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xdamage
03-05-2008, 08:04 AM
What really impresses me is that we have a guy here who has actually said that women are boring, that the guys on the pink side are spineless, that he is primarily concerned with racking up a high score of women he has fucked, that a couple of our male mods are pussies or whatever, etc., etc. And yet the women here fawning over him don't care.

Well, we are into threadjack territory here, but recently we had a discussion over on the blue side which basically argued the question, do men cut hot women slack that they don't extend to average looking women? I argued many do, possibly even subconsciously, it is human nature. This is no different. It's not universal of course. Some women and some men are less likely to be mesmerized by sexual appearance, but I guess I don't find it all surprising that people can overlook a lot if they see someone else as sexually attractive.

Djoser
03-05-2008, 08:11 AM
Well, we are into threadjack territory here, but recently we had a discussion over on the blue side which basically argued the question, do men cut hot women slack that they don't extend to average looking women? I argued many do, possibly even subconsciously, it is human nature. This is no different. It's not universal of course. Some women and some men are less likely to be mesmerized by sexual appearance, but I guess I don't find it all surprising that people can overlook a lot if they see someone else as sexually attractive.

An interesting point. Probably true of most men.

As a DJ, I often deal with attractive women who feel I should grant the same fawning, servile obeisance that so many spineless customers do (not to knock all customers, but we all know it happens frequently). Not going to happen.

Though I confess I might hesitate the slightest bit longer, in the case of an exceptionally attractive woman, to make it clear that I am a different species of animal, and will grant no woman on this earth any more respect than she grants me.

I never go to the blue side, but now you have me curious, lol...

xdamage
03-05-2008, 08:18 AM
An interesting point. Probably true of most men.

To be clear, there are always exceptions, and it really is a gray scale of behavior from one extreme (complete neutrality) to the other extreme (men who fawn over attractive women no matter what they say or do). But just my observation, many men seem to be sub-consciously unaware of the degree to which their own behavior and attitudes change around attractive women. Nothing wrong with it, again it is human nature, but as we become aware of the behavior it becomes clearer how common it is that we humans tend to modify our views based on the physical attractiveness of others.

p.s., as a DJ in a SC you are exposed to attractive women more than the average guy, so I'm guessing you are probably desensitized to a degree. True?

PaigeDWinter
03-05-2008, 08:27 AM
This thread has run it's course.