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Lapaholic
02-06-2008, 12:41 PM
Ben if I were u and being shoved into so many garters attached to so many lovely thighs, Id have a smile on my face.....
candlelily
02-06-2008, 01:00 PM
I like smart, wealthy men who are neither judgmental nor impressed that I dance, love to buy me stuff, treat me like a queen, are non-needy, are non-possessive, and have a lot of confidence.
yoda57us
02-06-2008, 01:08 PM
Exactly. In fact if the first thing a girl says to me is "I'm nice" my first thought is, "if you have to tell me this, something is seriously wrong you, and chances are it means you are not."
True enough. In fact, it hardly seems like a selling point in a strip club. Of course, I only hang out with dancers who are "naughty but nice" but they would never promote themselves that way, they are too smart.
As far as the OP, well, you may be a nice guy but your ego is gonna stop most people at the door. And, btw, merely showing up her on SW doesn't mean that we have to kiss your ass.
Benjamin
02-06-2008, 02:07 PM
Well, look, I wasn't always this way. One day, I was out with a couple New Englanders at this place called, The Liberty Belle, and (i'll withhold names) we where having this great time and the chicks where just so HOT! And me S. and G. where all like "Damn this is the life" Then one of the dancers I see often (such a vision this one. She goes by the name Oxyclean, but in my heart she'll always be "Faiden Mair" started telling me all about how her dear ol' mum was ill and SHE COULDN'T AFFORD TO HELP! and WHY? Her income was Taxed too much! So, I bought three dom sessions, (V.I.PEE if ya know whut aye mean. *wink*) and then G. S. and I went to the harbor and got shitfaced.
So...this boat came in right? Carrying "Tea" or someshit..and G. was all like "I got your Teabag RIGHT. HERE."they fuckin started firing, and S. was all like "I'm pissed we need to free dis bitch. I'm so god damned sick of these taxes.." and we where so smashed we TOOK THE BOAT and started throwin the tea overboard! And that's not even the best part!
Apparently after the party on the boat, a bud of mine, P. broght some crack back to tThe Liberty Belle and Oxy, G., S., and I got blitzed off our asses, oh man nothin says "Good Crack" Like Blacking out as the salami in a stripper sandwich! Ah, the art of the threesome, right G-Lee?
Anyway, so here's the bst part, apparently, I go so fucked up, WE got so fucked up we pissed off the King by writing up some "Eat Shit and Die" Transcript telling him to Fuck off, we own this Turf and if he didn't like it, he could come here and step up. Oxy said that everyone started calling me"Money" since everyone was giving me free shit.
So a couple weeks later, I'm at The Liberty Belle with The Other Owner telling Oxy how sad I am that her mom came out of remission when I hear P. come in screaming some shit about redcoats... turns out the letter didn't go over all that well.
The Other Owner leans in and says "don't worry, I have this awesome PR guy who'll put the perfect spin on it"
And there you have it. I am no differen't then all ya'll. 'cept I'm strappin.
hockeybobby
02-06-2008, 02:17 PM
I had a feelin' TOO was mixed up in this. Where's the Janitor?
hb
cameron_keys
02-06-2008, 02:23 PM
Ben is the sexiest newbie EVER. What the hell took you so long to get on the site hot stuff? You know some of us havent seen you in a LONG time...we miss you baby!!!
hockeybobby
02-06-2008, 02:23 PM
I like smart, wealthy men who are neither judgmental nor impressed that I dance, love to buy me stuff, treat me like a queen, are non-needy, are non-possessive, and have a lot of confidence.
Candlelily: you could insist he be a great cook too. You wouldn't want to sell yourself short.... ;)
hb
candlelily
02-06-2008, 05:00 PM
Candlelily: you could insist he be a great cook too. You wouldn't want to sell yourself short.... ;)
hb
Haha right. Guess that's why I don't date much. Fortunately, a couple months ago I actually found a man that meets all my requirements and we're in looove now, baby. lol ;D
jaizaine
02-07-2008, 02:02 AM
I am not interested in benjamin. He doesn't appear on our notes!!;D ;D
THE OTHER JANITOR
02-07-2008, 03:34 AM
I had a feelin' TOO was mixed up in this. Where's the Janitor?
hb
I ain't cleanin' YO damn harbour!!
twisterinAZ
02-07-2008, 03:39 AM
Don't feed them. Please.
cameron_keys
02-07-2008, 07:10 AM
I am not interested in benjamin. He doesn't appear on our notes!!;D ;D
Ah, but he converts so easily to your notes!! He's versitile and accomodating like that. Thats why he's the best boyfriend ever!
LoveComesFromWithin
02-07-2008, 03:31 PM
We actually all date the same guy. He gets passed around to every stripper on the planet. We're all very devoted to him....of course, he's actually very tired.
His name is Benjamin.
hes coming over in two weeks, i havent got a chance to meet him yet::)
cameron_keys
02-07-2008, 05:37 PM
hes coming over in two weeks, i havent got a chance to meet him yet::)
You'll love him! You can take him shopping and he'll buy you stuff!!
TheTempest
02-07-2008, 08:00 PM
Oh Ben, where were you last night? I waited all night to get naked for you - but all I got was washy Washington and Annoying Andrew.
I pine!
RoseLeigh
02-07-2008, 08:11 PM
Oh Ben, where were you last night? I waited all night to get naked for you - but all I got was washy Washington and Annoying Andrew.
I pine!
He's been in hiding as of late. I met his friend Ulysses last night, but he ran off with the housemom. :( Come back to me Benjy!
oriax
02-07-2008, 11:33 PM
[quote=Pretty_Penny;1389003]musclely testosteroney guys < art fags and nerds
BINGO! :O
I am a self-professed art fag with 2 degrees to prove it and proud. Walter, all my little poet/artiste/vegan reichministers-that-hug-bunnies, and don't get me started on musicians, have no problem with females.
To debunk your Ken-Doll myth, Wally:
Here's me in 7 power-packed points-
A hot musclebod! Moi? HA! I try, but no avail...
Asshole Badboy? Well... I am fulla shit. Someone once said my personality was like a garbage truck on Thursday. }:D
I don't have one solitary tattoo on my body.
I don't listen to rap or Kid Rock. I listen to Belle and Sebastian and cuddle my Kermit the Frog doll and bite my pillow.
I make OK money, but no, I wouldn't want a Hummer if I could afford one. (the automobile, Walter, not a blowjob-sheesh...)
Never spent one night in jail.
Never even SAW coke much less done it or sold it.Ready for the kicker?
I have dated three strippers, 2 nude models, and one pornstar. And get this- I've only been in a strip club 3 times in my life! HAHA! No shit. I didn't even know these women did what they did until after we started dating.
Point of this thread is your solution: Get out of the house and get involved in what YOU do and what YOU like. Be honest to yourself. Don't worry about whether she thinks you are too nice or too much of an ass. Hell, don't even worry about her! The only person you need to be a "nice guy" to is you and women regardless of their occupation, will find an attractive quality in that. Despite being full of it, I am honest with myself and my capacities. I know what I like and I am sure of it and welcome any critique. Seriously, if you want to meet women, you should not idealize their job, or their looks, or intelligence or any other trait you find intimidating. And definitely don't try to win their hearts while you're at the club.
Wake up, dude. It's the New Millennium. Chicks like Tyler Durden and not Travis Bickle.
Silly Rabbit.
AznExtasy
02-08-2008, 12:02 AM
Screw macho guys, art fags, and nerds. Benjamin is the only man I need in my life.
ellebelle
02-08-2008, 03:53 AM
I am not interested in benjamin. He doesn't appear on our notes!!;D ;D
We're still fond of the colour green though!
GentlemanX
02-08-2008, 09:05 PM
Dear OP,
Don't be such a loser. Stop obessing over this stuff. Take a girl out. At some point in the night, try to kiss her and feel her up. If she reciprocates, you're in. If not, move on to the next one. There are only a million or so out there. And also never call yourself a guy with a heart of gold. I mean, Jesus, could you be any more of a pussy? Or a passive agressive wierdo? Repeat this to yourself as many times as necessary: "Being a doormat will not get me pussy. Bending over backwards will not make a girl want to fuck me."
Finally, who cares if she is a stripper or not? All girls like to fuck. They secretly like it more than we do. Are we all set? Good.
jaizaine
02-08-2008, 09:09 PM
We're still fond of the colour green though!
Oh totally.
Actually I have been given US currency at work before. It gets very scrunched up coz unlike ours it's actually paper. Easy enough to change it at the casino after work.
Who appears on oour $100 note? John Monash I think.
VeraLynn
02-09-2008, 04:17 PM
Well, I can only give you my story.
At one time, I was single and had gone to see some male dancers. There was one who called himself the "Italian Stallion." No, I'm not kidding. He was tall, handsome, very smart, and he turned me on considerably. I spoke with him a few times and he figured me out. He would sleep with me, but only as a friend, he said. He'd gotten the (correct) impression that although I was a dancer, I didn't sleep around and would be able to keep romantic feelings out of the equation.
That worked out for a little while. We'd go out to dinner or to play billiards and then end up at my place. Well, it only happened twice, honestly, because he was too perfect! His body was perfect, all around. He was so smart... very intelligent. Something was just very surreal about it all.
So I continue on my single way and several months later, at a regular bar, I met my current fiance. He is 6'0 tall and 150 pounds. Dirty blonde hair with carpet-proof that he is actually a red head.. was as a child I hear. Brown eyes.. full of sh*t just like me.. lol.
I pounced on my current fiance every night for a year when we first met.. and he STILL turns me on. Meat head? Body builder? No thanks!!
RebeccaSolidarity
02-13-2008, 03:09 PM
Dammit, who's gonna hold me??!
Benjamin.
*wanders away, whistling innocently*
(Sorry for the backwards time jump in the thread!)
bebewood
02-13-2008, 06:17 PM
Do all strippers date muscle-heaad pretty boys who spend more time on their hair than most women? Or do you lovely ladies ever give the average guy with the heart of gold a try? (I'm an average guy with a heart of gold......and portions of tin and chewing gum)
you sound pretty cocky to me. A heart of gold is very hard to come by and its not only average or unattractive people who have it...
bebewood
02-13-2008, 06:21 PM
Eesh! It's a sad world where the man with a good heart is seen as "needy" and "weak". Perhaps this explains why women complain so much about the men in their lives. They tend to go for the asshole who behaves accordingly.
I am far from needy or weak. But thank you for your candidness about it. Stereotypes are the bain of our society and perhaps the reason we all suffer at one time or another. I won't pretend to be atoughguy or a jerk to turn on a woman. I am simply me, at my best genuine and kind. Stronger than the guy who has to pretend to be strong to impress women. I've heard all of this before and it changes me not. Sorry, I refuse to a dick, even for a woman.
Strippers aren't all coke-headed hookers fascinated by their own bodies...and nice guys are sometimes just the finest men you'll ever meet and love. If ever they gave each other a shot, we'd have some FINE looking humans with great hearts ;)
Just kidding people...relax here. :P
men who truly have a heart of gold dont need to say that they have one, and most men with a heart of gold dont have their top goal in life as "how to date a stripper"
They are insulting you because you are more than likely an asshole who is delusional. Like someone else said "every guy (CLAIMS TO BE) a nice guy, no guy thinks he's a bad guy"
just because you say youre amazing doesnt mean you are. The most amazing people are usually the most modest.
Women dont like dicks, they like sweet honest guys, and like them more when they also happen to be attractive. But just because YOU think that you are a sweet guy doesnt mean women will agree with you.
JoeUnCool
02-14-2008, 01:57 PM
Do all strippers date muscle-heaad pretty boys who spend more time on their hair than most women? Or do you lovely ladies ever give the average guy with the heart of gold a try? (I'm an average guy with a heart of gold......and portions of tin and chewing gum)
Once the girls are done with Benjamin, the DJ, Bouncer, Club Owner, Parking Lot Attendant, and random long hair drummer in a band with $2 to his name, dancers are just normal people. yes, there is the occasional stereotypical psychopath dancer, but she is definitely in the minority (20%, maybe less). And that is no different than any other profession. Women are women. It doesn't matter what profession they are in. Think of them like customers that you are marketing yourself to. Some women like business guys. Some women like military/uniform guys. Some women like other women. Some women like nice guys, though, they are not typically dancers.
Strip clubs are NOT meat markets. They are not where you go if you are wanting to meet women. Strip clubs are about a fantasy. You are paying these girls to fullfill your fantasies.
The first girl I ever hung out with that was a dancer (Lynn). After a few weeks, I asked her why she asked me out and gave me her phone number? She said it was because when this hot little blonde (Denise) hit on me I did my research on Denise and found out about her little game. It ended up I knew more about Denise's private life than Lynn did, and I was some college age kid that could barely get through the door because I had just turned 21 and had next to no money. It made me mysterious and resourceful. I felt like I was just covering my bases and tripped over all kinds of info, but that's a different discussion. I'm no stud nor am I physically attractive (not fat, just not hot), but never in the words from Lynn did the works "Nice Guy" come out of her mouth.
Now that I am 40 (ugh, that was hard to type), I am different. I am seen as mostly a mark, someone that can be sucked dry of his money. Because I have the blond hair and blue eyes, girls seem to think I am easy prey. I think once a guy hits about 30, thats where the girls start seeing him that way. Younger than 30 and they might be interested in him, but that's a personal guess, not backed up by facts. Having said that, I have a buddy that is 40+ and he just started dating a dancer that is 10 years older than him. He claims he has no money, so perhaps love does bloom out there.
Definitely, I think that strip clubs are a bad place to look for girls to date.
Now, if you are a hot girl, you probably have guys throwing themselves at you all of the time. My wife used to tell me all the shit that guys would do to try and pick her up. Sometimes it works. I just played the tough guy role with her and never put up with crap from people. That's the way I am and she picked up on it. She has never used the term "Nice Guy" to describe me.
My ultimate suggestion is to be you. Don't put on a persona. Just be you. Go hang out at several places and see what happens.
Mr. UnCool to the Max
JoeUnCool
02-14-2008, 04:56 PM
I have a buddy that is 40+ and he just started dating a dancer that is 10 years older than him. He claims he has no money, so perhaps love does bloom out there.
Oops, I meant she is 10 years YOUNGER than him.
Mr. UnCool to You.
xdamage
02-14-2008, 10:32 PM
...there is the occasional stereotypical psychopath dancer, but she is definitely in the minority (20%, maybe less).
You realize you just wrote that 1 in 5 strippers is a psychopath. Just saying.
Chainsaw Chelsea
02-14-2008, 11:22 PM
Eesh! It's a sad world where the man with a good heart is seen as "needy" and "weak". Perhaps this explains why women complain so much about the men in their lives. They tend to go for the asshole who behaves accordingly.
I am far from needy or weak. But thank you for your candidness about it. Stereotypes are the bain of our society and perhaps the reason we all suffer at one time or another. I won't pretend to be atoughguy or a jerk to turn on a woman. I am simply me, at my best genuine and kind. Stronger than the guy who has to pretend to be strong to impress women. I've heard all of this before and it changes me not. Sorry, I refuse to a dick, even for a woman.
Strippers aren't all coke-headed hookers fascinated by their own bodies...and nice guys are sometimes just the finest men you'll ever meet and love. If ever they gave each other a shot, we'd have some FINE looking humans with great hearts ;)
Just kidding people...relax here. :P
dude, does your back heart from luggin' around that cross?
no one's that great. maybe its because you think you are the golden child that women dont want to date you? we all have flaws. maybe it's THOSE that are keeping you from getting laid. i am so tired of the "im so great that no one wants me" BS. how about you spend some time figuring out what the hell is wrong with you, and then maybe things will change?
JoeUnCool
02-15-2008, 08:36 AM
You realize you just wrote that 1 in 5 strippers is a psychopath. Just saying.
Psychopath was a poor choice of words on my part. However, I think the percentage of "bad" girls is approximately 20%. Bad can be defined in several ways (hooker, drug user, mentally unstable, or something else). I think the 20% number is in the ballpark.
Mr UnCool to you
RexEverything
02-15-2008, 08:38 AM
1. Any guy who feels the need to advertise how golden his heart is has issues we don't want to deal with.
2. Asking this question shows your insecurities and makes you unattractive. You'll NEVER get anywhere with that.
These go hand and hand. A woman that is highly sought after, for the most part, wants a man that will take charge and is comfortable in his own skin.
3. People choose to date whomever they deem to be the best of their available choices. Hot chics have many choices, so most don't normally choose "average".
OP, repeat after me: “Attraction is not a choice.” If you ever stop thinking like a typical guy, you well see what I’m talking about when it comes to attraction. You sound like a decent guy…but there are millions of decent guys.
4. If you are asking what kind of guys "strippers" date, we don't want to date you, because you just want the "stripper" and not the WOMAN.
Why do men forget that dancers are women? It boggles my mind.
Nice post Bridgette.
JoeUnCool
02-15-2008, 08:52 AM
Why do men forget that dancers are women? It boggles my mind.
Nice post Bridgette.
An amazing concept. Dancers are women. For the most part, they are typical people, nothing more or less. Here's a more dangerous concept, the next time someone goes into a club, treat them like normal people. Say hello. Be nice. Give them a tip on if you like how they look. Be respectful.
Mr. Totally Uncool
Benjamin
02-15-2008, 05:32 PM
OMG what a tired question.
1. Any guy who feels the need to advertise how golden his heart is has issues we don't want to deal with.
Shit. I have a heart of gold. But I don't go waiving it around like it has my face on it.
Mastridonicus
02-15-2008, 05:33 PM
OMG what a tired question.
1. Any guy who feels the need to advertise how golden his heart is has issues we don't want to deal with.
What about teeth? Does Gold Teeth help at all? Or tooth?
2. Asking this question shows your insecurities and makes you unattractive. You'll NEVER get anywhere with that.
3. People choose to date whomever they deem to be the best of their available choices. Hot chics have many choices, so most don't normally choose "average".
4. If you are asking what kind of guys "strippers" date, we don't want to date you, because you just want the "stripper" and not the WOMAN.
I love Bridgeburns. Even when they're directed at me. So classic. What a talent.
VeraLynn
02-17-2008, 01:56 PM
An amazing concept. Dancers are women. For the most part, they are typical people, nothing more or less. Here's a more dangerous concept, the next time someone goes into a club, treat them like normal people. Say hello. Be nice. Give them a tip on if you like how they look. Be respectful.
Mr. Totally Uncool
Yes, yes, and yes! Some of the women enjoy being put on a pedestal and having the ground they walk on worshipped. I, for one, hate that sort of thing with a passion. I might have "perfect breasts" and/or any number of physical attributes that make you drool and things harden... but I am still a real person, not a blow-up doll. I've made mistakes, am imperfect like everyone else, and my (stuff) stinks just as much as anyone else's.
I'm much more likely to have fun spending time with you if you treat me like a "normal person."
Deogol
02-17-2008, 02:20 PM
Shit. I have a heart of gold. But I don't go waiving it around like it has my face on it.
Oh I feel the force is strong in this one...
(Perhaps he is the Benjamin all these women keep talking about. You da man!) ;D
muhuwahaha
02-19-2008, 12:59 PM
I think that as long as you are tall and have decent looks you'll be OK. If you're not tall and have good looks then you get lots of $$$.
The few girls that have been genuenly attracted to me are the ones that have been around me for a good amount of time. A friend or a co-worker. What these women found attractive in me was my personality. They described me as "hilarious" , "sadistic" and sometimes "sweet". They liked my personality so much they looked beyond my genetics.
With that said, OP needs to find a girl that is attracted to his personality.
I don't recall them telling me I have a heart of gold though LOL
Pretty_Penny
02-19-2008, 01:05 PM
I think that as long as you are tall and have decent looks you'll be OK. If you're not tall and have good looks then you get lots of $$$.
The few girls that have been genuenly attracted to me are the ones that have been around me for a good amount of time. A friend or a co-worker. What these women found attractive in me was my personality. They described me as "hilarious" , "sadistic" and sometimes "sweet". They liked my personality so much they looked beyond my genetics.
With that said, OP needs to find a girl that is attracted to his personality.
I don't recall them telling me I have a heart of gold though LOL
i don't even know where to start.....
muhuwahaha
02-19-2008, 01:09 PM
i don't even know where to start.....
If you don't got looks or $$$$ you need personality to make up for it. Am I right or am I right?
Pretty_Penny
02-19-2008, 01:12 PM
If you don't got looks or $$$$ you need personality to make up for it. Am I right or am I right?
i'd have to say you're wrong... since you are assuming that any woman will gladly be with a rich ugly man who has no personality.
i'm sorry... a rich ugly man who "don't got no" personality.
muhuwahaha
02-19-2008, 01:17 PM
i'd have to say you're wrong... since you are assuming that any woman will gladly be with a rich ugly man who has no personality.
i'm sorry... a rich ugly man who "don't got no" personality.
If you're rich you're bound to have some kind of personality. Even if all he does is brag about how much $$$ he has he still has personality.
I'm sure some women find that attractive.
xxxblueeyesxxx
02-19-2008, 11:50 PM
Strippers aren't all coke-headed hookers fascinated by their own bodies...and nice guys are sometimes just the finest men you'll ever meet and love. If ever they gave each other a shot, we'd have some FINE looking humans with great hearts ;)
Just kidding people...relax here. :P
THANK GOD!! Cause I was really, really worried there for a moment!! Here I was thinking that all of us gals WERE "coke-headed hookers"!!
I'm so glad that my previous stereotypes have been laid to rest, and I can now feel ok with being just a simple grind on your lap kinda slut!! ::)
Thank you!!!!
BlueBoxers
02-20-2008, 04:52 AM
There is no doubt for Strippers disinterest in "niceguys" as the concept that niceguys finish last is very ingrained in their psyche. I have seen a lot of them go back to the same loser whether a druggie or someone who beat them. In dating a few of them over the years it has become obvious the guy who is the father of their kid(s) holds the trump card no matter how much of a loser he is. Walter, keep the faith, don't let them beat you down, especially one poster in here who we all know her vagina has been as busy as Chicago O'Hare.
Nini Nieb
03-02-2008, 06:18 AM
Eesh! It's a sad world where the man with a good heart is seen as "needy" and "weak". Perhaps this explains why women complain so much about the men in their lives. They tend to go for the asshole who behaves accordingly.
Boy !!! You are a stinker !!!
If I meet you in a SC I would be happy to walk away w/ all your money :D
If I meet you IRL I Would be happy to just walk away ;D
Boy !!! You are a stinker !!!
You are more than that !!!
You are the absolute anti/male/figure of all times !!!
No pun intended ...
PS: I forget ... You are pathetic !!!
http://www.big-big-truck.com/comics/sensitiveguy/sensitiveguy2.gif
End of discussion
Djoser
03-02-2008, 01:32 PM
Dancers are women. For the most part, they are typical people, nothing more or less.
I don't think dancers are typical women at all, not many women have what it takes to get on a stage, much less take their clothes off on a stage, much less grind on a guy's lap in VIP, much less grind on 1,000 guys' laps in a year, much less fend off the onslaught of braggadocio, seduction ploys, attempts at sexual battery, etc. that go on every night.
The typical woman could not handle it.
Nonetheless, they are indeed women, so it would be wise to treat them as fellow human beings, yes.
I've seen all manner of stereotypical boyfriends, all manner of 'average guys' trying to deal with the unusual stress involved, and then I've seen some exceptional men.
The typical man could not handle it.
I have never heard a 'stripper boyfriend' being described as having 'a heart of gold', lol...
All Good Things
03-02-2008, 01:39 PM
^ This is the best post I've seen in this thread. Including my own.
Dancers are damn typical man. Same problems, same neuroses, etc.
LOTS of jobs are tough. Look at women in the military, in combat. One of my favorite women is a Navy Nurse who is in Iraq right now. She's been in combat yet still has body image issues, when you'd think she'd have a different perspective.
Lots of jobs expose women to terrible men, not just stripping. Women tend to learn how to deal with it as part of the gender.
Stripper boyfriends come in all shapes and sizes, too. What kind of unusual stress is there to deal with besides jealous issues? Weird hours? Boyfriends of nurses deal with that, too. Half the women on here have nerdy boyfriends. In fact, I've noticed a trend that the hotter the person is here, the more nerdy their boyfriend.
I don't mean nerdy to mean anything more than they are "typical" men. The girl can make the relationship harder or easier depending on how she rubs the job in the guy's face.
And again, my favorite phrase, you rarely date a stripper anyway. When she's at home with you, she's not a stripper currently. Who would guess that so many strippers troll on the internet during their off-hours or play video games or watch anime?
Djoser
03-02-2008, 04:20 PM
Lots of jobs expose women to terrible men, not just stripping.
Right, I noticed that the other day, when the lady at the post office had the guy in front of me feeling her tits and shot a load in his pants. They aren't allowed to feel the librarian's tits for 20$, though. Her g-string was pretty typical, though, and the way she was dancing on the counter was the same as the checkout girl at Publix.
RoseLeigh
03-02-2008, 04:31 PM
I don't think dancers are typical women at all, not many women have what it takes to get on a stage, much less take their clothes off on a stage, much less grind on a guy's lap in VIP, much less grind on 1,000 guys' laps in a year, much less fend off the onslaught of braggadocio, seduction ploys, attempts at sexual battery, etc. that go on every night.
The typical woman could not handle it.
Nonetheless, they are indeed women, so it would be wise to treat them as fellow human beings, yes.
I've seen all manner of stereotypical boyfriends, all manner of 'average guys' trying to deal with the unusual stress involved, and then I've seen some exceptional men.
The typical man could not handle it.
I have never heard a 'stripper boyfriend' being described as having 'a heart of gold', lol...
:10::thanx: