View Full Version : i'll miscarry soon- missed m/c
VenusGoddess
04-01-2008, 02:40 PM
^ How many weeks are you? I know with all of my (viable) pregnancies, I would cramp a lot and have spotting around 6-7 weeks. I would always get nervous, etc but of the 5 of my pregnancies, the 3 it did this with were full-term (well, this last one is still brewing, but I've no concerns).
Wait a few days and then take another preg test. Sometimes HcG gets diluted during the day and won't show up on the test...even if you think it should. Just use the first morning urine.
Sending you lots of sticky vibes and I hope all is ok.
BalletBaby
04-01-2008, 02:52 PM
I'm sending you good stickyvibes:goodvibes:goodvibes:goodvibes
Hang in their hun:hug::hug:
Flick6
04-01-2008, 03:03 PM
Best of luck, take care of yourself!!
gingerlee
04-01-2008, 03:56 PM
I'm gonna keep my fingers crossed for you hon. :hug:
AudreyLeigh
04-01-2008, 04:46 PM
Awww Lola... Im so sorry. Im still holding out hope for you that everythings ok. Please keep us informed. :hug:
Sunshine73
04-01-2008, 04:49 PM
^ How many weeks are you? I know with all of my (viable) pregnancies, I would cramp a lot and have spotting around 6-7 weeks.
Yes. When I was at 3 or 4 weeks of my (viable) pregnancy, I had some mild cramping too. Spotting around this time is not uncommon either. I think this is caused by the fertilized egg being planted into the uterine lining.
Please stay cautiously optimistic.
TheTempest
04-01-2008, 04:59 PM
I think all of SW is holding its breath right now. :-\
LadyLuck
04-01-2008, 05:11 PM
Oh my, that has got to be tough. I'm hoping everything works out for you :hug:
BrunetteGoddess
04-01-2008, 08:26 PM
*Crossing my fingers*
((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))
Im praying for you hon. I know your previous history makes you nervous, but a lot of women get cramping in the first initial weeks.
I'm hoping that its all it is.
:hug:
stellaforstars
04-01-2008, 08:38 PM
Damn it, I'm so scared for you.
jhuka
04-01-2008, 09:23 PM
Lola, I just want you to know I am thinking of you and wishing you well in this.
Lola Rose
04-03-2008, 09:58 AM
thanks everyone. I've sort of been ignoring this, and just hoping for the best. Right now that is all I can really do.
Yesterday I cramped really bad all day, but had no bleeding.
Today I have only some slight cramping, but I also have no real pregnancy symptoms either.
I'm still holding out hope.
If I do miscarry, we'll be postponing our honeymoon so that I'm at least not on vacation while it happens. I found a doctor, and as soon as I get my insurance card I'll be seeing him. So hopefully whatever is wrong will be fixed. Rob is still taking half of his vacation time, so he'll be here to take care of me and whatnot.
I wish I knew more, but I don't. It's really horrible not to know.
High_Heel_Lover
04-03-2008, 10:01 AM
Lets just hope it's normal cramping babe. I am really pulling for you and the little one.
Polekitten
04-03-2008, 10:06 AM
We're keeping our fingers crossed for you honey, x
AlexxaHex
04-03-2008, 11:09 AM
:hug:
Have you checked your hormone levels lately?
RoseLeigh
04-03-2008, 01:14 PM
Praying for you, Lola. (and Rob and bebe)
Lola Rose
04-04-2008, 05:11 AM
Well, it started. I'm just trying to hold it together right now.
I'm a total wreck.
I found a doctor, a fertility specialist, but I can't go see him till my insurance kicks in to pay for it.
kitana
04-04-2008, 06:06 AM
Well, it started. I'm just trying to hold it together right now.
I'm a total wreck.
I found a doctor, a fertility specialist, but I can't go see him till my insurance kicks in to pay for it.
OMG, you poor thing!
I am so sorry for your loss.
High_Heel_Lover
04-04-2008, 06:17 AM
Fuck!
Oh Lola, I am so, so, sorry honey.:'( :'( :'(
AlexxaHex
04-04-2008, 06:26 AM
:'( I am so very sorry honey. I don't know what to say!!
Sunshine73
04-04-2008, 09:25 AM
I'm sorry Lola.:'( Please take care of yourself, and know that we are here for you.
TheTempest
04-04-2008, 09:57 AM
Oh honey, I'm so sorry! :'(
Polekitten
04-04-2008, 09:59 AM
I'm so so sorry Lola, I was really praying for you that this was a false alarm. Look after yourself hon, we're all here for you, xxx
cameron_keys
04-04-2008, 10:03 AM
I'm so sorry honey....I dont even know what to say.It's so unfair that you have to go through this again. I hope the Dr's can help you because you will be an amazing mommy someday!
phillyvixen
04-04-2008, 10:40 AM
THis sucks
I am so sorry
I hope the drs can help soon
I know you will be an awesome mom!
AudreyLeigh
04-04-2008, 11:15 AM
Im sorry Lola. This thread make me tear up for you. No one deserves this. Especially you hun :hug:
Samba
04-04-2008, 11:17 AM
I'm so sorry. I don't even know what to say.
StrawberrySwitchblade
04-04-2008, 12:10 PM
*hugs tight!*
jasmine
04-04-2008, 12:32 PM
I am so sorry for your loss! You will be in my prayers.
sxybrat07
04-04-2008, 12:44 PM
:hug: I'm so sorry honey :(
RoseWhite
04-04-2008, 12:53 PM
Lots of hugs. Lots.
BrunetteGoddess
04-04-2008, 12:55 PM
This is just devastating for you. I am proud of you for being so strong. I'm so sorry.
BalletBaby
04-04-2008, 02:12 PM
I'm so sorry sweetie:hug::hug::hug:
velvet
04-04-2008, 02:15 PM
i'm sorry you are going through this again.
RoseLeigh
04-04-2008, 02:24 PM
I'm sorry honey. :(
VegasPrincess
04-04-2008, 02:28 PM
I'm sorry.
There has to be some physical reason this keeps happening. Once you go to the fertility doc they should be able to help.
:(
if you need anything PM me
Lola Rose
04-05-2008, 03:35 PM
thanks everyone. I've gotten a lot of sweet pm's, and even tho I don't always respond or I only send a short responce, I really do appreciate it.
I keep having nightmares about it...... the worse is of birthing a stillborn baby...... it makes it hard to sleep.
It's really hard on Rob too.... he is grieving and stressing over this himself, as well as taking on the burdon of dealing with the housework and the stresses of me being a sobbing wreck one minute and fine the next. He's coping excellently, thank G-d.
I am so anxious to go see the doctor. I hope it's just something easy... i've read that 50% of recurrent m/c cases that are researched end up having no answer, and those people just have to either keep trying till they hopefully carry to term, or to give up.
I won't give up, but I'd really hate to keep trying with no more solution then to just hope and pray for the best.
I want this to be over.
I wish it wasn't so hard.
krchab99
04-05-2008, 03:39 PM
Oh i just saw the update I am truely sory for your loss.
scarlett_vancouver
04-05-2008, 04:01 PM
I'm really sorry Lola :(
ajbaer
04-05-2008, 04:09 PM
have you thought about a surrogate, or is it the experience you want as well.
I'm sorry it's so rough for you. I want it to work for you sooo badly.
Yekhefah
04-05-2008, 04:18 PM
If you don't want to take this risk, there's always adoption. I hope you have a big family someday however it happens, because you will be a wonderful mother. You have so much love to share. :hug:
Sinder
04-05-2008, 06:37 PM
Oh sweetie *hugs*.
I can't imagine what your going through, but my thoughts are with you. You have been through so much and been so strong. You will be an incredile mom someday. *sending Lola some love*
Kaiyla
04-05-2008, 08:21 PM
You're in my thoughts and prayers, Lola.:hug:
seraya
04-05-2008, 10:18 PM
I'm sorry that you are going through this again. Hopefully the fertility specialist can investigate and find out what what is going on. I have no doubt though that you will be blessed with a bundle of joy.