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Golden_Rule
03-21-2008, 09:03 AM
hahahah see none of those things work. i don't know his address, he lives in a different city, i don't have any way of accessing his house or his car... basically all i have is the information that i let his best friend stick it in my butt before him
I've got it. Scratch "SHITHEAD" on his car the next time its parked in front of the club.
And when the parking lot cameras show it was you who did it, rejoice in having had your revenge as the the local police invite you down to their work place to receive a second invitation to court for criminal mischief.
Look... my point is simply this. All things have repercussions. The old ying-yang thang. If you decide to do something to get even just realize you are apt to be putting yourself in the grist mill in the process.
Seriously though, I wish you all the best. Pain is fleeting. It will subside. Sooner rather than later if you allow your mind the ease of letting it go.
-EOM-
velvet
03-21-2008, 10:00 AM
i would tell him. why not? make yourself feel better and move on. i've been waiting for karma to catch up with quite a few people and it hasnt. so what if it's immature or whatever. if it helps you move forward and get better i say do it!
virgoamm
03-21-2008, 10:17 AM
I agree with this 100%. Easier said than done though. If I were in your shoes, I'd be thinking the same things you are. :-\
This is what is likely to happen.
She sends the message. The text message is kept and shown to everyone within the same circle as proof positive that she is a sleep around slut [I'm NOT saying you are Darcy Dear, just that is how it will be portrayed]. That is the way they will spin it as the story gets told to everyone she knows within that group.
Darcy then deals with the repercussions of having her own words used against.
Like I said, karma.
You reap as you sow, Baby. Let the seed he's sown be his problem to deal with. Don't create drama of your own that may very well come back to bite you in the ass. :)
Paris
03-21-2008, 10:29 AM
I marked "no" Darcy, but not because it wouldn't be super funny. If you do something like this, he wins. He will know that his absence is bothering you so completely that you are now obsessed. (It may be true, but you should hide this fact from him)
Stop entertaining the idea of taunting him. The best revenge is to pretend that he doesn't exist. Have a nonchalant attitude toward him as if he means nothing more to you than some celebrity that you had a crush on.
Now that^^ will bug the shit out of him. The opposite of love is NOT hate BUT indifference.
Then go make a voodoo doll of this guy and do what you will to it. It can be eerily weird how those things will really have influence on the cosmos. And it will make you feel better to stab the doll in the heart repeatedly;).
kitty69
03-21-2008, 10:32 AM
I know he hurt you Darcy, but I get the feeling that he will probably get over it quite quickly and then in his own mind turn it round that you were the one who is in the wrong. Don't give him the ammo and let him portray you as someone who is easy (not that I am saying you are, but he will).
The best way to get revenge is to move on and get your life on track. I had a bad break up and it kills my ex to see me cos he isn't happy in his life.
To be honest I couldn't care if his dick was made of gold and he shit diamonds because I am so happy in my new life with my new(ish) bloke.
Darcy Foxx
03-21-2008, 12:18 PM
under the influence of a lar ge group of my friensf i may have done somet hing a li ttle bit silly whilt e4 durnk tonigh t
i cant t upe proeprly cfos im drunik and i feel over on some glass and have a massive bandage on m hand
basically the asshole and the friend bot h havbe thesame name. i may have accidfentally on pu rpose sent a message to the asshole meant for the friend. if he's smart enough to underst and it.... i think the damange has been done.
i dont egne know. so fdrunk. too many e's tonighnt . fucvk.
Awww... yes... alcohol made me do some really crazy shit to my ex, and him right back at me. Like I said, I learned my lesson.
Golden_Rule
03-23-2008, 10:48 PM
Oy vey. ::)
Miss Jessica
03-26-2008, 12:16 AM
Then I have a killer idea for you:
Buy the video game "The Sims 2". Make a sim of him. Torture the sim to death.
Here are some detailed instructions.
http://www.wikihow.com/Kill-Your-Sim-in-the-Sims-2
LMAO! That's an adorable idea. Sounds kinda fun actually. ;D
Darcy Foxx
03-30-2008, 09:57 AM
well i guess nothing came from the text i sent when drunk.
the friend is back from florida and was sending me drunken texts at 5am trying to get me to let him come to my house and fuck me. i don't think he'd be doing that if his friend had asked him about sleeping with me.
interesting....
fancygirl
03-30-2008, 10:00 AM
^ do not fuck him.
other than that, how're you feeling?
Darcy Foxx
03-30-2008, 10:03 AM
the friend? why not?
Darcy Foxx
03-30-2008, 10:03 AM
oh, and i've actually been feeling pretty okay since i sent that message. maybe i just needed to feel like i got revenge in my own mind, i dunno. i've stopped crying myself to sleep every night over him and stopped checking his myspace every day, so i guess that's a good sign.
fancygirl
03-30-2008, 10:09 AM
^yes! find a new fuck buddy tho. too much potential drama.
VegasPrincess
03-30-2008, 01:50 PM
^^^
How's your hand?
threlayer
03-31-2008, 08:49 AM
I say, get over it and move on with your life. This is too much like high school drama with more than the usual sex thrown in to liven it up.
Apparently you don't mind starting fights between friends to satisfy your need for revenge. Remember it takes two to fight, not just the guy you hate.
My first reaction is what Ms. Keys said earlier.
The guy probably already knows and they laugh about it together. That's what friends are for, sharing pussy.
Any guy who would lie that much to somebody he supposedly cares about probably won't be hurt by this revelation anyway.