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Katrine
03-21-2008, 07:41 PM
He is considering doing it now, after my non-stop bitching and complaining. Earlier he let me know he's thinking I "deserve to get fucked in the ass." Hahahahaha, that's EXACTLY what I'm looking for!

murdock
03-21-2008, 07:53 PM
^ jealous!

ivygrl
03-21-2008, 08:17 PM
I like it - not sure if I love, love, lurve it...but I can get off on it.

most of my experiences have required lots of lube...
and one dp that required a bit of vodka beforehand...

I second the motion that the pooping sensation goes away if done right. I think when I enjoy it it's because I'm getting off on being a dirty girl.

bellasera
03-21-2008, 08:45 PM
For those of you that love it- is there a learning curve of sorts? Is is like a practice makes better type of thing?

masala
03-21-2008, 10:20 PM
love it when i am in the mood for it

best orgasm i ever had

Flick6
03-21-2008, 11:21 PM
For those of you that love it- is there a learning curve of sorts? Is is like a practice makes better type of thing?

IMO yes. If you play with the anus and stretch those muscles, then it gets easier and easier to put things in there. Maybe start out with massage, small dildo or beads and work up to a cock. I think the biggest problem is ,most boys have no fcking clue unless they are into assplay themselves, then they tend to be a little more sensitive!!! And understand the need for lube. Lol.

Besides when you think back to losing your virginity - didn't it take a while before you worked out how to orgasm having vaginal sex? Anal sex is the same but its waaaay tighter and doesn't self lubricate.

Nini Nieb
03-21-2008, 11:54 PM
It's even rarer for me to find another person that likes anal tongue action.

Interesting! I had an ex say "How come those porn stars don't complain and you complain about it hurting?"

I love when my bf do that to me. It feels sooooooooo good :P A warm/wet/soft/slow tongue up my ass :-[ I also like it when he is fingering me ever so gently. I think I owe him some good anal lurving !? And I know it :D

You are right ! Most anal/porn is so lame. Even more lame is that some guys believe it >:( I don't mind having fun w/ porn but porn and reality is two different things.

bellasera
03-22-2008, 09:01 AM
Besides when you think back to losing your virginity - didn't it take a while before you worked out how to orgasm having vaginal sex? Anal sex is the same but its waaaay tighter and doesn't self lubricate.

ahhhh! Yes it did. Thanks, I guess I'll give it another go around.

Darcy Foxx
03-22-2008, 09:26 AM
"yeah, I'm a fucking dirty bitch, revenge fuck me in the ass!"

that is one of the greatest things i have ever read.

cameron_keys
03-22-2008, 12:24 PM
porn and reality is two different things.

QFT!!

muladoll
03-22-2008, 08:23 PM
Hated it for years. Now love it with the right man, but not always. Helpful hints:

1) Lots and lots of lube. This cannot be overemphasized!

2) A good tonguing and fingering first (he needs to show you he really loves your ass rather than just fucking it)

3) It helps when you can control the insertion process rather than having him ram it up there himself.

4) Being completely relaxed. It helps when you push out while he's inserting as opposed to tightening up. A small hit of pot can get you there quickly.

5) If you don't want to and you're not relaxed, DON'T DO IT.

6) LUBE, LUBE, LUBE, you can never have enough.

For me it's still a bit uncomfortable for the first couple of minutes. Like menoned above that pooing sensation. After the first couple of minutes it's awesome, intense and can actually orgasm pretty hard.

Fionaver
03-22-2008, 08:29 PM
Reach around. And go sloooow at first. That's the trick for me.

I absolutely love it. One of the only ways I'll get off.

evilladybug
03-22-2008, 10:00 PM
i just did it for the first time last weekend and i loved it.

Indira
03-23-2008, 09:06 PM
I LOVE it! I agree with all the suggestions. you have to be really horney and it most def helps if you go slow..just a little at a time at first. A buzz(alcohol) can help to begin with. My fav position is me on my knees. I am too chickenshit to try it in any other position. Allthough we have been doing it for years I do remember one time when it hurt really bad and I bled. Not sure why that happend after years.

My prob with anal is that it feels so damn good that I cum supper fast and then it doesn't feel good.

One thing that feels awesome with anal is warming KY liquid.

cameron_keys
03-24-2008, 11:04 AM
OK..so I havent been sleeping lately(damn generic sleeping pills..I hate them!). So I took 2 last night so I could freakin sleep(yes, my dr said thats fine).

I remember vague blurry images...but I had anal sex and it wasnt bad. Sucks for hubby(who loves it..mostly because I wont give it up most of the time so its like our last taboo!)but he was SUPER happy! I believe I took it all too and I'm not even sore today.

Hooray for Ambien making hubby happy!

VegasPrincess
03-24-2008, 12:07 PM
^^^^

My boyfriend also claimes that we had ass sex once when I was really drunk and that it was awesome....but this might just be him bullshitting me into thinking I like it haha.

dollparts
03-24-2008, 01:03 PM
I'm a HUGE fan of anal. It hurts in a good way for me, and is usually a lot more comfortable than vaginal so far.

Practicing with a small butt plug may help you a bit if you are open to that.

hehehaha
03-25-2008, 09:11 AM
wow, most girls loves it? i m still a anal virgin, too scared to try

ivygrl
03-26-2008, 04:04 AM
OK..so I havent been sleeping lately(damn generic sleeping pills..I hate them!). So I took 2 last night so I could freakin sleep(yes, my dr said thats fine).

I remember vague blurry images...but I had anal sex and it wasnt bad. Sucks for hubby(who loves it..mostly because I wont give it up most of the time so its like our last taboo!)but he was SUPER happy! I believe I took it all too and I'm not even sore today.

Hooray for Ambien making hubby happy!


sedatives and booze do work wonders when giving up the booty. it also feels much dreamier and sexier somehow...

glittersparkle
03-26-2008, 04:29 AM
wow, most girls loves it? i m still a anal virgin, too scared to try

I love it as well, was a little weird at first but now I orgasm the hardest up the bum :)

hehehaha don't be scared and give it a try and remember, make sure you are relaxed, lots and lots of lube and go slow!

Darcy Foxx
03-26-2008, 05:08 AM
wow, most girls loves it? i m still a anal virgin, too scared to try

six weeks ago i was president of a club we started at work called the V.A.C (virgin ass club) and had never had anal because i was terrified of it.

then i got really wasted, gave it a go, and in six weeks i've been ATM'ed, DP'ed, and purchased some anal beads. i'm like anal porno queen now. i love it.

Nini Nieb
03-26-2008, 05:34 AM
Any one has some practilly advice for a newcomber ??

How do you prepare to avoid accidents ??

What is the best newcomber position ??

If I may ask ??

Darcy Foxx
03-26-2008, 05:42 AM
i found that the best position at first was laying on your side with him behind me. it was good because he'd had lots of anal experience so knew exactly how to do it without hurting me and went very slow and really guided me through it.

half hour later i was getting assfucked like a pro ahaha.

AlexxaHex
03-26-2008, 12:27 PM
The hand full of times I've tried it have been with different guys, all of varying experience levels and penis sizes. Each time I've been drunk or on drugs, and I don't think I'd ever do it again. It didn't do much for me.

Vyanka
03-26-2008, 12:30 PM
I can't say either. Haven't been mastered back there. Maybe if I met someone who was good at it. I tried it once with an ex. & it just took way too much time to even put a small toy in there. I bled a bit. I have a small tight butt hole. haha

Laylalust
03-26-2008, 01:10 PM
I am not a fan. I did it quite a bit with one of my exes because he loved it and it wasn't terrible but I never enjoyed it. I tried it again recently with a different guy and couldn't tolerate it. I don't know if he was just too big or I was tensing up but meh. It's just not pleasurable for me. I'll do most other things though. :)

MixedBabe88
03-29-2008, 08:45 PM
Fun if done correctly.
LUBE.

AlexxaHex
03-29-2008, 09:32 PM
Sarah Silverman: [on anal sex] He's, like, trying to sell me on it being "natural". I'm like, "Um, first of all - doody comes out of there, ok? And second of all - fucking doody comes out of there." I don't need two reasons when doody's involved.

Daisa
03-30-2008, 01:49 PM
Here I am!! Do I even have to say it? My boy just doesn't like to do it though, he tried a few times but I just can't get him to want to do it. He thought about doing it to me when we had a fight the other day, and I was encouraging him, saying, "yeah, I'm a fucking dirty bitch, revenge fuck me in the ass!" But alas, no dice.:-\

My hubby would be in absolute heaven if I were to ever say that to him. He loves anal. I've tried it only once, and while I do have a high pain tolerance, and it wasn't that bad...well, I can't say that I loved it.

LoveComesFromWithin
04-02-2008, 12:59 PM
umm mines starts to bleed everytime. even when my poop is too big. it hurts!!!!!!

Zinaida
04-02-2008, 02:15 PM
I've only had one guy get it in. If the guy's dick is the right size sure, but if it's big, get the hell away from me. That's not going in ANYWHERE.

Attention men: Not all women like big dicks!

Perry
04-02-2008, 02:28 PM
I love it when I'm drunk.

Desiree
04-02-2008, 03:26 PM
This thread made me horny. }:D

With the right partner, it is the best effing thing there is in the world. Love it love it love it love it!!!!! It takes a few minutes to get everything lubed up and relaxed, but if you have a patient, loving partner, it can be the best orgasm you ever have.

ivygrl
04-02-2008, 08:22 PM
I love it when I'm drunk.

vodka sure helps me get ready for it...:D

TheSexKitten
04-02-2008, 09:33 PM
I've only done it a few times, and funnily enough, NEVER to completion! Once, I loved it. A different time, it was alright. The rest of the times, it was lame and we washed up and went back to vaginal. :)

The bf is very indifferent about anal. He says my pussy is so nice anyways, why even bother? :D


However, regarding my porn tastes, anal is a must. OMFG anal is awesome. SLightly sadistic anal. Definitely not what I'm into in a real life setting though, haha.

Nini Nieb
04-03-2008, 01:46 AM
i found that the best position at first was laying on your side with him behind me. it was good because he'd had lots of anal experience so knew exactly how to do it without hurting me and went very slow and really guided me through it.

half hour later i was getting assfucked like a pro ahaha.

Thanks !!! In that position both people seems able to relax. Which is obviously a good thing. Letting time takes it's course ...

What about the missonary position ?? Is that a good position ?? Angle-wise ?? There is a lot of good eye/contact and verbal communication in that position :)

Any other good positions ??

maryjade
04-06-2008, 07:55 AM
I've only done it a few times, and funnily enough, NEVER to completion! Once, I loved it. A different time, it was alright. The rest of the times, it was lame and we washed up and went back to vaginal. :)

The bf is very indifferent about anal. He says my pussy is so nice anyways, why even bother? :D


However, regarding my porn tastes, anal is a must. OMFG anal is awesome. SLightly sadistic anal. Definitely not what I'm into in a real life setting though, haha.

OMG. I have the same reaction to anal porn. And like you, I'm really not into getting it in the rear myself, has never been a great experience. But when I see some girl getting really pounded back there, and hurting a little (not a lot, just enough), especially if the guy is pulling on her hair, it just turns me on something fierce.

Why do you think that is? Is it sort of like rape fantasies, where you never would really want it but the idea is interesting? I'm perplexed.

The mind is such an interesting place.

Jenn1981
05-08-2010, 02:15 PM
I was searching thru the threads on anal sex and my new boyfriend(been together a month) is all about the a$$. Licks, grabs, you name it.
He has a pretty big dick. Not the biggest ive had but the second biggest definitely. Ill go with 9 inches. Its average in its thickness.
Anyways ive only had anal once with an ex of mine who was on the smaller side. I took a percocet, drank, had the lube, and I sat on top and controlled it. After the initial few minutes i was in HEAVEN.
We broke up a few days later. Anyway, this was like a year ago and now Im in a new relationship with someone who just happens to love anal sex.
He always comments on how tight i am, both vaginally and anally. I think its cause I hadnt had sex in like 4 months so things got tight. No complaints here!
Anyway, like i said he is on the larger side. I am kinda scared to attempt it. All i remember was loving it but that guy was smaller. :(
I wish penises could inflate/deflate depending on the purpose!

sxcbbw
05-08-2010, 02:25 PM
^Don't worry about it! That won't help ;)

Being super chill will - let him know, make him give you backrubs after a long bath, and about 3 hours of foreplay. I mean even if he is too big, that's totally worth trying! ;D

Jenn1981
05-08-2010, 02:43 PM
hah for a backrub alone id try it :)
Im just afraid hes gonna be too rough. I like rough sex dont get me wrong. but not in that area!!

ShanFla
05-08-2010, 03:14 PM
Love it, Love it, Love it. I'm a total buttslut....

The only thing that makes it absolutley more wonderful than it already is a good long DP and getting high and then having my ass drilled from behind doggy style.

Whew, on that note, where is my husband !!!

jennsweet
05-08-2010, 03:27 PM
can't stress enough how much i LOOOOOVE it.... but gotta be in the mood. i like it doggy, best. but i can really get off on missionary or on top. feeling that cock in and out plus something on my clit sends me through the roof. the orgasms are hard to explain, they are more intense. but, if you plan on trying it, there is prep involved so you can do it like a pro. douche before and make sure you're fresh out of the shower. and i agree with above^ the first few times can be painful, and give you "i wanna poop" feelings, but with experience, those feelings go away. you don't know what you're missing until you try:) :)

pussyinboots
05-08-2010, 04:18 PM
Hate Hate Hate Hate HATE it.

I bled. For a full freaking DAY. And it was excruciating, despite the fact that we went slow, working with fingers, then small toys, then penis--complete with lots of lube.

I will never try it again.

I'm with you 110%!!

I absolutely LOATHE it with a passion. I tried it with my husband when I used to get totally smashed...I 'poo'd' on him and ached for days. Then I tried it with my husband when I got sober.....and almost threw up all over the bed.

I really, really do NOT miss it at all.....and thankfully, neither does he!!

Zinaida
05-08-2010, 11:28 PM
Not my cup o' tea at all, which is odd considering I can make my asshole gape. TMI I know haha

Kellydancer
05-08-2010, 11:53 PM
I tried it once because an ex wanted to and it wasn't enjoyable. I might consider trying it again if I was in a serious relationship, otherwise no. Oddly, most of my exes weren't into it at all and never brought it up.

Miss Svea
05-09-2010, 09:56 AM
only tried it once...actually twice.
first time, i was tripping on acid (in my wilder days..lol!) and for some reason was begging the bf for it. we went super slow, lots of lube, and it was painful but very pleasurable. the next day though...boy was i in pain, walking like i had a...well, you know ;)
second try was one day in the shower with the same bf, we decided to try it...however, water is a terrible lube, and washes real lube away, suffice it to say the tip going in made me shreik and jump and that was the end of that.
been too scared to try it since, must have been about a year ago now. this thread sure is inspiring though :)

Jenn1981
05-09-2010, 10:44 AM
Well I decided to start with an anal plug. I went to the sex boutique near my house and was lookin for anal beads but they were all sold out!! So i decided on an anal plug. I wish now i got a slightly bigger one but this one is really nice. it looks like its made out of silver (obvs. not) but its super smooth and just glided in with the lube that came with it.
it has a little handle so u can turn it inside u which felt amazing.
I still dont think im ready to handle this guys penis yet but i would like some suggestions on what other anal toys i can buy. I never actually used anal beads but a friend of mine says they are awesome. Any suggestions??

jennsweet
05-09-2010, 03:05 PM
^smooth is key. you should aways warm up with this silver one first to get urself ready for the next size up. and you'll surprise yourself with how you WANT to feel bigger and bigger plugs. but def stay away from ribbed or latex vieny things bc you can tear ur ass up. and thats no fun, take it from me! beads im not really a fan of, so if you like this plug, stay with plugs...just inch up in size slowly and enjoy~

papillonluvr
05-09-2010, 05:43 PM
I did it for the first time with my husband-and to my surprise I actually enjoyed it! lol

To be honest, I have a hard time orgasming with him, but him doing me anal, plus a vibe on my clit-omg. I was shocked. Hurt though like immediately after I came-I had to push him out.

Question-is it okay to have him cum inside w/o a condom? I was paranoid and made him finish outside...

jennsweet
05-09-2010, 07:43 PM
I hate it... ive done it, and it just hurts ...

its okay to hate it... it's just not for you.