View Full Version : AGH. Hating mens.
SundayMorning
03-28-2008, 11:50 AM
Newp. The posters that get under my skin the most are almost all female. I don't get rankled by the menfolks here, by and large, and half of my Top Posters to Stalk are guys. Don't hate 'em in real life, don't hate 'em here. If anything, it just amuses me to see the 'male perspective.'
Dottie Rebel
03-28-2008, 12:17 PM
Oh, I definitely don't hate men! I just don't want 'em in my locker room.
Crow2
03-28-2008, 12:34 PM
Good Lord, I just read Brad C's "contribution" to the WTF thread! He is a clueless chauvanist. Kinda frightening how much of a cartoon "guy's guy" he is. Maybe he needs an introduction to Heartless Bitch! >:(
Guess what Brad ... bless your heart.
I like what Pan-Dah named him. Captian save a ho. *gigglesnort*
Optimist
03-28-2008, 03:18 PM
^^^^ I love that. I fell out the first time you said that. We South Carolinians are known to toss that one out every now and again. I reckon that's one of my favorites! LOL :D
anomar
03-28-2008, 04:15 PM
what the hell? are guys trying to start threads about how unwelcome they are in the lounge because we are complaining about them in here? bleaaaah!
RoseWhite
03-28-2008, 04:49 PM
That seems to be the case, yes.
Emily
03-28-2008, 05:55 PM
Since guys can't post in here, can you ladies please not name specific members on this thread? It's not fair to the guys who can't defend themselves.
I'd delete them all myself but I'm on my blackberry at the moment. So this is official warning.
And ya, men suck. Especially men that read Ladies Only but the worst are the, "I know this is ladies only but..."
I've been lobbying for a special warning for them for extra points. :)
AlexxaHex
03-28-2008, 07:05 PM
Since guys can't post in here, can you ladies please not name specific members on this thread? It's not fair to the guys who can't defend themselves.
I'd delete them all myself but I'm on my blackberry at the moment. So this is official warning.
And ya, men suck. Especially men that read Ladies Only but the worst are the, "I know this is ladies only but..."
I've been lobbying for a special warning for them for extra points. :)
I'm sorry Emily. I'll edit my post.
Lola Rose
03-28-2008, 07:45 PM
Sorry em!
Optimist
03-28-2008, 09:13 PM
I'd edit but the button has disappeared but I'll refrain from namin' names! :D
Nini Nieb
03-28-2008, 11:36 PM
Actually, I do think most men are subconsciously jealous. 99.9% of them will deny it, laugh at me for even suggesting it, and try and come up with a somewhat intelligent-sounding rant to "put me in my place" for saying it. But if you look back at history.... why did men try and suppress women for so long? What were they so afraid of? I could write an essay on this but I don't have time. ;)
One of my good friends- who is actually a man and the boyfriend of one of the girls I work with- has some really out-there theories on this. For example, he believes that God is a woman (because women create life, therefore God would be a female creator as well) and that men are built the way they are- physically strong- so that they can be slaves and bitches to women! I don't know if I'd go that far but it's really funny to hear him talk. It's rare to find a man who truly believes women are superior in every way. He worked in a strip club for years and after observing the way they work, instead of degrading the women and tearing them down like that tool at catharticlament.com, he came to the conclusion that men are the idiots and women are the smart ones, dancing around naked and taking their money.
Sorry, this has nothing to do with the men on SW, just had to share. :)
Interesting theory !! Maybe even with some thruth in it !?
Gandhi once said:
The women of today can make the same money as most men and still they are sitting on all the pussy ...
Most marginalised men - I suppose - are very intimidated by that fact. Of course they would not admit it.
Starfire
03-28-2008, 11:58 PM
This shit makes me so mad too. There are certain members on here (like someone mention djoser, I like his posts a lot) that are IN the industry and understand, have something useful to contribute, and don't condescend to us. But they are very FEW.
A lot of the rest of the guys on here, I picture like that lame old guy (every club has this customer) that comes in every single day, drinks water, won't buy the girls a drink, tip on stage, or buy a dance, but wants to talk to you about why you should "smile on stage" and about how "you girls make too much money" and other rude/critical stuff, like giving you "life advice" and shit. GIVE IT A REST!!!! I get enough of this shit at work, sometimes on here its like :banghead:.
scarlett_vancouver
04-02-2008, 09:06 AM
Gandhi once said:
The women of today can make the same money as most men and still they are sitting on all the pussy ...
...
I would love it if Ghandi said that.
I like about half of the menfolk here. The other half drive me bonkers. But it's the same for the wimmins.
RoseLeigh
04-07-2008, 09:25 PM
I was so unhating for a few days there...and now...:medusa:
jasmine
04-08-2008, 05:26 PM
^^I'm having a major case of avi-lust. :flirt: :heartbeat :worship:
jaizaine
04-09-2008, 02:21 AM
Most of the regular men on SW don't bother me tbh. But there are a few who piss me off badly. I have not hidden my contempt for him either but lots of ladies seem to like him for some reason. Must be the whole treat em mean thing or something.
Of course they read LO. Prob masturbate over it too - gross!
I actually feel more hostile towards non industry females who come on here. Im suspicious of them. Civilian women just piss me off most of the time - ITC and on SW. The whole "we think you're awesome" bullshit that I don't really believe most of the time.
Strippers, retired strippers and those intending to be strippers are really what this site was about. Now it does seem like customerweb ::) and most unfortunately A PLACE TO TRY TO SCORE STRIPPER PUSSY.
jasmine
04-09-2008, 06:19 AM
^^I'm totally with you on the non-industry people. I think there are maybe 1 or 2 that I like. The rest really piss me off. Most non industry women have a very bad impression of dancers and I am always on guard around them. Here, we should be able to relax and not worry about being judged. That's why I come here.
If people in my day-to-day life find out I was a dancer, it nearly always causes some kind of negative reaction. The women may try to sound open-minded and supportive and give this really tight smile while saying how "great" they think it is that I didn't have a ton of student loans, but later if I get within 15ft of their husband or SO they act like I'm going to attack.
One girl acted all freaky jealous at a party, when I was sitting on my husbands lap and being a little to kissy for public. This was just because when her hubby said hi to us, I said hi back. RIDICULOUS! Another couple that we've went clubbing with knows and she is always intimidated no matter what I want to wear. I always have to change to get her to stop comparing us and acting so insecure. Once we get there she keeps track of every guy who tries to talk to me and whines all night about no one hitting on her. We are there with our hubby's, to have fun, not get accosted by freakin strangers.
/end rant
cutey5032
04-09-2008, 07:41 AM
If people in my day-to-day life find out I was a dancer, it nearly always causes some kind of negative reaction. The women may try to sound open-minded and supportive and give this really tight smile while saying how "great" they think it is that I didn't have a ton of student loans, but later if I get within 15ft of their husband or SO they act like I'm going to attack.
One girl acted all freaky jealous at a party, when I was sitting on my husbands lap and being a little to kissy for public. This was just because when her hubby said hi to us, I said hi back. RIDICULOUS! Another couple that we've went clubbing with knows and she is always intimidated no matter what I want to wear. I always have to change to get her to stop comparing us and acting so insecure. Once we get there she keeps track of every guy who tries to talk to me and whines all night about no one hitting on her. We are there with our hubby's, to have fun, not get accosted by freakin strangers.
/end rant
OMG, you nailed it!! :lmao: This is exactly what always happens whenever me and my man go out with a group that includes non-stripper women (usually his friends' girlfriends). Oh yeah, can't forget the side glances, or when you try to be friendly to the girl and start a conversation, she is visibly nervous for some reason like she's talking to a crazy person. Ugh.
RoseLeigh
04-09-2008, 09:36 AM
They totally do read this! And un-named Chat-er from last night said something to me about how I "hate my target demographic". LOL Woo-I'm THE manhater of SW. ;D
Yes the non-stripper women can be annoying too! Especially since a number of them are NOT customers, just linger-ers. The is one big exception who manages to be mostly sane and understanding and also doesn't lend her 2 cents everywhere, which is cool. Otherwise-argh.
cutey5032
04-09-2008, 09:52 AM
^Oh yeah, she is pretty awesome :)
AznExtasy
04-09-2008, 10:50 AM
Woo-I'm THE manhater of SW. ;D
I will gladly share that title with you, in fact, I'm also considering getting a similar avatar.
RoseLeigh
04-09-2008, 03:20 PM
I will gladly share that title with you, in fact, I'm also considering getting a similar avatar.
Awesome. }:D
jaizaine
04-09-2008, 06:20 PM
^^
yeh your avatar rocks hehe.
jaizaine
04-09-2008, 06:21 PM
^^I'm totally with you on the non-industry people. I think there are maybe 1 or 2 that I like. The rest really piss me off. Most non industry women have a very bad impression of dancers and I am always on guard around them. Here, we should be able to relax and not worry about being judged. That's why I come here.
If people in my day-to-day life find out I was a dancer, it nearly always causes some kind of negative reaction. The women may try to sound open-minded and supportive and give this really tight smile while saying how "great" they think it is that I didn't have a ton of student loans, but later if I get within 15ft of their husband or SO they act like I'm going to attack.
One girl acted all freaky jealous at a party, when I was sitting on my husbands lap and being a little to kissy for public. This was just because when her hubby said hi to us, I said hi back. RIDICULOUS! Another couple that we've went clubbing with knows and she is always intimidated no matter what I want to wear. I always have to change to get her to stop comparing us and acting so insecure. Once we get there she keeps track of every guy who tries to talk to me and whines all night about no one hitting on her. We are there with our hubby's, to have fun, not get accosted by freakin strangers.
/end rant
yeh they really do think we are just going to grab every man in the room or something. what i think it is, is that they know their man knows we are a stripper and THEY know that conjurs up some sort of ideas/fantasies in their man's head so they get all defensive and insecure.
xoxoGracexoxo
04-10-2008, 04:54 PM
I don't find I really mind the mens so much. They're like comic relief to me at this point...somebody has to have a stupid opinion I can totally disagree with. And some of them are nice. BUT
Shouldn't they be doing great, manly things like taking huge shits or jerking off?
Fucking. Love it.
AlexxaHex
04-10-2008, 11:33 PM
hehe I was at work tonight and a guy was going on and on about how some dancers hate men and he would only get a dance if I actually liked men. I was laughing internally, while basically lying through my teeth. "How could I possibly hate men? Especially nasty strip club men! They are teh sexy!"