View Full Version : SW Crushes!!!
Katrine
03-05-2008, 02:58 PM
I've met the first two. I'd love to meet Katrine, but doubt that I could keep up!
Bring it!
Jay Zeno
03-05-2008, 07:43 PM
All right, 'fess up. How many here ran a search for their name on the thread?
Wow. That many.
And how many of you were disappointed?
Awwwwwww.
High_Heel_Lover
03-05-2008, 07:45 PM
I did Jay but it's ok :)
Jay Zeno
03-05-2008, 07:51 PM
We'll just crush on each other. ;)
(Well.... that's presumptuous of me, isn't it?)
High_Heel_Lover
03-05-2008, 07:52 PM
lol no, no it's not and yes we shall :D
Jay Zeno
03-05-2008, 07:56 PM
I never posted in this one, Jade! I think I'd destroy the site's bandwidth allowances if I posted all my crushes.
Moodmaster
03-05-2008, 08:06 PM
Bring it!
As an authentic PL I'd have to get a "hall pass."
Otherwise, I'd have to explain the tell-tale claw marks....
(from your cat's, of course).
All right, 'fess up. How many here ran a search for their name on the thread?
Wow. That many.
And how many of you were disappointed?
Awwwwwww.
I sent HHL a PM advising her that it is a site rule that all crush lists over 375 names must include the Moderators. She hasn't responded. Now I am worried that she sent a follow up PM to Pryce questioning what I said.
FBR
PaigeDWinter
03-05-2008, 08:32 PM
All right, 'fess up. How many here ran a search for their name on the thread?
Wow. That many.
And how many of you were disappointed?
Awwwwwww.
Me! :-[
All Good Things
03-05-2008, 08:40 PM
Consequently, when I found out the truth, I realized that much as I cared for that person still, and valued her friendship, I couldn't possibly have any sort of romantic liaison with someone who would LIE to me from the getgo.
I have never understood why anybody would fake a picture or anything else if they knew at some point you would find out after meeting them that they were outright deceiving you. Wouldn't you think that any reasonably intelligent person would intrinsically sense that outright lying to you would kill off any rapport or sense of connection, no matter how strong?
I guess some people must think their force of personality or irresistible charm or some other intangible magic is going to make up for deliberately manipulative deception. It sounds like that's what she was thinking in this case.
I am sorry that it was so disappointing and clearly hurtful to you. It's no fun to have made a significant emotional investment in somebody who has let you down in such a profound way.
When I hear stories like this, I'm just grateful that all the SW dancers I've met IRL have simply blown me away. I may have just been lucky, but I doubt it. I think the vast majority of dancers who are visible here and are interesting, fun and likable on the site really are "all that" IRL. You have the advantage of experiencing their full force of personality and presence when you finally meet rather than the partial manifestations from posts or scattered photos here and there. In my own experience it's always been this sort of magical sensory revelatory epiphany.
And they are always way hotter than any of their pics. OK, maybe it's just that. ;D
High_Heel_Lover
03-05-2008, 08:41 PM
I sent HHL a PM advising her that it is a site rule that all crush lists over 375 names must include the Moderators. She hasn't responded. Now I am worried that she sent a follow up PM to Pryce questioning what I said.
FBR
I didn't get any PM :( are you joking? you are joking right?
High_Heel_Lover
03-05-2008, 08:43 PM
Me! :-[
Hey you are on my list!
All Good Things
03-05-2008, 08:45 PM
Psst. FBR. I just e-mailed Pryce. You are covered.
The few SW girls I've met all turned out to be guys.
I want TOO to put me over his lap and tell me what a naughty girl I have been.
Casual Observer
03-05-2008, 09:14 PM
I think the vast majority of dancers who are visible here and are interesting, fun and likable on the site really are "all that" IRL. You have the advantage of experiencing their full force of personality and presence when you finally meet rather than the partial manifestations from posts or scattered photos here and there.
Agreed. My anecdotal experiences meeting folks from SW have been very positive with no real negative surprises.
hardkandee
03-05-2008, 09:14 PM
The few SW girls I've met all turned out to be guys.
*deep voice*
I know you want to see my penis....
The few SW girls I've met all turned out to be guys.
When Kat reads this she will be crushed.
FBR
*deep voice*
I know you want to see my penis....
That check i went home with from that IHOP still talks to me.
Lunarobverse
03-05-2008, 09:25 PM
I know it sounds like a cop-out, but I really do want to meet all of y'all.
The handful of SW members I've met so far have all been fascinating, gorgeous and generous of spirit. So, duh, I want to meet them all.
I'm sure the guys will understand if I work on meeting the ladies first, though, right?
You miss SausagestFest 08, coming soon
Jay Zeno
03-05-2008, 10:00 PM
Yeah, my meetings have all been great. Oddly or naturally enough, when the meeting happens with one of the ladies here, the crush goes away, and they become regular ol' friends.
Is that because they are fugly in person?
All Good Things
03-05-2008, 10:13 PM
I want TOO to put me over his lap and tell me what a naughty girl I have been.
You have been way too naughty for the lap. You'll get a spanking for sure.
But I think I will tie you down across the bed with this beautiful soft, white silk rope, bound first around your wrists and then slowly around your ankles -- firmly yet not too tight -- so you can't move anything at all.
You have been way too naughty for the lap. You'll get a spanking for sure.
But I think I will tie you down across the bed with this beautiful soft, white silk rope, bound first around your wrists and then slowly around your ankles -- firmly yet not too tight -- so you can't move anything at all.
Hahaha TOO admit it..you are addicted. You just can't resist throwing in some erotica.
FBR
All Good Things
03-05-2008, 11:33 PM
^ That wasn't erotica. I was serious.
ajbaer
03-06-2008, 06:16 AM
I've not seen real pictures of almost anyone. DJoser I think is the only one I've seen pics of. I don't think I have any crushes, but I really like and appreciate what everyone has to say :) Although I'm sure if I met anyone of you in person I'd like to get a little Girl on Girl thing goin' LOL
ajbaer
03-06-2008, 06:21 AM
^^^Ohh I take this back. AlenaDowns is HOT! I took her classes and wanted to fly to Canada after that. (Starts checking flight schedules) :p
Jay Zeno
03-06-2008, 08:21 AM
Is that because they are fugly in person?Quite the opposite. Very attractive, but just good people, really good people.
SundayMorning
03-06-2008, 08:24 AM
Quite the opposite. Very attractive, but just good people, really good people.
It's funny you say that. I was talking to my reg the other night (we're tight so I took no offense at anything he was about to say) and he told me that it was so weird....he comes to the club just to see me and have me draped across his lap, but he also RESPECTS me for my brains and my morals. I had to giggle. To me, respect and camaraderie usually just makes me lustier, but I guess his boybrain was about to self-destruct from conflicting signals. :shrug:
For me, when I meet somebody who is pretty but then learn they are good people, my attraction grows.
I feel sorry for all those pretty but nice people that are forever turning people off to be friends
xdamage
03-06-2008, 09:39 AM
Hmmm...
Looks turn on my lust-o-meter, but no feelings of a crush. I get the feelings of having a crush because of her personality, but not necessarily any feelings of lust. Of course if she has the personality that turns on my crush-o-meter, and I like her looks... loving that feeling ;)
Katrine
03-06-2008, 01:48 PM
When Kat reads this she will be crushed.
FBR
How would I be crushed? I've never met Sh0t, unfortunately.
IrishMarc
03-06-2008, 01:51 PM
Too many to list I post on here with a constant semi.
Pretty_Penny
03-06-2008, 02:02 PM
Too many to list I post on here with a constant semi.
do you have an irish accent? it's important information that i must obtain.
/threadjacking
Katrine
03-06-2008, 02:02 PM
Oh yeah, I totally want to fuck the shit out of IrishMarc. Unfortunately my boyfriend is English, meaning they are bitter enemies, and I cannot cross that line. Just kidding, I'd totally cyber-fuck you Marc.
Pretty_Penny
03-06-2008, 02:18 PM
i can overlook a lot of things for an irish accent. JUST SAYIN.
BmiWMT14
03-06-2008, 02:58 PM
Honestly I think of all of you as my friends, but but I must say Im a little smitten with Darcy after watchin her video, and hearing her voice
hardkandee
03-06-2008, 08:11 PM
That check i went home with from that IHOP still talks to me.
Haha... really?
OdysseusNJ
03-06-2008, 08:43 PM
This is why I don't post pictures. I look so different in pictures than I do in real life, I'd hate to disappoint anyone!
You are hotter IRL.
sucks to be reminded that our SW community is part of the greater network of potential lies, exaggerations, and misappropriations called The Interwebs.
Just for the record I am as retarded for kittens IRL as I am here.
High_Heel_Lover
03-06-2008, 08:53 PM
^^^^ lol
Kaylinn
03-06-2008, 08:56 PM
Hi!
I have crushes on ALL of you! I missed everyone soo much! it's good to be back :)
hardkandee
03-06-2008, 08:57 PM
Hi!
I have crushes on ALL of you! I missed everyone soo much! it's good to be back :)
Yeah!!! She's finally back! :-*
OdysseusNJ
03-06-2008, 09:03 PM
Um... I will admit that I am shorter IRL! :P
I will attest to that! He jumped up faster to see pictures of my sister's cat than he did to see naked pictures of me! :D
You are the queen of not only cookies but also of self deprecation.
Heh, you're equal opportunity though - pretty good at deprecating others too!
BalletBaby
03-06-2008, 09:42 PM
Hi!
I have crushes on ALL of you! I missed everyone soo much! it's good to be back :)
*jumps on Kaylinn*
ajbaer
03-07-2008, 05:41 AM
Too many to list I post on here with a constant semi.
I want this in my sig...can I have it? I'm not sure I even know how to do that, but I want it :)
Djoser
03-07-2008, 06:48 AM
Just for the record I am as retarded for kittens IRL as I am here.
Ha! You cannot possibly be more retarded in the presence of fuzzy, nubile, mewling kitties than I am!
Yeah, my meetings have all been great...they become regular ol' friends.
I too have have had a similar reaction as some of the other guys when meeting SW females, except they aren't quite regular friends--the relationship is more like that that develops so frequently at work. You can appreciate, admire, and be very much aware of their pulchritude, on a personal level. You can even describe it at great length, in prose the judgmentally inclined might label rhapsodic--but the lust of a crush isn't there. It's like mildly incestuous feelings for a sister, maybe (but I never had a sister so don't attack me). So I'm not so likely to spring wood while reading what the females have to say as some of the other guys, lol.
Also, with all the female flesh constantly around me at work, all the playful ass-grabbing I tend to get at a friendly club, etc., I'm not likely to become directly aroused when reading even the most provocative of posts. The pictures are pretty hot sometimes, but again I see it nearly every night, and they are grabbing my ass while I'm looking at it, lol--which might explain the difference in my reaction.
OTOH, there are always those rare and special women with whom you get the powerful chemical attraction thing going on at work. And I confess did have a two year affair with a SW member that ended three years ago. In her case, though, we fell madly, passionately in love without either of us having a clue what the other looked like! The voice thing was definitely there for both of us, though.
But even then--when we met it was like starting all over again, lol--and a bit awkward at first, after the long, torrid, deep conversations we had on the phone. Online 'chemistry' doesn't necessarily translate into real life, that's a lesson I won't likely forget. The occasional crush I've had since then hasn't blinded me to that.
TheTempest
03-07-2008, 11:06 AM
Ha! You cannot possibly be more retarded in the presence of fuzzy, nubile, mewling kitties than I am!
I don't know, I've never seen you but I will attest that Odysseus is a complete idiot for kittens.
Djoser
03-07-2008, 02:12 PM
Haha, you should have seen me today! I found the ultimate Kitty Heaven!
But that's another thread, lol.
However, I confess, I do have a few SW crushes...
Therese
http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c160/lolitastar79/Norms%20Cats/Therese.jpg
Carmen
http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c160/lolitastar79/Norms%20Cats/CArmen.jpg
Felicia
http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c160/lolitastar79/Norms%20Cats/Felicia.jpg
TheTempest
03-07-2008, 02:26 PM
What about Simone??