View Full Version : Dancers who look like children or young teens
Sophia_Starina
02-13-2008, 12:56 PM
I don't know.
http://img292.imageshack.us/img292/7533/lizhurleybedazzledteachrm6.jpg
Not impressed. It looks like a silly costume for a stylized commercial. If I saw her in real life I would die laughing. I cannot equate that to hot or sexy. It is strange that men do.
Kalligirl
02-13-2008, 12:59 PM
^^^???
I don't understand why everyone is so bafflled by this... I fit that exact stereotype of a very young looking girl (i look 16) and some guys just dig that. Some guys really don't, and of course I've had assholes blatanatly tell me how they would feel grossed out getting a dance (I have a daughter that looks your age, I'd go to hell if i got a dance from you, etc). They, probably go for women who are taller with maybe larger breasts I mean... some guys like girls who are super thick or super bitchy..
But its FANTASY. I dont think that some guy is going to get a dance from me cause I make him feel better about himself because the economy sucks and I'm so tiny he'll feel more of a man or some shit...
Also, you have to factor in, maybe the girls who are young looking (or just young themselves) are new to the game and charge cheaper for dances or the guys think 'hey, this chick is only 18, she probably isn't as jaded and i can try to get away w/ more' rather than choosing a seasoned vet that looks like a hustler.
Sophia_Starina
02-13-2008, 01:04 PM
^^^???
They, probably go for women who are taller with maybe larger breasts I mean... some guys like girls who are super thick or super bitchy..
Sexual attraction to a tall woman --- not illegal
Sexual attraction to women w/ big boobs--- not illegal
Sexual attraction to thick women--- not illegal
Sexual attraction to bitchy women--- not illegal
Sexual attraction to underage women--- illegal
therefore... creepy.
Granted I don't wear 8 inch heels in the street... but It's not against the law for guys to get aroused by a tall chick (some guys like petite girls, and thats cool too).
I can sleep at night. If I was dressing up like a little girl... well... I couldn't.
I would also like to add that being short, having small boobs, being thin, and happy go lucky are all sexy traits. It's hiding these sexy traits in some prepubescent disguise that is strange, and a little disturbing.
Jenny
02-13-2008, 01:07 PM
Sexual attraction to a tall woman --- not illegal
Sexual attraction to women w/ big boobs--- not illegal
Sexual attraction to thick women--- not illegal
Sexual attraction to bitchy women--- not illegal
Sexual attraction to underage women--- illegal
therefore... creepy.Not to be a pain in the ass about this (and I actually still don't think it is particularly revealing)... but no it's not. The government has yet to criminalize attraction to anything - including, by the way, spiderman and cats.
Kalligirl
02-13-2008, 01:14 PM
Oh yeah, theres no argument in my mind its creepy if they are going for like preteen and children, thats downright fucking wrong, but I know PLENTY of girls who are 14-18 who look way older than me (I'm 24).
But, when I went to catholic school for a year, there were girls that looked 24 and fucking looked hot in that outfit! And that chick Jenna Haze looks... um.. atleast 20 to me.
Maybe I just feel personally offended since I fit this stereotype, and don't see anything wrong with wearing a school girl skirt. Why don't we have a post about dancers who are fat with black hair..... why are guys so interested in them? I don't know, maybe they just like that type of woman.
When i see a girl with pigtails, a diaper instead of a thong, and freaking pasicfer around her neck, then I'll start to wonder.
AlexxaHex
02-13-2008, 01:39 PM
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paraphilic_infantilism
hearts
02-13-2008, 02:04 PM
I just googled jenna haze and watched some of her videos on youporn. Call me crazy, but I think she looks very "womanly"-albeit with a very small frame. Her face is mature-looking, especially with her almond shaped eyes-very exotic. I think small-framed girls are really hot, and I think that the attraction lies in the fact the I, as a physically larger person (as most men would be) could dominate someone of that size in a sexual situation. I don't get the kiddie dress-up, but I do understand the size attraction--it's sometimes about power play. Like this girl:
www.naughtykennedy.com
bebewood
02-13-2008, 02:46 PM
As for "Men will find what was sexy at the dawn of their sexuality sexy for the rest of their lives" - well, that's a guy who hasn't matured in his sexuality and emotional capacity to relate to women past his teens. He's stuck in that time, and can't move past it to see how sexy someone in an appropriate age bracket for him is.
A 60 year old man desiring school girls, girl scouts, little bo peep, etc suggests something very disturbing, imho. Whatever pays the bills.
yes it is disturbing but then again how many 60 year old strippers do you know? or do you think its okay for a 60 year old to be into a 28 year old stripper? how is that all that much different? she would still be young enough to be his daughter and its still disgusting
its sick that guys over 30 dont want to deal with women their own age but thats how life is, at least in a strip club.
RebeccaSolidarity
02-13-2008, 02:53 PM
dont forget the little old ladies who frequent male strip clubs!
xoxoGracexoxo
02-13-2008, 03:03 PM
I reserve judgement about this. I do remember a girl who used to work at my club who did her hair in pigtails on top of her head (the kind little girls wear) and wore these white shorts that honestly looked to me like a diaper. She was a beautiful girl, with a slim but womanly body, but something about the outfit made me uncomfortable every time she was on stage. I don't judge her or the customers who liked her, just saying, I couldn't have gotten turn on by it, pretty as she was. She didn't remind me of a naughty schoolgirl...she reminded me of a baby. I think she did make very good money, though.
(I myself like small-framed women, maybe because I'm tall and larger-framed myself, so it's novel. I don't think of them as "young" so much as delicate and beautiful.)
Dottie Rebel
02-13-2008, 03:16 PM
dont forget the little old ladies who frequent male strip clubs!
Haha...No shit! Pervert's row of the Saturday night male stage at my old club was filled with little white haired ladies. Are they "sick" and "disgusting" because they want to oogle a rock hard, tanned, young body as opposed to a guy their age who'd need a cane on stage? I really don't think so.
Zinaida
02-13-2008, 03:25 PM
Are they "sick" and "disgusting" because they want to oogle a rock hard, tanned, young body as opposed to a guy their age who'd need a cane on stage? I really don't think so.
What if the guy resembled more of a 13 year old boy and wore an outfit with toy cars on it and they ogled him?
sxybrat07
02-13-2008, 03:32 PM
Why do men find it attractive?
Because our society/culture is obsessed with youth. I mean, really. The 'ideal' body, is most often shown by models who, well, have the bodies of pre-pubescent girls. No hips, no ass, no curves, small perky breasts.
We inject ourselves with botulism to get rid of wrinkles, to avoid looking older. We dye our hair to avoid gray. There is a huge market for plastic surgery, and products to keep you looking "young, youthful, vibrant, etc".
Is it creepy? Maybe. But it goes far deeper than men being obsessed with a girl dressed in pigtails, or that looks like she could be 16. People have fantasies, and some of them are 'creepy', 'strange', or 'out of the norm'. As long as they're fantasies, I don't see the problem. Many people have fantasies they will never ever act upon.
RebeccaSolidarity
02-13-2008, 03:36 PM
As long as they're fantasies, I don't see the problem. Many people have fantasies they will never ever act upon.
Like my zombie fantasy/fetish!
(feeling silly...)
Yeah, I think there are so many different causes and reasons out there. Trying to pin one or two down is... well... difficult.
TheSexKitten
02-13-2008, 03:37 PM
Not so much offended as: ::)
I'm 5'4", 104 pounds, barely a B, and look damn young. And I'm a fucking woman. BTW, I agree with everything you said about fantasy. I LOVE barely legal porn. I'm well aware the women are over 18. Wouldn't have it any other way. But the idea of young, innocent girls getting crazy for the first time is a turn on. Maybe it reminds me of my youthful discoveries. I never really examined it and don't think I need to.
I must agree with Dottie here. I absolutely love lolita-style porn (obvy as long as the models are 18), and I myself look thin and young.
I like thin men, too. It's much more a matter of taste and preference than it is a supressed longing for underage poon IMO.
The schoolgirl thing?? Let's analyze it for a second.
- Cute plaid skirt
- Pigtails = freshness, playfulness, innocence
- Crisp white top which teases because it's such a normal, innocuous garment, and so imagining what's underneath is tantalizing.
- The fun and irony of a schoolgirl that's secretly horny and wild.
- Some guys like glasses/intelligence/etc so it's a tongue-in-cheek way to present it
Long sparkly gowns are so serious!! Neon bikinis are so common. So stripper!
There's a big difference between admiring a schoolgirl getup for one of the above reasons and liking it because you're picturing a little girl...
And let's admit it, a lot of men have been secretly attracted to slightly underage girls, which BIOLOGICALLY is completely normal.
I think Jenna Haze is beautiful, and not underage looking. She looks at least 20 to me, at most 24ish, but not underage. I do however have a problem with the idea that it's ok to dress up in little girl uniforms. Like someone said earlier, sexualizing something that is related to children i sjust wrong. I also happen to think that I'm somewhat young looking. I've been dancing since I was 19, and even then I thought it was gross. At 19 I didn't do the super sexy thing, but I deffinitely didn't do the school girl thing either. I went with the healthy sporty girl next door look. And I banked. At that time I was also 5'5 and about 108 lbs with no boobies.
ViolaStrings
02-13-2008, 03:49 PM
I was like "Fuck it" and went and bought a school girl skirt and white shirt today, because I have to try this out.
Then on my way into another store, and I saw an actual schoolgirl, and felt awful.
PhillyDancer1982
02-13-2008, 03:52 PM
Jenna Haze is currently headlining at my club, and she is packing in the men. It's mostly older men, and she (honest to god) looks no older than 14. She is not even that pretty in the face in person (she looks good in pics, almost like a different person), and she's won piles of awards and has been in 350 porns. She has a prominent nose, weak profile, and buck teeth. There are TONS of porn stars with prettier faces and hotter, more womanly bodies. The only logical explanation is that she is so childlike, curveless, and short. If children were allowed to be porn stars and strippers, they'd make more than adults!
See, this is what I can never understand. Many people will call Jenna Haze or similarly built girls "flat chested " or "curveless." However, Jenna Haze's boobs are 32B...which is a good bit bigger than I was pre-surgery. Ditto for Paris Hilton, who is also known for being "flat" but still has more than I did pre-surgery.
I know this doesn't sound very confident, but...when I hear people referring to girls like that as "flat," it makes me very grateful that I was able to get my boobs done. I was so self-conscious about my boobs(or lack thereof) before, and it's no wonder why...or maybe the truth really was that I was flat and that's all there was to it? Probably the second one...I don't know...
SundayMorning
02-13-2008, 04:23 PM
I must agree with Dottie here. I absolutely love lolita-style porn (obvy as long as the models are 18), and I myself look thin and young.
I like thin men, too. It's much more a matter of taste and preference than it is a supressed longing for underage poon IMO.
The schoolgirl thing?? Let's analyze it for a second.
- Cute plaid skirt
- Pigtails = freshness, playfulness, innocence
- Crisp white top which teases because it's such a normal, innocuous garment, and so imagining what's underneath is tantalizing.
- The fun and irony of a schoolgirl that's secretly horny and wild.
- Some guys like glasses/intelligence/etc so it's a tongue-in-cheek way to present it
Long sparkly gowns are so serious!! Neon bikinis are so common. So stripper!
There's a big difference between admiring a schoolgirl getup for one of the above reasons and liking it because you're picturing a little girl...
And let's admit it, a lot of men have been secretly attracted to slightly underage girls, which BIOLOGICALLY is completely normal.
I'm gonna put myself out here and say that it's not just men who find "slightly underage girls" sexually attractive. I mean, I was waiting for Mary Kate and Ashley Olsen to turn 18 for several years; it's not like they turned 18 and then suddenly I thought they were hot. I've seen high schoolers since I became "of legal age" that I had idle thoughts about playing Mrs Robinson with. Is it just as "creepy" when a woman thinks about it?
The difference to me, when someone (I think VS but I'm not sure) said "why aren't women fantasizing about men who look like little boys?" is that I'm attracted to girly girls and manly men. There's no interest in a young, innocent, boy look for me, whereas a fresh-faced, innocent girl would be a turn-on to me. That's just my POV.
Why do men find it attractive?
Because our society/culture is obsessed with youth. I mean, really. The 'ideal' body, is most often shown by models who, well, have the bodies of pre-pubescent girls. No hips, no ass, no curves, small perky breasts.
We inject ourselves with botulism to get rid of wrinkles, to avoid looking older. We dye our hair to avoid gray. There is a huge market for plastic surgery, and products to keep you looking "young, youthful, vibrant, etc".
Is it creepy? Maybe. But it goes far deeper than men being obsessed with a girl dressed in pigtails, or that looks like she could be 16. People have fantasies, and some of them are 'creepy', 'strange', or 'out of the norm'. As long as they're fantasies, I don't see the problem. Many people have fantasies they will never ever act upon.
100% agreed. I just told the Hubby "I love you, Daddy." We do Daddy/daughter ageplay sometimes. It's a particular fetish that obviously doesn't appeal to everyone. But I don't think any less of him because of it, nor do I ever, EVER worry about the kids he's around all day because he is aroused by the thought of his mature, legal woman acting innocent and girlish around him. To discriminate against any roleplay is to discriminate against all roleplay, IMO. I don't get upset at women who fantasize about rape. I don't get upset at men who get turned on by the fantasy of youth. What is important is that people find safe, consensual outlets for their fantasies.
i.breathe.in
02-13-2008, 04:25 PM
i didnt read through this whole thread so forgive me if this has been talked about.
gauge the porn star featured at our club a few years ago. she is very petite. and for her first feature show she rode a tricicle on stage in little girl outfit suckin on a lolli to ice cream truck music...
it was.....creepily hot.
SundayMorning
02-13-2008, 04:28 PM
Gauge really banks on her "little girl lost" appeal. She's one of the Hubby's faves. Once again, understanding the difference between fantasy and reality. If he's picturing doing stuff with her, he's picturing HER the consensual adult who looks and acts young, not a young girl who can't give consent.
tasteebars
02-13-2008, 04:53 PM
Maybe they are nuaghty college girls?? Its good to look young for your age. Not any sexier but just as attractive damnit
LOL I am "BABY FACED 5'4 but have a coke bottle shape and thick thighs" so no I am not the ultimate schoolgirl fantasy and I do aggree that means there is something wrong with the fantasy. If the fantasy is just about seeing a hot girl (which I very much am thank u) in a school girl outfit then why do the ones who actually have a smaller frame make sooooo much more:-\
tasteebars
02-13-2008, 04:55 PM
very creative I wonder how much (if) these men disgust her though?
tasteebars
02-13-2008, 04:56 PM
Maybe we should start doing more naughty nuns and naughty librarians or naughty cops!!
Chicagoeditor
02-13-2008, 05:04 PM
I was like "Fuck it" and went and bought a school girl skirt and white shirt today, because I have to try this out.
Then on my way into another store, and I saw an actual schoolgirl, and felt awful.
:D
I never went to Catholic school. A graduate of a Quaker institution on the east coast, I lack that common fetish about schoolgirls or cheerleaders.
If anything, when I was a highschool kid, I could have cared less about the girls my age (the feeling was mutual, by the way:D ). Instead, older women (25 and up) turned me on like crazy.
Let's applaud the theater of the mind.
sparkleeyz
02-13-2008, 05:22 PM
Things like this worry me. I'm 5'7, 130 lbs. I'm RIDICULOUSLY skinny and I dont want customers to turn me away because I'm too small. That's why I'm trying so hard to gain weight. I don't want to be perceived as young, although I get that all the time. People think I'm 16 and it drives me CRAZY! I'm almost 25 yrs old!
TheSexKitten
02-13-2008, 05:34 PM
^^^ 5'7" and 130 lbs doesn't sound too small... O.o
bebewood
02-13-2008, 06:00 PM
See, this is what I can never understand. Many people will call Jenna Haze or similarly built girls "flat chested " or "curveless." However, Jenna Haze's boobs are 32B...which is a good bit bigger than I was pre-surgery. Ditto for Paris Hilton, who is also known for being "flat" but still has more than I did pre-surgery.
I know this doesn't sound very confident, but...when I hear people referring to girls like that as "flat," it makes me very grateful that I was able to get my boobs done. I was so self-conscious about my boobs(or lack thereof) before, and it's no wonder why...or maybe the truth really was that I was flat and that's all there was to it? Probably the second one...I don't know...
im a 34AA and it makes me feel horrible when girls say that small breasted girls are not sexy, not womenly, etc. THen i looked at Jennas nude, and she does have A LOT of boobs especially for someone so skinny. its sad that we are thrown such unrealistic expectations for our bodies that a skinny girl with a 34B (which is BIG on a girl that size) is considered flat or prepubescent!
gingerlee
02-13-2008, 06:03 PM
i didnt read through this whole thread so forgive me if this has been talked about.
gauge the porn star featured at our club a few years ago. she is very petite. and for her first feature show she rode a tricicle on stage in little girl outfit suckin on a lolli to ice cream truck music...
I have a tricycle. And a little red wagon. And a backpack :-[
They work for the sets that I do, and that really is the only reason I use them. I'm about to get a 'little country girl' outfit complete with little overalls, frilly socks and a pink and white gingham top. Am I doing it to attract pedophiles? No. I'm doing it because it makes me mountains of cash.
Yekhefah
02-13-2008, 06:03 PM
I'm gonna put myself out here and say that it's not just men who find "slightly underage girls" sexually attractive. I mean, I was waiting for Mary Kate and Ashley Olsen to turn 18 for several years; it's not like they turned 18 and then suddenly I thought they were hot. I've seen high schoolers since I became "of legal age" that I had idle thoughts about playing Mrs Robinson with. Is it just as "creepy" when a woman thinks about it?
The difference to me, when someone (I think VS but I'm not sure) said "why aren't women fantasizing about men who look like little boys?" is that I'm attracted to girly girls and manly men. There's no interest in a young, innocent, boy look for me, whereas a fresh-faced, innocent girl would be a turn-on to me. That's just my POV.
I could've written this myself (except with Emma Watson instead of the Olsen twins, LOL) and I'm glad you said it first because I didn't wanna. I do think that we feel this way because we live in a society that teaches us to desire younger females, not because younger females are necessarily more attractive. But then again, there is always the taboo factor, which makes anything hot.
But yeah, I think we're a product of our culture. If we lived in a (hypothetical) matriarchal Amazonian culture where older women pursued naive young boys for status and sexual gratification, then we'd probably find Glenn Close and Michael Cera much sexier than Emma Watson and Michael Douglas.
Lysondra
02-13-2008, 06:07 PM
im a 34AA and it makes me feel horrible when girls say that small breasted girls are not sexy, not womenly, etc. THen i looked at Jennas nude, and she does have A LOT of boobs especially for someone so skinny. its sad that we are thrown such unrealistic expectations for our bodies that a skinny girl with a 34B (which is BIG on a girl that size) is considered flat or prepubescent!
I agree. I'm a b/c depending on the bra and I'm SICK of hearing 'small breasted' or 'flat'. I have a fricken 22" waist and am five feet tall, what do you want from me? My breasts look fabulous on my body and are NOT small. They are perky, larger than a handful/mouthful, and fit my body pretty proportionately. Just because I don't have natural DDs or fake tits doesn't make me 'flat'. And even if I had an A or smaller, that doesn't make me less of a woman, either. Or any less beautiful.
What a way to make a girl self-concious.
Yekhefah
02-13-2008, 06:07 PM
^^^ Don't EVER let anyone call you flat. I still say you have the best tits I've ever seen.
Lysondra
02-13-2008, 06:09 PM
:blush:
SundayMorning
02-13-2008, 06:09 PM
Emma Watson is much, much more accurate of an example, Yek. I've been perving on her since Azkaban. Take me away, lock me up. ::)
Yekhefah
02-13-2008, 06:12 PM
LOL, me too. And Daniel Radcliffe is an exception to my "no younger men" rule. I've felt like a dirty pervert ever since Azkaban came out. :blush:
But then, I sorta wrote a novel on this subject, didn't I?
cameron_keys
02-13-2008, 06:19 PM
^^^ 5'7" and 130 lbs doesn't sound too small... O.o
No it doesnt. Thats about what I am..almost 5'7" and 130-140 pounds(depending on the day or time of the month!) and I get called fat all the time. I WISH it was too skinny so I'd have free reign to not work out and eat Cheetos for breakfast!LOL!
Flick6
02-13-2008, 06:21 PM
I am totally against men fucking children.
My bf likes me to dress up as a school girl, or a dominatrix, or any other sex crazed character I could come up with. He would find that Muslim veil thing hot if I was under it acting horny. Its just fantasies. He looks kind of young and a few times teenage school girls have hit on him, he nearly dies he gets so embarrassed, he sure as heck isn't turned on or tempted to take them up on their incredibly naive advances.
Yes pedophilia is sick, but I don't think all men that are turned on by school girl dresses are pedos! The ones that sit there talking about their teenage daughters, well they should be investigated by the cops in a perfect world!
jaizaine
02-13-2008, 07:19 PM
That porn star looks hot to me.
I am 5"0 and 100lbs and I am more popular with younger guys than older ones at the club. The older guys tend to go with more curvy girls at my club at least.
I seem to get the 18-40 year olds.
Im so over hearing curvy=real woman. We are all real women no matter what shape or size we come in. Phrases like that were developed for the insecure.
scarlett_vancouver
02-13-2008, 07:43 PM
Im so over hearing curvy=real woman. We are all real women no matter what shape or size we come in. Phrases like that were developed for the insecure.
Preach it! I agree.
kaiarose
02-13-2008, 08:07 PM
That porn star looks hot to me.
I am 5"0 and 100lbs and I am more popular with younger guys than older ones at the club. The older guys tend to go with more curvy girls at my club at least.
I seem to get the 18-40 year olds.
Im so over hearing curvy=real woman. We are all real women no matter what shape or size we come in. Phrases like that were developed for the insecure.
I know! Especially some magazines like "Glamour" that tell all women to embrace themselves, yet they down the skinny chicks. Because all skinny chicks are "unhealthy" and not "womanly".::)
kittensgirl
02-13-2008, 08:58 PM
She's a porn star? Wouldn't that be why they are all over her. Pornstar equals chick who loves sex equals easy- yep a bigger slut than a stripper.
I imagine a two headed porn star would bank over the hottest lady in the club- I can hear the comments now- "ooh you could have fivesome and everyone would still be entertained"
I suspect it's the porn star thing they are dribbling over- not the buck teeth juvenile body- though granted there would be a couple that way inclined.
Sophia_Starina
02-13-2008, 09:11 PM
Im so over hearing curvy=real woman. We are all real women no matter what shape or size we come in. Phrases like that were developed for the insecure.
Insecure? Perhaps the high rate of C-sections performed today has SOMETHING to to with the waif ideal that is in style. Girl, they are called child-bearing hips for a reason.
Also, there was a study showing that Curvy women give birth to smarter kids.
This is irrelevant.. but I am happy that I can survive a famine. Too bad my body type isn't in style right now....
Lady Jade
02-13-2008, 09:22 PM
Also, there was a study showing that Curvy women give birth to smarter kids.
Great... so my kids are going to be short AND dumb? ::)
Sophia_Starina
02-13-2008, 09:24 PM
Great... so my kids are going to be short AND dumb? ::)
There is hope for you yet... how's about you munch on some of those cookies for a few weeks? I bet your kids will be geniuses! :D
Lady Jade
02-13-2008, 09:27 PM
There is hope for you yet... how's about you munch on some of those cookies for a few weeks? I bet your kids will be geniuses! :D
Funny thing about that - I eat like a pig. I eat about 3000 calories per day. Can't get my weight above 100 lbs unless I literally don't move for a couple of weeks. I will never be curvy. Ever. Everyone in my family tree is ungodly thin. With above-average IQs. Same with a lot of other Asians I know. Asian women are not known for being curvy. So... how do you explain all those smart Asian kids?
Sophia_Starina
02-13-2008, 09:29 PM
Im so over hearing curvy=real woman. We are all real women no matter what shape or size we come in. Phrases like that were developed for the insecure.
Also.... why does this have to devolve into some catty thick girls vs. thin girls thing.
The issue Viola brought up had to do with creepy old men being attracted to, and purchasing dances from, women who emulated children. I think it has nothing to do with weight really. Jenna Haze might be a sweet chick, but dressing up as a girl scout implies that girl scouts are sexy... to men. :no:
Strippers can be thin and womanly (i.e. like Victoria Beckham.... she's very skinny, stylish, and some would argue sexy).
Why does children's clothing and behavior have to serve as some crutch for a girl that can't figure out how to accentuate her own body type without resorting to appealing to pedo-perverts?
Sophia_Starina
02-13-2008, 09:30 PM
Funny thing about that - I eat like a pig. I eat about 3000 calories per day. Can't get my weight above 100 lbs unless I literally don't move for a couple of weeks. I will never be curvy. Ever. Everyone in my family tree is ungodly thin. With above-average IQs. Same with a lot of other Asians I know. Asian women are not known for being curvy. So... how do you explain all those smart Asian kids?
Must be the soy sauce.... ;D
Lysondra
02-13-2008, 09:37 PM
Also.... why does this have to devolve into some catty thick girls vs. thin girls thing.
The issue Viola brought up had to do with creepy old men being attracted to, and purchasing dances from, women who emulated children. I think it has nothing to do with weight really. Jenna Haze might be a sweet chick, but dressing up as a girl scout implies that girl scouts are sexy... to men. :no:
Strippers can be thin and womanly (i.e. like Victoria Beckham.... she's very skinny, stylish, and some would argue sexy).
Why does children's clothing and behavior have to serve as some crutch for a girl that can't figure out how to accentuate her own body type without resorting to appealing to pedo-perverts?
No offense but from my angle.. you're kinda the one who started the cattiness on this part.
cameron_keys
02-13-2008, 09:38 PM
I think the schoolgirl/cheerleader/etc...fantasy has more to do with the guys trying to relive their OWN childhoods(by getting near the hot girl in school that prob never gave him the time of day) then wanting actual children.
I'm certainly not stick skinny,nor do I look anything like a child and I get the same reaction when I wear a schoolgirl outfit or the like.
Sophia_Starina
02-13-2008, 09:43 PM
No offense but from my angle.. you're kinda the one who started the cattiness on this part.
I think calling someone insecure because they appreciate a woman with curves is equivalent to firing the first shot.