View Full Version : average penis size and measuring
Xiomara
01-31-2008, 04:06 PM
I had a guy with a SUPER SMALL penis about the size of my index finger--and uncircumsized.He fell out over and over,and i guess didnt realize it cuz he kept going. Oh well he was just the sugar daddy..so i let him keep going,i sure wasnt looking or wanting good sex from him. mean but oh well
PhillyDancer1982
01-31-2008, 04:55 PM
I like to talk and joke around about really big dicks, and most of my current fuck buddies have been huge, but in all honesty...it doesn't take that much for me to have fun. I'm still pretty tight (and so I'm told) despite having been with over 100 people...so anything 6" or bigger will be big enough to make me feel sore for a while afterwards. In the past year or so, it seems that most of the guys that I've attracted just happened to be really huge LOL...we're talking 8-9" on average, with one guy being so big that the biggest sized condoms were cutting off his circulation! LOL!(I'm serious too) As much fun as it is, I honestly wonder if maybe they're a little too big for me...since they make me a little too sore for my own good. Kinda like a 5'2" petite girl bowling with a 14 lb bowling ball...she can do it, but it's really not the most appropriate size for her. But that isn't enough to stop me lol.
salsa4ever
01-31-2008, 05:52 PM
I have a 6-incher. I feel less-than-confident because I feel I am too small. My last ex would get on top and then climb off because she wasn't really feeling it. Sad story LOL! But honestly, ladies, it's tough if you are a man with just an average size or smaller. I think of all the women who get boob jobs, but men don't have that option. That last experience really messed up my head. I am now really gun-shy about my next encounter.
Incidentally, I measure from the top. I go by penetration length (can I say that on here?). From my underside, I can measure 7 inches, but that's a false reading to me ;)
Men with small dicks unite!
I can feel your pain here. I measure about the same as you, and I am sometimes also quite gun-shy. At least I'm Asian, which means I fuck a large proportion of Asian women, who tend to be a lot smaller. I mean, all else equal you don't need to be as big to satisfy a 5'3" malaysian as you'd have to be for 6' dutch girl! It also helps if I'm travelling to a country where people aren't so well endowed (the stereotype of asian men having comparatively smaller dicks is, by my anecdotal evidence, basically true).
I think it's even more important for people like us to have confidence in ourselves. We *do* need to be more skillful to compensate. You either accept it and get on with it or go home and cry.
I'm thinking of hormonal therapy. Will that improve my size?
jasmine
01-31-2008, 06:09 PM
^^
Just wanted to say that 6in is not small. Really, you are worrying over nothing, 2-3in, then you might want to worry. As many of us have said, huge isn't always best.;)
TheSexKitten
01-31-2008, 06:32 PM
Seriously.... six inches is on the slightly larger end of average! There's nothing wrong with that!
muhuwahaha
01-31-2008, 09:55 PM
From my understanding, it seems as though women find a larger penis more of a turn on. But if you're average and you know what you are doing (not to mention rock hard + having great stamina) you could be the best lover a woman ever had. If you got a small cock (4") I'm sorry but there simply is no hope for you. You might as well kill yourself:'(
This is just from stuff I've read though....not so bluntly but I've drawn those conclusions. I'm still a virgin and my penis is small :'(
jaizaine
01-31-2008, 11:08 PM
^^
seriously don't write stuff like that - you may as well kill yourself. I know you prob wrote it as a joke but it's really awful and imagine someone reading it who was that small!!
Anyway I am 5"0 and very small down there and 6" is the largest I would want inside me coz even that hurts me so don't feel bad guys who are 6" and smaller some women do like you.
Now the guy in my story was seriously about 2" and that was too small for me to get pleasure from but he was good at other stuff like oral.
lestat1
02-01-2008, 12:51 AM
Sam Kinison once told a joke that was, to summarize, if she ever complains about you being too small, shove it in her ass and see what she thinks then.
Penis size, weight, height, whatever it is that makes you insecure matters. Not the thing itself, but the insecurity.
leilanicandy
02-01-2008, 01:06 AM
^^
seriously don't write stuff like that - you may as well kill yourself. I know you prob wrote it as a joke but it's really awful and imagine someone reading it who was that small!!
Anyway I am 5"0 and very small down there and 6" is the largest I would want inside me coz even that hurts me so don't feel bad guys who are 6" and smaller some women do like you.
Now the guy in my story was seriously about 2" and that was too small for me to get pleasure from but he was good at other stuff like oral.
Well I am Five feet and five inches. I am not as tiny as jaizzine. But I dont like them long also! I tried bigger, and I was in horrible pain. I perfer smaller guys also!
Girth rock!
But grandma Lynn says; there is a cock for every pussy!
I cant not handle a big guy. But I have a friend that loves them! Seriously, it is not that one person is to small or to big! It is that is not the fit for you!
PuertoRicanPinup
02-01-2008, 05:29 AM
So I would just let him pump away at my butt crack, and he thought he was getting it. loser.
OMG, I am dying cracking up over this! I probably sound like a mad woman laughing my ass off at 4:30 a.m...
SundayMorning
02-01-2008, 09:04 AM
Sam Kinison once told a joke that was, to summarize, if she ever complains about you being too small, shove it in her ass and see what she thinks then.
Penis size, weight, height, whatever it is that makes you insecure matters. Not the thing itself, but the insecurity.
QFFT!
threlayer
02-01-2008, 12:26 PM
FIT is one factor that determines compatibility among those to whom sex matters a lot. Penises are a lot easier to measure than vaginal 'capacity'. I suppose (hope) that is one reason people experiment. How do you start a thread on 'tightness'?
Another idea - penis size is, for some guys, determined by the degree of 'readiness'. I'm not talking about the hardness, but how close to cumming. Most of my galfriends I've been inside of have said something like "it's getting bigger", even though it's as hard as it ever gets. Sort of prevents a casual measurement. All comments that i I've experienced are like "it's big and hard enough", if that matters here. So I rarely think of this question.
SexyJess
02-01-2008, 01:02 PM
Oh little dicks! I have a story!
This guy was an idiot, and I didn't lke havign sex with him. I was 15. But I was stupid, and peer pressure and all that crap. Anyway..he would have to ask " is it in?" And sometime,s i would just lie and say yeah, it's in...and it woudl be between my butt cheeks. He never knew the difference! ( how? I dunno. I was a tight virgin. but he couldnt tell)
So I would just let him pump away at my butt crack, and he thought he was getting it. loser.
My other small penis...
This guyjust grossed me out in every way when he got naked. He had a hair back, whch grosses me out. And he wwas on the heavy side, and when I put my arms around him, I just envisioned big slabs of meat hanging on the hanger like at a butcher. I was so grossed out. And then I discovered his small dick. I was done with that I kicked him out of bed.
Sadly, I was an evil bitch at the time, and i made him walk home. It was a very far walk, and he probably had to call for a ride. I feel bad abou thatnow...I was a bitch.
OMG- I'm cracking up, but I feel so sorry for you at the same time! A lot of my friends have stories like these. I can't even imagine. I've never even seen one that tiny. I am so incredibly lucky. I don't know what I'd do if my hubby was hung like a tic tac because I love him so much and am so attracted to him. lol
I agree that girth matters MUCH more than length. So no worries, guys who think 6" is small. It's fine, trust me!
What's Average? (http://www.altpenis.com/penis_news/average_size.shtml)