View Full Version : I'lll slap the shit out this B**** MINI Rant
StarryEyes
02-20-2008, 06:45 PM
Could I have some Miso Soup please?
Only if you promise to puke it up afterwards.
*Running off to get some lipo done*
hockeybobby
02-20-2008, 06:49 PM
This is like the neverending bitch-slap thread. :)
hb
Lady Jade
02-20-2008, 06:50 PM
Only if you promise to puke it up afterwards.
*Running off to get some lipo done*
Whatever. All that lipo won't help you cuz I have the best hustle!
StarryEyes
02-20-2008, 07:16 PM
^^ Lmao!
StarryEyes
02-20-2008, 07:17 PM
This is a gem of a thread.
PookaShell
02-20-2008, 08:52 PM
Whatever. All that lipo won't help you cuz I have the best hustle!
You do not! You guys don't understand. I could get hired ANYWHERE in New York City!!!!! Clubs BEG me to work there but I knew some of the people there and din't want to get involved....but I make MORE money than ANY of you! I've PERFECTED my hustle. I would tell you how, but I feel like you won't truly understand unless you learn for yourself like I did.:tophat:
Lady Jade
02-20-2008, 09:17 PM
You do not! You guys don't understand. I could get hired ANYWHERE in New York City!!!!! Clubs BEG me to work there but I knew some of the people there and din't want to get involved....but I make MORE money than ANY of you! I've PERFECTED my hustle. I would tell you how, but I feel like you won't truly understand unless you learn for yourself like I did.:tophat:
Whatever. You don't stand a chance against those immigrant extras girls stealing the customers!
britt244
02-20-2008, 10:46 PM
i have a guess who it is.. but i wanna knoooow. you know ya'll cant leave me out of the drama! its against the rules!
speaking of miso soup.. i was playing the trivia game at work tonight and one of the questions was about miso.
StarryEyes
02-20-2008, 11:18 PM
I wanna know too.
seraya
02-21-2008, 12:32 AM
Ho's Purrlease! Yall always be tryina steal another bitches shine. Attention seeking heffas ;D
seraya
02-21-2008, 12:35 AM
Cluuue number twooo
http://i130.photobucket.com/albums/p247/seraya_photos/barbie.jpg
BrunetteGoddess
02-21-2008, 12:40 AM
Somebody PM me and tell my who the eff this is please?
gingerlee
02-21-2008, 01:56 AM
^^Count me in too! I wanna know!
kitty260
02-21-2008, 01:58 AM
Cluuue number twooo
http://i130.photobucket.com/albums/p247/seraya_photos/barbie.jpg
I feel like such a moron now. I totally know who this is.
StarryEyes
02-21-2008, 01:58 AM
Just come out and say it! Or PM me! I'm so curious!!
LilyLove
02-21-2008, 02:00 AM
Ooooh! That BlkBarbie girl? "Um should I get my ass or titties bigger first? girl?
Alaska
02-21-2008, 02:04 AM
What? Lol I thought OP said she was from NEW YORK BITCHES AND TRYIN TO SPREAD THAT SHIT TO BUMFUCK, PHOENIX.
BlkBarbie was in VA, no? Tho if yr the most paid xxxdancer there, I guess u get around. :D
britt244
02-21-2008, 09:02 AM
yeah but i thought blkbarbie was actually someone that other people knew of.. not the type to make a new name i dont think.
BrunetteGoddess
02-21-2008, 09:27 AM
Still clueless here. Who's BlkBarbie and what did she do?
Taylorlila
02-21-2008, 09:42 AM
Wow this thread has just blown up since the other day when it 1st got posted and I looked at it and said "no...I won't bother". But I have been quite entertained catching up on all 9 pages of it.;D
michele_b
02-21-2008, 09:42 AM
Still clueless here. Who's BlkBarbie and what did she do?
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=106330&highlight=blkbarbie
michele_b
02-21-2008, 09:47 AM
It IS BlkBarbie. Look at the format that the paragraphs are in of both users. Hmmmm.
Lysondra
02-21-2008, 09:49 AM
I don't think so... blkbarbie always reffered to herself with a lowercase 'i'.
RoseLeigh
02-21-2008, 10:11 AM
I don't think so... blkbarbie always reffered to herself with a lowercase 'i'.
I don't think it's her either. TN is much more comprehendable. I think she's just got a lot of anger issues.
VegasPrincess
02-21-2008, 10:48 AM
Seriously, I don't know if it's BB or not, but I don't think so. BB was never angry like this.....
I mean, how is somebody setting your money on a counter instead of in your hand rude, where as calling a woman a fat bitch with boobs down to her twat acceptatble behavior??
Mia M
02-21-2008, 11:06 AM
I went completely bat shit crazy on a woman at a gas station awhile back who called me ignorant because I was pumping gas while on my cell phone... guess what? I felt like a total douche bag afterwards.
Losing your cool is never something to be proud of, berating strangers is always counterproductive.
BrunetteGoddess
02-21-2008, 11:09 AM
Aww, I remember you posting about that. At least you realized there were better ways to handle the situation :)
Susan-Va
02-21-2008, 11:10 AM
BlkBarbie was in VA, no? Tho if yr the most paid xxxdancer there, I guess u get around. :D
I guess that's why my ass is still in Va....sigh.......
seraya
02-21-2008, 11:53 AM
I don't think so... blkbarbie always reffered to herself with a lowercase 'i'.Yep and so does TN when she slips up ::)
i had to respond back to this because
I really believe you guys have comprehending issues
I said i had an ap american history class.
when i stated honors in my post I didn't state this fact. i just said honors in
general... hmmm
you sound like kelly off of Married with children in this one
hun.
man wtf? bye y'all ...... go get some dick.... maybe you guys need to get fucked .... i get this way sometimes... need a little dickin down...;D
speakin of such.....
I believe that initially she was using a spell check so that she couldn't be identified by her writing style which is quite umm unique? Ya' know to be more convincing like :detective
seraya
02-21-2008, 11:58 AM
I don't think it's her either. TN is much more comprehendable. I think she's just got a lot of anger issues.Oh wrly ::) http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=108544
RoseLeigh
02-21-2008, 03:14 PM
Oh wrly ::)
Okay, maybe not there! ;D There are at least some sentences going on though!
BalletBaby
02-21-2008, 06:12 PM
Soooooo. Is it a full moon or WHAT? Just wondering.
Tonight, yes.
Kitsune83
02-22-2008, 02:35 AM
Oh my goodness! This has been an entertaining read, ladies! I must Thank You all for keeping me up much too late and giving me some much needed distraction from a vexing day.
Plus, I haven't had a good laugh (indeed, it was a gigglesnort) like I did tonight over the "Fabio is Goosed" photo in a long while. I'd forgotten about that story.
thickienikkie
02-22-2008, 08:34 AM
okay lmao you guys have really gone crazy
I am not black barbie nor would I ever consider a screen name like that...
ThickieNikkie is who is it. Please. Let's just drop that
and just get back to the confusion going on here.....
Jenny
02-22-2008, 08:38 AM
I went completely bat shit crazy on a woman at a gas station awhile back who called me ignorant because I was pumping gas while on my cell phone... guess what? I felt like a total douche bag afterwards.
Losing your cool is never something to be proud of, berating strangers is always counterproductive.I actually still get made fun of for a time ten years ago when I lost it on an LCBO employee. I mean, by now it has worn itself into gentle, friendly mocking, but there is no doubt that it was a pretty dumb thing for me to do.
Kaiyla
02-22-2008, 08:30 PM
Recently a poster here said that whenever someone tries to mess with her, she just smiles and gives them the peace sign. Difficult thing to do when everything in your body wants to treat someone as lousy as they're treating you. However, I view that girl as the bigger person just for keeping her cool.
Casey4Now
02-22-2008, 11:05 PM
cartmaN???
and ghetto speak.... ect bad/parenting/ upbringing
That's uncalled for once
again.
You don't know how I was brought up..... not in some ghetto, trust.
the hamptons in long island is surely not the ghetto
Graduated top of my class with a 4.6 gpa 3 scholarships as a result
I'm very smart, but I don't take people's shit.
alright you know what .
you have never called a girl a bitch before?
the angel you are....
I am a little late to this thread, but after reading most of the comments, I have to wonder why I am pushing my daugter for a 4.0 :O
LoveComesFromWithin
02-22-2008, 11:15 PM
but to side with OP... I've been in stores so many times, with girls acting so rude to me. The reason why they do, is because they feel lik they can because I'm so passive and am very polite. I wish I had the nerve to say that to someone but, I usually just call my boyfriend and rant to him or blame myself for being so nice.
By the way... thickienickie, my friends from new york remind me of you.:D
I read the first page and then it got rediculous.(sp)
I guess at least you realized you went off on her.
That's a step in the right direction.
I have a "friend" that does the same stuff. She percieves a slight real or imagined and feeds off it. Then after she stews on it for awhile it just gets ugly. She's a heart attack waiting to happen.
Well if you want all you can do is work on it.If you're ok with it then that's just who you are.
I did have to laugh at what you said. I get mad and think of things I should have said after the fact.
Jenny
02-23-2008, 08:14 AM
but to side with OP... I've been in stores so many times, with girls acting so rude to me. The reason why they do, is because they feel lik they can because I'm so passive and am very polite. I wish I had the nerve to say that to someone but, I usually just call my boyfriend and rant to him or blame myself for being so nice.
By the way... thickienickie, my friends from new york remind me of you.:D
I dunno. I think there are a couple of ways to look at this situation; 1) does it actually fix anything? Does it resolve the conflict? Like, will it make the girl more attentive to you next time you go in, or will it get you barred from the store? I have a pal in retail - if you talked to her staff like that, unless they had done it to you first, you would not be welcome back. I mean, if they were rude they might be disciplined in some way - but they would not have customers like that in the store. 2) Is it a reasonable and measured reaction? I mean - odd as it sounds, fighting with someone like that is kind of... private. I get in fights with my sister and I might call her a bitch; I don't do that with strangers. I don't think that is a good or right way of talking to someone - even someone you don't like. Ultimately, if you really thought it was a general defect and not a bad day (frequently I'm reluctant to get people in professional trouble in case they are just having a bad day) the useful, reasonable and correct course of action is to... complain to her manager, explain the situation and have it rectified. If it is really a problem with the sales person and not with the customer - someone else will have complained too. Talking to someone like that is not going to get you an apology, much less better service.
BTW - so far as we know ThikkiNikkie is a unique screen name; I think her actions were wrong too, but let's try to have less focus on her character and, for that matter, her race.
mollyzmoon
02-23-2008, 08:20 AM
When it comes to retail, I prefer passive-aggressive to aggressive-aggressive. Or else I just leave the store and snit to my friend. An American-Apparel salesgirl decided it was prudent to tell me how fat I looked in one of their dresses (!!). I was like "well, that bulgy look is obviously what I'm going for, or else why would i try on an extra-small? You're so helpful, thank you."
Then when my friend and I walked out, we knocked over a rack of shiny leggings, accidentally-on purpose. I know, I know, wanton immaturity, but society expects some amount of inhibition when it comes to dealing with nasty strangers...Otherwise, people will assume you're crazy, not just immature, you know?
PhillyDancer1982
02-24-2008, 12:31 AM
but to side with OP... I've been in stores so many times, with girls acting so rude to me. The reason why they do, is because they feel lik they can because I'm so passive and am very polite. I wish I had the nerve to say that to someone but, I usually just call my boyfriend and rant to him or blame myself for being so nice.
OMG I can relate to this so much! I used to be very passive and overly polite, and I noticed people stepping on my toes so goddam much. I wrote a thread over a year ago about my visit to a bar and how the bartender(coincidentally, she happened to be a bitchy ex-manager of a strip club where some of the other Philly girls used to work! :O) flipped out on me for no good reason. I wondered if perhaps it was because she saw me as "weak" or "passive." (I DID react by eventually calling her a bitch and walking out after she flipped on me, and I went back the next day to try to complain about her to management(manager wasn't in, so I just spoke to the other bartender about it), but that's it.) Yes and there were many MANY times where I would act passive nice to a bully, then afterewards bitch and bitch and bitch to my close friends about it. Admittedly I've used SW and hatebook.com as "sounding boards" for times that I wanted to tell someone off but couldn't.
Over the last year I've put a lot of effort into being less passive. Yeah sometimes I come off as rude and too blunt(but not nearly as obscene as the words used by the OP to the sales clerk) and I feel bad afterwards or my close friends(if they're witness to it) point it out to me. It's not good to be overly rude/obscene, but I can still relate to you sometimes wishing you had the "nerve," since I used to fantasize about things like that back when I was really passive too.
When it comes to retail, I prefer passive-aggressive to aggressive-aggressive. Or else I just leave the store and snit to my friend. An American-Apparel salesgirl decided it was prudent to tell me how fat I looked in one of their dresses (!!). I was like "well, that bulgy look is obviously what I'm going for, or else why would i try on an extra-small? You're so helpful, thank you."
Then when my friend and I walked out, we knocked over a rack of shiny leggings, accidentally-on purpose. I know, I know, wanton immaturity, but society expects some amount of inhibition when it comes to dealing with nasty strangers...Otherwise, people will assume you're crazy, not just immature, you know?
Yeah I already wrote about how in the last year, I've been obsessed with proving that I'm not a nicey-nice pushover. Initially I solved my passiveness problem with being passive-aggressive, just as Mollyzmoon wrote she did. For example, I dumped a cheating boyfriend by pretending I was unaware of his cheating and acting sweet as ever, then on the same day wrote an "it's over, bitch" comment on his Myspace site + made a bulletin of it. }:-)
Another time I was waiting in the Taco Bell drive-thru for eons, since the employees' tardy asses wouldn't take my order. I had limited time to get to work on time. I knew they were there, because I heard background noises from inside the Taco Bell on the drive-thru speaker. So I knew they were there. I stayed in my car in front of the drive-thru ordering speaker and called up 1-800-TACO-BELL and made a complaint to corporates about waiting in the drive-thru. LOL immediately the employees started taking my order!! (so it worked) When I pulled up to the drive-thru window to get my food, they apologized, gave me my food, neglected to ask me for my money, so I just drove away with the food without paying haha! Normally I would remind employees that I still needed to pay, being honest, but I wanted to be passive-aggressive. Then again, perhaps they gave me my food complimentary on purpose because they realized how badly they fucked up? :shrug: LOL!
PhillyDancer1982
02-24-2008, 12:39 AM
Since we're back on track with the original topic of the thread(i.e., reacting to rude service employees), I will express one more thing about how I became less passive(and hence more aggressive) to employees. I already told you guys about the guy who cheated on me last year(the one I passive-aggressively dumped via Myspace bulletin). Well this was the same guy who once or twice admitted that I was waaaaay too nice and passive to people. E.g., I got treated like shit by the girl at the AT&T store and I simply left instead of demanding to speak to a manager to get my phone problem fixed, aka the very reason I went there in the first place. He told me that by me not standing my ground, she "won" and she did a much better job defending herself than I did for myself, even though she was the one in the wrong. When he cheated on me and started avoiding me, I wondered if maybe the reason he disrespected me so badly, was because he saw others getting away with disrespecting me. That realization angered me beyond belief. I didn't care too much about the guy himself...I cared more about the principle that he was treating me like a doormat. So that was the point when I snapped(not too different from Me Myself & Irene), became passive-aggressive, and eventually became slightly overly confrontational. E.g., the Taco Bell incident I already wrote about. I'm still trying to work on finding the happy medium.
Although the OP said things that I would never say to anyone but my established enemies such as Ed(not-so-coincidentally, he's the cheating ex's hypocritical brother), and maybe it was a little TOO extreme, I do agree that sometimes you gotta let off steam. It might cause people to be a little less mean, simply because they are scared of getting their heads chewed off. More importantly, venting helps you to feel like you got all the anger out of your system. It's not good to keep letting people mistreat you and let the frustration build up inside you! Sometimes you need to vent.
TheSexKitten
02-24-2008, 01:04 AM
BTW - so far as we know ThikkiNikkie is a unique screen name; I think her actions were wrong too, but let's try to have less focus on her character and, for that matter, her race.
:yes: please