do you give someone that excuse? Especially when they have children of their own? Eventually you have to DECIDE to become an adult.
(FWIW, I also agree that when it comes to a lot of the specifics of her parenting, none of us actually KNOWS her, and what goes on behind closed doors.)