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AudreyLeigh
04-24-2008, 08:52 PM
Didnt someone else post that they received this...? I guess hes a copy-paster!


My name is Andy.
I am very Affectionate and Romantic.
I love kissing alot!
I say the following with all due respect
and I hope not to offend you, because that's not my intention,
so I apologize for my explicit honesty ahead of time!
I AM RECENTLY TESTED NEGATIVE FOR HIV/STDs WITH DOCUMENTATION!
because I want a lady who is willing to let me make love to her
without a condom, I want to feel your warm, wet pussy
wrapped tightly around my cock as we make love.
Then I want to fill your satisfied pussy with my semen.
Can you live-up to the challenge of being my sexual wildcat in bed?
Andyxxoo<3

AudreyLeigh
04-24-2008, 08:59 PM
i dunno what to write back to these people. i feel like a dunce.

all i have in my profile is

"ill be back to fill this out"

and a photo and keep getting messages....

Zabrina
04-24-2008, 09:04 PM
^LOL Yeah I got the same message from Andy about his semen. Guess he's playing a numbers game. I wonder if that ever works for him ::)

No need to overthink it. A quick line or two is a fine first response. All they are going to do is ask for pics at this point. If you reply to lots of guys sometimes it helps to keep a little notepad so you can keep the convo's you've already had with which dudes straight.

RoseLeigh
04-25-2008, 09:11 AM
^^ I got that message too! I hope no one takes him up on it!

needtodance
04-25-2008, 12:08 PM
Are people checking on hte group? I've asked a few questions, but not gotten any responses.

ahmeerah
04-25-2008, 01:01 PM
^^^^ Hopefully as we all get more experience we'll be able to answer each other's questions.

Electrum
04-25-2008, 03:22 PM
Are people checking on hte group? I've asked a few questions, but not gotten any responses.

I've been really freakin' busy to even think about an SD, but I am in the group. I did contact one guy I'm semi-interested in, but I told him the truth; I have to put everything on hold for the sake of school and my sanity. I haven't checked to see if he responded, but the reason I like him is because I'm almost positive that he'll not only understand but be more inclined to help me out... if we get a "relationship" going that is... I'm still just testing the waters myself hehe. (OH and the other reason I'm interested in him is because he's willing to pay 3-5 per month for 1-3 visits a month (plus gifts), supposedly anyhow, OMFG I've only ever dreamt about that lol and he isnt' too far away...)

Luxurious1
04-27-2008, 11:22 PM
Ladies, remember there ARE cops on that site. (sdfm) trust me.

Aubreyyy
04-28-2008, 11:04 AM
Are people checking on hte group? I've asked a few questions, but not gotten any responses.

Sorry guys, I've been super busy and out of town since Thursday. I'll try to go back through and answer some! :(

cinammonkisses
04-28-2008, 11:22 AM
Ladies, remember there ARE cops on that site. (sdfm) trust me.

Very true. But I honestly believe the girls who are not seeking sexual experiences for cash aren't nearly as worried as those who are. But still, nice heads up.

Aubreyyy
04-28-2008, 11:23 AM
^^^

Yeah...what do we have to worry about?

Sophia_Ashley
04-29-2008, 07:06 PM
I had one meet me in the club. He gave me 500 and brought in the other 3 girls he travels with. They were very sweet. And the next day at work he brought me 300 bucks and a pair of dior shoes and a hermes handbag. I couldn't travel with him because I have obligations and I think that upset him. He doesn't have sex with the girls. He's chubby and older but nice. He told me he just enjoys company and friends.

AudreyLeigh
04-30-2008, 02:53 AM
Ive been getting some very cute and funny responses since I filled out my profile and wrote the no sex thing.... men I may actually be interested in having as SDs.

Aubreyyy
04-30-2008, 11:38 AM
Ive been getting some very cute and funny responses since I filled out my profile and wrote the no sex thing.... men I may actually be interested in having as SDs.


SEEEE :) They don't all suck, just 75% lol. Kinda like the club >:(

Lola Rose
04-30-2008, 01:08 PM
man! threads like this make me wish I was single :P

lol, totally kidding.

but hey, I want 3G a month just for looking cute :D

AkashaM
05-03-2008, 12:35 AM
Hell, Ive been getting nothing but people makin a million demands already. Call me old fashioned, but I would like at least exchange a few PMs before moving on to emails and phone calls. Everyone keeps asking for MORE pics, when they have none at all. I ask them, "wheres YOURS?" sheesh.

Luxurious1
05-03-2008, 12:48 AM
Ive been on the site for 2 years. Met ONE good SD. These guys SUCK! Ive met up with half of the site already! And I keep running into cops! (real ones in person) be safe...good luck !

AkashaM
05-06-2008, 10:51 PM
^^^what do they say? i dont get why they would bother with the site. Im soo sick of cops, they ruin the fun! lol

muladoll
05-07-2008, 05:09 AM
Met my occasional SD at the club. I call him occasional because I'm not always in the mood to hang out and do things that take too much out of my regular schedule. My opinion was always that I'd rather go to the club and work for the money. Of course lately, it's been more and more difficult.

When I met him, he was cold and adamant about getting a dance from me because he was "waiting for somebody else". I'm usually friendly anyway and continued to talk to him and ask him questions. He warmed up to me and told me he was from out of town. After an hour in the VIP he wanted to know if I'd go out with him sometime when he was in town. I gave him my usual spiell as to why I never go out with anybody from the club and all I do is work, work, work. I have a nightly goal blah, blah, blah. Based on the amount he spent and what i saw in the wallet, I gave him my phone number anyway and told him to call me whenever he was in town.

A week later he called and asked me out. I told him that I thought I had expressed to him that I was in town only to work and so it would be a difficult thing to do. He told me he would "take care of me", LOL!! I've heard that before. However he had spent close to 1K in an hour so I figured he had the funds.

I asked him straight out, "You know I'm here to work due to all my responsibilities, how much do you think is fair for me to take the night off from work?". I had already come up with a figure in my head highballing it to a good night at work. I had no intention of sleeping with him and that is not what he asked for. Oh I forgot to mention by the time he called I had already done a check on his cell phone number. When he called, I knew exactly what his full name was, where he lived, what he did for a living, and even had pictures of him. I do this for fun when I get the custies phone numbers and want to check out how legit they are.

Anyway, I had never done anything like this before so I didn't know what it would be worth for him to pay. After my "I need to work" spiel, his offer blew me away. I just couldn't refuse. Extra curricular activities were never mentioned by either one of us. When I met him, he handed me the envelope with the $$. I took a small break to the bathroom to count the $$ and it was all there. Holy crap I was ecstatic! We went to a show, gambled and had drinks.

I've seen him a few times since and he's always paid the same. Plus I genuinely have fun with him. He wants me to travel with him, but I'm just too much of a moody chicken for that. He's totally cool has a shitload of $$ and would be in deep shit if any of this came to light. I also believe that he'll eventually want sex from me because he's already hinted. Again, based on what I know about him and what he pays. I would totally do it, but I just never know what side of the bed I'll wake up on.

If any of you ladies are going to do this. Please run a background check, it's totally worth the money you'll make. Also, tell a very trusted person about this and give the info you get on he individual. Just in case.

iambonbon05
05-07-2008, 01:50 PM
Oh I forgot to mention by the time he called I had already done a check on his cell phone number. When he called, I knew exactly what his full name was, where he lived, what he did for a living, and even had pictures of him. I do this for fun when I get the custies phone numbers and want to check out how legit they are.

How do you do that? :-[

AmazingKat
05-07-2008, 02:26 PM
^^I'm surprised at what info I can get by googling a phone number. I usually start with that and then find a name or an address. Then I start searching those.

If I can find the company he works for I'll see if they have any job postings and what type of salary they pay for similar positions. It might not be the most accurate but it gives me a ballpark figure.

Aubreyyy
05-07-2008, 10:09 PM
I got my first big SD whale (the other one had to do 1 month of time with the ex wife so as not to fuck up his 50/50 divorce and I wasn't interested in the drama.)

Did a check on this guy, found out he owns a company that starts and sells businesses. His last one sold for 90 MILLION. Thats right. Yellow light.

Meet this guy for dinner, and he starts talking about this sweet 16-esque bday party for his daughter. 100K budget for a 16 year olds birthday- like MTV shit. Jungle theme, rented out space, DJ, and they even rolled her BMW x5 into the place for her big car reveal. GREEN LIGHT!

And he told me that he just wants to find a "princess" b/c he loves having one daughter to spoil, why not two?

God I love jewish men.

AznExtasy
05-07-2008, 11:12 PM
God I love jewish men.

WTF?!?! In all my experiences, I have NEVER been able to hustle a jew. Getting a jewish guy to part with his money is like trying to separate a homeless man from his crack. Many of them become rich by being cheap. The most generous jewish man I've come across gave me 1500 for a weekend's company, and even that was after some intense negotiation. Needless to say, I did not keep him as a sugardaddy. I just don't bother with them anymore, it's like pulling teeth. They don't belong in the category of sd's I like, the kind to drop g's like nothing and are willing and happy to do it.

needtodance
05-08-2008, 01:36 AM
Am I ugly or something? I've barely gotten ANY messages to sift through, on any of hte SD sites!

Like WTF?

Aubreyyy
05-08-2008, 06:23 AM
Azn, I would have said the same thing- I live with a Jewish guy so I know just how frugal they can be. I wouldn't have even guessed that a Jewish guy would be down for a SD thing... but I didn't even have to negotiate a price with him- I met him last night and he's already (within 20 minutes of the banks opening) deposited my monthly allowance.

The one thing I've found bout them is that they're totally into spoiling their kids. Hello, Jewish American Princess anyone? :) I picture this guy's daughter JUST like Lacy Chabert's character in Mean Girls ("My dad invented the toaster strudel" lol).

Hey- I'm not going to discriminate!

Pure
05-08-2008, 09:18 AM
WTF?!?! In all my experiences, I have NEVER been able to hustle a jew. Getting a jewish guy to part with his money is like trying to separate a homeless man from his crack. Many of them become rich by being cheap. The most generous jewish man I've come across gave me 1500 for a weekend's company, and even that was after some intense negotiation. Needless to say, I did not keep him as a sugardaddy. I just don't bother with them anymore, it's like pulling teeth. They don't belong in the category of sd's I like, the kind to drop g's like nothing and are willing and happy to do it.





Thats offensive...sorry you haven't banked off a jewish guy but lets not generalize and say all Jewish men are not generous and have not earned their sucsess like everyone else. MOST wealthy people become that way by being cheap and not frivilous...not just jews...

AznExtasy
05-08-2008, 12:53 PM
Thats offensive...sorry you haven't banked off a jewish guy but lets not generalize and say all Jewish men are not generous and have not earned their sucsess like everyone else. MOST wealthy people become that way by being cheap and not frivilous...not just jews...

In my job, I do stereotype. That's just how I make my money, knowing where the top spenders are. I do this so I don't waste my time. I am just speaking from my experiences, and I must've obviously given jewish guys chances in order to know how they are. Sure, not 100% of them are the same in their spending habits, and it's great that Aubreyyy found a good one for her. It wasn't meant to be offensive but I can't control how you take it to be. Still, I stand by everything I said.

Elvia
05-08-2008, 01:47 PM
Yeah. As Jewish person, it does make me angry/annoyed/disgusted to read things like that.

Stereotype if you must, but why not just keep the negative ones to yourself?

iambonbon05
05-08-2008, 04:58 PM
Back to subject plzkthnx...

That sounds like an awesome guy aubreyyy. So you'd be more like an extra daughter to spoil the crap out of instead of a psuedo-girlfriend? Sounds even better to me, like he won't push for sex.

Electrum
05-11-2008, 02:59 AM
And regarding background checks: Anyone know any good websites for that? Are there any that are free? Something like that might even be worth paying for if something like this looked promising. I'm going to do a search and post again if I find any good websites for background checks...

21stcenturyfox
05-12-2008, 12:13 AM
Girls! Help!
I am getting fucking tons of emails from SD4me and I cant stop them! :(
I cant find anywhere on the site to stop the emails or cancel my account. Ive emailed the site twice now asking them to delete my account but no reply.

PLEASE HELP ME! I am sick of receiving these emails, I have no interest in being a man's toy, I just wanted to see what it was like and now I cant get rid of it!

Its like a fucking STD this site!

austinatalie
05-12-2008, 01:10 AM
oh no fox! That does not bode well.

RoseLeigh
05-12-2008, 12:27 PM
Girls! Help!
I am getting fucking tons of emails from SD4me and I cant stop them! :(
I cant find anywhere on the site to stop the emails or cancel my account. Ive emailed the site twice now asking them to delete my account but no reply.

PLEASE HELP ME! I am sick of receiving these emails, I have no interest in being a man's toy, I just wanted to see what it was like and now I cant get rid of it!

Its like a fucking STD this site!

I had the same problem! That freaking stalker guy kept emailing and emailing. You have to email them to cancel and then they email you back asking why you want to cancel. What a PITA. Apparently they finally cancelled mine. Was this the email you used-
[email protected]?

21stcenturyfox
05-12-2008, 10:17 PM
nope, I emailed [email protected] and no reply
ive changed my email address to some bogus address so the mail just bounces now and deleted my pics and info
phew!

Aubreyyy
05-13-2008, 08:08 AM
^^^

Thats generally a good idea anyways. I haven't messed around with SD4Me that much, but I don't get tons of emails from them...thats weird.

charlie61
05-14-2008, 12:32 PM
I haven't even met this one guy yet, and he just wired me $1500 for my car problems.

...and I never asked him for it, nor did I quote an amount, and I've explicitly told him that there shouldn't be ANY physical expectations in our SD/SB relationship.

...and he lives like 1000 miles away.

I've talked to him on the phone once.

Looks like these good guys aren't too hard to find. Just be yourself (don't be the "i'll say anything if you pay me to!" bimbo), don't compromise what you are/aren't willing to do, etc.

Aubreyyy
05-14-2008, 12:34 PM
Yay! :) Good job!!

charlie61
05-14-2008, 03:49 PM
^^^^^

And I owe it all to this thread for the idea, safety tips, etc.! Thank you so much sweetie!!

austinatalie
05-15-2008, 12:01 AM
I made 1000 tonight for a 2 hour dinner. sweet!

thanks, sugar daddy thread!

Aubreyyy
05-15-2008, 12:12 AM
Aww I'm so proud guys :)

dancinslifoxxx17
05-15-2008, 03:08 PM
So.. I've been kinda checking up on this thread for a bit. I signed up a few days back on one of the sites. And, it does work! And fast! I'm going to lunch with a CEO/President of a major company here in Indy. He's also a Dr. Sweeeet!!! 3 grand a month for lunch and dinner dates. I'm there! And, no sex or neked dancin! Awesome. Thanks for this thread!

whirlerz
05-18-2008, 04:59 PM
I just pick the $ tree in my yard..:)

Electrum
05-18-2008, 07:18 PM
I wonder if I'm being too picky? I haven't followed up with many of the guys, and they all seem to loose interest when I do because I don't want to travel out of my town. Or they seem annoyed that I don't want to travel out of my town so I just drop the conversation. And I'm only considering people who make at least around a million. Oh, and if their grammar sounds like they're in fucking high school I also ignore it... Am I being too stingy!??

Sophia_Ashley
05-18-2008, 07:22 PM
Just a question and a check in.

I've not met with or even bothered with any SD's other than the one I wrangled into the club. However, I get at least 4 emails a week with guys offering 1,000 + for a weekend with them. Not appealing to me but they are all out of town guys who AREN'T coming to Chicago they want me to go to them. No dice.

One is featured on their main login page. (seeking arrangment)

Anyone else get this?

Aubreyyy
05-18-2008, 07:23 PM
^^

If you are in a small town, or area with not a lot of millionaires, then I'd say yes....

I only judge people by how much they GIVE me, not how much they claim to make or WANT to give me. You really think everyone is honest about how much they make a year? If a guy makes a half mil, and still can fufill my monthly requirement...then why not?

Also, I think a big newbie mistake is starting out WAYYYY too large at first. Most men like to build their amount, to make sure you aren't going to take the first check and run. Demanding over 1k your first month is a little foolish. If you want more than that, set it up so that the first month is "per meeting" to protect both of you.

Aubreyyy
05-18-2008, 07:24 PM
Just a question and a check in.

I've not met with or even bothered with any SD's other than the one I wrangled into the club. However, I get at least 4 emails a week with guys offering 1,000 + for a weekend with them. Not appealing to me but they are all out of town guys who AREN'T coming to Chicago they want me to go to them. No dice.

One is featured on their main login page. (seeking arrangment)

Anyone else get this?

I've travelled to meet one of the "featured" and "certified" guys on that site and had a great time with him in CA.

Sophia_Ashley
05-18-2008, 07:26 PM
^ I think this is the same guy !!! LA? Picture of him holding a tie?

I don't live in a small town, I live in Chicago. But everyone else is in LA or someother city that that contacts me. You can PM me if you don't want to make the details public.

Electrum
05-18-2008, 07:30 PM
^^

If you are in a small town, or area with not a lot of millionaires, then I'd say yes....

I only judge people by how much they GIVE me, not how much they claim to make or WANT to give me. You really think everyone is honest about how much they make a year? If a guy makes a half mil, and still can fufill my monthly requirement...then why not?

Also, I think a big newbie mistake is starting out WAYYYY too large at first. Most men like to build their amount, to make sure you aren't going to take the first check and run. Demanding over 1k your first month is a little foolish. If you want more than that, set it up so that the first month is "per meeting" to protect both of you.

Point taken. I'm in a smallish town. Actually I have one lead that maybe I'll look into now. For some reason I feel more comfortable with older men, even old geezers. I'm not sure why lol... I'm also paranoid about police... The lead I'm speaking of is a high end jet business that apparently also helps these rich old geezers find "entertainment." I wrote them saying I would do nothing illegal and they still want to meet me... maybe that is legit??

Aubreyyy
05-18-2008, 07:32 PM
Lol, you should just ask everyone if they are a cop...entrapment is illegal!

Electrum
05-18-2008, 07:42 PM
^^ Lawlz you can tell I come from a small town where authority can basically make up their own rules. I get paranoid about things pretty easily.