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mr_punk
03-09-2008, 06:29 PM
Um. Yeah you did. "Who gives a crap whether you're tired or you and the customer give each other first degree friction burns." And see - I answered. I do; and probably so did the complainer.sigh.

Vitriol. Overcoming. Reason.i see. if a stripper wants to act lazy on a customer's dime. we should congratulate her. reasonable sentiment, jenny. BTW, you are having a stroke.

Um no. You didn't say a thing about the quality of her work being poor. You said that she complained. I quote: "this reminds me of this dancer who would complain about this regular who, in her opinion, would buy an hour or so worth of LD and tipped well. however, she didn't like the fact that he wanted her to grind the entire time."so what? those were her words not mine, but as you can see. oh, that's right you can't see because you're side tracking. anyway, i didn't make any comment about whether or not she had the right to complain. frankly, i posted it because i thought she was being lazy biatch. i know it's hard for you to believe. especially, since you don't pay for dances. however, there are lazy biatches working in sc and even on SW. it is what it is. furthermore, i didn't mention anything at all about the quality of her work. BTW, the quality of her work can be inconsistent because she freelances.

Well, if you didn't go around calling women biatches maybe they wouldn't be so invested in publicly humiliating you. I hope you've learned your lesson.well, i feel suitably chagrined and promise to change my evil ways. you biatches have taught me a valuble life lesson.

lestat1
03-09-2008, 07:36 PM
I guess the question would boil down to...Could you walk into a club, bump into an incredibly fine but bored dancer just inside the door, take her to the room for 5-10 dances that seem to match your definition of an ideal dance, and walk right back out without any further activity or action and consider that a positive, successful visit? Lord knows I couldn't...need my "apple polishing" and all...;)

Ah well, the box at the top of the window is happy :)

-gen

I could, but my definition of an ideal dance wouldn't involve her looking bored, so some of the "apple polishing" you're looking for I am as well, only I'm satisfied to have it all happen during the dance and I don't require any beforehand. Wait, "apple polishing" isn't a euphamism for some sort of hardcore extra, right?

Side note: I'm not opposed to the idea of paying for pleasant conversation, it's just not something that's available to me. More my fault than theirs though.

JoeUnCool
03-09-2008, 07:41 PM
I guess the question would boil down to...Could you walk into a club, bump into an incredibly fine but bored dancer just inside the door, take her to the room for 5-10 dances that seem to match your definition of an ideal dance, and walk right back out without any further activity or action and consider that a positive, successful visit? Lord knows I couldn't...need my "apple polishing" and all...;)


Nope. I could never walk-in, find a girl, get some dances, and walk out happy. Never, ever, ever, never would I do that. That is my definition of a desperate. Never take the first girl that comes along, unless you really want the first girl that comes along. Its your money, spend it wisely and to make yourself happy, not to just throw it at some girl that happens to be at the front door when you walk in. Seriously, this is a major breach of protocol. This is serious. Its right up there with lying underoath in court or to Congress. One derivative of the singular rule is that its your money and you spend it in a way that makes you happy. Just throwing it around with the first girl that you see when you walk in the door.....that's wrong. You can have your SCJ license revoked for that. This is JUST PLAIN WRONG.

Casual Observer
03-09-2008, 08:03 PM
I guess the question would boil down to...Could you walk into a club, bump into an incredibly fine but bored dancer just inside the door, take her to the room for 5-10 dances that seem to match your definition of an ideal dance, and walk right back out without any further activity or action and consider that a positive, successful visit?

I've done it before. I'll probably do that tomorrow night. But it's not really that calculated with me. I don't necessarily need to share life stories with the chick to enjoy the SC experience.

WallyT
03-09-2008, 08:08 PM
Wow! Dancers can make three hundred whole dollars? I've only dreamed of lap dancing that much.


No, you probably make several times that on a good night and do a couple hours or more of lap dancing any night you bank. Chafing shouldn't be uncommon for a moneymaker. Should it?

Bob_Loblaw
03-09-2008, 08:20 PM
Nope. I could never walk-in, find a girl, get some dances, and walk out happy. Never, ever, ever, never would I do that. That is my definition of a desperate. Never take the first girl that comes along, unless you really want the first girl that comes along. Its your money, spend it wisely and to make yourself happy, not to just throw it at some girl that happens to be at the front door when you walk in. Seriously, this is a major breach of protocol. This is serious. Its right up there with lying underoath in court or to Congress. One derivative of the singular rule is that its your money and you spend it in a way that makes you happy. Just throwing it around with the first girl that you see when you walk in the door.....that's wrong. You can have your SCJ license revoked for that. This is JUST PLAIN WRONG.
I don't make a habit of it but I have done this with great success. If the girl meets or exceeds your checklist of what is attractive to you and you offer to take her for a block of dances, more often than not you'll snap her out of her bored state and her dances will exhibit enough enthusiasm to have you leaving happy. At least this has been my experience.

Lapaholic
03-09-2008, 08:39 PM
...

I guess the question would boil down to...Could you walk into a club, bump into an incredibly fine but bored dancer just inside the door, take her to the room for 5-10 dances that seem to match your definition of an ideal dance, and walk right back out without any further activity or action and consider that a positive, successful visit? Lord knows I couldn't...need my "apple polishing" and all
-gen


Well I dont do that, IE DO 5 - 10 and bolt. When i go to a SC solo - I like to make an evening of it. U know its my time to relax and kick back a little. A drink and a cigar are a nice part of the evening and I like to get dances from several ladies if I have the time. Stage tipping and getting the occasional drink for a dancer if thats part of the club's m.o, I enjoy that too.. I try to take it all in - save the apple polishing...

IF that did happen ( getting 5-10 dances from the first girl I saw), Id stay and relax in the afterglow, haha.

mr_punk
03-09-2008, 09:12 PM
I guess the question would boil down to...Could you walk into a club, bump into an incredibly fine but bored dancer just inside the door, take her to the room for 5-10 dances that seem to match your definition of an ideal dance, and walk right back out without any further activity or action and consider that a positive, successful visit?dragging a QPoT (quality piece of tail) off into a dark corner without even knowing her stage name or the color of her hair and eyes is child's play, but i suppose her spitting into a cocktail napkin would blow your curve.

Wait, "apple polishing" isn't a euphamism for some sort of hardcore extra, right?nah, it's like brown nosing. i think GenWar like strippers to say something like,"oh please, save a ho, daddy! you big, strong man with your big cigar!".

Side note: I'm not opposed to the idea of paying for pleasant conversation, it's just not something that's available to me.don't do it, stat. get a therapist or a dog. at least they won't drive you batty...i hope.

JoeUnCool
03-10-2008, 04:38 AM
I don't make a habit of it but I have done this with great success. If the girl meets or exceeds your checklist of what is attractive to you and you offer to take her for a block of dances, more often than not you'll snap her out of her bored state and her dances will exhibit enough enthusiasm to have you leaving happy. At least this has been my experience.

Assuming this is an unknown place, I like to scan the place first. I want to see what the various dancers look like. If the first girl is your type, then step up and take the shot. As a corollary to J.G. Wentworth, "Its your money, use as you want to." If you are happy, that's all that matters. :)

With me, the first girl is just that, the first girl. See what the marketplace is offering is my view.

JoeUnCool
03-10-2008, 04:40 AM
dragging a QPoT (quality piece of tail) off into a dark corner without even knowing her stage name or the color of her hair and eyes is child's play, but i suppose her spitting into a cocktail napkin would blow your curve.
nah, it's like brown nosing. i think GenWar like strippers to say something like,"oh please, save a ho, daddy! you big, strong man with your big cigar!".
don't do it, stat. get a therapist or a dog. at least they won't drive you batty...i hope.

They can only drive you crazy if you let them.

JoeUnCool
03-10-2008, 04:41 AM
No, you probably make several times that on a good night and do a couple hours or more of lap dancing any night you bank. Chafing shouldn't be uncommon for a moneymaker. Should it?

My current fave told me she makes $2,200 per week on the average. She works 3-4 nights per week. She has told me that she has only chafed once, and that was because a girl at another club grinding on her too much.

SPLUT
03-10-2008, 05:20 AM
GenWar, I do indeed look for more. Like I said I don't ask for extras but I don't have a problem with breaking the rules.

with your restated question - could I get some dances without breaking the rules and leave happy? It can happen - it did happen to me last Saturday. I'll see if i can pull it together for a trip report.

GenWar
03-10-2008, 07:25 AM
and this is an epiphany for you? that's pretty weak even for you, Gen.

Epiphany might be strong...just an observation.


that box must bother you quite a bit.

Actually, yeah, it kinda does. Makes me feel like I am falling down on the job as a contributor to the community of the board. A responsibility I take pretty seriously. So, yeah, it bugs me...I guess I am the only one. *shrug*


nah, it's like brown nosing. i think GenWar like strippers to say something like,"oh please, save a ho, daddy! you big, strong man with your big cigar!".

Whereas, mr_p would prefer she say something like, "Why are you looking up here at my face? my t*ts are down here, thankyouverymuch. And are you just gonna sit there with your hands in your pockets or what?" ::)


Nope. I could never walk-in, find a girl, get some dances, and walk out happy. Never, ever, ever, never would I do that. That is my definition of a desperate. Never take the first girl that comes along, unless you really want the first girl that comes along. Its your money, spend it wisely and to make yourself happy, not to just throw it at some girl that happens to be at the front door when you walk in. Seriously, this is a major breach of protocol. This is serious. Its right up there with lying underoath in court or to Congress. One derivative of the singular rule is that its your money and you spend it in a way that makes you happy. Just throwing it around with the first girl that you see when you walk in the door.....that's wrong. You can have your SCJ license revoked for that. This is JUST PLAIN WRONG.

Whoa, now, man. Gotta remember, it takes all kinds. I personally would never do it and I think it is pretty clear that you are right there with me. But that doesn't make it "just plain wrong." Judging from my observations during my 5 hour club stints, it is not uncommon at all for dudes to commoditize lap dances. I see plenty of guys walk in, sit down, get approached, go in the dance room, walk out of the dance room sometime later, and walk out of the club without looking back. I don't think that people who put as much though into clubbing as those of us who regularly post on a message board about it are going to purchase our lap dances with the same discernment and thought processes we use to buy our toilet paper, but that is not to say that it isn't done. And that it is ok for those people.

-gen

SPLUT
03-10-2008, 10:36 AM
OK now that I've reread the question again - No - I would never go to a club grab the first girl, go get dances then just book out the door. What is that? fast food dances?

Yes..hello... I'd like the #3 dance combo with an order of extra larges breasts?

I guess it's just everybody is different and as long as you aren't hurting someone go for it. It's not my money.

JoeUnCool
03-10-2008, 12:11 PM
Whoa, now, man. Gotta remember, it takes all kinds. I personally would never do it and I think it is pretty clear that you are right there with me. But that doesn't make it "just plain wrong." Judging from my observations during my 5 hour club stints, it is not uncommon at all for dudes to commoditize lap dances. I see plenty of guys walk in, sit down, get approached, go in the dance room, walk out of the dance room sometime later, and walk out of the club without looking back. I don't think that people who put as much though into clubbing as those of us who regularly post on a message board about it are going to purchase our lap dances with the same discernment and thought processes we use to buy our toilet paper, but that is not to say that it isn't done. And that it is ok for those people.

-gen


I agree. It does take all kinds. However, my point is that someone that that takes pride in their sc trips, should do more than just accept the first girl that they see when they walk in, unless that is the girl they really want. And I realize that if you are happy, thats all that matters. :)

JoeUnCool
03-10-2008, 12:24 PM
Well. Um. If you're asking "who cares?" Obviously... I do. I'm very concerned with how tired I am and the degree of chafing on my genitals. These are actually the third and second things I tend to worry about at work. And why can't I do what he's paying me for and THEN complain afterwards? What's the problem with that? Do you never complain about your job? And would it be... useful for someone to say "Who the fuck cares? Just fucking do what they are paying you to do and shut up about it"?

Personal experience shows that a tired dancer is not the best dancer for the vip/ld room. A tired dancer, or one that is not feeling, or has something else going on at that moment will be distracted and not at her best. There is no reason to push a bad position. My money would be good at another time or with another dancer. An overly drunk dancer would also be a poor choice. Tired(or drunk) dancers step on feet, fall over on you, or put their knee in the wrong spot.:O I have found the best dancer is one just starting her shift and has had a drink(if she drinks), maybe two. She has energy and is ready to work. I go in around 9 pm and am usually in bed at midnight, maybe 1 am depending on how my fave's night is going.

Jenny
03-10-2008, 12:58 PM
Tired(or drunk) dancers step on feet, fall over on you, or put their knee in the wrong spot.:O Oh, I don't have to be tired or drunk for these antics.

hockeybobby
03-10-2008, 01:46 PM
Oh, I don't have to be tired or drunk for these antics.

I just have this hilarious visual of a dancer doing her lap dance routine with a guy and just destroying him in a slapstick absent-minded way. In the course of her dance, kneeing his nuggets, elbowing his ear, putting a stiletto heel through his foot, head-butting him in the nose and breaking it...all done without any malice, just accidental. The scene ends with the paramedics wheeling him out of VIP, and 5 or 6 customers running after the dancer waving money.