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hardkandee
04-28-2008, 11:15 PM
LR - that really sucks. And I have to agree with you. You brought up some of the very reasons I decided not to do the latest exchange. :-\

VenusGoddess
04-29-2008, 04:53 AM
Can someone please link me to the thread where LunarObverse claims he's broke and can't send me a gift??

You know what pisses me the fuck off?? I can't even work in Canada, yet I still managed to send my bunny a gift. And he sent me a message on Elfster on April 1st claiming to have sent it. So not only is he a FLAKE, he's a LIAR.

Fuck he couldn't even message me himself? No class. This really shows me how much the site has gone downhill. This is supposed to be for STRIPPERS. This guy managed to accumulate 1400 posts since he joined in August, how??? There's only a few places he can fucking post!!

I doubt I'll be on much in the future, but most of you know how to get ahold of me thru myspace. Msg me if you don't have it.

This is why these PL's should not be on here. Totally unacceptable behavior.

I can't find his post, LR...I'm thinking he deleted it...but he most definitely posted that he couldn't get you anything because he had a bunch of stuff happen and didn't have any money and would send you something...eventually.

What a shit head. I can't believe he said he sent it. He was probably hoping you'd think it was lost in the mail and all...but he probably forgot he said that and spewed the truth without thinking (hence why he deleted his post). It was literally a few posts above yours (before it was deleted).

Not only does he have a shit load of posts (most ass-kissing, it looks) but so do some other PL's that have joined within the past 6 months. If you look at their posts, it's all ass-kissing, as well.

Get rid of the fucking PL's and maybe more dancers will actually stay/keep posting.

I'm so sorry LR. That was really, super shitty.

ETA: I think a mod deleted the post. I replied to his post and I know a couple of others did, as well...and all of the posts are gone...

SundayMorning
04-29-2008, 09:22 AM
Geez, this seems a little harsh. Could we take it down a notch or take it to PMs or something? LunarObverse is known and liked IRL by several members here, which to me is plenty of affidavit and reason not to get all "angry mob" on him. I mean, yeah, flaking sucks. My person said they were sending their gift too and it never came, but I'm not calling for tar and feathers. Plus he is the FIRST GUY who flaked out of all the guys who have participated--compared to how many dancers who flaked?

I'm disappointed in him, sure, but I'm way more disappointed in the reactions here.

LatinaRose
04-29-2008, 09:59 AM
Sunday you've only been here since September. You have NO IDEA what we're talking about when we say guys like him have made this site less desirable for other members.

I would have gladly handled this in PMs if he had the grace and the courtesy to contact me himself. Instead I find out what happened on here in the public forum. So I choose to deal with it on here in the public forum. Not that it should be any concern of yours.

VenusGoddess
04-29-2008, 10:48 AM
Geez, this seems a little harsh. Could we take it down a notch or take it to PMs or something? LunarObverse is known and liked IRL by several members here, which to me is plenty of affidavit and reason not to get all "angry mob" on him. I mean, yeah, flaking sucks. My person said they were sending their gift too and it never came, but I'm not calling for tar and feathers. Plus he is the FIRST GUY who flaked out of all the guys who have participated--compared to how many dancers who flaked?

I'm disappointed in him, sure, but I'm way more disappointed in the reactions here.

Flaking would be one thing, but to tell someone one thing in PM and then post a totally different thing online? And not contact the person?

Lame-o.

Must be nice to not be so jaded by all the PL's that have flocked to this site thinking it's more of a poontang pick up site than a site for strippers. And then have the gall to get upset when we tell them to get out.

Anyone who lies to anyone is, in my book, out. Doesn't matter if he was the first, second, or third guy to flake. The fact is that he flaked, he lied, and he has the balls to come back here and pretend like nothing happened. The dude claims that he doesn't have money for the secret gift...but he never pulled out of the exchange.

People like him are the very reasons why I will never participate in these things. No way.

LatinaRose
04-29-2008, 11:03 AM
[QUOTE=VenusGoddess;1522134] The fact is that he flaked, he lied, and he has the balls to come back here and pretend like nothing happened. The dude claims that he doesn't have money for the secret gift...but he never pulled out of the exchange.
[QUOTE]

That is one of the MAJOR things pissing me off. He has the nerve to post all over the rest of the site, yet can't contact me himself.

VegasPrincess
04-29-2008, 11:23 AM
I agree. I mean, trust me, I totally am broke too so I understand stuff can happen...

But at least man up and tell the person directly, " I know this is shitty but x y and z happened and I need to take care of it....."

Also, you could send a person cookies or something. Or make something.

kitana
04-29-2008, 11:31 AM
I agree. I mean, trust me, I totally am broke too so I understand stuff can happen...

But at least man up and tell the person directly, " I know this is shitty but x y and z happened and I need to take care of it....."

Also, you could send a person cookies or something. Or make something.

Or a card at least, or a real "old fashioned" handwritten letter ya know?

Lexi
04-29-2008, 12:06 PM
Geez, this seems a little harsh. Could we take it down a notch or take it to PMs or something? LunarObverse is known and liked IRL by several members here, which to me is plenty of affidavit and reason not to get all "angry mob" on him. I mean, yeah, flaking sucks. My person said they were sending their gift too and it never came, but I'm not calling for tar and feathers. Plus he is the FIRST GUY who flaked out of all the guys who have participated--compared to how many dancers who flaked?

I'm disappointed in him, sure, but I'm way more disappointed in the reactions here.


Are you kidding me? People like this need to be outed. Whether or not they are "liked", flaking on someone is bullshit.

TOO bad for him. Everyone was told that if they flaked on this exchange, they would be outed.

LR has every right to be pissed. I would be too.

SundayMorning
04-29-2008, 01:10 PM
I understand the outrage and the reason behind it. And I understand and agree with "outing" flakes. I know firsthand that it sucks to get zero communication and zero gift. What I disagree with is the "one person who happens to be a male customer flaked, ergo all customers should be forbidden from participating in these exchanges and they're the reason SW sucks etc etc etc" mentality. With some rare exceptions, the vast majority of the drama board-wide originates from the pinks.

And I've said my piece and am moving on.

VenusGoddess
04-29-2008, 02:58 PM
Well, there was 1 under 500 poster that flaked and from what I understand, no one with a post count below that can participate now.

But the fact being...this is STRIPPERweb...why do the men find that they need to be here to begin with if they are not in the stripping industry?

GoldCoastGirl
04-29-2008, 03:38 PM
But the fact being...this is STRIPPERweb...why do the men find that they need to be here to begin with if they are not in the stripping industry?

Because some of them think that because they are part of the industry (our customers, djs, boyfriends, "i dated a stripper once", etc) that they are allowed to be part of the site in a limited capacity.

I'm not against the male members of this board being here btw. ;D The_Oceans was great to shop for and he also didn't flake... amongst other male members. It was more pinks (female dancers) who flaked in the two exchanges than men (both of mine were pinks and one was active enough up until she flaked).

Anyway. It hurts. I can commiserate. However just vow to not partake of any more exchanges again (like me haha).... ;)

Unfortunately my confidence in the exchanges has been harmed for good until either of my flakes apologises to me..... and I'm not holding my breath for that to happen :(

Lexi
04-29-2008, 08:35 PM
I understand the outrage and the reason behind it. And I understand and agree with "outing" flakes. I know firsthand that it sucks to get zero communication and zero gift. What I disagree with is the "one person who happens to be a male customer flaked, ergo all customers should be forbidden from participating in these exchanges and they're the reason SW sucks etc etc etc" mentality. With some rare exceptions, the vast majority of the drama board-wide originates from the pinks.

And I've said my piece and am moving on.


It is not because he is a MALE. Any chick who flaked should be outed and made to look like a pingis, too.

Dottie Rebel
05-04-2008, 04:42 PM
I just found out about this and it pisses me the fuck off. I don't care how well "liked" you are. If you don't have common decency and respect for the women here, get the fuck out. Leave. Quit posting in every goddamned thread and leave.

"Custy" participation in this site is on the borderline anyway. Once they do something like this, AFAIC, it's time to haul ass off this site and get into the nearest stripclub wher eyou have to pay by the song for this kind of attention.

My eyes have been opened.

hardkandee
05-04-2008, 04:50 PM
Y'know it is kinda telling that he can't even come here to say sorry or whatever.


At least all of the other flakes that have returned to the site have made public apologies and tried to right things. It's just rude to pretend like this doesn't exist.

britt244
05-04-2008, 05:32 PM
^ and go on about posting like it's ok.. even if it is only in member boards...

i'm more than a little disturbed by those defending him, and those that defend him in member boards when he whines about what a sad sad world it is.

austinatalie
05-04-2008, 05:36 PM
It bothers me too. A lot.

hardkandee
05-04-2008, 05:36 PM
Well, it is a sad sad world, but that's neither here nor there.

Good seeing you britt!

britt244
05-04-2008, 05:48 PM
haha, i meant everyone telling him he'd be sooo missed if he left. it's just not cool :-\

and thank you :)

kitana
05-04-2008, 06:07 PM
haha, i meant everyone telling him he'd be sooo missed if he left. it's just not cool :-\

and thank you :)

He is quite active on the blue side, I can say that for sure!

Still nothing from my bunny yet and it's been over a month now.

kitty260
05-04-2008, 09:58 PM
"Custy" participation in this site is on the borderline anyway. Once they do something like this, AFAIC, it's time to haul ass off this site and get into the nearest stripclub wher eyou have to pay by the song for this kind of attention.

My eyes have been opened.

Agreed! If I had the time, I'd throw up a by-invitation-only forum exclusively for strippers and retired strippers and all of us who don't suck could re-form a community like we used to have. I want the old SW back so badly. SW blows now.

You know what? I still might do it. I could throw a forum together in an hour. I know that because I did it for my other site. A clubs and reviews style function too. That's what pisses me off the most about this site: That shit is fucking easy and fast to do. It just isn't getting done.


^ and go on about posting like it's ok.. even if it is only in member boards...

i'm more than a little disturbed by those defending him, and those that defend him in member boards when he whines about what a sad sad world it is.

Men don't belong on this board unless they're in the industry. Period. Why the fuck isn't anybody enforcing that? Do we need a whole totally different site?

I'm serious here. I will build a private strippers-only forum if people would use it. How does NewStripperweb.com sound? Or StripperwebVeterans.com?

I HATE PLS! GAH! :mad:

velvet
05-05-2008, 02:41 PM
^ and go on about posting like it's ok.. even if it is only in member boards...

i'm more than a little disturbed by those defending him, and those that defend him in member boards when he whines about what a sad sad world it is.


i think this is what bothers me the most.

scarlett_vancouver
05-05-2008, 03:20 PM
Why isn't he here, acknowledging this..? Oh Lunar...

britt244
05-05-2008, 03:58 PM
^ that's just it. he's ignoring it totally, pretending like nothing happened.

TheTempest
05-05-2008, 04:21 PM
Perhaps it's time to flood his PM box?

I'm sure since this thread has been pretty active someone MUST have messaged him.

britt244
05-05-2008, 04:21 PM
he's seen it. he posted something then deleted it when it was called out as a lie.

Sophia_Ashley
05-05-2008, 04:24 PM
I'm not part of this exchange but he apologized for it in Dear X on the members board, or at least that's what I think he meant. Im not sure if it's still there or if anyone else saw it. Anyways, I wanted to throw my two cents on here that it's rather weird and cowardly that he would post it THERE and not HERE.

I'm sorry to Latina rose :(

not to start shit but in that post he stated that he's already made amends to the person he was supposed to gift and the issue was squashed, doesn't seem that way. So I'm not sure what the point in his entire post was about.

Weirdness.

britt244
05-05-2008, 04:27 PM
last i heard from latinarose, the issue is NOT "squashed." >:(

Sophia_Ashley
05-05-2008, 04:29 PM
Sorry I got the wrong name..Here's the post he made..it wasn't deleted. Trust me I'm not on his side just relaying the info because I noticed the drama and saw his post ..then saw this thread had been bumped so I was peeking in :)


Dear X,

Sending me an over-the-top, angry, indignant note telling me I've screwed up, after I've already taken action to set things right, is perhaps the funniest joke I've heard in a long while.

And after the past couple of months, I could definitely use the laughter. Thanks.

Yeah, I know it's late. I wish it weren't so. My hopelessly inadequate apologies go out to anyone truly wronged by my actions. And I am amused and humbled when people step up to defend against any wrong in the world, whether tiny or galactic in size.

But trust me, there are far larger problems in the universe about which righteous scolds could, um, scold.

Peace be with you,

Brian

Bellona
05-05-2008, 04:31 PM
That doesn't sound very apologetic to me..

britt244
05-05-2008, 04:32 PM
^ no, i meant he made a post in this thread and then deleted it. he lied and said he didnt have money so he didnt send one.. when he told her that it was on the way!

that post is SO not an apology, either. it's more.. annoying.

Sophia_Ashley
05-05-2008, 04:34 PM
O.k well that's what I get for poking my head into this thread lol. I assumed that, it was the post you all were referring to as it was recent.

Not it's not an apology but I assumed it was the post in question. mah bad.

britt244
05-05-2008, 04:36 PM
^ what do you mean thats what you get? /:O

TheTempest
05-05-2008, 04:39 PM
^ what do you mean thats what you get? /:O

I think she just meant that's what happens when she posts in a thread to which she had no real previous knowledge of. I know I read about his deleted post at some point in this thread, but Sophia probably hasn't read the whole thing because she wasn't involved in the thread.

I don't think she meant you were being snarky or anything sweetie.

austinatalie
05-05-2008, 04:39 PM
I don't like the part where he says basically there are bigger problems in the world. Way to minimize!

Sophia_Ashley
05-05-2008, 04:41 PM
I think she just meant that's what happens when she posts in a thread to which she had no real previous knowledge of. I know I read about his deleted post at some point in this thread, but Sophia probably hasn't read the whole thing because she wasn't involved in the thread.

I don't think she meant you were being snarky or anything sweetie.

QFT
Yes that's what I meant. Thank you :) I wasn't implying anything.

britt244
05-05-2008, 04:45 PM
whew! i was gonna say.. i def didnt mean anything bad towards you!

Lunarobverse
05-05-2008, 05:49 PM
All this? For me?

I have no comment until I hear back from Latina Rose. In my estimation, this is a private matter between her and I. Yes, I made a mistake but I am taking steps to correct it and acknowledge it.

Madcap
05-05-2008, 07:05 PM
Helen Keller could see something like this isn't going to slide on this forum.

VenusGoddess
05-05-2008, 07:10 PM
All this? For me?

I have no comment until I hear back from Latina Rose. In my estimation, this is a private matter between her and I. Yes, I made a mistake but I am taking steps to correct it and acknowledge it.

You make it sound like you're enjoying the attention. ::)

I just heard from LR and you never sent her anything. Nothing. Kaput. No emails (from April 1st...April fool's joke??) but the one saying you sent the gift.

Then you come on here and fucking say that you had no money so you didn't send anything. Then you're on blue telling everyone that you hit the SC's all the time and take your nephew to the movies...ALL the while, you've never replied to LR's emails to YOU asking what happened to her gift.

AND you ignore your bunny who has asked repeatedly if you got her gift.

The only mistake you made was joining the site. The second big mistake is coming back after all this.

Honestly, at this point...no matter what you do, you'll never 'redeem' yourself. So, you may as well count your losses and just stay in blue. >:(

Madcap
05-05-2008, 07:53 PM
portland girls like him because he gives them money. that's where all the cash went, as well as his gift from kitty, to Yekefah.

mystery solved.

TheTempest
05-05-2008, 08:05 PM
portland girls like him because he gives them money. that's where all the cash went, as well as his gift from kitty, to Yekefah.

mystery solved.

are you kidding? speculating? know for a fact?

Madcap
05-05-2008, 08:08 PM
I'm kidding. (About the Yek part, she's a portland girl and the only one i know of)




EDIT: For clarification after two PM's asking if it was true. I should have done an emoticon or something.

Lysondra
05-06-2008, 12:10 AM
I got the joke. :O

austinatalie
05-06-2008, 01:39 AM
*rolls eyes*

it is NOT just a private matter. Social pressure is all we have to ensure that people don't flake. You have to be lynched with words, and that is that.

So, how about detailing what exactly you will be doing to remedy this?

Darcy Foxx
05-06-2008, 02:06 AM
This makes me sad. I don't participate in exchanges because I know I'm a forgetful, lazy, irresponsible person and I know that I'd probably never get around to sending a gift. If you can't do it, don't freaking sign up. This should be a thing that brings joy to this forum, not something that creates drama, causes sadness for the poor people who get flaked on, and creates more work for us mods.

Booooo to flakes :(

britt244
05-06-2008, 09:01 AM
So, how about detailing what exactly you will be doing to remedy this?

if i were LR, i wouldnt even want a present at this point.

austinatalie
05-07-2008, 11:37 AM
if i were LR, i wouldnt even want a present at this point.

It doesn't necessarily have to be a present to LR, if she doesn't want it anymore. I would, but that's just me. Maybe have him donate the present $$ to charity.

Zabrina
05-07-2008, 02:45 PM
LO needs to issue a public apology, showing LR proper respect. It's not about the gift at all anymore. Its that he's got this shitty attitude of "oopps I'm broke, Ive got bigger problems" We all know that's a lie. If a PL can afford to drink at the strip club you can afford to send a $30 gift. If you don't have money dont participate. Quit making bullshit lame excuses LO and issue a real and genuine apology. Then go away. This is SW, not broke PL web. You do not need to be here if you are going to disrespect the dancers this site is actually here for.

seraya
05-07-2008, 02:50 PM
If you don't have money dont participate. Agreed. He did issue a public apology though http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=114676