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Katrine
01-06-2008, 03:20 PM
Whoa, its only been a couple of dates, ya'll. So much vitriol on SW. I've barely heard from him all weekend anyway. I can feel it in my gut. He already got tired of me and doesn't want me anymore. :(

kitty69
01-06-2008, 03:26 PM
Apologies for the threadjack, but have a dumb newbie Q. What is Craigslist? sorry for interruption.

twisterinAZ
01-07-2008, 01:44 AM
Kat, you don't want him either from the sounds of it. Don't sweat it girl. Men come and go like buses.

VegasPrincess
01-07-2008, 01:53 AM
The sleeping in his own bed would be a big deal breaker

I also hate suburbs

And I feel that republicans ... well, I just wouldn't want to date one.

Everyone should also know when to shut the fuck up.

I think if he had one quality like this it might be workable, but all 4 ? No.

If he is incredible in bed, use him as a fuck toy but don't get personal.

Katrine
01-19-2008, 04:17 PM
Bump.

I think its over. Last night I texted him asking if he wanted to play sometime this weekend. His response:

"My buddy is getting a divorce and going to live with me for the next month."

Me: "So just come over here."

Him: "Might be a while, looks like this one will get rough."

Me: "That's the sorriest excuse I've ever heard. I've never known a man who couldn't spare an hour for pussy. Cheers."

Then a couple of irrelevant texts. That would be the first time I've gotten dumped over text messaging, and for such a lame-ass reason. I'm not emotionally upset over this particular guy, but I can't stand to lose or be rejected. I'm a loser. My sex-ninja skills can't even keep a guy. :(

Sand
01-19-2008, 06:21 PM
He doesn't deserve you. He sounds boooring anyway.

Katrine
01-19-2008, 06:50 PM
I'm such a loser. 3 times, and the guy is already sick of me. What do I have to do to keep a fuck-buddy? Take 2 cocks in my ass at the same time and then stick them both in my mouth?

madmaxine
01-19-2008, 06:53 PM
I'm such a loser. 3 times, and the guy is already sick of me. What do I have to do to keep a fuck-buddy? Take 2 cocks in my ass at the same time and then stick them both in my mouth?

Sounds like a plan!

I had no idea how crazy Mike Huckabee was until Dan Savage interviewed a bunch of his supporters for Bill Maher's show......I wouldn't ball a Huckabee booster with a fake rubber coochie on a 10 foot pole. Girl, get thee to to some large musician wang!

Katrine
01-19-2008, 07:05 PM
I'm over musicians. Besides, I've already fucked all the good ones in town. Good in bed that is, not necesarily good at music.

Mr Hyde
01-19-2008, 07:07 PM
Nothing wrong with being a Repub, but a Huckabee lover? Uh...eh...

Jenny
01-19-2008, 09:28 PM
Kitten - it's not you. It's them. Most guys aren't looking for something as casual as what they claim, and you probably scare the living hell out of them.

While it is irrelevant now, I would suggest that for the political aspect - differing views are fine; but I would personally require a certain set of shared values. I would find it hard to agree to disagree about things I consider to be core values for 5 minutes with a sex partner let alone 3 dates (or "dates"); but that doesn't mean that political beliefs have to align in any way.

Djoser
01-20-2008, 12:51 AM
Whoa, its only been a couple of dates, ya'll. So much vitriol on SW. I've barely heard from him all weekend anyway. I can feel it in my gut. He already got tired of me and doesn't want me anymore. :(

WTF?!

You are going to piss me off if you keep this up. The guy isn't fit to tie your shoes.

1) He not only supports the most atavistic, sexist politician available, he apparently will not shut up about it. I have cohabitated with three women whose political views were pretty far from mine; a commie, a petit bourgeoisie, and a woman who thought it was appropriate people should have their cars confiscated for having a joint. There were occasionally a few heated words, but everybody figured out that there was a time, a place, and a manner in which to debate politics. Without mutual respect, there isn't. Though maybe I got a worse impression of the guy than I should have.

2) Or maybe not, lol. Look, I've met you, you rarely ever shut up, and I love it. Of course I damned well ought to, since I'm the same way. But I think you know when to listen, especially on those rare and special occasions when it's time stop talking, like for instance when fucking.

Well OK, sometimes talking is hot--but babbling is right out.

3) And what's this? The guy insists you come to him? Or when he does come to see you, it's kthanxby? I don't think so.

"Next!"

AlexxaHex
01-20-2008, 08:30 AM
YAY! Now you are free to move onto much better dick. Do you like nerds? Maybe hit up some Anime convention.

OdysseusNJ
01-20-2008, 08:46 AM
I'm over musicians. Besides, I've already fucked all the good ones in town. Good in bed that is, not necesarily good at music.

Over musicians, but not over Neanderthals? WTF!!!! I'm with Djoser.

OdysseusNJ
01-20-2008, 08:52 AM
I have cohabitated with three women whose political views were pretty far from mine; a commie, a petit bourgeoisie, and a woman who thought it was appropriate people should have their cars confiscated for having a joint.

Ha! If only they were simultaneous this could totally have made for a 21st century version of Three's Company. Starring as Jack Ritter... Djoser!

Polekitten
01-20-2008, 09:03 AM
The talking in bed think would piss me off. I like to talk dirty as much as the next girl but not all the time. Plus, I sorta think its unfair he won't stay at yours, especially if you have back problems. This would be ringing alarm bells for me that he is stubborn and unwilling to compramise.

Katrine
01-20-2008, 03:20 PM
YAY! Now you are free to move onto much better dick. Do you like nerds? Maybe hit up some Anime convention.

I worked in IT for many, many years. Nerds have always surrounded me, fell in love with me, got so nagging and needy. If I could tolerate nerdy-geeks, I'd have some loving loser supporting my ass by now. No thank you.


a petit bourgeoisie,

Dude, is it 1897? You're precious.

I deleted his number and ate a delicious vagitarian meal last night to help me forget. }:D

Djoser
01-20-2008, 03:30 PM
Dude, is it 1897? You're precious.

I deleted his number and ate a delicious vagitarian meal last night to help me forget. }:D

LOL! That was how an old friend from college described her, and it fit very well. She was a sweetheart, though, and sexy as all hell, so sexy that friend tried to fuck her once when I was out of town. We lasted almost 7 years.

I like your diet...

FBR
01-20-2008, 03:42 PM
I'm such a loser. 3 times, and the guy is already sick of me. What do I have to do to keep a fuck-buddy? Take 2 cocks in my ass at the same time and then stick them both in my mouth?Katmeister, I'm sorry that things didn't work out. You are a wonderful gal and deserve happiness.

I am curious about the fuck buddy reference, though. I mean, it might be best (if it is a fuck buddy type relationship as opposed to something potentially deeper) to stay away from politics and other deeply personal issues and just focus on the fact that you guys can fuck like minks and love it and keep it at that level. You know, fire and forget...until the next time. OTOH, if you are looking for something more LTR and thought he was a possibility it is probably counterproductive to say he was just a fuck buddy after the fact. Viewing him that way just makes it harder for you to to understand what happened when it's over.

FBR