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Ruby Ruckus
02-15-2009, 06:51 PM
i've had three boyfriends in the time i've been dancing.
#1: vegan, anarchist, tattooed sweetheart.
#2: meat eating, straight edge (no drinking, no smoking, no drugs), star wars nerd republican catholic.
#3: (current bf) works for a magazine, is a DJ (at parties and clubs, not stripclubs), an excellent cook, and all around great guy.
there are as many varieties of "stripper boyfriends" as there are differences in the female shape, colors in nature, and species of insects. every single woman on earth wants a different thing, and what we want changes often in our lives. dancers are no exception to this.
misslizzy
02-16-2009, 01:54 AM
My boyfriend's got all sorts of lovely, well defined muscles. He works out 4-5 days a week. He also spends a good amount of time on his hair (although less than I do on mine) and has hair products marked "pomade" and "hair mud," which is more than I can say for myself.
He's also probably the nicest, sweetest, kindest, most well-adjusted human I've ever met in my life.
Oh. And he has a huge penis, and knows how to use it.
To top it all off, he makes a killer awesome turkey soup.
I don't care that this thread is old. I'm not the one who bumped it, and I like having excuses to brag about how well I scored. :D
JayATee
02-16-2009, 03:11 PM
My husband is the sweetest, kindest most thoughtful person I've ever met. He does things for me that I've never had anyone do just because he knows it will make me happy (like the surprise trip to a casino this weekend where he rented out the honeymoon suite and had champaigne and flowers waiting in the room, or when he has dinner waiting for me when I get home from work). He's also one of the biggest nerds I've ever met and (while he's absolutely gorgeous) is shorter than me.
Don't believe every stereotype you hear.
WiseGuy_TX
02-16-2009, 03:44 PM
an excellent cook
he makes a killer awesome turkey soup
he has dinner waiting for me when I get home from work...the "stripper boyfriend" reputation just took a hit.:)
SpeakngEZ
02-22-2009, 12:55 AM
^^ I guess since this has become a "why is my non-stereotypical boyfriend awesome" thread, I thought I'd post.
Mine always has coffee ready for me when I get home from work and doesn't hold it against me when I ask to put off sex until after I've eaten my post-dancing-shift dinner.
He's a trekkie. I love trekkie men, and I'll tell you why if a man tells you he is one, stick around: first off, they're usually adorable. Second, the show teaches people about cultural tolerance, moral issues, and just how to be an all-around good person, especially to your girlfriend/wife. That, and I have a thing for a virgin in pointy ears. (He wasn't a virgin. But I'd totally tap that. It's the innocence factor I love.)
He's fucking hot. I've had other dancers tell me he's hot, too. Got this awesome thick, dark hair and huge blue Elijah Wood eyes. Not tall enough to be taller than me when I'm in heels, but still, taller than me.
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I'll tell you why nice men suck. Because they don't stand up for themselves. Because they think that every problem they have is the end of the world. Because they expect you to coddle them.
My Bf isn't an asshole but he's not a fucking wimp, either. That's what got to me about the OP. He sounded like a genuine fucking wimp.
And P.S.: Passive-aggressive isn't exactly a college-level term. It means the person who won't beat you but will guilt trip you to death until you cave.
misslizzy
02-22-2009, 04:15 PM
He's a trekkie. I love trekkie men, and I'll tell you why if a man tells you he is one, stick around: first off, they're usually adorable. Second, the show teaches people about cultural tolerance, moral issues, and just how to be an all-around good person, especially to your girlfriend/wife. That, and I have a thing for a virgin in pointy ears. (He wasn't a virgin. But I'd totally tap that. It's the innocence factor I love.)
He's fucking hot. I've had other dancers tell me he's hot, too. Got this awesome thick, dark hair and huge blue Elijah Wood eyes. Not tall enough to be taller than me when I'm in heels, but still, taller than me.
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I'll tell you why nice men suck. Because they don't stand up for themselves. Because they think that every problem they have is the end of the world. Because they expect you to coddle them.
My Bf isn't an asshole but he's not a fucking wimp, either. That's what got to me about the OP. He sounded like a genuine fucking wimp.
And P.S.: Passive-aggressive isn't exactly a college-level term. It means the person who won't beat you but will guilt trip you to death until you cave.
Yes, mine's geeky, too. Not a Trekkie, but we've been known to spend Sundays curled up together watching Farscape DVDs.
Yay for guys who stick up for themselves.
nina888
02-22-2009, 05:19 PM
I heart this thread!!!!!!
I will admit guilty as charged in a sense. I dont go for the muscle bound / bad boy type per say - but i do look for the full package. I want a man who makes ME feel sexy because he is EQUALLY as sexy as I am. Sexy is not necessarily based on the look, but so many factors. I will date a guy who is a little chubby if he has a lot of personality and understanding of who i am as a person.
Tell me if this happens to you girls?? When you are dating the guy who gets you super excited and has you really happy and motivated you end up making more money??? Something about the fire and energy you have with the guy makes you more attractive to other men, and therefore ends up making you more money. UN fortunately this can backfire (as we all know) when you get that "nice guy" customer who thinks he is gunna buy his way into your heart. If you play along thinking the time you spend with him in the club is enough, eventually he gets even more persistant. I could write books on these type of situations but simply put- once the guy finds out you have a boyfreind (from another girl, or some mishap, or god forbid you tell him!!) he turns into Joe psycho stalker. he feels hurt and betrayed that you are actually in love with someone else when HE is the NICE GUY and HE is the one doing sooooo much for you.
That said- i totally understand what NICE GUY really means too= stalker, co-dependant, needy, passive aggresive, loser. My mom was married to this asshole for 10 years. He scared her off of men for the rest of her life. The NICE guy is not really nice at all. They are manipulative, cunning and dangerous. Alll of their niceness usually comes out of the fact that they want something from you. Once you dont fulfill that need their inner person really shows. I am sharing an apt with a NICE guy right now. I wont say more about it............ but please ladies beware of the passive aggressive types. They are the ones who dig up all your information and give you reason to have to change your phone number and where you work and live. They are the ones who always want to buy you gifts, but often if its a big one- in their name. They will offer you all kinds of stuff that will tye you to them- aka phones, cars, apartments.
A really nice guy doesnt have to act nice, he shows it in his actions and his ability to really relate to you. He helps you to stand on your own feet rather than playing prince charming that wants to save you from the BAD guys. There are truly bad guys out there too, but you know why you are attracted to them and that is a whole other story.
holly07
02-22-2009, 07:20 PM
Every woman prefers different types of men, we are women obviously. I married the total package, Hot body, smart (engineer), and good in bed. Hey, every Barbie needs her Ken:) and I"ve never settled for less than brawn and brains
Mr. Happy
02-24-2009, 07:38 PM
OMG, I just read this entire thread. I laughed. I cried. I looked deep into the mirror. I cried some more, followed by deviant laughter. Stereo-atypica-mania.
Hi Ho, Hi Ho, It's off to-be-a-real-big-dick I go....
Poor OP. Opie? Where's Aunt Bee?
MH
Walking away muttering: "I'm not a nice guy, I'm not a nice guy, I'm not a nice guy" and if I were God help me if I ever admit it here.
Toto, don't swim with pirannah! Oooh, too late. Sea of Love.
PS. Wow. That was random. I'm blaming it on the mushrooms.
Otoki
03-21-2009, 12:42 AM
Eesh! It's a sad world where the man with a good heart is seen as "needy" and "weak". Perhaps this explains why women complain so much about the men in their lives. They tend to go for the asshole who behaves accordingly.
I am far from needy or weak. But thank you for your candidness about it. Stereotypes are the bain of our society and perhaps the reason we all suffer at one time or another. I won't pretend to be atoughguy or a jerk to turn on a woman. I am simply me, at my best genuine and kind. Stronger than the guy who has to pretend to be strong to impress women. I've heard all of this before and it changes me not. Sorry, I refuse to a dick, even for a woman.
Strippers aren't all coke-headed hookers fascinated by their own bodies...and nice guys are sometimes just the finest men you'll ever meet and love. If ever they gave each other a shot, we'd have some FINE looking humans with great hearts ;)
Just kidding people...relax here. :P
Do you really not see the irony of bemoaning being stereotyped when that's the very reason everyone's rolling their eyes at your OP?
There is no "nice guy card" and I don't apologize for describing myself. I do enjoy your breakdown of my comments and the responses. You are one organized (and hysterical) stripper broad. "Passive-aggresive" sounds like community college psych 101, or better, a Dr. Phil-ism. I don't even know what that means, and best of all, neither do you.
BWAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHA
Well, I read the entire thread. It was full of win.
MSNYC
03-22-2009, 02:53 PM
I like nerds. And hate muscleheads.
Crow2
03-22-2009, 03:42 PM
Do all strippers date muscle-heaad pretty boys who spend more time on their hair than most women? Or do you lovely ladies ever give the average guy with the heart of gold a try? (I'm an average guy with a heart of gold......and portions of tin and chewing gum)
Personally I can't stand dating a man that looks better than me... ( kidding )
Average guy? What is average?
My average is some decent looking guy that has manners and treats me with respect. Now, being able to tolerate and put up with me is a totally different "average" - My next query would be .. What's the deal with dating a stripper, and if this is a spin off of -Women don't like nice guys anymore- I swear I am going to scream.
You are a very nice exception to the rule :)
FBR
Crow2
03-23-2009, 02:47 AM
You are a very nice exception to the rule :)
FBR
I may be wrong, since that is font and all - * sniffs * I think I smell.. yes, it is - playful sarcasm. :P
I heart you FBR. That is all. }:D
yoda57us
03-23-2009, 05:58 AM
You are a very nice exception to the rule :)
FBR
I may be wrong, since that is font and all - * sniffs * I think I smell.. yes, it is - playful sarcasm. :P
I heart you FBR. That is all. }:D
Normally I would have a nice "dancer suck-up" post here but...
Darn! FBR beat me to it! ;)
Crow2
03-23-2009, 07:54 PM
Oh it's you..
Okay, I heart you too. :D
Everyman
03-24-2009, 03:19 PM
Oh it's you..
Okay, I heart you too. :D
And I love your....heart. Or heart-like area. (-:
Kaelyria
03-25-2009, 02:40 AM
I dated a self-proclaimed "nice guy with a heart of gold" when I was 17. I fucked up and married the guilt tripping controlling sex begging bastard. He made me stop dancing, I wasn't allowed to go anywhere with out him, because "we were a couple and did things as a couple". When I finally withdrew enough for him to break it off himself, (I tried breaking up with him almost 20 times in the 7 years we were together, but damn it if he couldn't pull every single one of my strings) the first thing I did was run up the phone bill calling all my friends i hadn't talked to in almost a decade.
Here it is two years later and I am absolutely madly, retardedly in love with my current darling boyfriend. Never once has he tried to say he's a nice guy, or has a heart of gold. He's not a "big dumb bo-hunk" either. He's tall, yaoi and yummy (and a fucking tiger in the sack. I dunno if the term super-orgasm means anything to you all but it's the closest I can get to describing the insane event that would normally be called "sex"). He's also honest, considerate, and he couldn't be sweeter if you dunked him head first in a barrel of sugar. I had an opening shift this morning and before my bleary eyes could adjust to *gasp* sunlight, there was coffee and he was making breakfast, brought me a plate of scrambled eggs, lightly buttered toast and a bunch of grapes. For a scrawny dork writing his fantasy novels when he's not working (or letting me rape him against the nearest surface) he sure can make me swoon.
~K
^^ If you asked him off the cuff "Do you consider yourself a nice guy?", would he answer "Yes" or "No"? I mean, breakfast in bed sounds pretty nice guy, thoughtful to me. Maybe the point from many of you is that it is cool if he does nice things but if he professes to be nice that makes him a clingy, manipulative dick.
FBR
Kaelyria
03-25-2009, 09:43 PM
but if he professes to be nice that makes him a clingy, manipulative dick.
FBR
Right in one. If the guy has a weak enough personality to feel the need to tell everyone that women don't like him cause he's such a nice guy, then yes he is a manipulative, passive aggressive, whiny little bitch who will continuously ask "do you still love me?". Guys that have to advertise what a nice guy they are, are seeking validation from who so ever they profess this trait to. When they start mentioning their "Heart of Gold" and they're not talking about a space ship with an improbability drive, They're begging for the girl, or in this case, the unattainable fantasy, to tell them that average nice guys and hearts of gold are what every beautiful woman is really looking for. The pickle here is that the next question is invariably "Then why won't you go out on a real date with me?" and answering with "I don't date guys I meet at work" which is retorted to with "But I'm not one of those guys/ will I ever be anything more than a customer to you?" which just gets hairy. It can very easily turn into an obsessive/stalker situation. I'm not saying that's how it ALWAYS turns out, but it has that potential. This particular questioner, Walter I believe it was, very much has that vibe, esp after deciding that the girls who won't sleep with him are all dirty coked-up whores with muscle bound pimp boyfriends. Because we aren't interested in being manipulated, told we're stupid and don't know the meaning of the words we're using properly and in context, we're not good enough to hold his heart of gold. Especially guys so fragile that giving it to them straight instead of sugar coating it, when they asked in the first place, decide to take their ball and go home. It's a pathetic move and happens all the time.
Back to the happy thoughts. My current sweetie has never once had to spell out how awesome and wonderful, warm and considerate he is. He just IS.
~K
the truth
03-26-2009, 12:27 AM
Warning: Rambling post ahead
I feel like when you are really a nice person you don't have to wear a sign proclaiming it. People just notice.
Another thing is being nice does not entitle you(any self-proclaimed nice guy) to a female companion, nor preclude you from having one. I have met really nice guys with a social I.Q. of 0. They just annoy people.
In defense of the OP: It seems he has seen a lot of women with jerks and he can't understand it. I dont understand it either, and for a while I tried to figure it out. I no longer see it as a "woman" issue. It is not a "woman" issue. It is that woman's issue, the seem way it would be a particular guy's issue if he had a manipulative controlling gf that was obviously mistreating him, but he still refused to leave her.
Belladonna R
03-26-2009, 01:40 AM
There is no "nice guy card" and I don't apologize for describing myself. I do enjoy your breakdown of my comments and the responses. You are one organized (and hysterical) stripper broad. "Passive-aggresive" sounds like community college psych 101, or better, a Dr. Phil-ism. I don't even know what that means, and best of all, neither do you. I DO know many assholes who beat their girflriends or wives, and NONE are ever mistaken for "nice guys". That chapter one of General Psych, Ladies Journal magazine article psycho-babble doesn't impress anyone or make your point hold water.
The shame is it seems society has bought it. Oh, well, no stripper girlfriend for me :P
Just because someone doesn't beat you, doesnt make them a 'nice guy'
Kaelyria
03-26-2009, 06:42 PM
^^ Yeah that.
~K
Back to the happy thoughts. My current sweetie has never once had to spell out how awesome and wonderful, warm and considerate he is. He just IS.
~K
It's obvious he is a great guy. I mean, he is very thoughtful with the breakfast in bed and all. I was just curious (in the interest of discussion here) how he would reply to the nice guy question without prompting. But you dodged and I can see you are not comfortable with posing that question to him. In thinking about it, though, why should you bother to ask at my encouragement considering that you are happy in your world and a question I might ask has no importance? Thanks for the convers :)
FBR
nina888
04-02-2009, 03:22 AM
i love the things that are being said here so much. This subject should be a full course in college psychology as it seems to be a major issue not only for strippers but just in life in general.
I especially love the statement about how "nice" guys may be as nice as they want to be but if they have a social IQ of 0 or 1 at best they are just ANNOYING to ppl. That assesment of the situation is really hitting the nail on the head. Being annoying sucks the life out of any fun that can be had and being socially capable is a skill that we need to work on when lacking and part of learning is admitting you are fucked up at it.
That being said............ apparently this thread has brought up some "ahem" hurt feelings by a certain someone (ex customer/friend) who thinks he is a "nice" guy too. He has contacted my email/facebook to inform me that he lurks around this site reading (never posts mind you) threads and finally figured out who i am (even named my screename). He even figured out how to contact my mom and inform her that i am friends with people who are accused of being rapists. what a sick fucker???? He is claiming i am lucky he isnt a snitch (because of false information he thinks he has about people he doesnt even know) because he loves me so much and can help save me from all my problems. He told my mother he is the only person who really knows me and can help me blah blah blah and proceeded to try to freak her out into thinking i am being habitually raped by a guy i have known for years. can anyone tell me how they would handle this one?????
hockeybobby
04-02-2009, 06:13 AM
Whoa....creepy^^^
jack0177057
04-02-2009, 08:29 AM
That being said............ apparently this thread has brought up some "ahem" hurt feelings by a certain someone (ex customer/friend) who thinks he is a "nice" guy too. He has contacted my email/facebook to inform me that he lurks around this site reading (never posts mind you) threads and finally figured out who i am (even named my screename). He even figured out how to contact my mom and inform her that i am friends with people who are accused of being rapists. what a sick fucker???? He is claiming i am lucky he isnt a snitch (because of false information he thinks he has about people he doesnt even know) because he loves me so much and can help save me from all my problems. He told my mother he is the only person who really knows me and can help me blah blah blah and proceeded to try to freak her out into thinking i am being habitually raped by a guy i have known for years. can anyone tell me how they would handle this one?????
He sounds psycho to me... You should discuss this with a lawyer to get a restraining order and possibly, some kind of injunction against him making defamatory statements and/or invading your privacy by disclosure of private facts.
Elvia
04-02-2009, 05:06 PM
i love the things that are being said here so much. This subject should be a full course in college psychology as it seems to be a major issue not only for strippers but just in life in general.
I especially love the statement about how "nice" guys may be as nice as they want to be but if they have a social IQ of 0 or 1 at best they are just ANNOYING to ppl. That assesment of the situation is really hitting the nail on the head. Being annoying sucks the life out of any fun that can be had and being socially capable is a skill that we need to work on when lacking and part of learning is admitting you are fucked up at it.
That being said............ apparently this thread has brought up some "ahem" hurt feelings by a certain someone (ex customer/friend) who thinks he is a "nice" guy too. He has contacted my email/facebook to inform me that he lurks around this site reading (never posts mind you) threads and finally figured out who i am (even named my screename). He even figured out how to contact my mom and inform her that i am friends with people who are accused of being rapists. what a sick fucker???? He is claiming i am lucky he isnt a snitch (because of false information he thinks he has about people he doesnt even know) because he loves me so much and can help save me from all my problems. He told my mother he is the only person who really knows me and can help me blah blah blah and proceeded to try to freak her out into thinking i am being habitually raped by a guy i have known for years. can anyone tell me how they would handle this one?????
Whoa! What a miserable little freak. I'd call the police and get a restraining order.
JayATee
04-02-2009, 09:48 PM
i love the things that are being said here so much. This subject should be a full course in college psychology as it seems to be a major issue not only for strippers but just in life in general.
I especially love the statement about how "nice" guys may be as nice as they want to be but if they have a social IQ of 0 or 1 at best they are just ANNOYING to ppl. That assesment of the situation is really hitting the nail on the head. Being annoying sucks the life out of any fun that can be had and being socially capable is a skill that we need to work on when lacking and part of learning is admitting you are fucked up at it.
That being said............ apparently this thread has brought up some "ahem" hurt feelings by a certain someone (ex customer/friend) who thinks he is a "nice" guy too. He has contacted my email/facebook to inform me that he lurks around this site reading (never posts mind you) threads and finally figured out who i am (even named my screename). He even figured out how to contact my mom and inform her that i am friends with people who are accused of being rapists. what a sick fucker???? He is claiming i am lucky he isnt a snitch (because of false information he thinks he has about people he doesnt even know) because he loves me so much and can help save me from all my problems. He told my mother he is the only person who really knows me and can help me blah blah blah and proceeded to try to freak her out into thinking i am being habitually raped by a guy i have known for years. can anyone tell me how they would handle this one?????
Agree with Elvia. Involve the police now. The longer you wait the more problems you invite, and the harder it will be for you.
Crow2
04-03-2009, 12:06 AM
Agree with Elvia. Involve the police now. The longer you wait the more problems you invite, and the harder it will be for you.
I would also suggest you familiarize yourself with, learn how to use and purchase a weapon. You are still a little bitty woman and no matter how bad ass you might be. There is no way a little bitty woman can defend herself successfully against a man intent on doing bodily harm.
If you want or need suggestions or other info about firearms, please feel free to pm me. ;)
Kaelyria
04-03-2009, 12:19 AM
Yes, please inform the authorities, the bouncers at your club and your 5 biggest meanest closest guy friends ASAP. This is a powder keg with a short fuse and a nuclear core. I hope the sob ends up in jail with you safe and sound.
~K
JayATee
04-03-2009, 12:33 AM
I would also suggest you familiarize yourself with, learn how to use and purchase a weapon. You are still a little bitty woman and no matter how bad ass you might be. There is no way a little bitty woman can defend herself successfully against a man intent on doing bodily harm.
If you want or need suggestions or other info about firearms, please feel free to pm me. ;)
Oh yes. Most def a big supporter of the hand gun and cell phone in a drawer next to the bed theory.
the truth
04-03-2009, 01:20 AM
i love the things that are being said here so much. This subject should be a full course in college psychology as it seems to be a major issue not only for strippers but just in life in general.
I especially love the statement about how "nice" guys may be as nice as they want to be but if they have a social IQ of 0 or 1 at best they are just ANNOYING to ppl. That assesment of the situation is really hitting the nail on the head. Being annoying sucks the life out of any fun that can be had and being socially capable is a skill that we need to work on when lacking and part of learning is admitting you are fucked up at it.
That being said............ apparently this thread has brought up some "ahem" hurt feelings by a certain someone (ex customer/friend) who thinks he is a "nice" guy too. He has contacted my email/facebook to inform me that he lurks around this site reading (never posts mind you) threads and finally figured out who i am (even named my screename). He even figured out how to contact my mom and inform her that i am friends with people who are accused of being rapists. what a sick fucker???? He is claiming i am lucky he isnt a snitch (because of false information he thinks he has about people he doesnt even know) because he loves me so much and can help save me from all my problems. He told my mother he is the only person who really knows me and can help me blah blah blah and proceeded to try to freak her out into thinking i am being habitually raped by a guy i have known for years. can anyone tell me how they would handle this one?????
Part of me wants to laugh at this guy, and part of me wants to tell you to run away and hide somewhere.
MarvelGirl
04-03-2009, 05:52 AM
That being said............ apparently this thread has brought up some "ahem" hurt feelings by a certain someone (ex customer/friend) who thinks he is a "nice" guy too. He has contacted my email/facebook to inform me that he lurks around this site reading (never posts mind you) threads and finally figured out who i am (even named my screename). He even figured out how to contact my mom and inform her that i am friends with people who are accused of being rapists. what a sick fucker???? He is claiming i am lucky he isnt a snitch (because of false information he thinks he has about people he doesnt even know) because he loves me so much and can help save me from all my problems. He told my mother he is the only person who really knows me and can help me blah blah blah and proceeded to try to freak her out into thinking i am being habitually raped by a guy i have known for years. can anyone tell me how they would handle this one?????
Yeah, "nice" guys always go around threatening people and causing women to fear for their safety.::)
Crow2
04-03-2009, 11:49 AM
Oh yes. Most def a big supporter of the hand gun and cell phone in a drawer next to the bed theory.
Old cell phones that are no longer in service can be given to charity. Most of them, even without service can still call 911.
I just wanted to brag about my boy for a second.. He's all Italian and for those of you who don't know ( *snicker *) he's all traditional. Tolerant, patient and the second of this month was his birthday. While he was out and about with friends.. this is what he says to me in a text. " You are the best gift I've gotten this year."
I think that sums it up pretty well.
jack0177057
04-03-2009, 06:03 PM
I just wanted to brag about my boy for a second.. He's all Italian and for those of you who don't know ( *snicker *) he's all traditional. Tolerant, patient and the second of this month was his birthday. While he was out and about with friends.. this is what he says to me in a text. " You are the best gift I've gotten this year."
I think that sums it up pretty well.
You'd be my best gift this year, too...:)
He sounds like a cool guy. Where did you meet him?
Crow2
04-03-2009, 06:08 PM
You'd be my best gift this year, too...:)
He sounds like a cool guy. Where did you meet him?
At a wrestling show.
jack0177057
04-03-2009, 06:12 PM
At a wrestling show.
So,... that's where I should be trying to pick up women...:)
I never thought of that...
Crow2
04-03-2009, 06:49 PM
So,... that's where I should be trying to pick up women...:)
I never thought of that...
Oh ew - have you seen some of those women? It was an arranged pre-meeting. I have a few wrestler friends and one of my friends arranged a sort of blind date meeting.
Goodness, I think I just threw up a little in my mouth.
jack0177057
04-03-2009, 06:53 PM
Oh ew - have you seen some of those women? It was an arranged pre-meeting. I have a few wrestler friends and one of my friends arranged a sort of blind date meeting.
Goodness, I think I just threw up a little in my mouth.
Okay, nevermind then.../:O
JayATee
04-04-2009, 12:09 PM
Oh ew - have you seen some of those women? It was an arranged pre-meeting. I have a few wrestler friends and one of my friends arranged a sort of blind date meeting.
Goodness, I think I just threw up a little in my mouth.
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
moxilicious
04-04-2009, 08:47 PM
Eesh! It's a sad world where the man with a good heart is seen as "needy" and "weak". Perhaps this explains why women complain so much about the men in their lives. They tend to go for the asshole who behaves accordingly.
I am far from needy or weak. But thank you for your candidness about it. Stereotypes are the bain of our society and perhaps the reason we all suffer at one time or another. I won't pretend to be atoughguy or a jerk to turn on a woman. I am simply me, at my best genuine and kind. Stronger than the guy who has to pretend to be strong to impress women. I've heard all of this before and it changes me not. Sorry, I refuse to a dick, even for a woman.
Strippers aren't all coke-headed hookers fascinated by their own bodies...and nice guys are sometimes just the finest men you'll ever meet and love. If ever they gave each other a shot, we'd have some FINE looking humans with great hearts ;)
Just kidding people...relax here. :P
well said,
don't try to fall into the "nice guy" category or "bad boy" category,
be your own category, basically.
but i'm not a stripper..i'm just saying you shouldn't label people.;)
lilymiaomiao
04-06-2009, 06:00 PM
Do all strippers date muscle-heaad pretty boys who spend more time on their hair than most women? Or do you lovely ladies ever give the average guy with the heart of gold a try? (I'm an average guy with a heart of gold......and portions of tin and chewing gum)
Average guys are so average... and... uninteresting!
P.S. Remember Billy Zane as the evil fiance in "Titanic"??? Wow, soooooo hot. I watched that when I was in fourth grade, and that's when I decided that I had to become a stripper, so that I can have him. }:D
http://upload.moldova.org/movie/actors/b/billy_zane/thumbnails/tn2_billy_zane_3.jpg
mmmmmMmMMmnomnomnomnomblahlmnglnph drool drool mmmrabblerabble
redhothoney
04-07-2009, 10:43 PM
guys that go around saying you can trust them they are good guys turn out to be the worst mofos in the world of mofos!
nina888
04-09-2009, 09:31 PM
so yeh billy zane is hot........... and oh yeh. The crazy guy. I think he just needs to calm his ass down. The problem with "nice" guys is that its hard to tell what they will do when you refuse to recognize and reciprocate their "niceness"........ I personally think it would be "nice" if he would stop trying to dig up every bit of information he can find about every single person i know (and of course me too) and be happy that he hasnt got in trouble himself (he has plenty of skeletons hiding in his closet that i am full aware of). Focus on making your own life positive rather than conjuring up drama to feed off of. Its really pathetic.........
summer2011
01-15-2014, 03:34 AM
nope my boyfriend was my loyal customer for a few months. then we became friends. then he asked me out. we've been dating almost 6 months now... he is 27 i am 20. never been happier. literally the ultimate stripper story. but he is perfect and works and we have our own money and everything and he doesnt do drugs or spend my money :)
tempest666
01-15-2014, 03:52 AM
I met mine itc and took his virginity. ::) He's 5 years younger than me but super hot.
drake
01-15-2014, 04:15 AM
We don't call you needy because you're kind. We don't even know whether or not you are kind. What we DO know is that rather than let your character stand on its own you have felt the need to trot out the nice guy card - and even better the "nice guys finish last" card. We call you needy because you are sitting there talking about how nice you are.
I fully admit to being needy, but at least I tell my ATF "I don't want to be a needy customer." I make some effort to keep it under control.
Ultimately, I cannot control the reality that I am needy. But I can be considerate and respect the woman's boundaries.
pinups4
01-17-2014, 05:55 PM
I said $20 is a lot of money and I got destroyed for saying it
May I say if $20 is alot to you....A girlfriend is out of reach especially one who counts her work in hundred dollar increments. Theyre not gold diggers...but not lookin for a broke one either.
safado
01-17-2014, 06:04 PM
May I say if $20 is alot to you....A girlfriend is out of reach especially one who counts her work in hundred dollar increments. Theyre not gold diggers...but not lookin for a broke one either.
you are six years late and $20 short lol