Indira
03-29-2008, 07:47 PM
So far men in my club have been far more respectful than men outside the club
Anyway the reason could also be that women arent into men who would never give them a chance outside the club giving them dances and lying to them? Could be that....but if you think women enjoy being seen as tricks and enjoy being made fun of behind their backs like male customers are, w/e. i personally would not feel comfortable getting a dance from a male stripper because id be wondering the whole time if he thought i was ugly and if he was disgusted dancing for me. then if i got turned on i would feel bad for getting turned on by a man who thinks nothing of me and only wanted my money. men seem to be able to cope with being ugly and unwanted way more than girls do. afterall a lot of men dont mind being used for only their money... i dont get why. thats why so many men flaunt it.
I don't know about others here, but I do not look at most men who come in the club as disgusting. I don't look down on them and make fun of them. I love men and try to see their good points and not their flaws. Dancing has taught me took seek out the positive in a person and focus on that. Now if they are assholes then ofcourse I'll think badly of them and warn the other dancers. Futhermore, 9 out of 10 times, I love doing table dances. The customer and I have a lot of fun. I also know many a dancer myself included who have dated and even married guys who have come in to a SC.
As to the original question, I think they like the sensuality and the seduction. Some just like the T n' A - straight up.
Anyway the reason could also be that women arent into men who would never give them a chance outside the club giving them dances and lying to them? Could be that....but if you think women enjoy being seen as tricks and enjoy being made fun of behind their backs like male customers are, w/e. i personally would not feel comfortable getting a dance from a male stripper because id be wondering the whole time if he thought i was ugly and if he was disgusted dancing for me. then if i got turned on i would feel bad for getting turned on by a man who thinks nothing of me and only wanted my money. men seem to be able to cope with being ugly and unwanted way more than girls do. afterall a lot of men dont mind being used for only their money... i dont get why. thats why so many men flaunt it.
I don't know about others here, but I do not look at most men who come in the club as disgusting. I don't look down on them and make fun of them. I love men and try to see their good points and not their flaws. Dancing has taught me took seek out the positive in a person and focus on that. Now if they are assholes then ofcourse I'll think badly of them and warn the other dancers. Futhermore, 9 out of 10 times, I love doing table dances. The customer and I have a lot of fun. I also know many a dancer myself included who have dated and even married guys who have come in to a SC.
As to the original question, I think they like the sensuality and the seduction. Some just like the T n' A - straight up.