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Flick6
03-22-2008, 03:01 AM
Why do you swing? Is your husband not good looking enough to make you happy and so you lust after other guys and girls? That is the only reason I would ever consider swinging.

Also the OP is complaining that people are commenting that men are saying women who cheat are rude and unfair, not that the wife is staying with him.

On behalf of the swingers of the world let me say that you just do not get it!

Lol, it has to do with finding your partner VERY sexy, and yourself very sexy. And lets magnify that sexiness through the lens of another body and mmm so much fun! But nothing to do with ew you're not hot enough for me!!

iluvbjork
03-22-2008, 03:19 AM
On behalf of the swingers of the world let me say that you just do not get it!

Lol, it has to do with finding your partner VERY sexy, and yourself very sexy. And lets magnify that sexiness through the lens of another body and mmm so much fun! But nothing to do with ew you're not hot enough for me!!
Eh, if i was dating a gorgeous guy I certainly wouldnt want to be with other people, much less utilize them as free sex objects.
I guess most people do "not get it," Ive heard people talking about swingers before with such disgust, and its always really sexually promiscuous people too, which I find a bit hypocritical.

Lysondra
03-22-2008, 03:20 AM
What the... why have one hot sexy guy when you can have TWO?!

Also, it's a bit rude to call someone's husband ugly.

Flick6
03-22-2008, 04:39 AM
Eh, if i was dating a gorgeous guy I certainly wouldnt want to be with other people, much less utilize them as free sex objects.
I guess most people do "not get it," Ive heard people talking about swingers before with such disgust, and its always really sexually promiscuous people too, which I find a bit hypocritical.


I think most people don't get it, or else it would be the norm instead of something else. Which is ok with me, but if they want to say it's disgusting, well they would want to have a damn good reason and have a bloody perfect sex/love life themselves. Otherwise what's their problem? are they scared the evil swingers will steal away their partners and DO THINGS TO THEM? Lol.

Oh and to the OP, I still think cheating is wrong. And I am a swinger in a currently "monogamous" relationship - due to young babies and lack of opportunities. :)

iluvbjork
03-23-2008, 01:52 AM
What the... why have one hot sexy guy when you can have TWO?!

Also, it's a bit rude to call someone's husband ugly.

because you already have one guy that you love and adore so much you wouldnt dream of ever being with someone else. I would love to find a guy so handsome and so sweet that would make me want this. Ideally i think everyone would marry someone like this? Unfortunately most people can never find a person so handsome and perfect that they want to commit to just one person. Thats why I think people swing... I know I probably wont find someone like that :-(
Also I cant give free sex to a guy who simply sees me as an object and i feel thats all swingers are, asshole jerks who see women as free sex toys. I dont care how physically "sexy" they may be, their personality is just fucked up and disgusting to me.

Lysondra
03-23-2008, 02:13 AM
Huh... are you aware that in most swinging situations the women see the men as free sex toys as well? Tit for tat and all that.

Flick6
03-23-2008, 02:25 AM
because you already have one guy that you love and adore so much you wouldnt dream of ever being with someone else. I would love to find a guy so handsome and so sweet that would make me want this. Ideally i think everyone would marry someone like this? Unfortunately most people can never find a person so handsome and perfect that they want to commit to just one person. Thats why I think people swing... I know I probably wont find someone like that :-(
Also I cant give free sex to a guy who simply sees me as an object and i feel thats all swingers are, asshole jerks who see women as free sex toys. I dont care how physically "sexy" they may be, their personality is just fucked up and disgusting to me.


I have a man so sexy and sweet that we are enough for each other for ever and ever and ever. Seriously. this is love like I never knew existed. We trust each other so implicitly that we could stimulate our bodies by playing with others without it casting a glimmer of doubt of my love for him, or his love for me.

Honestly, just because it isn't something you understand, doesn't mean that the people involved are ugly or selfish or not truly in love. It's like gay people, just because you're not gay (assuming here!!) doesn't mean that the love they feel for each other, and the sexual attraction is any less does it? I hope that you are as lucky to find someone who treats you the way my man treats me. I hope every one is. The fact that he find it hot to think of another mans cock in my mouth whilst he fucks me... what's that got to do with love? I mean yes we make romantic love sometimes, but we are also fuck bunnies wild porn stars in own own little lunch box.

kitana
03-23-2008, 04:49 AM
it isnt really that uncommon with political figures. bill/hillary, anyone?

And that ^^^^ is one of the MANY reasons I will never vote for Hillary for Prez.

Yekhefah
03-23-2008, 09:13 AM
Iluvbjork, it's fine if you don't want to swing, but you really need to watch your mouth. My partner is the sexiest, most wonderful man I've ever met and I am absolutely 100% committed to him, as he is committed to me. And every once in awhile, I love to watch him fuck because it's hot. I really don't appreciate you calling him an "asshole jerk." In my experience, it's the guys who want a total monopoly on another woman's sexuality who turn out to be "asshole jerks."

cameron_keys
03-23-2008, 09:25 AM
Iluvbjork, it's fine if you don't want to swing, but you really need to watch your mouth. My partner is the sexiest, most wonderful man I've ever met and I am absolutely 100% committed to him, as he is committed to me. And every once in awhile, I love to watch him fuck because it's hot. I really don't appreciate you calling him an "asshole jerk." In my experience, it's the guys who want a total monopoly on another woman's sexuality who turn out to be "asshole jerks."
QFT! I love my husband more then anything and he loves me. I have never been more turned on by anyone in my life. Swinging doesnt detract from that...it adds to it for us. We have wonderful friends that we have fun with, in and out of the bedroom. Theres a huge differance between sex with him and sex with anyone else. Anyone else is just physical and for fun. With him it is intimate.
Just because it isnt for you doesnt mean you get to slam it or make hideous assumptions about our relationship. Monogomy isnt for everyone...but swinging and love are not mutually exclusive. Most of the swingers we know have the strongest bonds of love out there. Cheating and jealousy dont exist for us.

kandie_kitten
03-23-2008, 05:11 PM
^I have no problem with people swinging.

I'm in a monogamous relationship, but for many people open marriages or swinging is a great option for their relationship.

It doesn't mean they love their partner any less, or think they are any less attractive. For many, it's just the idea of watching their partner get head from another chick, is a huge turn on.

For a couple who openly discusses it and decides on certain parameters, great for them. It certainly is not the same as cheating.

cameron_keys
03-23-2008, 05:16 PM
^^THANK YOU!! Cheating is DECEPTION. When both parties know and agree it is NOT cheating.

MarvelGirl
03-23-2008, 06:48 PM
ROFL, well thanks for making stupid assumptions about my husband, LOL. He's actually gorgeous and the greatest guy I've ever met, and we're best friends. I'm not sure why you seem so personally offended just because our sex life differs from yours, but that's probably something that you need to work out with your therapist, not anonymous posters on an internet forum...

Honestly, if I gave a damn about what other people thought about how I lived my life I'd have either gone insane or just broken down and conformed long ago.

cameron_keys
03-23-2008, 08:01 PM
Marvelgirl..I'm liking you more and more with every post you make!Too bad you're so far away..I think we'd get along famously!

Lysondra
03-24-2008, 09:39 AM
HOOK UP! HOOK UP!

Do eachother's husbands. 'cause that would be amusing/funny/ironic/hot.

iluvbjork
03-24-2008, 04:08 PM
I have a man so sexy and sweet that we are enough for each other for ever and ever and ever.
Then why fuck other people? I guess I am just not as horny as you people because one guy is more than enough for me.


In my experience, it's the guys who want a total monopoly on another woman's sexuality who turn out to be "asshole jerks."
I know exactly what type of guy you are talking about, the guy who wont let his gf leave the house but who cheats on her constantly. NOt all guys who want commitment are like that. Some girls WANT her guy not to be with other girls so of course its expected that SHE not cheat as well. Im not talking about guys who are hypocritical mysogonistic jerks.

Flick6
03-24-2008, 10:54 PM
Then why fuck other people? I guess I am just not as horny as you people because one guy is more than enough for me.


Well as I said originally, we have a 4 month old baby so we are lucky to find the time to fuck each other let alone any one else. And neither of us NEED to be shagging any one else. So I would say yes, you are just not as horny as us. Which is fine for you. I'm sure you enjoy yourself in other ways. But must say you are coming off as a wee bit judgmental.

cameron_keys
03-25-2008, 07:26 AM
Then why fuck other people? I guess I am just not as horny as you people because one guy is more than enough for me.
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Because some people enjoy sex with multiple people and some are happy with just one. Neither is better or worse..just different. Just do what works for you.

We rarely swing anymore..its a once in awhile thing.But it makes us happy to have the option open.

And yes,you are coming off judgmental. Just because it isnt right for YOU doesnt mean its wrong for those who are happy with it.

Lysondra
03-25-2008, 07:28 AM
SWING WITH ME. I WILL SEXUALLY ASAULT YOU FOR FREE RENT.

We had this conversation. :D

cameron_keys
03-25-2008, 07:34 AM
SWING WITH ME. I WILL SEXUALLY ASAULT YOU FOR FREE RENT.

We had this conversation. :D

And I agreed!!! Now to be able to afford the trip to Australia to be molestered by my twin!!!

Lysondra
03-25-2008, 07:45 AM
You dark haired short boobless twin... yessss.... *contemplates purchasing the ticket for Cam.....*

If I wanted to take you out... how much advance notice would you need?

cameron_keys
03-25-2008, 08:10 AM
You dark haired short boobless twin... yessss.... *contemplates purchasing the ticket for Cam.....*

If I wanted to take you out... how much advance notice would you need?

HA! Depends on what I've got booked. Sometimes a week..sometimes 6 months. I will get there eventually though...I told you,its on my bucket list!

Yekhefah
03-25-2008, 09:04 AM
Then why fuck other people? I guess I am just not as horny as you people because one guy is more than enough for me.

That's fine. Nobody here is suggesting that you should swing if you're not into it. Most people aren't into swinging. It's just that some of us ARE, and it certainly doesn't mean we love our partners any less.


I know exactly what type of guy you are talking about, the guy who wont let his gf leave the house but who cheats on her constantly. NOt all guys who want commitment are like that. Some girls WANT her guy not to be with other girls so of course its expected that SHE not cheat as well. Im not talking about guys who are hypocritical mysogonistic jerks.

That's not necessarily who I meant at all. My ex-husband was Mr. Monogamy and would never have even for a second considered cheating on me. He didn't even notice when beautiful women walked by. Anytime I brought up a sexual fantasy involving group sex or strangers or whatever else, he got offended. Eventually it got to the point where I felt that my sexuality was his property. Maybe it's because I'm just not wired for monogamy, but I don't understand why so many relationships are built around exclusivity and "all your sexuality has to be for ME ME ME." My partner and I don't swing very often, but I love that we can both enjoy sex for what it is and have fun with it.

If you don't get swinging and you don't want to do it, that's fine. Just drop the 'tude because some of us love it and we resent your baseless assumptions about us and our relationships.

RoseWhite
03-25-2008, 09:10 AM
One again Yekhefah took the words right out of my mouth.

Cheating is not okay if it's outside the bounds of what you both have agreed to, whatever that is - which could be monogamy or it could be more open. It's okay to feel betrayed when a partner violates that, you have every right to your feelings. I can certainly understand that & would feel very hurt too, were I in that position. I'm inclined towards non-monogamy now, but I didn't always feel that way.

But other people may have different guidelines than you do, and that's okay too.

iluvbjork
03-25-2008, 10:20 PM
That's not necessarily who I meant at all. My ex-husband was Mr. Monogamy and would never have even for a second considered cheating on me. He didn't even notice when beautiful women walked by. Anytime I brought up a sexual fantasy involving group sex or strangers or whatever else, he got offended. Eventually it got to the point where I felt that my sexuality was his property. Maybe it's because I'm just not wired for monogamy, but I don't understand why so many relationships are built around exclusivity and "all your sexuality has to be for ME ME ME." My partner and I don't swing very often, but I love that we can both enjoy sex for what it is and have fun with it.

If you don't get swinging and you don't want to do it, that's fine. Just drop the 'tude because some of us love it and we resent your baseless assumptions about us and our relationships.

Relationships are built around exclusivity because exclusivity is a sign of love and respect for your partner. If you love your partner you wont want to be with anyone else ever. If you only slightly like your partner of course you would want more than one. Think of it this way. You have many friends because none of your friends are "special" enough to fill you up comletely. You do the same thing with one friend as you do with the others. On the other hand you only have one bf or gf because the title of BF or GF means that that person does in fact fill you up. You dont WANT to be bf and gf with anyone else because you already have someone. Friends are people you like, BF/GF is someone you LOVE. If you like someone you want more than one. When you LOVE someone you only need ONE.

Unfortunately most people i come across while they would never say they are swingers, ironically dont believe in monogomy. I wish more people like your ex existed. It would save people like me a lot of heartbreak.

Yekhefah
03-25-2008, 10:24 PM
You sound very young, honey. I said the same things when I was seventeen because I bought the social lie. Eclusivity CAN BE a sign of love and respect, but there are other ways to express love and respect. Love is not a one-size-fits-all hat.

cameron_keys
03-26-2008, 08:16 AM
Ignore. She/he is just blatantly staring arguments in every thread.I dont have the energy to deal with ignorance.

Flick6
03-26-2008, 07:37 PM
Relationships are built around exclusivity because exclusivity is a sign of love and respect for your partner. If you love your partner you wont want to be with anyone else ever. If you only slightly like your partner of course you would want more than one. Think of it this way. You have many friends because none of your friends are "special" enough to fill you up comletely. You do the same thing with one friend as you do with the others. On the other hand you only have one bf or gf because the title of BF or GF means that that person does in fact fill you up. You dont WANT to be bf and gf with anyone else because you already have someone. Friends are people you like, BF/GF is someone you LOVE. If you like someone you want more than one. When you LOVE someone you only need ONE.

Unfortunately most people i come across while they would never say they are swingers, ironically dont believe in monogomy. I wish more people like your ex existed. It would save people like me a lot of heartbreak.

Tried hard to give you the benefit of the doubt, but I think the reason you are having trouble finding a meaningful relationship is because you are narrow minded and expect to find a cookie cut out version of a happy family. And that doesn't exist. Maybe if you pulled your head out of your arse and actually read the very insightful replies to your questions you wouldn't piss people off so much. I imagine you piss off the men in your life as much if this is the level of communication that you are using in your relationships. You seem self righteous and more that a little bit up yourself.

Considering we have all laid on the line how HAPPY we are in our relationships and you admittedly are suffering from continual heartbreak, maybe you need to rethink your approach. I don't suggest that you should try swinging, but maybe if you weren't so stuck in stone you would find happiness a little easier. But yeah, with cam on this one, you just enjoy starting trouble. Take your judgmental lonely bitterness back into your own life where it belongs.

AlexxaHex
03-27-2008, 06:32 AM
Then why fuck other people? I guess I am just not as horny as you people because one guy is more than enough for me.

"You people"? WTF does that mean?


Relationships are built around exclusivity because exclusivity is a sign of love and respect for your partner. If you love your partner you wont want to be with anyone else ever. If you only slightly like your partner of course you would want more than one. Think of it this way. You have many friends because none of your friends are "special" enough to fill you up comletely. You do the same thing with one friend as you do with the others. On the other hand you only have one bf or gf because the title of BF or GF means that that person does in fact fill you up. You dont WANT to be bf and gf with anyone else because you already have someone. Friends are people you like, BF/GF is someone you LOVE. If you like someone you want more than one. When you LOVE someone you only need ONE.

Unfortunately most people i come across while they would never say they are swingers, ironically dont believe in monogomy. I wish more people like your ex existed. It would save people like me a lot of heartbreak.

Wow - what a very narrow view of human relations. I don't necessarily feel offended by your opinion, but I am very sorry for you. I hope one day you can see that people serve different purposes and can fit a multitude of roles in another person's life. This black and white sort of thinking can really limit your scope of interaction. I think this "filling you up" thing you are talking about is bordering on codependency. No one person can be everything for you. That's really a tall order!
Some of us also have a very clear distinction between sex and love. They are NOT the same thing, although you can use sex to express love with the right person.
When I love someone, I want them to be free. I think I am very much capable of real love. Asking someone to never have sexual feelings or activities with another person EVER AGAIN would be wrong to me. Is it okay to ask that he respect my feelings by not doing x,y and z? Yes, it sure is, but I may have to search a little while to find someone who is capable of showing respect. It is not wrong to be monogamous but it is definitely not wrong to by polygamous.

beauty21queen
03-27-2008, 10:38 AM
:moon: meh

iluvbjork
03-27-2008, 12:02 PM
Tried hard to give you the benefit of the doubt, but I think the reason you are having trouble finding a meaningful relationship is because you are narrow minded and expect to find a cookie cut out version of a happy family. And that doesn't exist. Maybe if you pulled your head out of your arse and actually read the very insightful replies to your questions you wouldn't piss people off so much. I imagine you piss off the men in your life as much if this is the level of communication that you are using in your relationships. You seem self righteous and more that a little bit up yourself.

Considering we have all laid on the line how HAPPY we are in our relationships and you admittedly are suffering from continual heartbreak, maybe you need to rethink your approach. I don't suggest that you should try swinging, but maybe if you weren't so stuck in stone you would find happiness a little easier. But yeah, with cam on this one, you just enjoy starting trouble. Take your judgmental lonely bitterness back into your own life where it belongs.
I really doubt I would enjoy the company of a swinger. Seriously the only guys who are worth spending my time on would never even dream of having more than one partner. Personally cant even stand a guy who wants lots of sex with me, much less a guy who wants sex with me plus another person. To me being so horny is a horrible disgusting quality and I would never want to end up with a guy like that. We all have our limits and standards. The same way some girls here (actually most girls here) would never date a poor guy, I would never want to date a skanky guy.

If you are happy in such a relationship then either: you dont really like the guy or you have really really low self esteem/standards. Personally if i married a guy for money id be happy to have an open marriage since it would allow me to be with guys who im actually attracted to, but if i married for love why would i need to?

iluvbjork
03-27-2008, 12:07 PM
No one person can be everything for you. That's really a tall order!
Some of us also have a very clear distinction between sex and love. They are NOT the same thing, although you can use sex to express love with the right person.
When I love someone, I want them to be free. I think I am very much capable of real love. Asking someone to never have sexual feelings or activities with another person EVER AGAIN would be wrong to me. Is it okay to ask that he respect my feelings by not doing x,y and z? Yes, it sure is, but I may have to search a little while to find someone who is capable of showing respect. It is not wrong to be monogamous but it is definitely not wrong to by polygamous.
I only feel this way when I'm in a relationship with a guy who I feel is mediocre. If the guy is beautiful and wonderful then yes he can be my everything to me.
Sure sex and love are not the same thing but why have sex without love? its not fun. the whole sex with one person thing is about respect. why would you want to have sex with multiple people if you already have someone you love you can do it with? I think sex is a tad more interested than other activities you do with multiple people so you cant even compare it. Honestly if sex with multiple people is so important that you cant do monogomy then I cant respect you or even look at you without disgust, seriously that is some fucked up priorities.

zxcire
03-27-2008, 12:15 PM
Honestly if sex with multiple people is so important that you cant do monogomy then I cant respect you or even look at you without disgust, seriously that is some fucked up priorities.

HA! Honestly if being so closed-minded that you can't even look at people who differ from you without disgust is what's important to YOU, that's what's fucked up! :D

Yekhefah
03-27-2008, 01:07 PM
Well, at least the disgust is mutual.

Flick6
03-27-2008, 01:36 PM
^^^LOL, yes.


I really doubt I would enjoy the company of a swinger. Seriously the only guys who are worth spending my time on would never even dream of having more than one partner. Personally cant even stand a guy who wants lots of sex with me, much less a guy who wants sex with me plus another person. To me being so horny is a horrible disgusting quality and I would never want to end up with a guy like that. We all have our limits and standards. The same way some girls here (actually most girls here) would never date a poor guy, I would never want to date a skanky guy.

If you are happy in such a relationship then either: you dont really like the guy or you have really really low self esteem/standards. Personally if i married a guy for money id be happy to have an open marriage since it would allow me to be with guys who im actually attracted to, but if i married for love why would i need to?


One last comment before I use that lovely "ignore" feature. I never suggested you would enjoy the company of a swinger. It doesn't sound like you enjoy the company of anyone, since you are admittedly lonely and single and unable to find a partner who meets your ahem, "standards". My point was if you weren't so narrow minded and judgmental you might find a person who actually liked you. I wont bother going into the rest of your post, you are truly a waste of my typing time :)

cameron_keys
03-27-2008, 02:24 PM
Ugh...I wish people would stop quoting him/her...I put them on ignore so I wouldnt have to see that hate speech ignorant drivel.

Can someone report them so we can get them banned? I dont want to take them off ignore to do it. But seriously...every post is inflammatory and rude.

AlexxaHex
03-27-2008, 02:31 PM
I'm sorry that Bjork has such a stupid fan.

Lysondra
03-27-2008, 06:29 PM
I don't get how in one thread, bjork says you should be a prositute and get paid for casual sex and in another thread says you shouldn't have sex without love...wtf?

Lysondra
03-27-2008, 06:31 PM
Ugh...I wish people would stop quoting him/her...I put them on ignore so I wouldnt have to see that hate speech ignorant drivel.

Can someone report them so we can get them banned? I dont want to take them off ignore to do it. But seriously...every post is inflammatory and rude.

I reported them but I really think more people should so it gets more of a point across than just one person complaining about what they feel is offensive as opposed to offending the entire board.

But then again reporting clogs up the modinbox.... so... :shrug:

iluvbjork
03-28-2008, 11:15 AM
^^^LOL, yes.




One last comment before I use that lovely "ignore" feature. I never suggested you would enjoy the company of a swinger. It doesn't sound like you enjoy the company of anyone, since you are admittedly lonely and single and unable to find a partner who meets your ahem, "standards". My point was if you weren't so narrow minded and judgmental you might find a person who actually liked you. I wont bother going into the rest of your post, you are truly a waste of my typing time :)

when did i say i was lonely and single??? i am in a relationship and very much NOT lonely. wtf. just because i dont sleep with multiple people doesnt mean im lonely...
I cant find a partner who is marriage material but i have YEARS to find that, doesnt mean i wont date a guy who is cool and attractive for the time being.
Plenty of people like me, most of which dont fit even half my standards, but a few do and i have a couple guys waiting in line for when my bf and i break up. I have no clue how you figure that no guys like me. Is it because im so "close minded?" again, some guys actually enjoy monogomy so to them im not an issue. hell ive had swingers ask me out when they clearly knew that i was against having multiple partners at once.

iluvbjork
03-28-2008, 11:17 AM
I don't get how in one thread, bjork says you should be a prositute and get paid for casual sex and in another thread says you shouldn't have sex without love...wtf?

i never said you shouldnt, i just find it pretty sad, and if you do do it might as well get paid for it.
i dont have casual sex, but if youre one of the people that does i dont understand why you are doing it for free when you can bank on it. if youre going to lower your standards by that much then might as well cash in on it.

Dottie Rebel
03-28-2008, 11:31 AM
^^Go away.

Yekhefah
03-28-2008, 11:33 AM
Iluvbjork, I have news that is going to shock you. You'll probably want to sit down for this.

...Ready?

Okay.

Here goes.

Some women actually LIKE SEX. We actually enjoy it!

Shocking, I know! I hope that didn't freak you out too much.

SundayMorning
03-28-2008, 11:40 AM
Ugh, I am going to assume that ilb's posts are coming from a place of ignorance and not a place of starting more shit on a forum that has seriously had it up to here with shitstarters.


When you LOVE someone you only need ONE.

That may be the case for you but it is not a universal law. Think of it this way, bjorkie. People are complicated creatures with lots of facets to their personality. Mmkay? I love, respect and honor my husband; I find him sexually attractive and he is my best friend. But if I want to have the soft arms of a woman around me, he isn't going to be able to do that himself cuz he's a guy. With me so far? So that's an aspect of my personality, something that I occasionally need, that he is not able to provide for me. He's okay with that. He understands that he is my first, my priority, the man I have joined my life to. He comes first.

Now take that same principle and apply it to other facets of my personality. There is not just one type of person/body type/personality that I appreciate. Just because he's handsome and a good lover doesn't mean he's the only person in the world who I find handsome. What I like about having sex with other people is that sex becomes new again. I know who I am with my Hubby. I can rediscover who I am with a new person. It's a reinvention of sorts and it's a huge rush and a lot of fun. It actually makes my relationship with the Hubby stronger because I become more playful and sexual when I have a new crush. We communicate more, hide less, and are more comfortable with each other in the long run than many other couples we know, and I think a large part of that is because we know we don't have to hide things like being attracted to other people. "Open" relationship is exactly right.

*sigh* Now to see if I was just wasting my breath.

kandie_kitten
03-28-2008, 03:38 PM
Iluvbjork, I have news that is going to shock you. You'll probably want to sit down for this.

...Ready?

Okay.

Here goes.

Some women actually LIKE SEX. We actually enjoy it!

Shocking, I know! I hope that didn't freak you out too much.



Now Yek, don't lie. We all know only disgusting, morally-devoid girls, with no self-esteem, actually ENJOY sex.

Don't pretend normal girls do. That's just ridiculous.

Yekhefah
03-28-2008, 10:53 PM
Mom?! How did you find me on StripperWeb??

kandie_kitten
03-29-2008, 08:23 AM
Gosh darnit! How did you find out it was me?

Nini Nieb
03-29-2008, 10:22 AM
Now Yek, don't lie. We all know only disgusting, morally-devoid girls, with no self-esteem, actually ENJOY sex.

Don't pretend normal girls do. That's just ridiculous.

I used to have a problem with that attitude. No Sir No More ... It is my body and I do whatever I want I do see please !! Get off my back !!! >:( }:D ;D

And a great thanks to iluvubjork !! You are really great of generating/provocing good responses !! So many responses expressing what I feel like. Makes me feel so normal about my sexyality :-[ And also some responses that is just not like me. I take 'em as a free gift. Very good inspiration for me !!!

Thanks girls !! I'm not gonna name names - but you know who you are :-*

sexysunny
03-29-2008, 05:22 PM
WTF is going on here? i just read the last two pages and am finding this quite amusing that somebody can be so closed minded in this day and age. so ILB, are you a dancer? or planning on becomming one?


* ok so i just read your past posts and it seems you are. how can you judge other people so badly when you are in a profession that many people judge you yourself? how do you feel when people talk to you like a piece of shit because you take your clothes off for money? it looks like you just started dancing. either your eyes will be opened up and you will mature into a whole new world where you will look back on these posts that you have sent and cringe at the judgemental things you have said, or you won't last long at all. its a big, big world out there honey, and you have many things to learn.

TheSexKitten
03-29-2008, 06:42 PM
Hey bjorktard! Did you know humans aren't naturally monogamous? Like, literally. Scientifically, in fact. Monogamy is a social construct orginally serving the purpose of protecting from STD's (which were deadly back in the day) and ensuring paternity (contraception ftw) and that the children would be properly cared for (not necessary in today's world). THUSLY: Monogamy is technically obsolete. However, I practice it because my boyfriend wants monogamy, and my love for him is easily stronger than my urges. Props to those who have swinger lifestyles, and I'm just sorry YOU can't possibly comprehend two people enjoying sex as sex and love as love.

When it comes down to it, sex isn't about love. It's one or two (or more!) sets of genitals mashing around together to make people feel awesome.

"Oh, but we should have higher morals than animals!"

Well, we're animals. If we didn't like sex then no one would be here today.