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Golden_Rule
03-31-2008, 04:19 PM
I don't really get them. I've never tried. But do you just insert the whole thing up there and just pull? I don't find shit all that sexy, rely.:-X

Corey, there are an lot of nerve endings in the area around the sphincter muscle. Some also enjoy the feeling of pressure. In men, appropriate pressure and stimulation to the back/top of the prostrate gland can greatly intensify orgasm [male "G" spot]. It can even cause auto-ejaculation, where ejaculation takes place with no specific sexual stimulation and no erection.

Golden_Rule
03-31-2008, 04:24 PM
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i pretty much need to have this

I love having sex with my Lovely Lady using something like this inserted in her anus while penetrating her vaginally. A DP without needing a third. :)

And my being able to feel the vibration in her vaginal canal [VV-vibrating vag... BRILLIANT!] is absolutely awesome.

We both enjoy it immensely.

Golden_Rule
03-31-2008, 04:39 PM
::)
Well, GR, I see that you're accustomed to having the last word. However, if you're going to make sweeping generalizations (i.e., "A serious problem which arises from watching standard anal porn, where the actresses have all had enemas to clean themselves out before the scene. It makes it look so clean and pretty") in writing, stand by them--or at least acknowledge your judgmental tone.

The discussion is on going and appears to be no where near the last word, so how you think I am seeking it is sort of beyond me.


IMO, you're blowing smoke by asserting that: "All I said was that it isn't all neat and pretty like you see in your standard ass play porn [where I suggested, perhaps, the OP I responded to got her idea of what anal sex is going to look like]..."

Errrr.... No. ;D I am correcting a misconception you have about the nature and intent of my earlier comment. Since it was my comment I think I just might have the best perception regarding what I meant by it.


I reiterate: "Dude, anal beads predate enemas and "standard anal porn" by centuries..."

Are you a pornophobe, GR? :soapbox:

No. Though much porn bores me due to its lack of imagination and creativity I am certainly not anti-porn in any way.

Why are you so wound up? Some things that get discussed around here are rather important. This isn't. It is a light hearted convo, or at least it seems such on the part of most people involved in it [including myself] on enjoyable effects of the use of anal beads.

Why don't you get your beads and have a little fun with your partner and if you don't like what I have to say on this topic simply ignore it if you wish. I promise I won't take offense.

Wishing good sex and happy times. Be well.

Golden_Rule
03-31-2008, 04:41 PM
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i don't like the sound of this one though... :o

Oh my.

Definately for the more advanced class.

I wouldn't dare bring that within a mile of my Lady Love. :) {ouch}

kitkatkawaii
03-31-2008, 08:00 PM
any ideas for a beginner? The boyfriend and i just started messing w the anal play. if its just stuff on the outside, i fully enjoy myself but anything further than that and most times i tense up and its no good. Maybe nervous somehow or something? I was pondering some "self exploration" on the matter to figure out my likes/dislikes so that maybe i'll be able to relax & enjoy when im in the mood w/ him. Curious where to start on this one. Would you start w/ beads? or is there some other more beginnerish toy to try first?

Golden_Rule
04-03-2008, 10:16 AM
any ideas for a beginner? The boyfriend and i just started messing w the anal play. if its just stuff on the outside, i fully enjoy myself but anything further than that and most times i tense up and its no good. Maybe nervous somehow or something? I was pondering some "self exploration" on the matter to figure out my likes/dislikes so that maybe i'll be able to relax & enjoy when im in the mood w/ him. Curious where to start on this one. Would you start w/ beads? or is there some other more beginnerish toy to try first?

Self-exploration, to determine your likes and dislikes, is a marvelous idea.

Try using a very small, short, butt plug during masturbation. One that only enters you enough to stay in place while you are up to other things. If its shaped right [a little bulb at the tip] that is only about an inch or so.

If that seems to much try stimulating yourself with a small vibrator outside and around the area of the sphincter while seeking self gratification and see if that increases your pleasure.

You'll soon figure out what is right for you.

I wish you well with it and may great joy and satisfaction come your way. :)

kitkatkawaii
04-04-2008, 06:27 PM
yay! thanks <3 so much wonderful info to be found on this site! :goodvibes lol