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Winter
05-19-2008, 01:53 AM
Lol, you should just ask everyone if they are a cop...entrapment is illegal!
Cops don't have to tell you they're cops if you ask them. They're even allowed to have sex with you. They're supposed to lie. It's part of the job.
Entrapment also has a very specific legal definition, which is hard to prove in court. Unfortunately, what you describe isn't entrapment at all. :(
Aubreyyy
05-19-2008, 02:01 AM
^^
You're right.
But it IS entrapment if she stated over and over again that she wasn't going to have sex for money, went out without the intention of having sex for money, and was coerced and had her mind changed by vice.
Electrum
05-19-2008, 07:11 PM
Hmmm thanks for bringing up entrapment. I think as long as I stick to my guns and clearly state my boundaries I should be fine. Thanks!
Vyanka
05-20-2008, 09:21 AM
I haven't even met this one guy yet, and he just wired me $1500 for my car problems.
...and I never asked him for it, nor did I quote an amount, and I've explicitly told him that there shouldn't be ANY physical expectations in our SD/SB relationship.
...and he lives like 1000 miles away.
I've talked to him on the phone once.
Looks like these good guys aren't too hard to find. Just be yourself (don't be the "i'll say anything if you pay me to!" bimbo), don't compromise what you are/aren't willing to do, etc.
I made 1000 tonight for a 2 hour dinner. sweet!
thanks, sugar daddy thread!
So.. I've been kinda checking up on this thread for a bit. I signed up a few days back on one of the sites. And, it does work! And fast! I'm going to lunch with a CEO/President of a major company here in Indy. He's also a Dr. Sweeeet!!! 3 grand a month for lunch and dinner dates. I'm there! And, no sex or neked dancin! Awesome. Thanks for this thread!
Okay, that is awesome!! 8)
I think I want to try this shit again see if I have any luck this time. ;D
Winter
05-20-2008, 03:00 PM
I have my first meeting with my first potential SD tonight, y'all. We're going to a fancy restaurant. I'm really nervous!
austinatalie
05-21-2008, 05:54 PM
^have you established a payment for this dinner?
red red red
05-21-2008, 08:43 PM
...oops
elizabethschafer01
05-22-2008, 04:43 PM
i have a date set up with a potential sd. he says that "talking to you is like a breath of fresh air on this site." because girls ask him for 5,000 a month right away. I told him money isn't everything but it is def. nice to have. then he said "if we get to liking each other then you won't have to worry about money." i told him i wasn't interested in sex and i want to stay abstinent.
should i have asked for money?? i would feel so rude doing that... I figured I'd try and use my charm and get the money that way.
PLEASE RESPOND ASAP! I have a date tommorow night!!
austinatalie
05-23-2008, 01:15 PM
oh no elizabeth.
obviously what you have set yourself up for is getting no money for your date. He has established that he is only going to pay you any money once "you get to liking each other."
So what he is going to do is string you along for free until he can't anymore, and then decide you don't click.
Revise!
Say you really want to go out on that date tomorrow but you are in a bit of a spot and have to work instead. If you haven't told him youre a stripper say you have to babysit or houseclean or something else. If he doesn't offer to pay you instead, ditch him and find someone else.
Next time, ask for a 'small fee/deposit' for your first date, like a couple hundred bucks 'just to prove you're real' or some BS like that.
Aubreyyy
05-23-2008, 02:38 PM
Natalie,
I've never gotten paid for a first date. Its not as integral to get paid right away as you think- there are a lot of guys who have done that only to have a girl run and never talk to him again.
Asking for a deposit I think would put things in a funny mood or light... the whole point of getting the big bucks is making them think its not just about the money.
Elizabeth, if I were you I would talk to him before the dinner and try to get a hard number on what he's offering. Just say that you need to make sure you're "looking for the same thing". Stress that you've dealt with guys that took months to decide whether or not they were serious before, and that you're looking to begin an arrangement right away- this means you want your money right away :)
head turner
05-25-2008, 06:23 AM
I am not being judgemental, but don't you girls have boyfriends? How do they feel about it? Do they know?
Electrum
05-25-2008, 11:52 AM
^^ Yes, and as long as I'm not doing sexual shit I don't see what the problem is. And neither does my bf. He doesn't have a problem with dancing, either. Granted, my bf is very open minded and has worked in the sex industry himself, so even if he did have a problem with it I could just say, "but hooonnneeeyyyy you did porn and I'm not even doing the sex!!! Not to mention I'm getting paid WAY better." I'm sure he'd be fine after that point lol. However, this is all hypothetical still. I haven't had the guts to follow thru with a SD yet... I keep on getting cold feet :(
elizabethschafer01
05-26-2008, 06:26 PM
I am not being judgemental, but don't you girls have boyfriends? How do they feel about it? Do they know?
i do not have a boyfriend
VegasPrincess
05-26-2008, 07:03 PM
Lol, you should just ask everyone if they are a cop...entrapment is illegal!
Actually not in Nevada! They can entrap you all they want. I think it's the only state that may be like that.
Plus it's their word against yours and everybody is going to believe a cop over a "whore" which is what they will be charging you with... prostitution..
Just don't ever say that you'll do any sex act for money and you'll be okay ;)
elizabethschafer01
05-27-2008, 03:51 AM
Elizabeth, if I were you I would talk to him before the dinner and try to get a hard number on what he's offering. Just say that you need to make sure you're "looking for the same thing". Stress that you've dealt with guys that took months to decide whether or not they were serious before, and that you're looking to begin an arrangement right away- this means you want your money right away :)
I don't really know what to say or how to bring up that I want some money. What can I say so it doesn't sound rude or greedy??? I am going to do the first date without the expectation of money.
Aubreyyy
05-27-2008, 07:28 AM
^^^
If you feel bad bringing up money, I'm not sure how this whole SD thing is going to work out for you :(
charlie61
05-30-2008, 08:47 PM
Ladies... here's some advice I'd give for those looking to move into an SD/SB relationship:
1) Throughout all of this, be SAFE. If you're going to travel, make sure you see the actual ticket, and that it is a ROUND TRIP ticket.
2) Do not stay in these peoples' houses/apartments if you haven't hung out with them before. DEMAND (nicely, but firmly), that you be able to stay elsewhere when you visit. I don't care if he puts you in a motel or the Ritz--any reasonable SD (who has money and who cares about your emotional/physical health) will understand why you wouldn't want to live with a stranger while you visit.
----After making full arrangements to go visit an SD (who lives far away from where I live), my request to stay in a hotel absolutely set him off. I did nothing to anger him, and merely explained that, for my own personal safety net, I'd be more comfortable if I knew I had a space of my own while spending time with him. Prior to this, he had been a complete sweetheart. Suddenly, he was acting like a 5 year old...calling me names, etc. I obviously called the whole thing off immediately.
3) Stick to your instincts. No amount of money is worth the little twinge you get in the back of your mind when you meet someone who you sense isn't quite 'right.' You KNOW this feeling. This especially applies to a situation where you'd have to travel outside of your comfort zone to meet your SD. It just isn't worth it.
4) Don't let anyone drop you off at your house or pick you up at your house. Politely agree to meet somewhere. Just because someone has money doesn't mean he is safe. Clearly, you are just as appealing to him (for whatever reason) as he is to you...so don't assume that he wouldn't stalk you/etc. if times turn sour. (Though clearly anyone can lie to you, you should take extra precautions when meeting people online.)
5) Do not enter these meetings with the mindset of "He should pay me for my time." The whole theory behind the SD/SB relationship is VERY similar to the stripper/custie relationship. You're enhancing his life, and depending on how explicit your arrangement is, he may decide to reward you with gifts, random cash gifts, a monthly allowance, etc. It'd typically be inappropriate to say "So how much am I getting for having lunch with you?" If you're looking for this blunt of a relationship, you'll likely end up being propositioned for sex, and most SD's would drop you VERY quickly.
The line that works for me:
Him: "So...why did you join the Sugar Daddy website?"
Me: "Well, I like older men anyway, so the site helps weed out the immature younger guys out there. Plus, financial security can add a lot to a relationship--money allows you to have experiences you otherwise couldn't have, and lets you move through life more easily." --Or something to that effect. This works especially well if you're a student who is "working her way through college." Don't act pathetic, but make it clear that, even though you're doing okay, you're living life from bill to bill, and you wouldn't mind someone helping you out.
Sorry this was so long, but it's what I've learned so far from doing this.
PS: Boyfriends shouldn't have any problems with this kind of an exchange. Especially if you're a stripper. This relationship is basically the exact same one you have with customers at work...
Aside from a few glitches (thank goodness I've been selective and I've been taking strict precautions), I've already made some good money from this SD/SB shtuff. Just be safe!!!
loveandluxury
05-31-2008, 10:05 AM
^ Very good post. Thanks :)
Miss_McKenna
06-08-2008, 12:35 AM
I registered on a sugar daddy site a while ago, and today I finally got motivated to do up my profile properly and add a picture etc. Lets see how it goes! I'm so sick of all the college guys around here so this seems like a nice alternative!
Stiletto135
06-08-2008, 03:48 AM
I was raised by Jewish parents. After reading this thread, I get the idea that I'm unusual because my parents didn't spoil me. ::) Actually, none of the Jewish kids I grew up with got $100K sweet 16 parties. The stereotype is fucking stupid. I'm sure no one meant to offend, just want to make the point that generalizations like these can be ridiculous.
lil_miss_kabuki
06-08-2008, 07:39 AM
I was raised by Jewish parents. After reading this thread, I get the idea that I'm unusual because my parents didn't spoil me. ::) Actually, none of the Jewish kids I grew up with got $100K sweet 16 parties. The stereotype is fucking stupid. I'm sure no one meant to offend, just want to make the point that generalizations like these can be ridiculous.
So true.
I have been meeting a few guys in around my place with a few friends, and I like to play the rock channel of my cable provider since I don't own a radio.
They first thing they usually say is 'I didn't expect you to be listening to rock music.' I may be black but damn, I'm not the common stereotype.
honey55
06-08-2008, 08:04 AM
I love this thread! I've been lurking quite a while because i didn't think i would meet anyone from those sites but i got a message from this guy on SA.com with decent profile and thinking of meeting sooner or later.. BUT I have questions girls.:-[
1)Should I ever give him my real name?
2)This guy messaged me while I haven't still loaded a pic on my profile asking to have a coffee together. do u think is he just trying to get free dates? especially his age is quite young, like 29yrs old.
Thanks in advance girls!
lil_miss_kabuki
06-08-2008, 04:12 PM
Well, my email is actually my name is japanese and my preferred nickname. I already have an extra yahoo account. But here's my question, I don't mind the whole 'sexual favor' thing, I don't have a bf and my mom knows that I do this and is even helping me screen guys through tarot cards.
How do I word that I am willing to do sexual things without getting myself into trouble?
Miss_McKenna
06-08-2008, 05:20 PM
I think its important that you make it clear that anything you receive is for "expenses" and not directly for sex. Sexual exchanges are flat out illegal but if he is paying you your travel costs and you happen to sleep with him, thats different.
lil_miss_kabuki
06-08-2008, 05:40 PM
okay that's cool thanks.
charlie61
06-10-2008, 11:44 AM
Well, my email is actually my name is japanese and my preferred nickname. I already have an extra yahoo account. But here's my question, I don't mind the whole 'sexual favor' thing, I don't have a bf and my mom knows that I do this and is even helping me screen guys through tarot cards.
How do I word that I am willing to do sexual things without getting myself into trouble?
I think 99% of the girls on the site ARE willing to do sexual things, so you don't have to worry about advertising this. In fact, I advertise openly that I DON'T do anything sexual, and I STILL get guys who ask me if I will.
The whole SD thing, remember, is under the facade of a normal relationship--he decides to give you shit, and you reward him with your presence (which may or may not involve sexual favors). Theoretically, you will be rewarded for your companionship with gifts/cash/trips, etc. My only problem with this is that it is much more shady than prostitution. At least with prostitution, you know exactly what you're going to do and for what amount. But with this, it's much less explicit. So if I were you, I'd definitely push for getting an allowance. You'll likely be receiving X number of $ per month under this system. Then, you can proceed as you would if you were having a more normal relationship--don't just jump right to the sexual stuff. If you do, you'll end up with a lot of sleazy guys.
So in other words, you should screen these people just like you would in the strip club. Make sure his personality is tolerable, that he has the money to support you, that he's willing to support you, and that you find him somewhat attractive (whether in the personality department or looks), so you don't have to 100% fake your way through interactions. If he asks you if you're willing to engage in sexual activities, say something like "Yes, but that's something that has to develop between us," etc....to show him that you aren't what the law says you can't be!
charlie61
06-10-2008, 11:53 AM
I love this thread! I've been lurking quite a while because i didn't think i would meet anyone from those sites but i got a message from this guy on SA.com with decent profile and thinking of meeting sooner or later.. BUT I have questions girls.:-[
1)Should I ever give him my real name?
2)This guy messaged me while I haven't still loaded a pic on my profile asking to have a coffee together. do u think is he just trying to get free dates? especially his age is quite young, like 29yrs old.
Thanks in advance girls!
1) I don't see any reason not to give him your real name. Just give him your first name--that isn't a big deal at all. However, if he buys you airline tickets, etc, then you will have to give him your full name for security purposes (airlines require that the ticketholder's full name, validated through ID, be on the ticket).
2) Be wary if someone wants to see you when you don't have a picture. Personally, I posted a very non-sexy picture on my profile. It's just a pretty/cute picture that clearly shows my face (smile, eyes, etc). This does an AMAZING job of weeding out the creepy guys, and it will give you a lot of confidence if you know that your SD is attracted to your face. Don't put up a professionally-taken picture where your overly-photoshopped face is only a portion of the totally sexed-up picture. This will give your SD false hopes, and will make you more nervous because you KNOW you don't actually look like that. However, if you start talking to someone and they seem like a viable date, you can send him a fuller body shot, or at least some statistics that detail how your body looks.
Personally, I go for older guys. They are less demanding (think about it: attractive, young sugar daddies KNOW that they are attractive, and will rarely put up with your 'no sex' clause, as they see no reason why you wouldn't want to fuck them), and older guys are more understanding that girls need to go through a progression of closeness in relationships. Furthermore, they're suckers for the damsel in distress, 'i'm poor and only my daddie can save me!' thing. I put a range of 30-50 or so for my age preferences.
britt244
06-10-2008, 12:20 PM
hmm. i just made a profile on SA but i usually chicken out and take them down.. haha.. ive done that twice on sugardaddie.com. i guess we'll see what happens...
lil_miss_kabuki
06-10-2008, 04:26 PM
I'm waiting for mine to be approved by admin or something
honey55
06-11-2008, 11:16 AM
1) I don't see any reason not to give him your real name. Just give him your first name--that isn't a big deal at all. However, if he buys you airline tickets, etc, then you will have to give him your full name for security purposes (airlines require that the ticketholder's full name, validated through ID, be on the ticket).
2) Be wary if someone wants to see you when you don't have a picture. Personally, I posted a very non-sexy picture on my profile. It's just a pretty/cute picture that clearly shows my face (smile, eyes, etc). This does an AMAZING job of weeding out the creepy guys, and it will give you a lot of confidence if you know that your SD is attracted to your face. Don't put up a professionally-taken picture where your overly-photoshopped face is only a portion of the totally sexed-up picture. This will give your SD false hopes, and will make you more nervous because you KNOW you don't actually look like that. However, if you start talking to someone and they seem like a viable date, you can send him a fuller body shot, or at least some statistics that detail how your body looks.
Personally, I go for older guys. They are less demanding (think about it: attractive, young sugar daddies KNOW that they are attractive, and will rarely put up with your 'no sex' clause, as they see no reason why you wouldn't want to fuck them), and older guys are more understanding that girls need to go through a progression of closeness in relationships. Furthermore, they're suckers for the damsel in distress, 'i'm poor and only my daddie can save me!' thing. I put a range of 30-50 or so for my age preferences.
Thanks you Charlie61 so much for your input :-*
About real name, i was just paranoid of giving out personal info because not all the SD or guys on the website are genuine, right? anyway, Im new to this thing so i should just find local SD to gain some experience.
About 2), I couldn't agree more!! I can imagine he contacted me because he is basically very confident in himself... I so much prefer old (and average looking), SD with less sex hormone. lol. I just messaged back to that guy to stress that im not into any relationship with sexual activity. Lets see how he comes back. Yes, about the pic, I will use something like taken by mobile phone or digital camera without photoshop, just blurring.
britt244
06-11-2008, 02:01 PM
ok this is exciting! ive already gotten 13 messages from guys. only 5 seemed worth replying to.. but wow!
Electrum
06-11-2008, 11:24 PM
I think there are a couple SD's at the club I work at. Should I just slowly romance them or just honestly ask them if they do those sorts of arrangements!?
Aubreyyy
06-12-2008, 04:29 PM
^^^
Start up a conservation about past relationships, then say "Baby, I wish I could just find a sweet guy like you to take care of me!"
:)
charlie61
06-12-2008, 09:41 PM
For the sex issue--
I'm telling all of my SD's that I'm a virgin. Now, personally, this is true. I am a virgin. But they have no way of knowing whether YOU are or not. So tell them that you've never had sex (just b/c you've never found the right guy...so why would you do it if you don't want to?). This will give you a perfect excuse to at least slow the relationship's progression down to a crawl. But beware...this will also spark his curiosity. Many of these guys have creepy virgin fetishes, and you'll get lots of questions.
charlie61
06-12-2008, 09:43 PM
^^^ Then again, I'm only 19, so this is much more believable coming from me.
charlie61
06-15-2008, 11:20 AM
As a side note--
I've found that I've burned out of this whole SD thing very quickly. Why?
1) This SD/SB stuff is basically like working in a strip club full-time...or worse. When you travel with these people, or even when you just go out with them, you must make conversation/make nice without the benefit of an immediate financial reward. And you don't get to leave after the 'lap dance' is over. You're probably charming, young, and good-looking, and you'll be hanging out with people who can't find normal dates FOR A REASON. He'll be either ugly or extraordinarily annoying, and I found it embarrassing to hang out with them. Which leads me to...
2) These people tend to be very delusional. There IS a reason why these SD's aren't on normal dating sites, and you will likely find out WHY this is very quickly. It is actually sickening to me to watch how delusional these guys are. One of my SD's is like 55 years old, fat, and unfortunate looking, and has this theory that we'll develop a "sensual" relationship in the future. Yeah right buddy. I'm 19!!!!
-These guys often have terribly annoying habits. One of mine loves to converse with waitresses long past the polite conversational time-out. She'll be desperately trying to leave and he'll keep blabbing. This kind of stuff will wear on you...even if it sounds tolerable now.
3) Making my own money is liberating and feels DAMN good in comparison to putting up with these people, dodging their come-on's, etc. Getting into this SD/SB stuff really made me realize how much pride I take in being able to take care of myself.
-Although I will note that you may get lucky and have someone just GIVE you money--like the guy who wired me $1500 after one phone conversation. Obviously, this was nice, since I didn't even have to hang out with him to get the money.
4) It really wears on you. The constant texting, phone calls, e-mails, messages...it's like working full-time but without the straight-forward benefits. If you're a serious hustler, you may enjoy the game. But I found it extraordinarily tiring.
Just thought I'd come up with this short little list as a forewarning to you guys. I'll still answer any questions you may have (and I'm sure our queen, Aubrey, will answer them too). Good luck! :)
And of course, the above list is clearly a list of generalizations. You may find the one SD out there who is hot, a perfect gentleman, single, rich, ridiculouslyy generous, and doesn't want to have sex with you. ;)
Blasiancutie
06-15-2008, 04:11 PM
I hope you gals are still posting in this thread and the topic not shut down. I remember reading this thread some months ago, but haven't gone on any of the SD sites. I am going to try one today though. It would be nice to have an allowance every month. I have a guy, that I met through a private party, that I see every year. He would help me out every time we meet when he comes into town (for dinner and touring), but I wouldn't call him any near a SD. Its been about a four year friendship, but he has hinted/jokingly about moving to a physical relationship, then I would reply, "Hmmm, you know I still dream about that new Ford Hybrid Escape." That usually nips it on the bud. So, knowing him and the situation, he can't give me a monthly allowance, still he is sweet and fun. But, I am going to see if I can find a SD.
Thanks for the info. shared on this thread, ladies.
charlie61
06-16-2008, 03:30 PM
^^^^^ YES.. The SD stuff is like a neverending mindfuck. I couldn't handle it.
I got some good stuff out of it, but I quit the sites. Too emotionally tiresome for me.
honey55
06-17-2008, 01:27 PM
Has anyone noticed that SD4ME.com is a bit dodgey?
Basically that website allow you to check who has viewed your profile (even you are a fee member) and
I got 15 messages despite the fact only 5 men has checked out my profile ::)
kikiwiki
06-18-2008, 05:56 PM
As a side note--
I've found that I've burned out of this whole SD thing very quickly. Why?
1) This SD/SB stuff is basically like working in a strip club full-time...or worse. When you travel with these people, or even when you just go out with them, you must make conversation/make nice without the benefit of an immediate financial reward. And you don't get to leave after the 'lap dance' is over. You're probably charming, young, and good-looking, and you'll be hanging out with people who can't find normal dates FOR A REASON. He'll be either ugly or extraordinarily annoying, and I found it embarrassing to hang out with them. Which leads me to...
2) These people tend to be very delusional. There IS a reason why these SD's aren't on normal dating sites, and you will likely find out WHY this is very quickly. It is actually sickening to me to watch how delusional these guys are. One of my SD's is like 55 years old, fat, and unfortunate looking, and has this theory that we'll develop a "sensual" relationship in the future. Yeah right buddy. I'm 19!!!!
-These guys often have terribly annoying habits. One of mine loves to converse with waitresses long past the polite conversational time-out. She'll be desperately trying to leave and he'll keep blabbing. This kind of stuff will wear on you...even if it sounds tolerable now.
3) Making my own money is liberating and feels DAMN good in comparison to putting up with these people, dodging their come-on's, etc. Getting into this SD/SB stuff really made me realize how much pride I take in being able to take care of myself.
-Although I will note that you may get lucky and have someone just GIVE you money--like the guy who wired me $1500 after one phone conversation. Obviously, this was nice, since I didn't even have to hang out with him to get the money.
4) It really wears on you. The constant texting, phone calls, e-mails, messages...it's like working full-time but without the straight-forward benefits. If you're a serious hustler, you may enjoy the game. But I found it extraordinarily tiring.
Just thought I'd come up with this short little list as a forewarning to you guys. I'll still answer any questions you may have (and I'm sure our queen, Aubrey, will answer them too). Good luck! :)
And of course, the above list is clearly a list of generalizations. You may find the one SD out there who is hot, a perfect gentleman, single, rich, ridiculouslyy generous, and doesn't want to have sex with you. ;)
Applause!!!
Everything has strings attached and you need to know which strings you are willing to attach yourself to. I don't mind working and sweating for my money. I don't want/need the glamorous life. So SD's are too much work for me. There's a reason why they roam those sites. They are not your knight in shining armor. They are narcisitic control freaks. And if you like playing that role of the needy, submissive sex slave, then this life is for you. But if you don't want to put up with someone with zero social skills, unusual sexual preferences and poor hygiene then get yourself back into the strip club where the clock starts and stops when you wish.
charlie61
06-18-2008, 09:26 PM
^^^^^^^^Exactly.
Couldn't have said it better myself.
You will likely know very quickly whether you're capable of managing this kind of relationship or not.
thechaosfairy
06-19-2008, 01:33 AM
So, I'm trying to prepare a profile for SD sites (I don't want to put it up until I have everything set up so I can get the best responses in the 'new' period...) Here (http://elfstar.dreamhosters.com/etc.html) are some photos, I think perhaps either one of the ones in the first row or the second one in the second row? but I'm not sure, and I'm often overly critical, so I'm hoping someone who has experience with these sites can help me out.
I thought of making a poll but I don't want to be too self-centered. Thanks a lot for advice...
charlie61
06-19-2008, 11:47 AM
So, I'm trying to prepare a profile for SD sites (I don't want to put it up until I have everything set up so I can get the best responses in the 'new' period...) Here (http://elfstar.dreamhosters.com/etc.html) are some photos, I think perhaps either one of the ones in the first row or the second one in the second row? but I'm not sure, and I'm often overly critical, so I'm hoping someone who has experience with these sites can help me out.
I thought of making a poll but I don't want to be too self-centered. Thanks a lot for advice...
Try taking the pictures somewhere where there isn't so much sunlight--the sunlight is creating harsh shadows on your face/neck region. This is the least flattering type of portrait lighting!
Take them indoors (where the light is coming through a window that will give it a diffused effect) or outside in the shade. And try wearing a shirt that doesn't have quite as much going on--white or black.
But I like your choices as far as how much of your body they show, and your facial expression!
thechaosfairy
06-19-2008, 09:18 PM
Hmm, thanks for the advice, but I'd rather not wait a week for another good hair/face day (and our indoor lighting is a lot worse than sunlight on my complexion) so I'm going to use one of these and was more asking which.
charlie61
06-19-2008, 10:53 PM
I gotcha.
I like the one nearest to the bottom, on the right. Like there's one picture under the two on the row I'm talking about--but on the last row, the right one. ::frustrated:: You're wearing your black shirt, and you have a great facial expression!
thechaosfairy
06-20-2008, 02:16 AM
Thanks!
Yeah, I do like that one, but I think I have too much of a double chin in it. Maybe I can airbrush it... Or maybe I'm being oversensitive?
Electrum
07-03-2008, 08:08 AM
^^ I think you're being oversensitive. If someone found out you airbrushed it that might be worse than worrying about a "double chin." Besides, what double chin!? I don't even see one there. And trust me, I worry about double chins too, but I realize I'm just being silly. I think every girl freaks out occationally if she's caught in a wierd angle that makes her think she has a double chin. But trust me, go out to the mall and people watch for a bit and look for a REAL double chin hahaha. It'll make you feel better in no time!
Big Dick McGhee
07-06-2008, 07:21 PM
Hi everyone in cyber-land, this is my 1st post. I'm what you would call a SC Lover, been going for about 17 years and have dated several dancers. Just wondering: what percentage of dancers fuck their sugar daddies? I know one HOT girl who has this customer who takes her to the VIP for sometimes 5-6 hrs straight but she swears he's just a customer.(?):O
charlie61
07-06-2008, 07:30 PM
Dancing has no relation to the SugarDaddy thing...I don't think. A higher percentage of Sugarbabies might be dancers just b/c both subjects involve making money in a non-mainstream way...but that's about it.
Are you talking about a guy who is a high spender in a strip club? This is totally different than a sugardaddy.
Miss_McKenna
07-07-2008, 09:29 PM
I've been playing around on a SD website for a month or so and I've had a few messages from guys that seem like good potentials (as well as numerous weird ones!) One guy messaged me only saying "do you have a passport?" and when I replied that I did he said "Great, lets go abroad!".....:-\ How about a few details first, like, oh I don't know, a first name?!
I messaged a few of the good ones back tonight, lets see how it goes ;D