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RoseLeigh
01-16-2008, 12:06 PM
Thanks for the advice. Contrary to you though I feel old..I haven't experienced what mostly everyone else has. I feel like I'm so behind and it's too late to catch up.

I have no friends..I never managed to make any after I left my home country (which was when I was 10 years old).

my attitude toward the world has been a mix of apathy, hostility, resentment, pity and happiness. I am not particularly hostile to people though. I have some acquaintances but nobody to "hang out" with. The acquaintances I have seem to enjoy talking to me.

I'm not gonna post pics..the hostility that came from my fatty comment tells me I shouldn't lol.

20 is not old. And not everyone is getting the mad sexin'. That's just on MTV. And if that is your attitude towards the world, you do give off some of that, even if you think you aren't hostile. You've come off as very ignorant and immature here, and that's just in typing. Lose the 'American Pie' must get the poon attitude. For your own sanity.

You said you didn't make friends after you left your country-are you non-native English speaker? If that's part of your isolation, fix it. Practice. Seek out people from your native area, if possible. Does your college have international goings on? My old college had footie (soccer), frisbee, hackeysack and cricket games going on all the time on the campus green, due to the varied population. If you hate sports, join something relevant to your major. Geeks make good friends, broadly speaking.

You need friends first. A man without any friends is a little creepy to a lot of girls. They tend to cling/stalk.

Listen to TOO. Read it again. He gets slack for being a suave ladies man ;) but he is successful in all sorts of ways.

Will
01-16-2008, 01:40 PM
Thanks for the advice. Contrary to you though I feel old..I haven't experienced what mostly everyone else has. I feel like I'm so behind and it's too late to catch up.
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LOL, I have T shirts older than you! ::)

Sand
01-16-2008, 03:41 PM
Just don't be weird.

Paris
01-16-2008, 03:57 PM
Nah I wear pants that fit me.

I consider myself normal build. I am a bit short (5'8") and have tanned skin...I'll post a pic if I get the urge to get up from this chair and take it

I mean I should be able to go out at least with a fatty:(

Have you tried putting lifts in your shoes? I know this sounds like a dumb idea, but women really are attracted to tall guys. Even a couple of inches would increase your attractiveness for some women.

I love it when my husband wears his boots w/ 2" heel and he is 6'1" barefooted. I feel so protected with a tall man at my side.;)

Paris
01-16-2008, 03:59 PM
I don't think so. I rarely talk to people.

It's like..I get no female attention at all. What can I do to make women at least give me a glance?

*no, I won't wear a dildo on my head*

You might try walking up to a woman and saying hello. If you are a wallflower, most women will avoid you assuming that you are mentally ill or something.

Paris
01-16-2008, 04:06 PM
This goes into a more personal level.

Basically what I want to know is what causes a woman to look at a guy and say "I'd hit it" (or whatever the female equavilant of that is)

Clean shaved? muscles? skinny? very tall? average? skin tone? shoes or sneakers? bald? medium hair? long hair? etc?

I need a makeover.

No man is f*ck worthy to me until I get to talk to him first. Everything else is optional.

Learn to hold a conversation with potential girlfriends. You can do this at strip clubs for around $200 for 30 mins. in the VIP room. This is *almost* what stripclubs are for, to practice what it might be like to have a real girlfriend.

DO NOT under any circumstances fall in love with a stripper. She only cares about your money and is more than happy to entertain you for as long as you can afford to pay for the entertainment. Other than that, it is in her court. If she wants to see you outside of work, she'll tell you.

Other than that, good luck!

Paris
01-16-2008, 04:39 PM
For those that got offended by my "fatty" comment it was not my intention to offend. But I am not sorry for making that comment. Unless you have a thyroid condition there is absolutely no reason why you should be in your 20s and looking like a female version of fat albert. If your self esteem is so low that you've allowed yourself to become enormous and/or nasty expect smart ass comments.

Okay, now that comment irked me. Read up a little bit, lest you sound like an elitist snob. The obesity problem goes deeper than an eating disorder.

*Poverty causes obesity because healthy fresh food is expensive and sometimes in short supply in poor neighborhoods
*Once a person is obese, it is next to impossible to lose the weight with out surgery (or a good coke connection).
*Obesity can be caused by our overly sterile lifestyle in the US. We don't have the level of bacterial flora in the gut that less sterile societies experience. Lack of digestive bacteria is directly linked to obesity. Children must develop these bacterial colonies before age four in order for the digestive tract to function correctly.

Having said that, your posts smack of misogyny. You need to understand that women are not an alien species. We are human beings that have wants, needs and desires. The needs of women are often different than those of men. It varies from woman to woman, but feeling cherished, respected and attractive is a start.

What do you do for social interaction? That is where you are going to meet potential girlfriends. Whether you are involved in church or enjoy going out clubbing doesn't really matter, so long as you are involved in social activities outside of work/ school.

If you haven't got time for socializing, you will not be successful in meeting girls.

G-Real
01-16-2008, 04:43 PM
I tihnk pretty much anything this guy has posted in the thread are reasons why this guy will be living in Mom's basement and the closest he gets to a women.

Paris
01-16-2008, 04:56 PM
Not to mention, what's wrong with having some fun with a chubby chick? There's a lot of good looking chubby chicks out there looking to have some fun too, as you know. Some times you have to see the potential in a person, and regardless, chubby chicks can give some good lovin' too, so it's all good.



Hahahaha! It sounds like you are sucking up;).

Will
01-16-2008, 05:28 PM
Hahahaha! It sounds like you are sucking up;).

I think you should know me better then that by now. I generally say what I mean and mean what I say. I don't have to suck up to no one, and I don't have to wear lifts to get laid.... ::)

Mastridonicus
01-16-2008, 09:08 PM
Happy trails made visible via belly shirts are like skeleton keys to vagina.

OdysseusNJ
01-16-2008, 09:18 PM
Happy trails made visible via belly shirts are like skeleton keys to vagina.

Don't forget mullets.

UtahMike
01-16-2008, 11:13 PM
My Uncle George, may he rest in peace, recommended always dating overweight and less attractive girls. He said they were SO much more appreciative and, um, rewarding.

Will
01-17-2008, 08:16 AM
I need advice...what would be your ideal man when it comes to looks/style/ appearance/etc.

If you're wondering why I am asking this it is because I simply can't pull anything my way and I'm thinking looks might be the problem..maybe I need to update my wardrobe.

Are you not the same person who said:

"Tom Cruise makes me wet my pants though....I don't care how weird he is."

You sure it's women you are interested in?

StuartL
01-17-2008, 10:44 AM
I know that most females prefer a man to be honest, but really...



The time has come to have sex with as many women as possible for me

For those that got offended by my "fatty" comment it was not my intention to offend. But I am not sorry for making that comment. Unless you have a thyroid condition there is absolutely no reason why you should be in your 20s and looking like a female version of fat albert. If your self esteem is so low that you've allowed yourself to become enormous and/or nasty expect smart ass comments.

... you might either want to keep this to yourself, or change your perception of humanity.

Your posts don't make your own self esteem sound too high...

When I read your first post, I thought you were just fishing for compliments or dates, but now I think the reason you are single is self-evident.

X Evan X
01-17-2008, 10:51 AM
My Molly Hatchet original concert jersey is like a magnet.

-E

muhuwahaha
01-17-2008, 11:18 AM
Are you not the same person who said:

"Tom Cruise makes me wet my pants though....I don't care how weird he is."

You sure it's women you are interested in?

lol

I'm attracted to him in a non-homosexual way

Will
01-17-2008, 11:22 AM
lol

I'm attracted to him in a non-homosexual way

If you say so...."not that there's anything wrong with that" ::)/:O::)

muhuwahaha
01-17-2008, 11:28 AM
If you say so...."not that there's anything wrong with that" ::)::)

No really.

As for this thread..seems to me you guys think I'm an asshole and/or jerk. I've also heard women like assholes/jerks.

With that said, I suppose I will just open my mouth. The reason I'm single isn't because I'm an asshole..it's because I don't walk to anybody /:O.

I'll take the bait and go socialize more.

Paris
01-17-2008, 02:07 PM
I think you should know me better then that by now. I generally say what I mean and mean what I say. I don't have to suck up to no one, and I don't have to wear lifts to get laid.... ::)

Too bad. Sucking up is a skill and art that takes years to hone properly. Some of the very best suck-ups are also the most wealthy and powerful people on the planet. (ever met a politician?)

Will
01-17-2008, 03:41 PM
Too bad. Sucking up is a skill and art that takes years to hone properly. Some of the very best suck-ups are also the most wealthy and powerful people on the planet. (ever met a politician?)

I agree. I would make a horrible politician.

PrettyCurlieQ
01-17-2008, 03:56 PM
Superficially, I like hot guys. Duh. My 'type' can vary I suppose, but I'm usually drawn to caucasian guys, brunettes, tall, short hair. Maybe a sort of preppy/gangster style. Idk how to describe it.. Urban clean cut. That's it.

bebewood
03-10-2008, 03:05 AM
I need advice...what would be your ideal man when it comes to looks/style/ appearance/etc.

If you're wondering why I am asking this it is because I simply can't pull anything my way and I'm thinking looks might be the problem..maybe I need to update my wardrobe.
lookswise, my ideal guy looks just like this, except maybe with less muscle
http://superheroprofiles.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/12/tomwelling1.jpg