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Jenn1981
08-02-2010, 11:25 AM
Ok well I STILL have not tried it. But its on for this weekend(thats the next time ill see my bf). Im nervous tho. UGHH. Im gonna at least attempt it tho.
If it hurts too bad I can always stop.

JessieBoo
08-02-2010, 12:05 PM
I <3 anal sex. If you can get used to it it will def spice up the relationship so much!

Jenn1981
08-02-2010, 02:15 PM
I am really a down for anything type of girl. Me and my bf have really hot sex. I wanna add anal to the list i just gotta get over the fear of pain.
Im just gonna do it.
Anyone recomend anal ease? i know some girls do and some dont.

Harleigh HellKat
08-02-2010, 02:26 PM
Funny thing, I'v heard you can put anal ease on your feet if your shoes hurt them. Other than that, I'm clueless. No buttsecks for meh!

shasta
08-02-2010, 02:28 PM
Wow, it should not be a powertrip position at all. It can be a great experience. when they can get all the way in he should reach around and play with you clit. Amazing!

jennsweet
08-02-2010, 07:28 PM
anal ease is not a good idea IMO. if it hurts, covering it up doesnt fix the problem, and when that wears off, all the pain is there again. if your BF knows what he's doing and starts out really slow, fingers, small toys, 5-10 min of warm up.... PLENTY of spit/ky, your ass will be ready to accept any cock! it might hurt a little at first, but with him rubbing your clit, it will begin to feel incredible with NO pain at all... so again, no anal ease is needed if he does his job right. :)

Jenn1981
08-03-2010, 07:35 AM
^^i think he knows what hes doing. Hes had it with like all of his past girlfriends (we tell each other way too much!) Anyways thanks Jenn, i got the toys, the lube, so i think im ready to take the plunge

jennsweet
08-03-2010, 08:17 AM
its SOOO rewarding when done right. a lot of girls in here try it once and say they'll never do it again. close minded imo, it just wasn't done right. girl........the orgasms that you can get from anal are unbelievable.

JessieBoo
08-03-2010, 11:26 AM
its SOOO rewarding when done right. a lot of girls in here try it once and say they'll never do it again. close minded imo, it just wasn't done right. girl........the orgasms that you can get from anal are unbelievable.


I agree def! I've had some great orgasms just from anal. It's also great seeing the look on guys face when you tell them you want that instead of regular vaginal sex.

Jenn1981
08-03-2010, 03:56 PM
I remember having the most intense orgasm of my life about 5 yrs ago when one of my exs was going down and me and had his finger in my butt. ill never forget that feeling. unfortunately i have not had it since, but heres hoping :)

JessieBoo
08-03-2010, 07:57 PM
I remember having the most intense orgasm of my life about 5 yrs ago when one of my exs was going down and me and had his finger in my butt. ill never forget that feeling. unfortunately i have not had it since, but heres hoping :)

I love it when they add a finger in the butt during some oral sex }:D

Harleigh HellKat
08-03-2010, 08:25 PM
This is totally off topic but man I had some really great unconventional sex tonight. Basically, I was on top and he told me not to move... so we finished each other with our 'muscles'. No thrusting or whatever. We were totally still except for kegel/groin muscles. I've done this before but never orgasmed from it. OMG! Best ever! Just the anticipation....

justmadethisup
08-05-2010, 01:37 PM
my bf keeps asking me and i'm terrified...i have a few questions...

what are the chances of tearing? if it does happen how long is the healing process?

how do i make sure its clean enough? i would be so embarrassed if he pulled out his finger or penis and there was boo boo on it lol

i am just absolutely terrified of the pain...

Jenn1981
09-01-2010, 02:54 PM
Finally did it.
It was somewhat enjoyable. Im anxxious to do it again!

jennsweet
09-01-2010, 03:28 PM
keep experimenting... TRUST ME:) try having a few glasses of wine on those nights too... not drunk, just a nice sexy buzz.

Jenn1981
09-07-2010, 03:15 PM
I tried it twice now. I am definitely liking it more now.
:) Glad I was able to suck it up and go for it!!took me months~!

HustletteDiva
09-07-2010, 10:01 PM
Love Anal Sex!!! But can not do it if the guy has a large dick......other than that it is on like donkey kong......;D

KS_Stevia
09-08-2010, 12:37 AM
Been doing it waaaaaay too often with the new guy. I guess the asshole does get used to it. No problems with incontinence though, we use mad lube.

Also, the sphincter does have its own lubrication, but its not nearly as much or effective as the vagina. It helps in pushing feces though. Just saying, that Straight Dope article isn't completely accurate.

Its nice that he isn't that big, although he thinks he is. What's up with guys thinking they have big dicks when they are just average? We were talking about anals recently and I told him I didn't want it in my recent long relationship. I almost added, "he was so huge it really, really hurt always" but refrained. You know how guys are about their cockles....

jennsweet
09-08-2010, 06:05 PM
:) did you have a orgasm yet while he's fucking you anally?

missmayes666
09-08-2010, 07:32 PM
ill never do it again. it was not pleasurable in anyway...the only thing good about it, i can let whom ever im fucking cum inside me and i cant get pregnant.

jennsweet
09-08-2010, 08:31 PM
u can get preggers if the wall is torn.

georgia_peach
09-08-2010, 08:52 PM
I've tried anal sex and using a plug, and I can't just can't get used to the feeling. Anal sex is not for me.

I can certainly see how some guys could use it as a power trip, but I don't think it's always about it. I mean, typically the anus is tighter than the pussy and you probably have more control over those muscles than vaginal muscles. I think it's just a different kind of pleasure that guys don't get from regular sex.

she sells sanctuary
09-09-2010, 04:00 AM
^ eh. if i finger myself vaginally and flex, my finger is staying put. if a dude needs a tighter fit than that, there is something very wrong with him. and i definitely have good muscle control. i doubt my inexperienced ass could come close to what my pussy's learned to do.

i'm sure there are other reasons it could be fun (at least for some people), but if a guy tries to tell me he wants it because it's tighter, i'd tell him to get the fuck away from me if he doesn't think my pussy is tight enough.

Naida
09-09-2010, 05:24 AM
It's hit and miss for me, but when it hits- FUCKING LOVE IT.

Just gotta have the right "mojo" going for it, I guess.

jennsweet
09-09-2010, 08:31 AM
ya i agree, it's a mood thing. i've had nights when i just can't relax... and we never get it going. some girls get that feeling once, and say that anal is terrible. I get those nights every now and then, but ^ you're right, when it hits, it fucking HITS!

jennsweet
09-09-2010, 08:35 AM
^ eh. if i finger myself vaginally and flex, my finger is staying put. if a dude needs a tighter fit than that, there is something very wrong with him. and i definitely have good muscle control. i doubt my inexperienced ass could come close to what my pussy's learned to do.

i'm sure there are other reasons it could be fun (at least for some people), but if a guy tries to tell me he wants it because it's tighter, i'd tell him to get the fuck away from me if he doesn't think my pussy is tight enough.

the guys ive talked to about it (bc i wonder why it drives them all nuts) say that its a feel thing and a mental thing... like its hot bc its wrong and taboo... bf right now says he likes the "loose" and softer feel. i think guys dont know what the hell they are talking about half the time, but from my exp, anal is not tighter for them, its just different.

missmayes666
09-10-2010, 01:36 AM
u can get preggers if the wall is torn.
actually i dont think thats true (correct me if im wrong) because number 1 if the wall was torn, toxins from my large intestines would get in to the vaginal canal and cause major infections. number 2, the body constantly repairs itself. the intestine outer layer is surrounded by cells. between the cells is muscle which is tough tissue to rip. you would have to rip through several layers of tissue.
however if the cum drips out the ass, it can leak into the vagina...so you got to be safe with it cause nt only could you get pregnant but you will get infections too
im an anatomy dork

jennsweet
09-10-2010, 05:12 AM
the first half of your response is saying its not true, and the second half is saying its true, so i'll let you figure that one out!

she sells sanctuary
09-10-2010, 10:33 PM
the guys ive talked to about it (bc i wonder why it drives them all nuts) say that its a feel thing and a mental thing... like its hot bc its wrong and taboo... bf right now says he likes the "loose" and softer feel. i think guys dont know what the hell they are talking about half the time, but from my exp, anal is not tighter for them, its just different.

see, that i can definitely believe.

and yeah, men are definitely pretty clueless about women's bodies a lot of the time. remember that whole "like throwing a hot dog down a hallway" thing that was popular for a while. a girl could be a total slut, but if her body is built to accomodate a baby (however painful that can be) and be tight again afterwards with some kegels, there's no way that fucking even a million dicks could make her pussy "loose". if a woman is described as "loose" it's referring to her morals, not her anatomy. hell, if she's fucking that much and actually participating in it, she's probably giving her kegel muscles a good workout. maybe if i starting slutting around, i could make my pussy so tight i could crush dicks into diamonds. how cool would that be?

back to the ot, i've never had anal sex, but i've used toys in my ass before. and that feels awesome. they were smaller than most dicks and didn't move very much, though, so i'm not sure if that's any indication of how i'd like anal sex. i'd like to try it if i ever find a guy i trust enough. i've cum so hard with toys there, but once i came they had to come out. i was done with the butt, and once i was done altogether. so if that is an indication of how anal would feel for me, i'm gonna end up having to tell a guy that he needs to gtfo and go finish himself off in the shower, because i'm gonna go to sleep now. lol.

missmayes666
09-11-2010, 12:17 AM
the first half of your response is saying its not true, and the second half is saying its true, so i'll let you figure that one out!
well it is a little contradictive, i was referring to the part where you said "if the wall was torn..." not being true that it cant happen fromt there

jennsweet
09-11-2010, 07:53 PM
just read any safe sex articles... they all say the same thing, it's "possible" to get pregnant, even if its against the odds

tempest666
09-21-2010, 01:12 PM
I like it, I love it, I want some more of it!

Jenn1981
09-23-2010, 02:21 PM
I would imagine the ass is tighter than the p*ssy!
My p*ssy is pretty tight tho from what ive been told. And i can do my kegels real well to make it feel even tighter. but i still think my ass is way tighter as its only had a d*ck in it 4 times now total ;)
I defiintely am liking it more and more. BUt i have noticed i need to be in the mood for it.
Like i have to be super horny, and we need to use toys first, his fingers and lots of lube.(alcohol and maybe a vicodin always help as well for relaxing)

jennsweet
09-24-2010, 12:57 AM
^totally agree... its like sometimes you just WANT it! other times, it just hurts... BF is ALWAYS in the mood though, so it works out for the 2 of us. you're right on the drinks too. i get in the mood after a bottle or 2 of nice red wine. have you had anal sex and orgasmed togther yet? i've never had such big orgasms in my life... :)

MissShy
09-24-2010, 01:36 AM
I like anal. No its not for everyone...if you tear your ass btw its not like a major hole and poo is gonna get in your vag ladies a tear means a cut or abrasion. If poo is going in the vag via the wall I would be more concerned with death than pregnancy lol

Anyway, a drink or two to relax and set the mood. Get into doggy, rub the clit get some lube anf have him finger you. Get past that thought of your gonna poop its not gonna happen unless you push! Have him just sit as you try to back into...before you know it you will be bucking on it like a mechanical bull!

Good luck

KS_Stevia
09-24-2010, 06:37 PM
Get him to toss your salad for a long time. And lots of astroglide. And have clit stimulation the entire time. And a few drinks but not too many!

princessjas
10-16-2010, 01:21 AM
One thing I'm sorta vexed about lately....I do MUCH better with anal if I have a few drinks before hand.....but I'm sick of riding the drunk bus and am now attending online AA meetings (there aren't any within a 2 hr drive here). So, not sure how this is gonna pan out. I could stick to just beer, I'm never tempted to over-indulge unless it's vodka, but *gag* beer breath is freakin nasty (and wine is a bit too much to my liking, although I've not had an issue there, I'm concerned about the possibility)!

JenniKat
10-19-2010, 10:33 AM
I have issues with anal sex. I had an ex who was too well endowed who would basically rape me whenever he wanted sex, and especially if he wanted anal. I think he mostly did it because he liked to hurt me. I finally left him but every time I try anal with a guy I can't help but think of him. I'm hoping after enough other guys that it'll erase the memory.

prettysammie
10-19-2010, 11:23 PM
I don't know if I've just been getting hornier or what, but for some reason I'm really starting to like it.

Tasha_xoxo
10-20-2010, 12:17 AM
i love it.
the first time i tried it,,it was with a toy,,
and that fuckin hurt bad. i didnt want try it again.
but i did anyway [still w/a toy.] curious to see if id warm up to the idea.
and i ended up lovin it.
my man wont try it though,,says hed never fuck a girl in the ass.
he just isnt into it,,sucks.

SamanthaLasVegas
10-20-2010, 08:42 AM
I personally LOVE anal sex!!! Like Jen1981 said... I have to be really turned on to really enjoy in my "booty". I'm into very aggresive sex and find that anal satisfys me on a different level. I think with the right person who understands your body and anal sex (and isn't just trying to "stick it in the other hole") it can be very sensual and fun.

laurcon
10-22-2010, 09:34 AM
I have issues with anal sex. I had an ex who was too well endowed who would basically rape me whenever he wanted sex, and especially if he wanted anal. I think he mostly did it because he liked to hurt me. I finally left him but every time I try anal with a guy I can't help but think of him. I'm hoping after enough other guys that it'll erase the memory.

Wtf! That sounds horrific! I obviously can't believe you stayed with him after the first time, but I'm sure you hear that all the time. I'm proud of you for finally leaving and taking the right steps towards a healthy happy life.

I think you should probably stop having anal sex. I don't understand why you still are?

I haven't done it in 5yrs and certainly haven't missed anything. My long-term SD will even give me 10k to do it, but I just don't want to.
So I'd suggest maybe just laying off the anal for a few years until you're in a loving serious committed relationship and really want it yourself.