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WallyT
04-11-2008, 03:26 PM
About once every couple years I have the joy of a lady coming in my lap. In the last dozen years, about five confirmed and a couple more probables. There are physical signs that I don't think can be faked....and if they are faking they're doing a delightful job.

It happened again yesterday and it was one of those LD experiences so sweet that I'd quit my job, mortgage the house etc. if I knew it would happen again. Except I sure can't count on it. And would it be quite as sweet if it happened every time?

I don't do anything special, just respond to her cues. Yesterday, and about half the other times, her thong stayed on and it was all about pressure and motion. Pressure on the mons and friction elsewhere can make a lady feel quite good, if she's willing....

Oh, and kissing. All of a sudden more dancers are kissing me in the LD. I can think of 5 in the last couple months. I can't figure it out, I've been my usual hot middle aged self for awhile :-\ so it's probably not me that's changed -- but I'm liking it. Not as much as I like the Dancer Orgasm.

Any other connoisseurs of the D.O. here? Is this a goal for anyone?

Howbout you dancers - probably doesn't happen often, but do you like to come at work? Or is it "oh shit, now I have to change." Or "omigod, I had the guy totally believing I orgasmed in the 4th dance."

Whatever, it's fun. "Thank you," she whispered before disengaging. More of that please, ma'am.

WallyT

hockeybobby
04-11-2008, 03:37 PM
It's never happened for me. I've only been going for 6 months though.
I think I would welcome something like that happening.

yoda57us
04-11-2008, 03:45 PM
I've had some great times in the LD booth over the years but I've only been convinced once that a lady actually O'd. To me, there is just too much going on and too much on her mind in that environment for a lady to really let herself go to that degree. Add to this the fact that most of the time a dancer doesn't WANT it to happen. I don't believe it is all that frequent.

WallyT
04-11-2008, 04:47 PM
Yeah, it's rare. Makes it more special.

I've had ladies tell me they didn't want to O at work - they think they'll need a shower, or it will sap their energy. I respect that. But if a girl's drinking Long Islands and is feeling it, I'm not gonna stop anything she doesn't ask stopped.

Heard any other reasons for "can't come on the job?"

WallyT

saphire123456
04-11-2008, 06:04 PM
wally, sweet gullible wally.... oh well, just keep the $$$ coming. o btw i think the stripper really likes you too

FBR
04-11-2008, 06:15 PM
I appreciate a stripper with good acting skills particularly if she can MacGyver some way to simulate juicing at just the right moment without actually being stimulated.

FBR

WallyT
04-11-2008, 06:24 PM
wally, sweet gullible wally.... oh well, just keep the $$$ coming. o btw i think the stripper really likes you too

Does she really? O goody O goody.. :D

Has this been covered in Hustle Hut? I'm in SCs weekly and to only believe the dancer has come half a dozen times in twelve years means a lot of women are leaving money in a lot of guys' pockets.

WallyT

I_luv_dancers!
04-11-2008, 06:24 PM
Wally, to analyze your experience fully, we simply MUST have the details in the context of your entire evening, from prologue to conclusion. Put this in the "Post Trip Reports Here" thread under Club Junkie Chat.

saphire123456
04-11-2008, 06:43 PM
Does she really? O goody O goody.. :D

Has this been covered in Hustle Hut? I'm in SCs weekly and to only believe the dancer has come half a dozen times in twelve years means a lot of women are leaving money in a lot of guys' pockets.

WallyT

THAT actually is a good point...but i for one has faken many orgasms...as i leave no pocket untapped

FBR
04-11-2008, 07:14 PM
I'm pretty sure Wally is knowledgeable and demands conclusive physical evidence of the orgasms. Not saying he wouldn't appreciate a good try, though.

FBR

I_luv_dancers!
04-11-2008, 07:50 PM
I think that faking an orgasm is a high art. Most porn stars don't seem to have a clue...."I'M COMING" at high volume with the absence of involuntary spasms and contractions, flushed skin and erect tissues is a turn-off for moi.

Wally, it matters not whether she had a real O, what matters is the quality of her performance. Looks like you've hit gold my friend.

My thoughts on this are that a woman who can pull off a convincing fake O must put herself in a special happy place to do it convincingly, and that by the act of getting herself in this special happy place, she's partway there, whether the O happens or not. Either way, it's a turn on!!

That scene in "When Harry Met Sally" was NOT a good fake O, and it has set the standard for a lot of lousy acting. We need a new role model for the orgasm fakers of the world.

I've never had the experience you describe Wally. Closest I came was some standard SS about how horny she was, and how wet she was getting. The latter was proven untrue in a subsequent dance.

I_luv_dancers!
04-11-2008, 07:52 PM
I'm pretty sure Wally is knowledgeable and demands conclusive physical evidence of the orgasms. Not saying he wouldn't appreciate a good try, though.

FBR
Yep, ya gotta love it when they're giving it a good try!! Win-win!!

WallyT
04-11-2008, 08:12 PM
Wally, to analyze your experience fully, we simply MUST have the details in the context of your entire evening, from prologue to conclusion. Put this in the "Post Trip Reports Here" thread under Club Junkie Chat.Oh, alright. http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?p=1496109#post1496109

Jenny
04-11-2008, 08:19 PM
I for one approve of believing. Nothing makes me more impatient, whether I'm faking or not than a customer second guessing me to prove how knowledgeable he is about strippers. Like geez dude - what's the point? Just believe it and enjoy it at the time. Like are you going to have more fun if I say "Yeah, okay fine, I'm faking. Whatever"?

hockeybobby
04-11-2008, 08:26 PM
That ever happen to you Jenny? ...someone calls BS on your orgasm?

WallyT
04-11-2008, 08:36 PM
I for one approve of believing. Nothing makes me more impatient, whether I'm faking or not than a customer second guessing me to prove how knowledgeable he is about strippers. Like geez dude - what's the point? Just believe it and enjoy it at the time. Like are you going to have more fun if I say "Yeah, okay fine, I'm faking. Whatever"?

I don't know about the average PL, but if your acting is over the top expect me to start moaning too. I've got a fave who likes to make porn star noises in LD. I match her groan for groan. Then tell her that her little puckered hole is quivering with pleasure. She collapses in laughter. If play isn't fun, why bother?

youngBUTbanking
04-11-2008, 08:53 PM
Possibly one...

Most likely not....

Glad you had a great experience this week...going in a week...

xdamage
04-12-2008, 07:08 AM
This topic usually invites some degree of flames for some deep seated reasons.

There is a thread going on over on SG about an anonymous dancer who realizes is going to far with some customers, even enjoying it, and many dancers posting they have had it happen to them too, at least earlier on in their careers, perhaps related to drug use.

Even if a dancer does seemingly enjoy it at the time, it doesn't mean they won't regret it and feel like shit about it away from the club. They do want the money of course, and guilty feelings may not stop them, but there is a dark side to these exchanges. People's bodies are wired to behave in certain ways. Rub two sticks together long enough and you may get fire, even if one of the sticks later regrets it.

I suppose there are cases of dancers enjoying their time guilt free; but who wants to admit to that? They will have their virtual persona's rapped on this site as sluts, whores, etc.

Jenny
04-12-2008, 07:24 AM
I suppose there are cases of dancers enjoying their time guilt free; but who wants to admit to that? They will have their virtual persona's rapped on this site as sluts, whores, etc.I think this is a myth you guys are running down here. I've admitted to enjoying lapdances over there, over here and in my club. Nobody has ever called me a name or been mean to me about it (except mr_punk. Does that count? Is he a honourary pinkie for these purposes?) What the "anonymous pinkie" is talking about is a fairly specific experience, that dancers are familiar with and that customers (or for that matter, straight men,) can't likely understand; "regretting it later" is not really a sufficient description.

Sh0t
04-12-2008, 09:37 AM
To be fair, jenny is indeed quite candid about her level of service and enjoyment, along with some of our other blue siders.

She's a misandrist that enjoys sex work. The Civil War inside her head must be great television.

What I think is lame is how when holier-than-thou pinkies wanna post some naughtiest, they make do it incocknito.

xdamage
04-12-2008, 11:25 AM
Most of the dancers have acknowledged to enjoying dancing for customers on some occasions, although many word it carefully.

The women on the pink side, like most of us in most groups, weigh many factors when selecting who to call out for what. Factors like popularity are factored in, and how much they have to lose themselves should the group turn against them. Typical group dynamics.

As usual, black and white thinking is misleading. The group can have general patterns of sentiments (e.g., opposition to extras, or enjoying engaging in extras) while still allowing for some degrees and specific case exceptions among their ranks. Depending on the dancers status with the group, more or less leniency may be granted individuals by the majority. Again, typical group dynamics. Looking at individual cases for exceptions is a very poor way to see the more common patterns.

lestat1
04-12-2008, 12:11 PM
In 12 years I've never encountered this, save for one incredibly poor attempt one time after a dance was over to come off as if she'd orgasmed.

SportsWriter2
04-12-2008, 01:54 PM
Was it over when the Germans bombed Pearl Harbor?
Well no, now we've got Lexus and Acura beating Mercedes and BMW at their own game.


What the "anonymous pinkie" is talking about is a fairly specific experience, that dancers are familiar with and that customers (or for that matter, straight men,) can't likely understand; "regretting it later" is not really a sufficient description.
Twinks who have been in prison get it.


She's a misandrist that enjoys sex work. The Civil War inside her head must be great television.
Since Katrine blew us off, Sh0t has been getting coherent, funny lines. And to think she used to have him pulling word meanings from the Urban Dictionary discard pile. :-\

Mastridonicus
04-12-2008, 02:08 PM
I for one approve of believing. Nothing makes me more impatient, whether I'm faking or not than a customer second guessing me to prove how knowledgeable he is about strippers. Like geez dude - what's the point? Just believe it and enjoy it at the time. Like are you going to have more fun if I say "Yeah, okay fine, I'm faking. Whatever"?

I find it's only a truth when I'm wearing my Nixon mask.



OOORRRR she's grinding my face. (It's the nose and mustache)

yoda57us
04-12-2008, 02:54 PM
I for one approve of believing. Nothing makes me more impatient, whether I'm faking or not than a customer second guessing me to prove how knowledgeable he is about strippers. Like geez dude - what's the point? Just believe it and enjoy it at the time. Like are you going to have more fun if I say "Yeah, okay fine, I'm faking. Whatever"?

Well, this works fine for me. I go into the club with the intention of enjoying myself and a big part of that is suspending reality for a few hours. After all, if I am gonna try and kid myself into thinking that a hot young woman actually would rather be grinding on my lap than doing almost anything else then I may as well complete the fantasy and believe that I can make her cum while she is doing it...

The reality is that it isn't that important to me. The over all experience-talk time, flirtation, persuasion, the dances are all part of it. For whatever reason the dancers I tend to prefer don't feel the need to go down this road. The one gal that I know it happens with is unfortunately so drunk during her shift that she also pisses on the furniture in the VIP room sometimes...another involuntary bodily function...
I'd rather have her sober, coherent and not cuming than what I have experienced on my last couple of visits.

youngBUTbanking
04-12-2008, 03:05 PM
^^ That is not what i would call a good experience yoda.

Taco Goblin
04-12-2008, 03:09 PM
I've only been clubbing for about three years.. So far only two O's claimed.. One obviously a put on job with the whole "omigawd you make me so wet" blah blah blah.. The other one may or may not have been real because there were no theatrics involved, and was more a whispered confession at the end of the festivities.

FBR - Ever since this thread started I've been wondering about how a girl could "MacGyver" a response??? Like what, hiding a squib with eggwhites in her knickers? :O

xdamage
04-12-2008, 03:17 PM
This has happened to me a few times but I think it is a hustle. Last time it happened she said she needed to stop or she was going to squirt, and asked me if I was free Monday when she was off work (I was, but I don't see dancers a second time - they are better hustlers then I am).

yoda57us
04-12-2008, 03:36 PM
^^ That is not what i would call a good experience yoda.

Nope, not at all. I was starting to feel like an enabler because I was letting her sweet Brazilian ass talk me into buying her bottles of champagne when I knew she had a drinking problem. I stopped going in to see her last year when I started feeling bad while driving home instead of feeling good...

youngBUTbanking
04-12-2008, 03:43 PM
^^^ I hear ya on the Brazilian part - they are very very convincing....I mean reeeeally persuasive...

Good call on not seeing her anymore though since you kept having remorse everytime ya left.

mr_punk
04-12-2008, 08:13 PM
Any other connoisseurs of the D.O. here? Is this a goal for anyone?well, i wouldn't exactly call it a goal, but i would rank my level of interest in a D.O. way down on the list between stage shows and a piss monkey. but hey, congrats on relentlessly rubbing a stripper's kitty until her thong catches on fire.

I've admitted to enjoying lapdances over there, over here and in my club. Nobody has ever called me a name or been mean to me about it (except mr_punk. Does that count? Is he a honourary pinkie for these purposes?)totally untrue. i may have been mean to you about being an accursed red-headed, Canadian feminist. however, i have never been mean to you about acting like a nasty skank. after all, i like nasty skanks. so, never let it be said that mr_punk isn't a friend of the nasty skank.

Jenny
04-13-2008, 06:54 AM
See? You're like the only person here who has ever called me a skank because I get off during a dance. You are totally a pinkie.

mr_punk
04-13-2008, 07:27 AM
LOL...you have a problem with being a skank? why? i don't.

Jenny
04-13-2008, 07:33 AM
Too late. You are officially a pinkie trying to claw my eyes out.

mr_punk
04-13-2008, 07:37 AM
LOL...for what? being an accursed red-headed, Canadian feminist? oh, you caught me. guilty as charged.

Jenny
04-13-2008, 07:39 AM
Accursed Redhaired Canadian Feminists Rock.
I know. I have a t shirt that says so.

yoda57us
04-13-2008, 07:57 AM
Jenny, I didn't know you were a red head....:)

Casual Observer
04-13-2008, 09:44 AM
Only ever knew one dancer--an ATF, no less--who regularly got off during our dances. Thing was, I didn't find out about it until she left the business for an extended hiatus (was later informed through one of her close friends at the club). I mean, she was silent and betrayed no outward appearance of release save perhaps some trembling during hard grinding. Never occurred to me she might be enjoying it that much, not that I begrudged her the private pleasure, mind you.


To be fair, jenny is indeed quite candid about her level of service and
enjoyment, along with some of our other blue siders.

Agreed.


She's a misandrist that enjoys sex work. The Civil War inside her head must be great television.

That is friggin' signature material right there.

hockeybobby
04-13-2008, 09:55 AM
To be fair, jenny is indeed quite candid about her level of service and enjoyment, along with some of our other blue siders.

She's a misandrist that enjoys sex work. The Civil War inside her head must be great television.


There may indeed be a civil war going on inside her head, but misandrist?
I think you are confused.

velvet
04-20-2008, 05:59 PM
Only ever knew one dancer--an ATF, no less--who regularly got off during our dances. Thing was, I didn't find out about it until she left the business for an extended hiatus (was later informed through one of her close friends at the club). I mean, she was silent and betrayed no outward appearance of release save perhaps some trembling during hard grinding. Never occurred to me she might be enjoying it that much, not that I begrudged her the private pleasure, mind you.



Agreed.



That is friggin' signature material right there.


ehh, over the years i've gotten off more than a few times. i'm pierced and sometimes it just got rubbed the right way. almost always i never told the guy and was silent about it, maybe some heavy breathing. sometimes the guy could tell. i just considered it a perk hehe.. i'm sure they probably thought it was a hustle but it wasnt. in fact i wasnt to enthusiastic about doing another one right then. heh

Jenny
04-20-2008, 06:52 PM
Technically velvet we're not supposed to talk like that down here. They are heavily invested in the mythology that we are heavily invested in the mythology that it never happens.

It's all very meta.

FBR
04-21-2008, 05:20 PM
Technically velvet we're not supposed to talk like that down here. They are heavily invested in the mythology that we are heavily invested in the mythology that it never happens.

It's all very meta.

Jenny, our personal mythological investments are important to us. I thought you supported us with at least a wink and a grin. Thanks for sharing the truth with Velvet. She has always been someone who we thought came down here, flipped her hair and said "Oh, you boys are incorrigible". Now she will be bitter too.

FBR

ETA: I should use winkies. Truth be known, incorrigible would be compliment compared to other adjectives }:D

xdamage
04-21-2008, 07:01 PM
April Fools day is the 1st of the month only. Posts on April 18, 19, etc, don't count. But good try velvet. You almost had us.

hockeybobby
04-21-2008, 07:35 PM
oh, way to ruin it for me X.

FBR
04-21-2008, 08:10 PM
April Fools day is the 1st of the month only. Posts on April 18, 19, etc, don't count. But good try velvet. You almost had us.

X, she had me. Velvet is hot. So what if she can't read a calendar. I would introduce her to my family.


oh, way to ruin it for me X. hb, you are not ruined. We all know you are Canadian and are not happy unless you are being abused. I mean, you already said you are all over Jenny. What does that say :D ;)

FBR

velvet
04-21-2008, 10:59 PM
Technically velvet we're not supposed to talk like that down here. They are heavily invested in the mythology that we are heavily invested in the mythology that it never happens.

It's all very meta.
well hell i thought that is what you do down here


Jenny, our personal mythological investments are important to us. I thought you supported us with at least a wink and a grin. Thanks for sharing the truth with Velvet. She has always been someone who we thought came down here, flipped her hair and said "Oh, you boys are incorrigible". Now she will be bitter too.

FBR

ETA: I should use winkies. Truth be known, incorrigible would be compliment compared to other adjectives }:D
haha i am so famous for the hair flip, how did you know?


April Fools day is the 1st of the month only. Posts on April 18, 19, etc, don't count. But good try velvet. You almost had us.

that sucks the first and only time i let it all hang out on blue. you dont beleive me.
back to pink for me

FBR
04-21-2008, 11:46 PM
that sucks the first and only time i let it all hang out on blue. you dont beleive me.
back to pink for me

We want you to stay, velvet. Particularly if you are letting it hang out.

FBR

FBR
04-21-2008, 11:50 PM
haha i am so famous for the hair flip, how did you know?

I have been here a long time and know you guys use the hair flip as a weapon. Bring it on, Velvet. We are strong and can resist your siren call. ;)

FBR

xdamage
04-22-2008, 06:19 AM
The hair flip maneuver hypnotizes me, for sure.

yoda57us
04-22-2008, 06:37 AM
The flip has cost me a lot of money over the years....