View Full Version : The Dancer Orgasm
Jenny
04-22-2008, 06:39 AM
well hell i thought that is what you do down here
that sucks the first and only time i let it all hang out on blue. you dont beleive me.
back to pink for me
Well, kitten, I believed you.
i'm sure they probably thought it was a hustle but it wasnt. in fact i wasnt to enthusiastic about doing another one right then. heh
Well, did they at least buy another dance so you could cuddle afterwards?
xdamage
04-22-2008, 08:24 AM
that sucks the first and only time i let it all hang out on blue. you dont beleive me.
back to pink for me
If it's any consolation, I was believing it ... then I sobered up. ;)
Besides, this way you have plausible deniability should anyone from the pink side try to call you out. "Joking, I was joking... haha!!... of course it never happens". Problem solved.
SportsWriter2
04-22-2008, 08:42 AM
Well, did they at least buy another dance so you could cuddle afterwards?
Velvet, it's okay to be honest here. I let dancers ride out the tingly feeling any way they want. Unless they want to catch another wave. :)
For some dancers it's a sport. Sh0t's probably coached half the hotties in San Diego.
velvet
04-22-2008, 07:56 PM
Well, kitten, I believed you.
Well, did they at least buy another dance so you could cuddle afterwards?
umm no. i dont cuddle at work, well not often anyway. of course they got another dance. whether they knew i did it or not. i almost always sell multiple dances :)
oh and xdamage, as for the pinkies getting upset at me for admitting that i dont care. i have been a dancer for a looooong time and have worked in many different kinds of clubs and contact levels. i also, 10 or so years ago did some downright scandalous things. i do have a past, i'm not ashamed of.
i always greatly admired katrine for her candor. i'm getting close to retirement so i'm not so worried about talking about things anymore.
Thanks Velvet for jumping into the deep end of the blue water and restoring my hopes that it's not always SS when dancers seem to be enjoying themselves as much as I am. I do notice when a dancer seems a little more "committed" to her grinding endeavors, and like most long term junkies, I usually chalk it up to SS. But whether real or imagined, the belief that the dancer is actually having a good time adds tremendously to the experience for me, and will send me back to her again and again.
When I do feel that the dancer's enjoyment level is above the norm, I will often make a smart ass custy comment like "I believe you're taking advantage of me for your own pleasure". The responses to this comment, even though almost universally SS, are still a big part of the thrill. Grind on darlin! ;D
xdamage
04-23-2008, 05:25 AM
(of course you know I was just playing with you right? ;))
...i'm getting close to retirement so i'm not so worried about talking about things anymore.
Cool.
Docido
04-25-2008, 04:53 PM
i have been a dancer for a looooong time and have worked in many different kinds of clubs and contact levels. i also, 10 or so years ago did some downright scandalous things. i do have a past, i'm not ashamed of.
NATO's, show us dem!!!!;D
evan_essence
04-26-2008, 12:47 AM
My thoughts on this are that a woman who can pull off a convincing fake O must put herself in a special happy place to do it convincingly, and that by the act of getting herself in this special happy place, she's partway there, whether the O happens or not./me giggles.
Okay, ya caught me. I could sometimes get into that happy place short of orgasm by thinking about how broke and disoriented I wanted to make a custie. In other words, any turn on was typically due to me feeling evil and parasitic, not feeling the custie. Hey, whatever mindset works.
-Eva
WallyT
04-26-2008, 05:23 PM
/me giggles.
Okay, ya caught me. I could sometimes get into that happy place short of orgasm by thinking about how broke and disoriented I wanted to make a custie. In other words, any turn on was typically due to me feeling evil and parasitic, not feeling the custie. Hey, whatever mindset works.
-Eva
Evil and parasitic can be a turnon, too. I told a dancer just the other day that I thought she was a sexual predator (my first clue was her grabbing my junk at the stage). She coaxed some Ulysses out of the Wallyt with that attitude.
threlayer
04-28-2008, 09:40 AM
I've had two ATF's that regularly had orgasms during lapdances with me. I've had dances with 4 or 5 others that I know of that have had DO's once with me. Only one was ever embarassed about it (she was getting married soon). No extra money or extra dances were related to those events. Also our actions were never explicitly against club rules and they were monitored by video.
I've also experienced dancers who have tried the fake pre-orgasmic call a few times. Since it's pretty easy for me to tell the difference, and I don't like fake, I just ignored the fakers.
I have to say that those times were the most memorable of all my times in legitimate clubs. I've had a couple even better times in out-of-state clubs that weren't really strip clubs. I really enjoyed giving attractive women orgasms, even though if I didn't want anything else for myself.
Mr Hyde
04-28-2008, 06:30 PM
Has anyone ever had a an orgasm while getting lapped at the same time the stripper was having one? It happens to me all the time...just the other day, I was with a stripper with lots of piercings who was sort of generic looking but seemed to fit in with the other strippers, while also seeming to be sort of non-essential....I whipped it out on her while she was in the midst of an orgasm while lapping me and bam....miscellaneous percutaneous contemporaneous extraneous spontaneous simultaneous orgasm.
Mr Hyde
04-28-2008, 06:31 PM
Oh....and the whole thing was extemporaneous. Whee!
threlayer
04-29-2008, 01:46 PM
Though, I've been pretty excited at times, never but one time was I even close to that happy place, so to speak, during a LD, even when she was experiencing one. For one thing for me the logistics are just not favorable, nor would I like to surprise the dancer. In a few (rare) situations, beyond a LD in a club, that has happened without any surprise. Generally I need more security and comfort.
Biggieman
05-07-2008, 11:52 PM
Damn. I must be going to the wrong clubs. I'd settle for some occasional kissing from my favorite dancers. How do you get that happening?
Jenny
05-08-2008, 06:31 AM
Damn. I must be going to the wrong clubs. I'd settle for some occasional kissing from my favorite dancers. How do you get that happening?
Eew. I mean, I'm not judging you, but. Eew. I think you'll have an easier time with the orgasm. No exchange of fluids.
Biggieman
05-08-2008, 11:30 PM
Don't hate!
Fluid exchange? That's a bit much. I'm not talking about unprotected sex. It's just kissin. ;)
Jenny
05-08-2008, 11:42 PM
When did saliva become a non-fluid? Saliva is like the grossest possible fluids except pus. If you somehow manage to spit pus into her mouth you'll be, like, my worst nightmare.
Bob_Loblaw
05-09-2008, 12:06 AM
When did saliva become a non-fluid? Saliva is like the grossest possible fluids except pus. If you somehow manage to spit pus into her mouth you'll be, like, my worst nightmare.
Kissing in the club is gross. Odds are you're the second, third, fourth, etc customer being kissed. But you just HAD to take it a little further, eh Jenny? http://gprime.net/board/images/smilies/yucky.gif
And Biggieman, don't hate. Show some respect to the Bruins! http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v142/Amoroq/NHL%20Smilies/bos.gif
mr_punk
05-09-2008, 04:59 PM
Damn. I must be going to the wrong clubs. I'd settle for some occasional kissing from my favorite dancers. How do you get that happening?LOL..it's funny when customers pick kissing out of all the nasty (in a good way) possibilities.
Biggieman
05-10-2008, 06:27 PM
And Biggieman, don't hate. Show some respect to the Bruins! http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v142/Amoroq/NHL%20Smilies/bos.gif
Haha, I respect our B's, but I'm just not a big hockey fan. Sorry my man. Maybe when they manage to get out of the first round of the playoffs.
Biggieman
05-10-2008, 06:47 PM
LOL..it's funny when customers pick kissing out of all the nasty (in a good way) possibilities.
I picked that because I'm actually not really looking for "extras" when I go to a strip club. I probably don't spend enough money to get em anyway since I've never done a VIP session. That said, I'm still a guy. If a girl I find incredibly attractive tries to kiss me, I'm not prude enough to say no. Basically, I don't get dances from girls I wouldn't consider kissing anyway. Bob is right in one sense...and if someone is willing to give me a BJ, I have to assume I'm not the first, maybe not even the first that night. That's gross. And yeah, Jenny, I consider that a lot different than saliva from kissing. Then again, I'm a guy, I could just be making excuses.
But here's the denouement, I went to my favorite club last night (for the first time in almost a month), and after my final dance (I'd spent my last $30 and was ready to leave at about 4AM), after I'd thanked the girl and was walking away, she calls me back in and kisses me. No joke. Not initiated by me at all, but it lasted a good 10 seconds. I seriously almost laughed right then and there because of what I'd said on here just a day or two earlier. It was as though the stripper gods had heard my plight and said, "No more!"
I don't care if I ever get kissed by a stripper again, because the timing of this one was just too perfect.
mr_punk
05-10-2008, 09:54 PM
Bob is right in one sense...and if someone is willing to give me a BJ, I have to assume I'm not the first, maybe not even the first that night. That's gross.LOL..a man who doesn't mind a stripper shoving her tongue down his throat is hardly an arbiter of grossness. not that's there anything wrong with nastiness in a sc.
Then again, I'm a guy, I could just be making excuses.just a wee bit.
jaizaine
05-12-2008, 06:46 AM
Interesting.....i've never thought of faking an orgasm to get guys to keep getting dances. That's really strange. Maybe it's coz my club is low contact?
I have enjoyed dances before but I wasn't enjoying them to get more money....I went back to the DR wet. So wet I had to babywipe myself before going on stage LOL.
threlayer
05-14-2008, 08:45 AM
LOL..a man who doesn't mind a stripper shoving her tongue down his throat is hardly an arbiter of grossness. not that's there anything wrong with nastiness in a sc.
just a wee bit.
Funny, but I have not heard of any discussion of tonsil tango in this kissing divert. It's entirely possible to kiss very passionately without any fluid transfer, let alone tongue twisting. I know it's passionate because of my and her excitement. Tongues are for much more serious and private action in my estimation.
I hate that tactic and have only done it once as an experiment with a real gf.
IMO regular kissing is accepted practice in a suitable stripper-customer relationship. But not L/DFK.
lestat1
05-27-2008, 11:51 PM
In 12 years I've never encountered this, save for one incredibly poor attempt one time after a dance was over to come off as if she'd orgasmed.
Update, Thank you NYC trip, for I encountered a very realistic fake orgasm in VIP. No moaning, just a quiet, heavy breathing and body trembling. Nice. }:D
RebeccaSolidarity
05-28-2008, 12:03 AM
When did saliva become a non-fluid? Saliva is like the grossest possible fluids except pus. If you somehow manage to spit pus into her mouth you'll be, like, my worst nightmare.
saliva also leaves a bacterial fingerprint in your mouth that is unique to the person being kissed and lasts for a really really long time! i forget how long but several months at least, i know that much. i regret that the presence of so many lingers on for so long.
blech.
(and this is my first blue side post... i feel dirty)
hockeybobby
05-28-2008, 12:23 AM
(and this is my first blue side post... i feel dirty)
Feeling dirty down here is a good thing RS.
Welcome.
sakonhagakure
06-01-2008, 08:37 PM
I wasn't sure one time if this girl's orgasms were real until she came all over me.
jaizaine
06-02-2008, 06:24 AM
I just thought that when girls actually "cum" they might be making use of a vaginal infection and it could be discharge LOL.
crizgolfer
06-02-2008, 03:11 PM
^^^^
It sounds so much HOTTER when you put it that way...;)
hockeybobby
06-02-2008, 03:19 PM
mmmm vaginal discharge...
threlayer
06-03-2008, 10:24 AM
The signature of a dancer's orgasm in my experience is unmistakable. Her smile afterwards is unmistakable too. :)
WallyT
06-03-2008, 11:40 AM
Dayum, jai. You really know how to make guys feel all warm and loopy inside.
Oksana23
07-18-2008, 11:17 AM
someone should post an anonymous poll (like the one i made asking if you men ever get off) asking the girls on here to fess up to if thier faking their O's or not
Bob Cox
07-22-2008, 07:57 PM
About once every couple years I have the joy of a lady coming in my lap. In the last dozen years, about five confirmed and a couple more probables. There are physical signs that I don't think can be faked....and if they are faking they're doing a delightful job.
It happened again yesterday and it was one of those LD experiences so sweet that I'd quit my job, mortgage the house etc. if I knew it would happen again. Except I sure can't count on it. And would it be quite as sweet if it happened every time?
I don't do anything special, just respond to her cues. Yesterday, and about half the other times, her thong stayed on and it was all about pressure and motion. Pressure on the mons and friction elsewhere can make a lady feel quite good, if she's willing....
Oh, and kissing. All of a sudden more dancers are kissing me in the LD. I can think of 5 in the last couple months. I can't figure it out, I've been my usual hot middle aged self for awhile :-\ so it's probably not me that's changed -- but I'm liking it. Not as much as I like the Dancer Orgasm.
Any other connoisseurs of the D.O. here? Is this a goal for anyone?
Howbout you dancers - probably doesn't happen often, but do you like to come at work? Or is it "oh shit, now I have to change." Or "omigod, I had the guy totally believing I orgasmed in the 4th dance."
Whatever, it's fun. "Thank you," she whispered before disengaging. More of that please, ma'am.
WallyT
I had a dancer have an orgasm (I think, you can't be 100% sure) about five weeks ago. This was the third time she danced for me. She's 22-years-old and the hottest dancer in the club. We made out for 4 straight songs without interruption. I guess we both got a little worked up.
At the start of the 5th song, she started to dry hump my leg and stopped kissing me. I knew were this was going so I lowered my leg down to a 45 degree angle. She rode my thigh for about half the song. At the very end of her ride, she rode the fastest. She grabbed my shoulders a little harder than usual near the end. All the while she did this she didn't make a sound; there was no fake moaning or talking at all. I knew she wanted to get off so I didn't touch her or say anything to her until she was done. Neither one of us mentioned what happend, we just continued, business as usual. This doesn't happen too often in the SC.
If the dancer is moaning or talking as if she's getting off, then I'd think she's faking. I've never had a dancer fake an orgasm while she danced for me. You know, like start moaning and acting like she's having one. If she's really having one, she'll probably be quiet about it.
The dancer having an orgasm (or faking) would not influence me to buy more dances from her or have me thinking that it's something spectacular. It's amusing, though.