View Full Version : Do You LIKE Giving Head?
ahmeerah
04-10-2008, 06:41 AM
I wonder if its similar to girls who don't like having guys go down on them.
Huh? :O Some girls don't like when people go down on them?
I'm guessing they're just self-conscious. What's not to love?! ;D
AlexxaHex
04-10-2008, 06:52 AM
Huh? :O Some girls don't like when people go down on them?
I'm guessing they're just self-conscious. What's not to love?! ;D
I don't like getting head and I'm not self conscious about it.
What's not to love? Not enough pressure on the clit, too much drool all over the place, hard to focus on the person I'm with, would rather use toys or hands, really just boring.
TheTempest
04-10-2008, 07:07 AM
Huh? :O Some girls don't like when people go down on them?
I'm guessing they're just self-conscious. What's not to love?! ;D
Oh man, I used to hate it. I used to tense up and go "no no no". The guy who took my virginity refused to go down so that sort of made me feel dirty, I guess.
But now I know what I like, and I am not afraid to say it! That's important for me.
Electrum
04-10-2008, 07:48 AM
Huh? :O Some girls don't like when people go down on them?
I'm guessing they're just self-conscious. What's not to love?! ;D
I don't enjoy receiving head either, but that's party because I have high standards of how a man should do it. And for some reason some guys have a hard time taking instruction... but I agree with another girl here, usually the guy doesn't put enough pressure at all on my clit OR he goes at it way to vigorously. I'm the type that needs to "warm up" first and then get really rough. If a guy can't warm me up or cant be rough I'm not going to like the head. So yeah, I guess I'm just really picky about how I'm stimulated?
xoxoGracexoxo
04-10-2008, 10:52 AM
Yup. Not that I'm in the mood to do it every moment of every day, but I do generally enjoy it. Sometimes when I'm not turned on enough to have sex I'll start giving bf a blow-job and after a few minutes...holy hell, I'm turned on after all.
PleasureVictim
04-10-2008, 11:16 AM
If I wore kneepads, they would stay constantly worn out.:P
TheTempest
04-10-2008, 11:20 AM
^A woman after my own heart!
lizlizliz
04-10-2008, 11:21 AM
I prefer giving rimjobs, actually.
Morgan_TX
04-10-2008, 12:03 PM
I hate it because it causes my jaw to pop out :worried:
I usually make an extra $10+ in tips because I can pop my jaw out! I'll have the guys put their hands on that joint there in my cheek so they can feel it pop in and out when I open my mouth wide. (After explaining that having a jaw you can pop out makes it easier to deep-throat!)
It's kind of like a "stupid human trick", I guess, but it works!
Dottie Rebel
04-10-2008, 04:50 PM
^^That's awesome.
I LOVE giving head. Sometimes it's all I want to do. And it gets me so wet that if I'm not getting lubed up enough for sex I'll blow him for a while and then I'm ready to go. Cheaper than lube and more fun. :)
cutey5032
04-10-2008, 04:53 PM
I prefer giving rimjobs, actually.
Love these too......I like doing both when I'm down there. I also hate getting eaten out more than anything, but I do like getting fingered while simultaneously getting my salad tossed. Heh heh.
oohdamnbaby
04-10-2008, 10:19 PM
I love giving my boyfriend head but I'm a terrible girlfriend, I guess - I absolutely love sex with him so once I get in the mood I don't feel like sucking dick, I just want to be fucked!
Darcy Foxx
04-10-2008, 10:24 PM
i love it. i live for it! ahaha. but seriously. i love it.
Nini Nieb
04-10-2008, 10:32 PM
I love giving my boyfriend head but I'm a terrible girlfriend, I guess - I absolutely love sex with him so once I get in the mood I don't feel like sucking dick, I just want to be fucked!
Funny !! I have the same problem. When I am on my own ... Giving the ultimate blowjob is my favourite fantasy ... Being completely submissive and un/ego/centric and just make him feel good. With my BF I very easyly got trapped into all the other good stuff ;D
echomadison
04-10-2008, 11:05 PM
Yeah I would say me and giving head are close friends...I suck my b/f's dick so much I tell him that I am "ruining him" for any future relationships he might have! Its kinda weird though because I have never been like this with ANY past b/f's, I dont get it at all...guess I just love his cock and feel the need to worship it regularly :)
Tofulita
04-10-2008, 11:46 PM
I love it as long as:
1. I like him. The more emotionally attached, the more I do it and like it.
2. He's hot.
and finally, 3. As long as he doesn't see it as a submissive act on my part. I might be on the ground, but I've got your fucking cock surrounded by my pointy teeth, don't piss me off. Don't try to hump my head, tell me how to do it, or try to get me to go deeper than I'm ready too.
As long as he fits all three, I'll be pushing him over at random times to swallow his cock. It's so much fun.
AlexxaHex
04-11-2008, 10:16 AM
I realized that I much prefer giving head to WOMEN. I was reminded of this by a dream I had last night.
TheTempest
04-11-2008, 10:32 AM
Yeah I would say me and giving head are close friends...I suck my b/f's dick so much I tell him that I am "ruining him" for any future relationships he might have! Its kinda weird though because I have never been like this with ANY past b/f's, I dont get it at all...guess I just love his cock and feel the need to worship it regularly :)
Oh! I say the same thing to my friend with benefits right now! I keep saying "You know you're spoiled, right?"
I realized that I much prefer giving head to WOMEN. I was reminded of this by a dream I had last night.
I haven't had a woman in in about 4 years. :'(
Dottie Rebel
04-11-2008, 10:42 AM
I realized that I much prefer giving head to WOMEN. I was reminded of this by a dream I had last night.
Aw, you finally had a dream about me. :D
oohdamnbaby
04-11-2008, 10:54 AM
This thread has inspired me to give my boyfriend head more often.
AlexxaHex
04-11-2008, 12:49 PM
Aw, you finally had a dream about me. :D
She did kind of look like you, actually. Only she had black hair. It was hot.
Electrum
04-11-2008, 04:14 PM
I've never gone down on a woman before. For some reason vaginas intimidate me. No idea why. I guess I'm self conscious about the way mine looks. I have dated women, and I definitely love women. I miss being with a woman! The softness, the sexiness, and the fun. *sigh*
mollyzmoon
04-11-2008, 04:17 PM
I do like it, but I don't like to get the point where my neck/ jaw hurts and I start gagging. Doing that once in a while is okay, but not always. I will happily give head as foreplay everyday, though. I like doing things I'm good at. Builds my self-esteem! lol
snarkysharky
04-12-2008, 06:04 PM
I love it, too...it's one of my favorite ways to spend time with my man. However, I've never given head to someone I wasn't totally into. I'm sure I would not enjoy the experience. But I do love that I have the power to make the guy totally helpless and totally ecstatic, at the same time.
Sometimes my boyfriend teases me and lets me give him head for just 2 minutes or something before putting it away. Sigh.
I'm really glad my boyfriend doesn't do that! It would probably make me not want to give him head anymore--i would always be wondering whether or not he would take it away!!:'(
Nini Nieb
04-12-2008, 06:23 PM
I looove giving head to my boyfriend!
Not necessarily in general. It depends on their receptiveness and size.
Sometimes my boyfriend teases me and lets me give him head for just 2 minutes or something before putting it away. Sigh.
I tried that a couple of times. Absolutely pisses/turned me off. Sorry Sir No more blowjob !! It's me doing him a favour. Not the other way round.
goldengrl69
04-12-2008, 08:45 PM
I Love giving head! I enjoy being in charge. I make it
interesting though.
I like to tease first with sucking a popscicle or eating seductively.
I tease until I know what he's thinkin while Im just suckin innocently
on my sucker, pretending that I have no clue.
Works like a charm, for my enjoyment }:D .
Ava Jadore
04-12-2008, 10:22 PM
:yes: VERY VERY MUCH
msonyxorb
04-13-2008, 02:10 PM
God no. Any contact with fluids of another person grosses me out. I even have a hard time open mouth kissing some people. I only do oral with condoms and thankfully most of the guys i date are kind and respectful enough to not complain too much about it
msonyxorb
04-13-2008, 02:13 PM
only if its clean. and i dont eat baby batter
You are still ingesting precum...
msonyxorb
04-13-2008, 02:18 PM
Huh? :O Some girls don't like when people go down on them?
I'm guessing they're just self-conscious. What's not to love?! ;D
the gooyieness..the stickiness. everything. eww. the mouth has more bacteria than a crotch does. i dont want all that saliva in my vagina, eww, it just feels so gross.
Reenie
04-13-2008, 02:29 PM
I love giving it on my period as well but also when i wanna give him a treat as well for being gooD!!!!lol
paintgoddess
04-13-2008, 04:39 PM
My last partner was very unappreciative and would constantly critique me because I could never make him cum. As much as I loved his dick, sucking it was an exercise in failure to me. The only thing for me in it was that I could take his dick all the way down my throat and it felt awesome whether he appreciated it or not. (Learning to deepthroat highly recommended!!)
The fact that a guy loves it makes me love it more. Hearing a guy get off makes me wet. Love being in control of someone else's pleasure. I love sucking cock!!
Electrum
04-14-2008, 05:44 AM
God no. Any contact with fluids of another person grosses me out. I even have a hard time open mouth kissing some people. I only do oral with condoms and thankfully most of the guys i date are kind and respectful enough to not complain too much about it
Funny thing, I'm much more comfortable (germ wise) sucking a cock than I am kissing someone. Mouths gross me out, especially when someone is a smoker. My boyfriend is a smoker so I hardly ever open mouth kiss him. Mouths just gross me out! But a clean penis doesn't :)
Vyanka
04-14-2008, 06:59 AM
I voted YES. It turns me on seeing them get pleased & then giving me that look. LOL. But it's only for BFs I care about.
NinaDaisy
04-15-2008, 11:18 AM
It's always really depended on the guy. The last two guys I've dated over the past year and a half I've had crazy insane sexual chemistry with and I've genuinely enjoyed it.
jennahoff
04-15-2008, 12:26 PM
my boyfriend loves getting bjs(as most guys do!)
and if i am in the mood he says it is the best thing ever. but when i am not in the mood, he can tell but he "manages" throught it anyways, haha.
so to answer the question YES i like doing WHEN im in the mood.
And if i really dont feel like having sex, i usually will opt to give him one. Im a trooper :)
AmberHoney
04-24-2008, 09:43 PM
I absolutely LOVE IT!
:)
I'd get extremely graphic and tell you all the details and why I love to do it so much and how I do it... but I don't wanna make anyone uncomfortable, LOL!
vonniestarrr
04-24-2008, 10:46 PM
indeed i do...BUT...if my partner doesn't give me oral on the regular...or doesn't ENJOY giving me oral on the regular, im less excited about it. im just super eager to please my man when i know he is willing to go above and beyond to please me. if he half-asses our sex, he cant expect me go be excited to suck is weener.
Bunny
04-24-2008, 11:04 PM
There wasn't really an option for what my opinion is, so I voted that I love it. But the thing is, I only love it if I'm REALLY into the guy.
hoshi_x
04-25-2008, 01:50 AM
I LOVE IT!
If i'm not really "in the mood" but my boyfriend is, sometimes I will just go down on him to get myself where he is. I just like making him feel good and by that alone turns me on.
I really like giving head and using my viborater on myself while he plays with my boobs.
Or sometimes i'll put him in between my boobs and kinda bob my head down to tease the both of us. thats fun too.
I like to start off or just do plain ol' 69 too.
Good times. <3 <333
sorry if i am too graphic! >__o;"
shift_6x
04-26-2008, 02:53 PM
I love gving it primarily when im in a relationship and feel close to the person..With guys im not in a serious relationship with im not as eager to be open and want to please them..idk they dont deserve "all of me"
PrettyCurlieQ
04-26-2008, 02:56 PM
I don't know how to answer that. Usually I don't mind, unless it takes forever or unless my boyfriend is being a selfish jerk about it. He can be so whiney. Sometimes he gets a blowjob (no sex involved) up to five times a week. Which is more than I can say for my hoo-ha. And I like it when it makes him crazy, so that's why I do it voluntarily, and that's what makes it fun for me. But at the same time, I wish I could lay on my back and get oral sex all the live long day, too, and that makes me lazy.
mercedez
04-26-2008, 07:53 PM
It's a love hate thing for me.
head turner
04-27-2008, 09:44 AM
oh yea. I love to see my man's face when i do that.
head turner
04-27-2008, 09:46 AM
I absolutely LOVE IT!
:)
I'd get extremely graphic and tell you all the details and why I love to do it so much and how I do it... but I don't wanna make anyone uncomfortable, LOL!
lol, let's share technique :);)
Nini Nieb
04-27-2008, 10:24 AM
oh yea. I love to see my man's face when i do that.
What a big surprice !? head turner likes giving head ;D That was a really bad joke. I know :-[
Seriosly ... The look in their face ... I love it too. It's so rewarding }:D
Playing their joystick ... I like ...
Sirona
04-30-2008, 10:42 PM
Love it, do it as often as possible. I have almost zero gag reflex which helps.
AmArticia
04-30-2008, 11:00 PM
There are only three circumstances under which I will give head...
A.) I owe him big time
B.) I love him truly-deeply-madly
C.) I have reached extreme levels of boredom.
Generally I don't like it cause I find it ungraceful and a little demeaning. Then again, I'm a bit of a princess. However, on the rare occaision I DO give head, I'm told I do it quite well.
In the ladylike-princess deal, I also am a staunch swallower and I have never every spit in my entire life. It's simply unladylike to spit, not to mention incredibly inconveniant! I will gladly be caughing up cum for 15 minutes and have the stench of sperm stuck in my sinuses for a day rather than hawk a loogie of lil' swimmers which is sexy under no circumstances.
Then again, I really prefer not to look at a guy's junk anyhow. For me, the moment where you're staring it down just before you stick it in your mouth freaks me out. I swear to god that thing is staring right back at me and it like...moves on it's own accord.
AznExtasy
05-01-2008, 12:05 AM
I have no gag reflex so I can usually take the whole thing down my throat if it's not thicker than my wrist. However, just because I'm good at it doesn't mean I do it all the time. If the dude hasn't done anything for me lately then nuh uh, he's not getting that.
PuertoRicanPinup
05-01-2008, 12:22 AM
I love it if I'm attracted to his cock. lol. I dont want to gross anyone out if i get too graphic, but I love love sucking on my bf's jock, it's so big and perfect... mmm