View Full Version : Meeting a SW girl at her club
JoeUnCool
03-19-2008, 05:55 PM
Well, hopefully "getting a free pass" woudln't be their intentions. I think alot of members (male and female) look at eachother as friends. And maybe, not knowingly want to "hang out" while we're at work. I think they lose sight that yes we are at work.
Unfortunately, with the girls that I have had that are dancers that I am friends with, this is what happens. We would hang around and talk and bull$hit and the end result was that they wouldn't work the room. Now, I'm older and wiser and wouldn't expect that to happen now.
I've already listed my personal concerns.
Joe
JoeUnCool
03-19-2008, 06:02 PM
LOL..whatever. i'll defer to your considerable expertise on proper perv etiquette on a stripper's MB.
There is no proper etiquette here. ;)
It would be helpful if the pinks and blues would treat each other with respect, however, that just won't happen. The girls get treated poorly by guys in the clubs and take it out on the blues and vice-versa. No, not everyone does that, but enough do.
oh, no worries about TMI, TOO. i usually tune out when PLs begin to ramble about the grandiose wonders of a relationship with a stripper replete with mental health and unresolved daddy issues.
Anyone that openly seeks that relationship needs to have their head examined. If it happens, it happens. If you seek the relationship, the bad girls will typically find you.
huh? you haven't PM these girls for pics yet? what kind of lazy perv are you? slacker.
Sorry, no interest in pics. I don't want an internet relationship. I prefer it when #5 sits on my lap and we talk and she rubs up against me, rubs the back of my head, and ...........
Joe
mr_punk
03-19-2008, 06:29 PM
Sorry, no interest in pics. I don't want an internet relationship.huh? no, not that kind of perving. you're asking for the pic so you can avoid that awkward situation that you mention earlier.
JoeUnCool
03-19-2008, 07:05 PM
huh? no, not that kind of perving. you're asking for the pic so you can avoid that awkward situation that you mention earlier.
Nope, I didn't PM for pics, however, if the girls want to send me free pics of themselves, well, I'm all for that.
Joe
hockeybobby
03-19-2008, 09:14 PM
Nope, I didn't PM for pics, however, if the girls want to send me free pics of themselves, well, I'm all for that.
Joe
I wouldn't want a picture in advance. That doesn't seem right to me, that would spoil the surprise. Imagine the dj announces "gentlemen, put your hands together for the lovely, the one and only, Jenny! *gasp* omg u r hot.
And besides, what if the girl wanted my picture too? Fair is fair boys...and what if that was a deal-breaker for the girl? That would hurt my feelings.
JoeUnCool
03-19-2008, 09:22 PM
And besides, what if the girl wanted my picture too? Fair is fair boys...and what if that was a deal-breaker for the girl? That would hurt my feelings.
The picture isn't the deal breaker for the girls. They are concerned about the amount of money in bank account. }:D
If there is any question about that, refer to my singular rule in the Rules Thread or to posts by the girls in this thread. And no, I'm not being critical of them. The point is that its their job.
Joe
hockeybobby
03-19-2008, 10:05 PM
haha...quite right joe. Not that there's anything wrong with that.
The point I was trying to make, was that you have to have a little class, and tact when you contact a dancer to come to see her at her club. Requesting a picture to me seems cattle-callish and demeaning. But I'm odd, I admit it.
For me, I woudlnt' mind meeting customers from SW. As long as they realize (hopefully they have been well-trained ala pink side) that I am here to work and make money. I don't want anyone (male SW blue-side members included) to wasting my time talking, and not spending money on me when I could be getting it from someone else.
Some of us in Arizona are still waiting for the chance to spend money for the pleasure of your company and some saucy LDs! }:D
Jenny
03-19-2008, 11:44 PM
Um. Okay - just to be clear. Don't ever take mr._punk's advice. On anything really, except the name of a regulatory agency for prostitutes, but most especially on the topic of PMing sw girls for pictures. You will almost certainly be reported (possibly to me, since I'm very helpful and I hate men) and probably banned, at least for a few months. Seriously. We have low tolerance.
yoda57us
03-20-2008, 05:21 AM
I wouldn't want a picture in advance. That doesn't seem right to me, that would spoil the surprise. Imagine the dj announces "gentlemen, put your hands together for the lovely, the one and only, Jenny! *gasp* omg u r hot.
I don't know how common it is, but not every lady who posts here on SW dances under her internet handle.
And besides, what if the girl wanted my picture too? Fair is fair boys...and what if that was a deal-breaker for the girl? That would hurt my feelings.
I've never had any complaints....
mr_punk
03-20-2008, 05:28 AM
Um. Okay - just to be clear. Don't ever take mr._punk's advice. On anything really, except the name of a regulatory agency for prostitutes, but most especially on the topic of PMing sw girls for pictures. You will almost certainly be reported (possibly to me, since I'm very helpful and I hate men) and probably banned, at least for a few months. Seriously. We have low tolerance.really? bwhahah...that's rich considering there was a time when some of those shills would give them out to any perving fanboy who asked. pic tease. LOL.
GenWar
03-20-2008, 05:30 AM
Um. Okay - just to be clear. Don't ever take mr._punk's advice.
True enough. Still, I've said it once and I'll say it again. If mr_punk did not exist, it would be necessary to invent him.
-gen
mr_punk
03-20-2008, 05:43 AM
LOL..oh, go play with your cigar cutter, Fidel.
JoeUnCool
03-20-2008, 06:27 AM
You will almost certainly be reported (possibly to me, since I'm very helpful and I hate men)........
Yes, I get how you feel about men, at least the ones that are in this forum. That comes through loud and clear in the language you (and others) use in your posts.
Joe
JoeUnCool
03-20-2008, 06:39 AM
The point I was trying to make, was that you have to have a little class, and tact when you contact a dancer to come to see her at her club. Requesting a picture to me seems cattle-callish and demeaning. But I'm odd, I admit it.
Right. I agree completely. Whole-heartedly. Absolutely. I don't think I said that I wanted a picture. Mr_Punk is the one that brought up PM'ing for pics. As an FYI, I have always acted with class in an SC and have always treated the girls with respect.
Now, some clubs post pics of the girls on their site, but that's a different disicussion. I would never ask a girl for her pic. However, I would have no problem googling to find her club, information about the club, and to see if they had pics on the site. I always do my homework.
Remember, the problems are the loss of my anonymity and would I be interested in the girl.
Joe
Lapaholic
03-20-2008, 07:20 AM
True enough. Still, I've said it once and I'll say it again. If mr_punk did not exist, it would be necessary to invent him.
-gen
lol --- So true - Jenny and Mr. P - the duality of SW - Ying/Yang, Good/Evil, GOd/Devil.... But who is what?... Perhaps a poll?? Quite frankly SW would be entirely too dull without them!
Lapaholic
03-20-2008, 07:22 AM
Oh and just to pipe in on this thread - I met one SWer. She invited me to her club in my "Coming Out" thread. I had a great time and I still see her when I go to that club.
Lunarobverse
03-20-2008, 07:39 AM
True enough. Still, I've said it once and I'll say it again. If mr_punk did not exist, it would not be necessary to ignore him.
-gen
There. Fixed that for you.
Jenny
03-20-2008, 07:54 AM
really? bwhahah...that's rich considering there was a time when some of those shills would give them out to any perving fanboy who asked. pic tease. LOL.
Well, doesn't really justify active solicitation. If they really wanted to give them out... they'd offer.
Yes, I get how you feel about men, at least the ones that are in this forum. That comes through loud and clear in the language you (and others) use in your posts.
Joe
So? You guys are incredibly distasteful. What's your problem? I mean you must have known that already.
lol --- So true - Jenny and Mr. P - the duality of SW - Ying/Yang, Good/Evil, GOd/Devil.... But who is what?... Perhaps a poll?? Quite frankly SW would be entirely too dull without them!
I don't want to be ying.
Lapaholic
03-20-2008, 09:24 AM
^^Yeah but u know with what "yang" rhymes? I hear a limerick in my head ... but i want go there!!!!
JoeUnCool
03-20-2008, 09:27 AM
So? You guys are incredibly distasteful. What's your problem? I mean you must have known that already.
Yes, I did. I could tell from the language you use in responding to the guys.
Joe
doc-catfish
03-20-2008, 12:21 PM
Criminey's sake, why is this thread already to page 6? Seemed like a pretty straightforward topic.
HB, I think that cinammonkisses brings up one of the issues. I want to go into a club and see what a girl looks like. Heck, if I'm not attracted to her, I'm not paying. I don't want to waste her time or mine in an awkward situation.
Um, dude, its not like you have to schedule an appointment or something. 3 of the 4 ladies I met were doing a shift that they would have been working anyway. No foul if I had gotten cold feet at the eleventh hour and fifty-ninth minute.
Another issue is my anonymity.
I had not thought through the entire process when I made my initial post. Now that I have, it just doesn't work.
Joe
Which again, begs my question, why is this thread already to page 6?
::)
JoeUnCool
03-20-2008, 12:33 PM
Which again, begs my question, why is this thread already to page 6?
::)
Because I asked a question and then everyone had to put their two cents worth and it snowballed. Its like all weird threads in any online community. As i said before, I wish I hadn't started it.
Joe
yoda57us
03-20-2008, 01:05 PM
Criminey's sake, why is this thread already to page 6? Seemed like a pretty straightforward topic.
Um, dude, its not like you have to schedule an appointment or something. 3 of the 4 ladies I met were doing a shift that they would have been working anyway. No foul if I had gotten cold feet at the eleventh hour and fifty-ninth minute.
Which again, begs my question, why is this thread already to page 6?
::)
Because I asked a question and then everyone had to put their two cents worth and it snowballed. Its like all weird threads in any online community. As i said before, I wish I hadn't started it.
Joe
Um, stop reading it then....
Casual Observer
03-22-2008, 06:38 AM
You know, a lot of the long time male contributors on SW are savvy SC goers who totally know the score about how to treat a dancer in the club. I would have thought that getting a pm from an SW dude that they'd like to come and see you at your club would be a welcome thing. Kind of like "score...I got a sure thing coming to see me...I'll be paid well, and treated likewise". The bonus being you get to meet a sort of pen-pal...provided the dude hasn't been posting garbage incessantly.
Am I being naive here?
Yes, you're being naive, but that's on par with a lot of what you post here, it needs to be said.
Considering how much trouble dancers can have in general with customers, they can't presume that simply because one is a member on SW that they'll be a sufficiently good use of work-time at their office. Personally, I've met enough SW girls at this point where if I'm traveling on business and looking for SW girls to meet on the road, I have no shortage of referrals to attest to the fact that I'm not a revolting, parsimonious sweatpant-boner-man that will stalk them in the parking lot after their shift looking for a blow-job behind the dumpster. And that matters.
As for the guys, I've often wanted to meet Yoda, as we club in the same geographic area generally speaking, but considering we both prefer the solo club approach, it's just not something I'd try to arrange. Though I am curious about his abilities to procure fine Brazilian ladies...I don't seem to find that many hot ones in the clubs I've been hitting. Maybe it's a dayshift thing?
yoda57us
03-22-2008, 09:53 AM
As for the guys, I've often wanted to meet Yoda, as we club in the same geographic area generally speaking, but considering we both prefer the solo club approach, it's just not something I'd try to arrange. Though I am curious about his abilities to procure fine Brazilian ladies...I don't seem to find that many hot ones in the clubs I've been hitting. Maybe it's a dayshift thing?
It's definitely a day shift thing CO. A lot of the Providence Brazilians live around Boston and they don't like driving at night. Honestly, I don't go at night at all unless I'm working in Providence and getting finished before closing time in the clubs. I do find the nicest night shift Brazilians are at the Cadillac Lounge.
Katrine
03-22-2008, 01:37 PM
I really want to go to Boston and hang out with yoda and CO! If I were up there, would the two of you break your stoic unilateral stance on stripclubbing and come with me to see some tittys????
yoda57us
03-22-2008, 02:02 PM
I really want to go to Boston and hang out with yoda and CO! If I were up there, would the two of you break your stoic unilateral stance on stripclubbing and come with me to see some tittys????
I'm in...:)
^^ That trip would definitely be worthy of a report. I imagine that the Katmeister would definitely hold her own :)
FBR
Susan Wayward
03-23-2008, 01:57 AM
I don't know, I think I'm a worse PL than Kat when it comes to customer behavior. I would like to go on that trip, though. I've never been to Boston. Nor had a dance from a Brazilian.
yoda57us
03-23-2008, 03:15 AM
I don't know, I think I'm a worse PL than Kat when it comes to customer behavior. I would like to go on that trip, though. I've never been to Boston. Nor had a dance from a Brazilian.
It's something everyone should do at least once....;D
Katrine
03-23-2008, 11:16 AM
I've had a dance from a Brazilian girl at Palazio and wasn't impressed. But I have yet to ever go to Boston. Dammit, add another trip to my list for this year. Cerously, I need to stop working and start stripping again so I have more time.
Susan, why would you say you are a worse PL than me? In regards to your spending? Or is it because you always have a lubed up finger out, ready to check when the girl dancing for you starts talking about how she just gave birth? ;)
Susan Wayward
03-23-2008, 11:49 AM
Susan, why would you say you are a worse PL than me? In regards to your spending? Or is it because you always have a lubed up finger out, ready to check when the girl dancing for you starts talking about how she just gave birth? ;)
Yeah, she was a great conversationalist, huh? Guys, if you ever think you get TMI from the strippers, just think about the shit they are comfortable telling women.
No, I think we are equal on lubed fingers. I think I for sure sit there and get more dances and grin like an idiot though.
Oh god, during Community Titties this year, when Mr. W came to the Flower Shop, I had that gorgeous AA girl dance for him, and afterwards he said, "When that girl was dancing for you I was watching every move, and then she comes over to me and you immediately rejoin the conversation at the table, because, you know, you've seen it before." I kind of felt bad, like I should have been leering at the stripper on my man or something. But he was amused.
I've only met a couple SWers at their club, Rusdancer in DC and Lola Rose in FL. I just PMd and then showed up, we didn't try to hang out all night, just said hi, tipped and bought dances when available, and had our own fun. None of the junkies I've met while working have been timewasters or anything. Though I'm sure not everyone is the same.
Casual Observer
03-23-2008, 05:49 PM
I really want to go to Boston and hang out with yoda and CO! If I were up there, would the two of you break your stoic unilateral stance on stripclubbing and come with me to see some tittys????
I'm sure we could arrange something along those lines...
It's definitely a day shift thing CO. A lot of the Providence Brazilians live around Boston and they don't like driving at night. Honestly, I don't go at night at all unless I'm working in Providence and getting finished before closing time in the clubs. I do find the nicest night shift Brazilians are at the Cadillac Lounge.
Yeah, CL has this one tall Brazilian chick that has an amazing stage show, during which she put my head and that of my SO between the vise that was her thighs--after carefully removing my glasses, it should be said. I respect that in a dancer. Nothing I hate more than having the Bulgari lenses all smudged with dancer juices. My lady tried to get dances with her upstairs, but she was booked out for the entire night.
Maybe I need to make some day trips down there.
TheSexKitten
03-25-2008, 12:23 PM
I'd love to meet a SW guy in my club!! But I think only Sh0t lives in SD.... :P
Minnow almost came in to see me once, but he ended up not being able to make it. :( Anyone else who travels through should send me a PM!
Casual Observer
03-26-2008, 06:17 PM
^ Might be out in SD in June...will keep that in mind.
velvet
03-30-2008, 11:14 PM
My SW story is that I was asking about clubs in a certain area. A dancer responded that her club was the best and we PM'd back and forth. She said to ask for her when I got there and I did. Best dances I had all night! We spent some time talking and laughing about SW and whatnot. A very good experience.
awww *blushes* that was me! great time with robert.
i've met and danced for a few more guys here. i will keep the names to myself. hehe. all were lots of fun
Susan-Va
04-06-2008, 05:06 PM
Oh and just to pipe in on this thread - I met one SWer. She invited me to her club in my "Coming Out" thread. I had a great time and I still see her when I go to that club.
MUAH!
hockeybobby
04-06-2008, 05:10 PM
Nice goin' laper. Good for you too Susan.
TheSexKitten
04-10-2008, 08:58 AM
^ Might be out in SD in June...will keep that in mind.
Sweet!
youngBUTbanking
04-11-2008, 11:02 AM
I've noticed a few SW girls that are in the SoFl area but I don't think any of them work at the SC I go to everytime with my friends...
It would have to be a girl that happens to work at the SC i like....I probably wouldn't go to a different one just to see the SW girl...Awkward situation if you ask me..
but who knows...
VeraLynn
04-15-2008, 06:48 PM
Personally, I'd be flattered if someone off SW wanted to come visit me at work. It would be best if they requested.. or warned me.. however you see it.. through a PM first. But even if they just popped in, that's ok too. Just let me know you're from SW so when I see posts about how you liked my LD/VIP room/Champagne room, I know who ya were!!!!!
Personally, I'd be flattered if someone off SW wanted to come visit me at work. It would be best if they requested.. or warned me.. however you see it.. through a PM first. But even if they just popped in, that's ok too. Just let me know you're from SW so when I see posts about how you liked my LD/VIP room/Champagne room, I know who ya were!!!!!
Vera, actually I thought it was fun to approach the stage and say "Hey <insert dancer name> I'm FBR. It's so nice to meet you." Now, I understand there is potential for an awkward moment but after a nice tip...all is good.
FBR
Aubreyyy
05-01-2008, 07:17 PM
I agree with Vera, I'd be very flattered and totally oblige :)
RebeccaSolidarity
05-28-2008, 12:29 AM
i have been tempted to pop into a few of the denver clubs to meet some of the denver dancers from stripperweb. but i dont because i am not making adequate money right now to go out to those clubs and spend appropriately, and the atmosphere in some of the clubs there makes me kind of uncomfortable since i feel awkward and out of place in 'high class' environments. but i do plan on popping down to shotguns at some point (when i have money again) with my brother maybe, buy a lap dance or two from all the SW girls who work there, show off my brother, and all of that.
not sure if i would PM anyone about it though. i would probably just make a post on the pink side being all 'hey if you work there i will be there tonight so say hullo if you want' or something like that.
*shrug*
: )
UtahMike
06-08-2008, 10:00 PM
I'd love to meet a SW guy in my club!! But I think only Sh0t lives in SD.... :P
Minnow almost came in to see me once, but he ended up not being able to make it. :( Anyone else who travels through should send me a PM!
I wish I had known this when I drove through SD a year ago. Went to three clubs and only found two girls from whom I wanted a dance, and neither one of these worked out.
3-Legged Man
06-08-2008, 11:47 PM
I've often thought it would be great to meet up with one or more SW ladies in real life, but it seems that very few of them work in the Chicago area. Speaking of da great city of Chicago, whatever happened to ChicagoEditor? I just started seeing his posts coming up as a former member.
VegasPrincess
06-09-2008, 01:19 PM
^^^
He's fine, he just needed a break from SW for personal reasons.....
Is Milwaukee close enough to Chicago? Take a road trip and you can hang out with me ;)