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jennsweet
05-09-2010, 07:45 PM
I did it for the first time with my husband-and to my surprise I actually enjoyed it! lol
To be honest, I have a hard time orgasming with him, but him doing me anal, plus a vibe on my clit-omg. I was shocked. Hurt though like immediately after I came-I had to push him out.
Question-is it okay to have him cum inside w/o a condom? I was paranoid and made him finish outside...
i KNOW RIGHT!! the vibe on the clit is way intense! is you question about coming inside about pregnancy?
and yes, after you orgasm, your ass is in no mood anymore... so save the orgasm until the end, like when he's about to cum
papillonluvr
05-09-2010, 08:23 PM
^^ no, not pregnancy...it just seems weird to me...it's stupid, I know, but still...I think I'm just being dumb about it lol
sxcbbw
05-09-2010, 08:57 PM
The boy really likes it if I have a slim vibe up there while he's in the back - the wall between the two isn't thick enough to cancel out the vibrations! ;D
Hmph, gotta wait til Tuesday to get any, grrr..
jennsweet
05-09-2010, 09:43 PM
The boy really likes it if I have a slim vibe up there while he's in the back - the wall between the two isn't thick enough to cancel out the vibrations! ;D
Hmph, gotta wait til Tuesday to get any, grrr..
same here sweety! he says its amazing, if the anal wasn't good enough on its own... he says my whole ass softly vibrates too. we really love it bc its really amazing for both of us. and YOU are putting me in the mood! lol, i'm craving it now!!
jennsweet
05-09-2010, 09:45 PM
^^ no, not pregnancy...it just seems weird to me...it's stupid, I know, but still...I think I'm just being dumb about it lol
no it's fine for me anyway, sometimes he comes in, and sometimes out. there is never anything thats happened, obviously when he comes inside, you probably go to the bathroom after:) but its safe.
sxcbbw
05-09-2010, 09:50 PM
Jizz or no jizz, I have always got to fart afterwards. And I have some crazy farting complex so I run away to the bathroom, toot, and come back.
laurcon
05-09-2010, 10:38 PM
hah for a backrub alone id try it :)
Im just afraid hes gonna be too rough. I like rough sex dont get me wrong. but not in that area!!
Wow really? You've been dating this guy for a month and you're ready to give up your asshole?? For a dude that doesn't even rub your back?
I think you should hold out for a bit, make him wait for it and earn it!
sxcbbw
05-09-2010, 10:40 PM
^Hell to the yes. I say he makes dinner as well.
jennsweet
05-09-2010, 11:20 PM
^i agree... anal is a privilege
ShanFla
05-10-2010, 06:00 AM
Ok, if I had any doubt before, now i know I'm a total buttslut. This thread got me so worked up and i just had to wake up and post this.
Last night we take the harley out and hit a bar with a friend of my husband. Get toasted, and go back to the house. I decide to get "dressed" and get on the pole in our dance room.
Unfortunatley, i just had a cyst lanced on my vag, so even if i wanted to, I can't do straight sex, ( I wanted a DP sooooo bad..) So after about a half hour of dancing to Kaskade's - Love Mysterious ( what a great cd to dance and fuck to....) I decide to stick my ass in both of their faces and they take turns fucking me....OMG talk about fun, cant wait till they wake up.....
I'll let ya know what happens when they do......
sxcbbw
05-10-2010, 06:45 AM
^Jealous rage, COMMENCE.
I'll get over it tomorrow when my dude's over. I doubt he'll mind!
jennsweet
05-10-2010, 08:28 AM
ugh... this thread is getting nice and steamy:) Shanfla... you're making me horny!!!!
sxcbbw
05-10-2010, 08:33 AM
Y'all are hoes, I'll have no part in this sordid debauchery.
Except I totally will, on ANY FLAT SURFACE I CAN FIND tomorrow. ;D
papillonluvr
05-10-2010, 08:36 AM
^^ u girls are all crazy. lol ;)
ShanFla, I wish my hubby was cool with that kind of stuff, but he can be soooo jealous! grr.... So I make do with vibes and him. Oh well...Ill just keep with my fantasies.
jennsweet
05-10-2010, 09:34 AM
Ok, if I had any doubt before, now i know I'm a total buttslut. This thread got me so worked up and i just had to wake up and post this.
Last night we take the harley out and hit a bar with a friend of my husband. Get toasted, and go back to the house. I decide to get "dressed" and get on the pole in our dance room.
Unfortunatley, i just had a cyst lanced on my vag, so even if i wanted to, I can't do straight sex, ( I wanted a DP sooooo bad..) So after about a half hour of dancing to Kaskade's - Love Mysterious ( what a great cd to dance and fuck to....) I decide to stick my ass in both of their faces and they take turns fucking me....OMG talk about fun, cant wait till they wake up.....
I'll let ya know what happens when they do......
~i've never tried DP... i've done it with two guys before (hottest night EVER) but never double pen. you said you CRAVE it, which means it must do something for you. i must try it sometime.....but honestly im scared, i dont wanna break lol
jennsweet
05-10-2010, 09:35 AM
Y'all are hoes, I'll have no part in this sordid debauchery.
Except I totally will, on ANY FLAT SURFACE I CAN FIND tomorrow. ;D
LMAO (we want details... )
Jenn1981
05-10-2010, 02:08 PM
Yes I think Ill stay with the silver plugs. The smoothness of them feels really nice.
And i dont plan to actually HAVE anal sex with this guy for at least another month or two. Im easing myself into it.
I never even thought about the whole cumming inside your ass. I guess it doesnt really matter, seems like it would be a little messy tho after the fact, haha.
ShanFla
05-10-2010, 02:20 PM
^^ u girls are all crazy. lol ;)
ShanFla, I wish my hubby was cool with that kind of stuff, but he can be soooo jealous! grr.... So I make do with vibes and him. Oh well...Ill just keep with my fantasies.
He's not the jealous type when it comes to this kind of fun. I guess he figures we only go around once, so have fun while you can.
So, i just woke back up from our night of debauchery. And find myself at home alone, the guys took the bikes out again. I just sent a text to my hubby thanking him for another great night and then ask him when I can get a little DP action.
He responds with this,
As soon as you're up for it, we'll be up for it. Luv ya, you little slut....
I'm grinnin from ear to ear.......Wednesday night bike night at hooters.....looks like it's gonna be a fantastic night!
KS_Stevia
05-10-2010, 03:31 PM
Used to love it. Now I hate it. I was one of the huge "fans" earlier in this thread a few years ago. Strange how time changes everyrhing. I still fantasize about it, but not in a hurry to do it again.
I guess its because, after many years of doing it right, my ex asked for it too much, and I conceded even though it hurt terribly. And there was a little accident once...fortunately he didn't see it. But I did, and it scarred me.
No more, no more.
Alice Sorbet
05-13-2010, 03:11 PM
Make sure everything's clean down there, and it can feel quite glorious and lovely. ^^ There's a variety of anal douches and stuff to purchase here and there like that that will help. I use a special shower attachment on the end of the hose in the tub. Proper anal sex should NOT hurt or be at all unpleasant. Personally, I can't get enough of it! (and have been training myself for years now. *wink*) If it's not totally clean inside though, yeah, it'll hurt a lot and you won't like it no matter how slowly or gently it goes.
Proper lube is key, of course, too. Crisco has a beautiful drag to it if you use just a little and go nice and slowly. Also the thicker, jelly lubes are the best to use 'cause they're so much more comfortable and have less tendency to sting. If it stings more than you think it should, give the enema another go and wait for an hour. Then try again. The water or solution should come out completely clear and clean when you rinse. (for any number of reasons!!!) Otherwise no matter what you do, it won't be fun.
I hope that some of you will feel a little more adventerous with it after reading through this thread. It truly is worth the effort to do it properly. ^^ Nothing's for sure with this kind of thing though, and sometimes it just won't happen. So if it's not working out, try again in a day or two. It's like if your first experience with sushi was at a restaraunt that was notorious for parasites and poor preparation. 99% of people who've had sushi this way for the first time clearly never want to try it again, right? But if your first experience is at a high class sushi restaraunt, then you'll be far more inclined to make a second visit, right? ;) Approach the idea that way and see where this wonderful road will take you. Because it truly is just that - wonderful. *dreamy sigh*
- Alice
P.S. Practice gently masturbating with yourself and small things like smooth pastic pens and things like that that you can easily train yourself with and become familiar with the new sensations and your own limits before you share this with your partners. Go larger as you feel you're able to.
ShanFla
05-14-2010, 07:02 AM
Ok, so I gotta post, wednesday night was not what I expected at all. He (hubby) surprised me with a harley of my own! I get home wednesday and he's got a few friends over and we go to leave and there's a bike i havent seen before, surprise! it's mine. Nice little 883 sportster in yellow. OMG I'm like no fucking way! I've wanted a bike so bad for so long! So we all ride to hooters and after more than a few shots and a few (well i'm gonna leave that out) i wisper in one of his friends ear that I want him and my hubby later (which causes him to grin a wicked evil grin) and he of course is up for it!
As it turned out night got late and we all decided to hold off till sunday! I guess my hubby already mentioned to his buddy my intentions....So, not only did he tell his buddy, but he also knew which one I would want. A+ for a great hubby! Looks like sunday night i'm gonna get nailed big time! I'm taking extra time to prepare!
Yipee!
jennsweet
05-14-2010, 07:53 AM
you slut^^^^ that sounds SOO fucking hot!! ~im jealous lol:)
papillonluvr
05-14-2010, 03:56 PM
I guess its because, after many years of doing it right, my ex asked for it too much, and I conceded even though it hurt terribly. And there was a little accident once...fortunately he didn't see it. But I did, and it scarred me.
No more, no more.
I am so scared of this too...
ShanFla
05-17-2010, 06:35 AM
Ok, follow-up. I totally got nailed! Whew, what a weekend.....early Sat night, hubby takes the vette in for a flat tire, while he is out, he sets up a surprise visit for me. I answer the door and (our friend) comes in and basically, fuckin rapes me in the front hallway. Fucking hysterical part is hubby is pullin in the driveway as his buddy is leavin through the front door. The look on everyone’s face was priceless. Hubby goes out for the rest of the night, and leaves me home to play with myself till I have to go to the club. By the time I got to work, I was so damm wet hot, I almost considered doin a regular. But knowing what was going to happen next kept me sane......
So, next night, the 3 of us hit the hard rock, blow 195.00 on blackjack, get hammered and go back home for an awesome 3 way. And yes, I got my DP, and some! I wound up a cum drenched mess! I can’t wait to do that again!
I’m pretty sure we are all going to straight to hell
jennsweet
05-17-2010, 12:06 PM
^you make me wet:)
ShanFla
05-17-2010, 01:44 PM
Yea, it was fuckin major hot! Only problem is I can't seem to get out of bed today. I swear they fucked the life right out of me. Never really felt this worn out, but it's sooo good.....
prettysammie
05-18-2010, 11:27 PM
I used to hate it, but after I was with a guy who really knew what he was doing I started to love it. I try it with every guy I'm with, and if he's good at it, I ask for it all the time.
I always wanted to try DP but I'm a little scared and never have had the chance. It's part of my whole unhealthy gangbang fantasy that I just can't seem to make go away.
Avery90
05-19-2010, 12:40 AM
Numbing lube is supposed to work wonders just as long as you use it right.
sxcbbw
05-19-2010, 12:41 PM
^It's also REALLY dangerous. You won't feel if anything goes wrong.
If your man is doing it right, going at your pace, and you are relaxed and swamped in lube? It will not hurt. But if you're all numbed up, he could accidentally hurt you really badly! :(
bluelight
05-19-2010, 12:47 PM
Prefer to vaginal sex. Anal is where my heart lies <3
jennsweet
05-19-2010, 12:51 PM
^i feel the same way... :)
Victoria669Jones
05-19-2010, 01:51 PM
I like anal too but don't do it often. My gay friend said he knows loads of guys with haemorrhoids from doing it all the time!
papillonluvr
05-19-2010, 05:07 PM
hah I have hemorrhoids from having a kid, not from anal. They still hurt though
mediocrity
05-21-2010, 02:24 PM
Big no go over here. It's one of my only three Hell Nos. I told my husband over my cold dead body.
That being said I applaud you ladies who can and do love it- I just can't get behind it. No pun intended. ;)
Jenn1981
05-23-2010, 08:44 PM
well my man just got back from a mini vacation and we dirty sext(text sext) alot and he is so about the anal as ive said. i think this week when i see him we were gonna do a toy in the ass as i ride him. weve done it before and i love it. i am huge fan of the DP. sometimes ill grab his fingers for a tripe penetration, haha, kinda silly but he thinks its hott. i like the idea of all of me filled up at once.
as for the actual anal,....its gonna take time. ive practiced with my toys this week but its not really that enjoyable without out him watching me.
alexa111
05-28-2010, 12:03 PM
Love it! So much that my camming name is alexalovesanal Lol! I find it easier then reg sex sometimes, my pussy tends to get sore easily, so doing anal all day on cam is way better for me ;)
stripperchic
05-28-2010, 08:00 PM
What about accidents? Messes? Poop problems? Anyone ever had that. I had a friend who loved it then she changed her mind. When I asked why she said they were going at the anal and ge pulled out and had shit in his dick, this terrifies me!
mediocrity
05-28-2010, 08:07 PM
^^ OMG.
That and I have a serious fear of infection ( I get UTIs from my own period blood, hence why i can't wear pads) because of my severe kidney and bladder disease. The whole downstairs arena is pretty delicate. I just can't imagine.
GrlWithTheMost
05-29-2010, 08:00 AM
I had some pretty good anal sex last night.. 1st time in a VERY long time... We were doing it, and I was on top, and just COULD NOT, for the life of me, get off.. So I said stick it in the butt bay.. Then hes like wait, babyoil.. Lubed his wienie up and we went to town... HAHAH... I Just wanted some kinky, mind blowing ass secks.. :D
ShanFla
05-29-2010, 12:44 PM
Thatta girl !!!;D
ShanFla
05-29-2010, 12:46 PM
What about accidents? Messes? Poop problems? Anyone ever had that. I had a friend who loved it then she changed her mind. When I asked why she said they were going at the anal and ge pulled out and had shit in his dick, this terrifies me!
Just make sure to rinse well, douche..not alot of water just enough to rinse anything out. Lot's of people dont do this and the results are well....not sexy!
jennsweet
05-30-2010, 02:11 PM
^ya agreed, you must prepare!!! "anytime anal" is not a good idea.
jennsweet
05-30-2010, 02:12 PM
Love it! So much that my camming name is alexalovesanal Lol! I find it easier then reg sex sometimes, my pussy tends to get sore easily, so doing anal all day on cam is way better for me ;)
i wish i could watch you "hard at work" :) i'd take it all day too, but just bc i want to, not bc my pussy gets sore.
alexa111
05-30-2010, 09:32 PM
^^ Lol! It's so nice to know im not the only girl who can't get enough anal haha. Most girls I talk to hate it!
inThePine
05-31-2010, 06:49 PM
Ok, follow-up. I totally got nailed! Whew, what a weekend.....early Sat night, hubby takes the vette in for a flat tire, while he is out, he sets up a surprise visit for me. I answer the door and (our friend) comes in and basically, fuckin rapes me in the front hallway. Fucking hysterical part is hubby is pullin in the driveway as his buddy is leavin through the front door. The look on everyone’s face was priceless. Hubby goes out for the rest of the night, and leaves me home to play with myself till I have to go to the club. By the time I got to work, I was so damm wet hot, I almost considered doin a regular. But knowing what was going to happen next kept me sane......
So, next night, the 3 of us hit the hard rock, blow 195.00 on blackjack, get hammered and go back home for an awesome 3 way. And yes, I got my DP, and some! I wound up a cum drenched mess! I can’t wait to do that again!
I’m pretty sure we are all going to straight to hell
I reeeally hate you. And by that I mean because I am so freakin jealous of you right now. That is such an ultimate fantasy of mine, and I would definitely join you guys in hell if that's the kind of stuff that takes place! }:D
I have done anal a couple times, and I think it actually feels pretty good once you get a good rhythm going. I don't think I will ever make it a frequent thing because it does hurt a lot, but it's nice every once in a while. I just can't let them come inside me, I let my ex bf do it once on his birthday and I had the shits for the rest of the night!
Double penetration is also a huuuge turn on for me. I would love to try it irl.
jennsweet
06-01-2010, 07:31 PM
^^ Lol! It's so nice to know im not the only girl who can't get enough anal haha. Most girls I talk to hate it!
I CAN'T get enough! nothing is better than a guy who knows what he's doing too... i like it rough, deep, and my clit getting rubbed.
~thats better than pussy anyday.
I don't want to scare off the BF if i told him all that, i don't wanna sound like a freak lol :)
and you are right, most girls i talk to can't stand it... too bad for them bc they'll just never know!!!
Kitten Foster
06-04-2010, 02:12 AM
i have a really bad relationship with my ass.
My first experience with anal was when when boyfriend accidentally rammed his dick in my ass while we were fucking drunkenly. It was the most excruiting pain i've ever felt- which is pretty bad considering i ride horses and have been thrown through fences, broken bones, run over, etc. My ass bled for a day.
A year later, i tried it again. This time, we went very slowly, but for some reason i was just freaked out the whole time. We finally got to the point where he was thrusting a little, but i had to stop before he was done.
I have tried it probably 30 times since then. Most of the time, he doesn't even get it in all the way before i make him stop. I'm fully relaxed, but it just feels horrible. Like i have to poop, lol. How can that be sexy?
Has anyone gotten over this? I know i'll probably never enjoy it, but i'd like to be able to tolerate it for my boyfriends sake. For like, a birthday gift or something. But i can't shake the poop feeling- its just so not sexy lol.
it's not just you. Trust me. Don't let him do it.
GrlWithTheMost
06-05-2010, 12:02 PM
You have to be REALLY, REALLY wet and horny.. We do anal doggy style, he lubes up and then he puts it in slowly while he rubs my clit .... Mind boggling.. I dunno Ive just been crazing ass secks so much lately... We did it twice this week lol :D
KS_Stevia
06-05-2010, 12:12 PM
What about accidents? Messes? Poop problems? Anyone ever had that. I had a friend who loved it then she changed her mind. When I asked why she said they were going at the anal and ge pulled out and had shit in his dick, this terrifies me!
I think this was one of the main reasons I began to hate it. Fortunately my BF didn't see it, but when he pulled his dick out, there was a little poopsicle that flew onto the bed. I nearly became ill..immediately wrapped it up, cleaned it off and threw it into the wash.
But still I've been doing it for 10 years and that was the first accident. I've given myself enemas before, but not for the most part. I would just say no if my tummy wasn't feeling well. In the case of the accident, we were drunk, so I couldn't tell. I am not a squeemish person but still get the willies thinking about it.
No more anal for me. I'll just keep it in my fantasies. ;)